Guys, i have decided to open a thread here, hoping to get an answer to my addiction issue, cause the replies i got at kopitiam would be.. well u know. Ive never told anyone including my parents about my gambling addiction, so i think it would be best to confess it here.

I don't gamble cards, or machines or any casino related games. I am only addicted to soccer betting. During my free time, i would just sit there and gamble whole day.

At first, i gamble small. I always choose safest bet. Those who bet will know. I always live bet and when the odds increases over time, i will bet on 'over'. I never choose which team to win, i just bet 'over'. As long as goals incoming, i win.

This seems rather easy and u can win lots of money. At first, i play small. From few hundreds to one thousand. I won quite a lot, and i got greedier and bet bigger. Soon, i lost all that ive won. Thinking i can recover my loss, i double down on my bet. Soon, it got out of hand, im down with more than 30k last week.

I stopped for a while, and start to analyse every match for few days but dont bet. What ive predicted is the same as the match outcome. There were 3 times that i really want to bet, but didn't, end up i could have win if i really bet.

I grew confident and i went to bet the asian qualification just now. Using the same method, i threw 10k on Japan china match to win another goal or over 3.5. Well, guess what, i lost. I just dont get it. Out of so many times i dont bet, and the results is always what i predicted, but when it comes to i actually bet, i lost.

Total, ive lost over 40k. For those who bet or has been bookie, is it true that the matches are rigged or fixed in certain way to make gamblers lost money??

Or am i just plain unlucky? Why when i dont bet, there are always so many goals which i could easily win when i bet 'over'?

My heart is so painful that i wish there is someone who would actually explain and clarify in a scientific way why i lost when i bet big but when i bet small, i will win? And when i dont bet, the matches always go according to what i predicted?

I hate myself for being an addict which my parents told me not to since i was a kid.

How i can overcome my addiction? Really really painful.

This post has been edited by Ukeke: Nov 19 2024, 10:44 PM

Just because u opened a thread here, doesnt mean is real.

Based on your threads history, you like to create tons of fictional stories.

1st and beside gambling, u also got zhut issue.

Everytime u want to gamble, take a cold shower.

What if those threads i created are real in certain way?

Please get lost. There are many threads out there that u could troll around

Find other hobbies.

My advice? Just take this 40k as a tuition fee.

Could be worst, like for example if you borrow Ah Long and they come after you or even worst, your family.

Your mindset thinking that you can cover back those 40k losses, is dangerous. You never know how deep you can dig.

I assume you still have a job, some savings left. Be grateful. It could be worse. Really.

Just let the 40k go.

Delete all those gambling apps, website, and vow never to lay your hands on betting again.

This post has been edited by GTA5: Nov 19 2024, 10:52 PM

Don't watch football anymore. Watch something else...like porn etc.

Find other hobbies.

Watch No More Bets on Netflix...

See how your gambling addiction will ruin...NOT ONLY YOU!

BUT EVERYONE AROUND YOU, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO LOVE YOU!

Isn't this motivation enough for you to stop?

You are right. Until now im still thinking i can win back the 40k and how sweet it would have been to taste the one time 40k winning.

Yes, i have a job, yes i do have savings. I can still bet, but how is it possible to just let the 40k go!! It's too much to handle. Not 4k, its 40k

I cant sleep tonight and i still have to work tomorrow!

What hobby can i have? Out of all hobbies, online soccer betting is the most interesting.

I really dont dare to tell anyone my addiction. I really don't know what else to do aside betting.

use asianbookie to see what the top tipsters are booking before u bet haha... but even though i followed religiously last time still lose.. betting in memecoins now instead lol

First of all, it’s courageous of you to admit your gambling addiction and seek help. Acknowledging the problem is a critical first step toward overcoming it.

