high union, but it's ok, my side of union is high too.

yup, she seems to be controlling when to have meeting, set meeting agendas, and make decisions herself.

i dunno what gets into her mind she can manage me around, maybe I look younger than her. But even management has said it's an age, race, and gender thing. Sad an asian is taunting another asian on a foreign land. She probably wants an old white male. when people take my kindness for granted

we will all meet tomorrow together. she has been pulling her strings looking for support, obviously that went 404.

top management has decided she either listens to us or off she goes.

I still don't understand this part.

Is she your direct report or not? If she is then it's easy to tell her off.

\definitely has to go.

tell her to buck up and drop her ego, be a team player.

Else...

yes, she is. and she doesn't careeeee

she will never be. but she also say her dream is to be like me (my job my life). but she isn't a team player, isn't keen to learn, fast to blame... she won't make it in life anywhere, sad to say.

Wont comment much as my "Uncle" style of management would be jeopardizing what you might had did till date but I'll stand with you on this opinion that "She has to go."

But just beware and go through the proper method as people like this usually had a few "bullets" in hand that can die together with you and the rest of your team, in case any of you peeps has something that prone to damage (aka relationship, skodengs, ugly stuff, trustworthiness etc)

But it was still shocking to hear its a Thai National.

In my case, I cannot tahan Malaysians. I have indons, Pinoys (also terrible) Viets, Pakis, Mainlanders, few Laotians, angmoh, and they all had certain sohainess in them.

Still, Malaysian is the worst. Maybe in education they're the best, but in social maturity, they're just a piece of shit. Even free also I wont hire a darn Msian ever again.

I do fear my life. Maybe one day she goes kuku then take a knife and suddenly stab me.

I'm shocked too. Everyone who hears my story is shocked too.. They won't believe it if they didn't hear it from me.

Can’t simply ‘let her go’

Likely have to put her under PIP, see if she improves and go from there

Oh lol, this post kena lipot.

I guess there's sakit buntut people everywhere. If you kenot tahan kena cucuk, then maybe consider excluding yourself from my generalization, not protecting those I generalized. Because if you do, that means you're just a part of them. Why would you mingle with a bunch of rotten apple that would rot you if you're staying with them for a bit longer? Haih kesian...

You really got a fan here 😂

What visa is she on? No job means sayonara back to Sawadee, or can she loiter around and hope to score an AMDK?

you just came in time. just done meeting. whole meeting manipulation, blaming, and say - how can i trust you (aka me)...

management says relationship is not recoverable.

her visa will be revoked if she is laid off. sayonara.. AMDK have to find back in Thai.

Is your position safe sis? God forbid, she's actually sleeping with an AMDK (aka your upper management) now ...

So what's the update now? Is she under PIP or she has to go?

Yes yes, please update us... cliffhanger

My position is very safe. Don't worry. I still hope to get my promotion this year

She must be bawling right now from all the 'accusation', 'lies', and 'blames' we put on her...



Bring in one more management person to find solutions.

Looks to me, relationship cannot be recovered, and she cannot listen to my/our instructions. there is only one solution.....

Can straight way let off? No need under PIP or warning letter x 2 etc?

Please send her to Reporting Skill Training. This newbies never learn how to report to superior.

it's in NZ. most criminals don't even get prisoned... you can imagine how nice they treat wrongdoers....

zero skills. just go back earn her Thai baht.

chii like this thread, very educational.
have TS ever try to find out why she acts the way she acts? or its just futile to know anyway now?

Its not her objective to make it in life.

Just sustain and suck co benefits until she retire.

Union people have this ingrown right to fight for their "democracy".

faster ship her out.