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Starbucki
post Dec 29 2023, 02:13 PM

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QUOTE(vhs1 @ Dec 29 2023, 02:06 PM)
Until funeral day departure to crematorium or burial.
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I thought he say 7th day dad ghost want to come back, so must still cover statue face?
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:23 PM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 02:13 PM)
I thought he say 7th day dad ghost want to come back, so must still cover statue face?
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You got a point there
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:25 PM

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Dec 29 2023, 01:43 PM)
No wor.

I remember is 20k for Chinese

Is it possible your one long time ago?
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Think just last year when I attended my cousin's funeral. Was at Nirvana 3.
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:28 PM

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QUOTE(tatmeng @ Dec 29 2023, 11:55 AM)
My father is at hospital now. Don’t think can make it these few days
Hence start to prepare for the funeral.
Already got a burial ground back in hometown. It’s a shared lot with my grandparents and uncles.

Just a matter to go through the rites and bring back to hometown.
Plan to have the funeral service in KL before, cremate and bring back the ashes to hometown

How to kickstart the whole thing? Either Taoist or Buddhist rite. Likely Taoist.

The funeral shop will approach the family?

Any tip is appreciated. Thank you
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Don’t worry. Prepare RM 20k to 40k. This year we spend RM 30k for funeral.
Funeral house will fight for your business. See which priest will charge you less. Cantonese priest charged less if you in KL as it is based on which states you stay in and what is your mother tongue. True stories.
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:44 PM

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when my grandma pass away last yr, the hospital got people let a funeral business know, i havent enter police station, they already arrive to promo their package. hospital cable strong

but it turns out rather good in the end, i think like 10-14k and somemore looks good, got waiter help serve food and drinks from morning to night at house
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:50 PM

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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM)
U die dy.Lawyer carry ur ash to klang river throw hehe. Save liao plane ticket to iceland
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already die, dont care lo
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:57 PM

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nirvana can kaodim all
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post Dec 29 2023, 03:18 PM

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QUOTE(Treepex @ Dec 29 2023, 12:15 PM)
im sorry to say this
but alot agent really waiting at hospital one
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Wild vultures waiting for pipur to croak = $$$$$ can hidu d.
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post Dec 29 2023, 03:28 PM

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when body is moved to mortuary, coffin boss is there at the same time and ready to talk to you already.

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post Dec 29 2023, 03:29 PM

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QUOTE(hteekay @ Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM)
Mine was at Fook Look Siew KK there.. just use their service this month.

RM5999 for the whole funeral ceremony. (100 cup drinks , 100 有心 packs to give out, 3 days on the funeral parlour place for friends and family to go pay respect, the casket, cremation service and and ash urn included)

as for place to put the urn. We bought one place for RM5999 + RM380++ (paid one time only, no need to pay maintenance fee every year or month).

So all in all it's around RM12k.. well I didn't add in additional extra fee from me asking to add in another 100 有心 packs, another 100 cup drinks... the white t-shirts for the family... la..
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wth.. why so cheap one...

i do in KTN For my late brother.. fuk luk sau? coffin itself around RM9k but of course we picked the bigger one la.

then the place to put the urn also so cheap!!! my brother's was around RM8.5k alone? then i bought 2 more for my parents RM16k/17k package.
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QUOTE(fu'house @ Dec 29 2023, 03:18 PM)
Wild vultures waiting for pipur to croak = $$$$$ can hidu d.
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You say they are vultures but seriously I'm thankful that they exists, I can't even handle taking care of myself after my mother's sudden passing happened, and even with them taking care of almost everything, I find my siblings and myself are so busy running around like headless chickens trying to handle the ceremony...
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post Dec 29 2023, 03:32 PM

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QUOTE(hteekay @ Dec 29 2023, 03:29 PM)
You say they are vultures but seriously I'm thankful that they exists, I can't even handle taking care of myself after my mother's sudden passing happened, and even with them taking care of almost everything, I find my siblings and myself are so busy running around like headless chickens trying to handle the ceremony...
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That's why need to widen social circles. Don't be afraid to find pipur inside Chinese society or those old unkers in columbariums/cemetery ask contacts.

Maybe you met someone working honestly just want to promote instead of vultures from N company overpaying.
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post Dec 29 2023, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(fu'house @ Dec 29 2023, 03:18 PM)
Wild vultures waiting for pipur to croak = $$$$$ can hidu d.
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say what you like, some of their packages are cheaper than those coffin shop funeral services.
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QUOTE(St0rmFury @ Dec 29 2023, 01:07 PM)
My folks already pesan just cremate them and scatter wherever I want.

No need to spend money on burial plot or urn space.
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A modern new thinking, good , interested to know how old are they to embrace this concept.

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post Dec 29 2023, 04:00 PM

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QUOTE(Relaxing work 2 @ Dec 29 2023, 03:54 PM)
A modern new thinking, good , interested to know how old are they to embrace this concept.
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post Dec 29 2023, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(St0rmFury @ Dec 29 2023, 01:07 PM)
My folks already pesan just cremate them and scatter wherever I want.

No need to spend money on burial plot or urn space.
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My dad already wave goodbye this way but there's stuck up people and burial scammers
will say they will sleep in cold, bring bad luck to family etc
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post Dec 29 2023, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 02:13 PM)
I thought he say 7th day dad ghost want to come back, so must still cover statue face?
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after finish funeral,.. the deceased name already put into ancestral tablet,.. means already registered in Hell as family,... Gods already know they are family,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 04:07 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ Dec 29 2023, 04:05 PM)
after finish funeral,.. the deceased name already put into ancestral tablet,.. means already registered in Hell as family,... Gods already know they are family,..
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All taoists go to hell you mean? How to go to heaven like the gods?
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post Dec 29 2023, 04:11 PM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 04:07 PM)
All taoists go to hell you mean? How to go to heaven like the gods?
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hell = heaven,.. it's meant another realm,.. else why people called hell money,.. but content written heaven bank ,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 04:14 PM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Dec 29 2023, 02:06 PM)
Condolence bro
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His dad still alive la..

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