Understanding Why This Happens

1. Cognitive Bias:
• When you don’t bet, you notice the times your predictions are right, reinforcing the belief that you’d have won. When you do bet and lose, it feels more impactful because you’ve invested emotionally and financially. This is called confirmation bias—you focus on outcomes that match your expectations and ignore those that don’t.
• The illusion of control plays a role too. You may feel that analyzing matches gives you an edge, but betting outcomes are largely unpredictable due to the nature of sports and the influence of countless uncontrollable factors.
2. The Gambler’s Fallacy:
• Losing streaks might make you believe a win is “due,” but each bet is independent of past outcomes. This fallacy can push you to double down, which increases losses when things don’t go your way.
3. Rigged Systems:
• Bookmakers design odds to ensure their profit, regardless of match outcomes. While most matches aren’t “rigged,” odds are calculated in ways that subtly disadvantage gamblers. Even a strategy that feels “safe” has hidden risks.

Why Betting Feels Like a Trap

• When you bet small and win, it encourages you to bet more, creating a cycle of greed and overconfidence.
• When you bet big and lose, it leads to frustration and desperation to recover losses, which perpetuates the cycle.

How to Overcome Gambling Addiction

1. Acknowledge the Problem Fully:
• Recognize that gambling has become a compulsion that’s harming your mental health, finances, and relationships.
2. Block Access to Betting Platforms:
• Use apps or services that block gambling websites and apps on your devices. You can also self-exclude from platforms.
3. Seek Support:
• Talk to someone you trust: Open up to a family member or friend about your struggles.
• Join a support group: Look for groups like Gamblers Anonymous, where you can connect with others facing similar challenges.
4. Replace Gambling with Healthy Activities:
• Fill your free time with hobbies, sports, or activities that keep you engaged. If soccer betting is tied to your interest in the sport, focus on watching games purely for enjoyment without monetary involvement.
5. Seek Professional Help:
• A therapist specializing in addiction can help you address the emotional triggers behind your gambling behavior.
• Financial counseling can also assist you in managing debts and creating a plan to stabilize your finances.
6. Set Realistic Goals:
• Commit to staying away from gambling for a day, then a week, and build on those small successes.
• Celebrate non-gambling-related achievements to reinforce positive behavior.

Financial Damage Control

• Stop Chasing Losses: Accept the losses and focus on rebuilding rather than trying to win back what you’ve lost.
• Budget and Prioritize: Create a financial plan that ensures necessities are covered while you work on paying off debts gradually.

Remember

Addiction is not about being weak or unlucky; it’s a mental health issue that requires active effort and support to overcome. With the right tools and support system, you can break free. The key is to take one step at a time and focus on regaining control over your life.

Asianbookie odds, the tipster forum, all other sites who i prefer not to mention here, ive been to all of them.

Trust me, even the tipster also will kelong.

I know this sounds a bit wrong, but is it worth to bet on memecoins? Which platform?

If I were you and I had the luxury of time I would...

1. Play MOBA Games (Mobile legends, LOL, Honor of Kings which are very addictive minus no bleeding wallets)
2. Binge-watch Netflix (Dramas and series)
3. Play basketball.

I can't really do any of these as I literally don't have EXTRA time every day...

So, if you could burn your time by doing other hobbies that are time-consuming and addictive...I am sure slowly and surely you can kick the habit.

The moment u use mathematical or scientific way to gamble, u will lose more. For me gamble just for fun, win small or lose small I will just go away.

How could i win back the money?

This is the past you fucking the future you. Thinking you can win it back, a gamble is a gamble: money lost is gone already. 40k is too much? Give yourself a slap or more until the pain is enough to stop yourself from going deeper. Or you can also keep gambling and suppose you win, I bet you're gonna think, "hah I won back my shit, I'm good. That means I can do it again and I'll win big". Then you'll get fucked over twofold.... Or more.

You already acknowledged the right advice; take it instead of eating your own words. Circling around any further will only make me think you're here to gain post counts / troll. Can't blame the forum when all you've been doing is post stupid nonsense in /k. 🤷‍♀️

Chance of going to 0 if u newbie is 99%.... I use many methods to give myself advantage..

