5 dates without progress is too much... should aim to get laid within 3 dates

old school formula la brader some girls will just move on if play hard to get..

Knew a girl through OkCupid. At first everything was going super smooth. We used to flirt around and chat everyday and we did called each other every night before sleep. Almost every day we will send goodnight and goodmorning messages and sometimes she even felt super worried for me if i did not get enough sleep the day before since we chatted till late night through the phone.

Have went through a total of 5 dates within a timespan of 2 months. Bought her gifts, went shopping together and during valentines day, invited her out for lunch and brought her a box of chocolate as well. She was very thankful and shows how much she appreciated me. Things suddenly went downhill soon after. Started noticing her getting very passive, her messages takes longer time to reply and conversation feels very dry. Sometimes she will just reply me a single sentence message that's all.

I knew something was wrong already but i still brush it off. Thought she could be busy with her work. There's one day where i was asking how was she doing? She replies me with a single thumbsup that's all. Fast forward 11 hours till late night she hasn't replied me a single message but i thought she could be busy as she did told me the day before she will be attending her colleagues Chinese new year open house. So i did ask her again how she was doing. Got a reply shortly after telling me that she is on the way back home. She even shares me pictures of her with her colleagues during the open house.

Chat conversations went back to normal for few days after she even shares me pictures of what she's doing, the food she ate but she still feels very passive and the messages feels very dry. So did arrange with her yesterday for another date and she agrees to do so. Went to confess to her how much i like her and so on then shortly she tells me at most she could only be a friend to me and she says i share a lot of similarities with her ex 🫠 and she can't find the spark between both of us.

My heart sank literally after I heard that. Feels like i got hit hard by a bullet. I did everything for her everything I could and with all the effort time I threw into her all gone down to the drain flushed away 🥺. And now i can't sleep all night because of that. But she did apologized to me she shouldn't have wasted my time with so many dates.

dont put all your eggs in one basket

go out, enjoy yourself

date as many as you can

take it easy

the more u pamper someone u just barely knew, it makes you look very easy, 'very available', and not attractive at all.

so, date as many as you can, so that you are busy with so many women, and NOT busy with one woman only.

uncle dont understand this 😂, unless you're 6'4 and very good looking you playing hard to get means nothing to a woman
she can hop back on dating apps and get another date in under 5 mins which is clearly what happened. thanks for the free chocolates and meals sucka byeeee 👋

but yeah TS a giga simp la, the days where men still show up with chocolates and flowers are over, keep up with the times.

TBH only ugly men have to do this, if you were her type, unemployed also she'll come pick you up and pay for your food, I've seen it before.

generally women can make their own money, they're also secured emotionally by self improving. There seems to be no guys attractive enough in her eyes, so she may just choose to find some play toys if felt extremely bored

meanwhile these simps keep liking IG photos from these girls without getting "real action"

my condolences.
sorry to say that many women just want a perfect guy. zero compromise.

Knew a girl through OkCupid. At first everything was going super smooth. We used to flirt around and chat everyday and we did called each other every night before sleep. Almost every day we will send goodnight and goodmorning messages and sometimes she even felt super worried for me if i did not get enough sleep the day before since we chatted till late night through the phone.

Have went through a total of 5 dates within a timespan of 2 months. Bought her gifts, went shopping together and during valentines day, invited her out for lunch and brought her a box of chocolate as well. She was very thankful and shows how much she appreciated me. Things suddenly went downhill soon after. Started noticing her getting very passive, her messages takes longer time to reply and conversation feels very dry. Sometimes she will just reply me a single sentence message that's all.

I knew something was wrong already but i still brush it off. Thought she could be busy with her work. There's one day where i was asking how was she doing? She replies me with a single thumbsup that's all. Fast forward 11 hours till late night she hasn't replied me a single message but i thought she could be busy as she did told me the day before she will be attending her colleagues Chinese new year open house. So i did ask her again how she was doing. Got a reply shortly after telling me that she is on the way back home. She even shares me pictures of her with her colleagues during the open house.

Chat conversations went back to normal for few days after she even shares me pictures of what she's doing, the food she ate but she still feels very passive and the messages feels very dry. So did arrange with her yesterday for another date and she agrees to do so. Went to confess to her how much i like her and so on then shortly she tells me at most she could only be a friend to me and she says i share a lot of similarities with her ex 🫠 and she can't find the spark between both of us.

My heart sank literally after I heard that. Feels like i got hit hard by a bullet. I did everything for her everything I could and with all the effort time I threw into her all gone down to the drain flushed away 🥺. And now i can't sleep all night because of that. But she did apologized to me she shouldn't have wasted my time with so many dates.

Best way to pick up girl!

1. Look clean n nice.

2. Flash car.

3. Nice address.

4. Flower.

5. Smoothy.

P/S: Girl 101% are dumb!

really , it's not as easy as you think , plus if you think a girl totally dumb , why would you trying to tackle her in the first place ? never ever underestimate people 

It only becomes easy when it can be your second nature, just like any sports or public speaking. Its a desensitization at first followed up cultivation of different values

really , it's not as easy as you think , plus if you think a girl totally dumb , why would you trying to tackle her in the first place ? never ever underestimate people  :w

Most of male cant get girl because they always think girl are smart!

Yes i did unfollowed her social media and deleted all her whatsapp photos including the entire chat as well but now still have to deal with those dark thoughts inside my head keep telling me what went wrong? It feels kinda quiet now without receiving any further message from her

she tells me at most she could only be a friend to me and she says i share a lot of similarities with her ex 🫠 and she can't find the spark between both of us.

so we must think the girls are dumb just to get them ? even though the reality they are smarter ( not all of them )