just a tip bro, withdraw all the savings from your dads account ASAP, if not u will need to go through a lot of bili bala to withdraw it eg proof of inheritance la etc etc

Kpg one the association will do. They will use the funeral donation for spending.

Eh tak tau pun this wujud.

Ya have been asking my siblings whether my dad has any financial products under his own name

Anyway, just to update
My dad has passed away this morning.
I have contacted Xiao en and nirvana.
Nirvana very quick service, send their agent over to hospital now to talk to me directly

Sorry to hear that bro.. may he rest in peace.
condolences to you and your family

Thanks bro. It’s a relieve to him. Twice he told me he want to give already

Just hire the agent to arrange all the funeral ritual for u. It's worth the money. Many samgu lokpo will bising2 about "proper" ritual if u didnt hire one. Last time my MIL funeral handled by nirvana, even that also got relative go marah2 the agent for not following the ritual etc. Insane one. At least they dont bising kaw the grieving direct family. I pay the agent extra tips. kesian him

TS, my deepest condolences 🙏

Condolences and stay strong bro

Sorry to hear that. Just pick a good funeral parlor to take care of it. The manager will give you options to decide and instruct everything from A to Z.

I was once at your spot. Then just learn and understand the process along the way.

executor is just the authorised person to manage your will,.. the one who hold the surat kuasa,.. normally it's the deceased trusted family/relative/friends,.. last time my elder brother die,.. my younger brother is the executor,.. no charge,..it will be in the will who is the executor,...

This post has been edited by Cincai lar: Dec 30 2023, 12:43 PM

got cars under his name ??.. got share stocks under his name ??.. got left any will ??... doesn't matter big money or small money,.. if no will,..Gov will gasak,..

Sorry for your loss

Stay strong TS

You will need to stay strong to execute the final process.

This post has been edited by NooBiE888: Dec 30 2023, 12:46 PM

this,...

i remember last time when my elder brother die,.. take 2 weeks plus to clear his saving account rm5k per day via ATM,.. i only got his ATM card with password,.. didn't get his online username and password,..

sorry to hear that
well nirvana has good track record.

How much cheap is cheap

Condolences to you and your family ser

They can tailor it according to your budget.

There are so many variables you can opt out, like not having a full band, how many days of wake, what kinda procession, selection of vehicles u know stuff like that etc..

At the end of the day, it’s your family’s funeral and your belief in the religion. They can upsell a lot of shit to you if you are rich and or if you are a person anal about those pantang parang.

Those salesman will tell you “oh if you don’t perform this rite, your family fortune will be in the gutter for 3 generations to come etc “ oh they know how to reel you in.

That’s why Christian funeral is the simplest. Just hire a room, get the pastor and church ppl to help you and bobs ur uncle. Some pastors will even do it for free.

most recent one cost me 16K

very budget, buddhist style 2 nights
wake at jinjang funeral parlor
1 prayer session/ night of wake
rites for day of funeral with half band
free flow drinks and kacang, 2 servers in the evening only, so DIY in the morning
coffin transport to crematorium
clothes for next of kin
fruit offerings
1 x coffin
1 x urn

also includes
transport of body from hospital to funeral parlor
preparation of the body
application of death cert & funeral plot
arranging with the crematorium

not included
burning of hell notes & offerings
angpao to workers and band players on funeral day

basically i didn't need to do much just lepak and mourn

This post has been edited by Rusty Nail: Dec 30 2023, 03:17 PM

1.Funeral parlor to discuss package

2.Nirvana cekik darah with cheap product with expensive package

3.Coffin shop