Based on my experience with all kind of ppl with addiction they always betraying at the end.

The only way to really solve it either you chop down both your hand and leg or forever in jail or lebih baik 14th floor.

Everytime when u gatal wanna gamble whatever. Remind urself that so easy win meh, like that no beggar liao lo.

Betting for fun not getting rich

I am only addicted to soccer betting. During my free time, i would just sit there and gamble whole day.

How do you gamble whole day on soccer betting?

Is not hard to guess literally those never heard of random soccer also go bet i mean our world have many time zone

Last time i work with other as a part timer bookie using pager to see score era , using nokia keypad phone with corded head piece because 1 to 0 have their own tone so i don't need to keep watching my phone screen which abc/123 to press and i can focus listen the live guy goal or not goal soon information and update everyone so user can bet soon accordingly or go big or go home.

The pager contain betting service like many junk things , espn lah, epl lah, horse lah, spain tak tahu aplj cup lah, etc etc betting service literally as long ppl is addicted with it anything also they can bet

Last time If you have visited race horse before you can often see many guy with old school headpiece that the guy report to me live results and me keying the odd number to all pager user that how it's work at the time internet still not a thing yet

Only worked for 3 months and honestly salary is not bad at all as a part timer literally better than my full time job at the beginning.

There is mls, epl, championship, serie a, brazilian league, saudi, argentine, Australia league.

Is this not whole day?

im very familiar with ur situation , as many friends been in same situation. how they stop? agent cut off their account when they lose more than they can pay.

to stop immediately and completely will be very tough. but u must try. ask agent lower the credit. bet 20 25 per game only. jus for fun.

then bet less n less until u can 'forget' about betting. u must somehow stop before too late.

i know how u feel. when ur hand itchy, must login to see what live game can press.

let me tell you, many games like south america , Brazil, smaller leagues, asian leagues, are easily manipulated.

the odds are very tempting example , Over 0.5 win 85, with 25 minutes to go, and the teams keep attacking. end up, 0-0. or 1-0 then the losing team keep attacking, u sure take O 1.5 lo. then end up 1-0 only. thats very common in Over Under games.

When you feel like you might gamble again, or if you do gamble again, helpful strategies include:

Talking to your support person.
Writing your feelings and actions in your gambling diary. ...
Control your cash. ...
Fill in the gap that gambling has left with new things to do.
Practise your relaxation.
https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/...nge-your-habits

You're no different from every gambler out there who think they can predict an outcome. So easy, everyone can be rich. Still cannot see the problem here huh?

How to win back 40k? Win back for what? You got a good lesson and you want to play meme coin? You're a fine example pf how to be broke in no time.

Gambling Rm4 rm40 ok. 40k, you're literally not thinking clear. Still want to bet.

Let me tell you my personal story.

I bought into SKPetrol many years back.

That time oil price was fluctuating and I was betting that it will go up.

It went bust. SKPetrol now is no more.

I lost also around 40k that time when I cut loss and sold my shares.

I totally understand how you feel.

But I told myself, it's not the end. I am still alive.

I take this 40k as an expensive lesson.

From the on, I stopped playing shares, focusing on saving monthly the traditional way, cutting down my expenses.

Fast forward to today, I am still here, I am doing quite okay. I still have a job. I have savings. I have a home. A paid off car. A loving wife.

I still think back to the 40k and fantasise "Wah, if I could have this 40k, I can pay for a downpayment for a car, I could have, I could have...."

But no, I choose to see what is good about my life NOW.

It could be worse.

It's not too late. Stop gambling. Time will help you to overcome the heaviness in your heart but you have to persevere.

This post has been edited by GTA5: Nov 20 2024, 05:38 AM

I suggest you seek professional help. Gambling addiction is not something to be taken lightly, especially given your situation.

