Senior citizen that lives in retirement home are mostly full with seniors with kids

Some of them their kids never visit or care about them

So these people regret having kids?

Second quote sounds like never had any hardships before being a parent

That’s scary. Kids sleeping with eyes open like fish

hello polis....

how the hell you look at their eye during their sleep when their eyes are shut?


except they opened their eyes to sleep.

Better dont have children if want to stay here

Socks issue can become major world headline

I'm sorry to say this sir but your kid isn't sleeping.

You can always raise them to migrate overseas to earn 3.5 or 4.7

anak saya baik olangnya

Then migjt as well you prepare yourself and migrate there then only have children

A lot of pubic got it wrong. It is not the task of present generation alone themselves to raise the children. Raising the children, you need the combination of 3 generations - there is proverb stating "it takes a village to raise a child". If any of these elements are missing, you will experience the extreme condition to raise the children.

If the elder generation refuse / not willing to help the current generation in raising a next generation, thing is a lot more difficult. If you have elder parent who loves the children, raising the younger generation will be much more easier. No new parent have the experience to raise the children except the previous generation - this is the fact.

What is scarce nowadays is the "quality time". The period of raising the children from new born to 3 ~ 4 years old is the most tedious & difficult. It will drain away a lot of you daily energy if the mother is working + no one is helping out. If you experience this, you will be certain to think twice to have another newborn & repeat the process again. This process itself creates fear even to the couple earning decent living.

Nowadays, a lot of the previous generation emphasis on freedom of living, asking them to take care their grandchildren is a no no as they will feel that their time will be "binded" toward the commitment.

Those who have the previous generation who loves the children & willing to do anything for their grandchildren are the most blessed couple out there.

This post has been edited by nihility: Apr 24 2024, 10:05 AM

Lol. Are you sponsored by big pharma and ultra rich. They are running out of workers + users to generate money for them.
Best to keep breeding so we can make money for them.

Sarcasm aside, shows that you're not just delusional but also very out of touch because you think only your opinion is valid. Surely because you had a life with no regrets, other's should be the same too.

u see one retirement home u think all kids are char siew?

without kids, definitely u need to go retirement home if you need attentive care.
or you are rich enough, u can hire full time nurse at home.

with kids, there is 50/50 chance your kids will take care of you.
it depends on how you bring up your kids.
you just ignore the kids of course the kids wont take care of you.

some ppl assume if there is no kids, they will sure become rich and millionaire after awhile.

It might be true that you can spend all your hard earn money for yourself, but it does not necessary become rich when you old.

There are cases whereby the parents get better loiving because of their kid doing well

My mistake...I meant their closing eyes...

I am referring to their closing eyes...so yeah they are sleeping :-)

Earth already overpopulated, it’s actually a good trend that some chose not to have children to slowdown the unsustainable population growth.

Maybe one day we just let sentient AI to be human’s legacy to this blue planet.

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There's a very active subreddit and a huge facebook group on regretful parents.
Think twice before you piap lol.

Most CF people don't regret not having kids when older because they never wanted it in the first place. It's like you have never liked spicy food and then regret not eating spicy food for dinner.

Can piap but shoot out not in

people failed at parenting, thus regret