If you didnt sleep with her within 5 dates, some guys already had and she already divert the attention onto him.

Thats why i always say try to sleep with a girl and dont show commitments before she show the same level of effort

this is the hard lessoning every nice guy will learn.

you knew something was wrong but you didnt set a boundary because you're afraid you going to lose her

why no fate?
In my perspective, ts is not pulling the trigger by bringing her home
If she has had sex with him, the end result maybe slightly different

what if...what if...
Ts didnt even pull the trigger
and you already speculate sex after marriage
very funny lmao

If ts is charismatic knows what he's doing, he can use that opportunity to create good atmosphere and make sex happen on late afternoon, its definitely doable

problem i can see is he has limitations when it comes to dating and sex

Ive slept with girls who is family oriented
so your reasoning doesnt apply to mine

any people can bluff you
Include my stories
cause in your mind you already have a preconceived motion of how things should come to a conclusion

thats a narcissistic trait of a success or victim
the thing is any female can tell you stories, but whats most honest is how they behave with you at that particular moment

If a girl doesnt sleep with a guy three four seven dates, and she doesnt invest particularly more it can either mean she has a motive by not giving up sex ((ie gold digger), or she just treats the guy like a backup cause he is not arousing to her

you see i bring down people?
thats your perspective bro
my point is i give value based on my pursuits
take it or leave it

if you feel annoyed that means you have more work to do.

every guy has potentials to be self aware and not be a doormat or being pushed over

there are girls who more subconsciously reject sexual advances
a) she doesnt perceive his game as high value to elicit her emotions
b) she doesnt perceive his lifestyle or money to be able to elevate her living status
c) her family or friends influence her "current" situation that sleeping with a man too quickly = bad

I met a particularly virgin cristian girl in her early 20s many years ago we went on more than 5 dates and ultimately sex didnt happen. 3 years later, we met again and everything happened quickly. I asked her why and whether she slept with a black guy she cheekily smirk

as a guy all you can do is extend your invitations clear, the issue is most people scared getting rejected because they grant meaning to the name of it.

generally women can make their own money, they're also secured emotionally by self improving. There seems to be no guys attractive enough in her eyes, so she may just choose to find some play toys if felt extremely bored

meanwhile these simps keep liking IG photos from these girls without getting "real action"

It only becomes easy when it can be your second nature, just like any sports or public speaking. Its a desensitization at first followed up cultivation of different values