Bet almost every league available in the world? U r in the hardcore category already, stop it before u start borrowing from AhLong.

TS, i take that this is your serious thread.

My advice. STOP gambling. Delete all the app, watch no soccer game.

You are already in the 'chasing losses' mode. Emotional is taking over everything. You won't be able to make the right decision, clear mind.

Take the losses (40k or maybe more).

Earn it back elsewhere.

Never ever chase losses in gambling. Leisure gambling, yes ok. No harm and be done with.

'chasing losses' will screw your mind, screw your sleep, screw your patience, screw your confidence your mood behaviour upside down... No way you can make the right decision

Make very sure, you don't lose your sleep over this.

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Nov 20 2024, 08:43 AM

1. do not gamble
2. do not gamble
3. do not gamble
4. invest in s&p500 etf
5. or put everything in epf is 10x better than self investing.

Gambling scam one. Dont bet is win liao. Better take money go eat nice food and cheong.

I bet 10k+ on cs2 match lose all too. Can see they purposely throw the match 12-3 14-16. Any sports is rigged control by mafia

When I was younger, I used to bet a lot on football gambling. It's the easiest as those days I had a friend who was a bookie. And the best way to earn extra without really working is gambling. Bet on the football team you like or those you feel there is potential and if they win you win. I remember the time when I was still in college and I entered the lift during the first week of the World Cup 2002. At that point of time, I was winning like 5K and I was feeling super happy! The next at the same time again, I had lost my winnings of 5K and I now owe the bookie 5K. So I would say the ball is round and I believe the games are controlled at times. It's like Brazil playing versus some not so famous team and their superstars can't afford to score a goal at all. It doesn't make sense but it happens.

My advice is best to stop football gambling. It really hurts when the score is not what we want it to be. From time to time I do gambling a small bit but then again when I lose I remind myself please stay away from this form of betting. It's difficult but at the end of the day, you are the one to either make it or break it. Good luck!

PM me ur agent n i will advice them to close the acc if u cannot do it..
no more bets

How true is this?? Match fixing penalty is not light. It could destroy a player entire career and club will have issue

Match fixing nowadays will spread over media. I dont think it happens in our era

Dear Ukeke, just bet on 4D and not football.. Maybe u can bet small amounts during World Cup or EURO Cup like I do.. Normal football matches I don't bet

I think Genting casino betting is even more serious than football betting

I have friends who earn 5 figures asking me for money every month..

My vice addictions are 4D, cigarettes, alcohol and women

This post has been edited by -PuPu^ZaPruD3r-: Nov 20 2024, 09:49 AM

Gambler only have two thoughts;

1) Want to win back money.
2) Greedy, want to win more money.

Quite thinking of these 2 idea. Then perhaps you can walk out from this safely.
Forget about 40K, as others said, it is tuition fee. can you ask refund from you teachers? No right.
Move on sucker.

U think this is hardcore? I bet on any match there is available online to bet. Korea, Japan, malaysia heck even women league also i went to bet.

U ask me to name one player from latin america or even malaysia squad, i can tell u I dont even know a single of them

All i know is bet on jdt team got many goals

I really want to win the money so badly. Even sleep and wake up from sleep, first thing is to think the loss

I lost my sleep already. Sleep a while, wake up, first thing is thinking the loss. First thing check phone is to see score. Last thing to do before sleep is to bet last match there is

he always post in K about his gf issues

so i have to admit its hard for us to genuinely know if we shld help him since we have our doubts.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Nov 20 2024, 10:17 AM

i used to donate to uncle lim also

total around rm10k

regretted and was thinking of the sum better spend for elderly parents or siblings better

and never enter casino for years ady

TS you can do it

How r u going to help? Seriously, how? U tell me how to read odds? Which matches will have incoming goals? Best bet?

What is rm10k?? This is one time bet. Really, dont troll

people gamble when they are too free or have too much money and have different priorities.
I know of ppl who bets 10k 20k each day on slots but rather drive a sub 30k car. This is priorities, you cannot change.
It is fun to bet on football. If you want to rid your addiction and lessen the pain, bet small and avoid live betting.
Lastly, spend what you have. commit yourself to something else, make yourself broke and no money to bet.
In the end just bet 4D to feed your gambling addiction.

Very painful bro

The pain part has to swallow. Revenge betting will just dig you into a deeper hole. It will only stop when you reached zero.

Reading the last few replies I think you are not seeking advise to quit... Rather you asking for SURE win tip.

If i got the advice, i would rather give myself one more chance to bet to recover the loss so that i can stop thinking

Ever thought why this incident happened to yourself ? What this incident want you to learn in your life?

To handle certain amount of resources of the world, you must have the correct mindset & capability to handle it. Without the capability, it is matter of time the calamity will follow suit because you are holding onto something that do not match your capability.

To assume a position that you are not worthy, you will be overthrowed in no time. To keep a treasure which cannot be guarded by you, the bandits will soon surround you.

Do you think the 40k resources is worthy to be placed on the hand of gambler mentality? In the modern day, they says " The idiot & his money will soon be parted" hold certain truth.

Take this incident to reflect on yourself, figure out where you need to begin. No one can help you but yourself.

The wall is in front, if want to bang & cause self injure, please go bang it hard. That should be the best advise can be given for such ppl.

Badminton China Masters. LZJ vs Lakshya 12.50pm.

Sorry i only do soccer bets and ctypto/stock investments.

Please dont troll

TS, I think you are really too deep already.

Wish you the best bro.

Only you can save yourself.

Bet on 4D tonight.. The thrill and feeling when your number comes out is even better than betting on football or casino...

What is the chance of 4d? 4 numbers, the odds is 1/9999

The chance of playing over and under in a game is 50/50

Finally, a soccer gambler here. I just dont get it. Why i play over i can lose so much, but when i play under, the goals are raining

Gamblers always lose.

You will win back.

You will lose more.

40k loss will become 400k loss.
Do you want that?

It's 1 / 10,000 because u can buy 0000 in 4D as well

Anyway, aim Supreme lotto jackpot.. It's RM 47.2 million today

over and under wont make you much money to cover your losses. must do correct score.

by the way, when you place your bets, do you even analyse pregame?

At first yes, after that NO. Because pregame always cheating bettors. The odds are incorrect

i can say almost games are manipulated, there is no clean match at all.

pregame odds is most accurate FYI, in-live odds most inaccurate due to bettors manipulating the odds up and down

Let me tell you the story of SS2 Chow Yang coffee shop owner.

Bet very big during World Cup. Lost his coffee shop & another 2 link houses to repay gambling debts.

There's a saying. How much can you drink / smoke / cheong ?? But gambling is infinity (unending).

I've heard this story from my parents too.. Everytime we talking about gambling, sure talk about this infamous case

It happened when I was young.. He lost everything.. Apparently Kayu mamak bought everything from him

I personally dont believe games are manipulated. I think they are fair and square. Fifa penalty for match fixing is very heavy. I dont think players will risk that

I am from shit school so already got at least 5 known friends "run road".

All of them got similar pattern which is they win small, soon nothing else matter. Everything else don't give them the rush from watching live sports that they betted on. The high desensitized them so unless they are gambling they don't feel the dopamine hit.

Then it happens, bet big. They win some. Lose some. The amount get bigger cos again they feel extra high when amount got big. Suddenly they lose it all. This is when the major fuck up happen. They "try to win back what they lost". They can only remember their peak winnings, they keep trying to chase it back and promise to themselves they going to quit when they did it.

First they lose 2k. Then 5k. Then suddenly 10k in debt. Now their aim changed to win until break even. They again promise to themselves, pray to god, promise the sky and land, heaven hell ah ma ah gong they going to quit gambling for real. ONLY IF HE COULD RECOUP THEIR LOSSES.

The next stop is u cleared out all your savings. The next is u going to "confess" your gambling issue. You did it not because u want to quit gambling, u just want to pinjam money from ppl who would even listen to your sob story.

The final destination is ahlong.

Before u know it. Ahlong everyday looking for ur ass chasing for interest. The debt get bigger n bigger. You are alone. All family and friends stopped answering your call. This is the time u very likely to take shabu to keep ur sanity intact, and to "motivate" yourselves to earn more money.

This will be your future if u do not take the 40k loss as your tuition fee. Stop trying to "win back". It will never happen. Even if it happened, u will not stop gambling and will lose it all again.

for big clubs like EPL is highly regulated and watched. you cannot manipulate one.. the stakes too high. for those algeria league, you want them to score / dont score is easier to payoff.

i been on sports for more than 10years, i watched and betted even on manipulate games.

try to stop.. the only winner is ur agent. you gamble then they got commission, itu je.

hope you get over it. wish u the best

highly regulated doesn't mean there is no manipulate on it,

i understand your mean lower league is easy to payoff, but you forget is easy to get void ticket by sportsbook platform also, in the end you get nothing and you losing money on it even the result was there.

I really can get over it, once i recover. I really want to stop, but if u lost money, will u just 'let it pass'?

Every second im thinking the loss. Every time wake up, first thing is to bet. Very painful.

How u know it's manipulated?

i get info from someone

You will be surprised to know how much bentong/ karak/ raub growers have sold their farm land

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Nov 20 2024, 01:12 PM

Agent? Can pm me?

Trust me bro. You need to accept that loses and get over IT. Let it pass.

In doing so, THIS WILL BE FOR FISRT WIN

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Nov 20 2024, 01:20 PM

At he/she more real than yoi

This guy really knnccb
Later sex addiction but hey.. Atleast better than losing money. With sex addiction you only lost sperm

i am not agent, i just normal bettor in this industry.



This post has been edited by heLL_bOy: Nov 20 2024, 01:56 PM

i just let it pass. if you cannot let it pass means u gamble more than u can afford to lose. like go genting, i dont gamble with unlimited budget. if lose ur budget, xxxx amount, then jus leave. thats all. u should manage ur account credit. if u cant manage, ask agent reduce it to 1000 or 500.

I changed my account limit three times, now its six figure

Your have very weak mental my fren ... The real winner can always find a way to win back or earn back their losses dont care from gambling ka failed business ka kena scam ka

Winner will always end up a winner

Change your mindset and think like this 1st then u will eventually find other means to chase back your so called "losses"

sorry to say, you just on your way to lose all ur money. nothing good will come out from this

They are paid actors with their coach taking order from underground boss

only play lottery 4d, 8 sides including singapore one.

Watch film called, 'No More Bets' then understand how many slaves you create.

I watched this chinese movie before last year.

Fyi, i bet again yesterday and lost again. Really cannot bounce up and recover?

Kenot. The more u bet the more lost. 40k become 80k. 80k become 120k etc. Just stop gambling la. No gambling is win liao. Better use money enjoy good food, buy stuff etc, travel. Gambling is scam.

This post has been edited by skyblack4492: Nov 23 2024, 03:51 PM

Thanks, i will try. I cannot endure much longer

I hope you are already made up your mind to stop.

It's really like pulling the trigger of a gun.

make up your mind and stick with it!

I copy&paste my post #79 here again.

Trust me bro. You need to accept that loses and get over IT. Let it pass.

In doing so, THIS WILL BE FOR FISRT WIN

Do you see banks give money to depositors who lost money to scams?
Do you see legit casino give money to gamblers to suffer biz losses?
Do crooks care about you being able to bounce up and recover?

Capitalism is about big capitalists making profit, not about your addiction.

You dont believe or disagree, then go bet again. Surely you can afford it, right?