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SUSCincai lar
post Dec 29 2023, 01:33 PM

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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Dec 29 2023, 01:27 PM)
But house usually ade God statue. Hantu can masuk kacau?
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if doing funeral at home,.. the house worship shrine must be covered ,.. dead family also ghost,.. they will come back on the 7th day,..

but i waited for my dad on the 7th day,.. tarak come back and give me lottery numbers also,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:36 PM

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QUOTE(misaka @ Dec 29 2023, 01:31 PM)
My father after passaway at icu got ppl from nirvana call hospital ppl got nirvana contract punya
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hospital staff got commission one lar,.. just inform their salesman which family got people just died,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:39 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ Dec 29 2023, 01:36 PM)
hospital staff got commission one lar,.. just inform their salesman which family got people just died,..
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Ada wang semua bole. Cash is king.
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:40 PM

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Dec 29 2023, 12:13 PM)
What?

Nirvana only 20k
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I think 9 or 10k? Saw their brochure. Christian is cheapest. Thinking of taking that package since I'm atheist and they charge 1k cheaper for Christian compared to atheist.

Not sure if got other cheaper packages elsewhere. Want to look the cheapest. Islam I'll avoid because if inheritance issues later on with my heirs.
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(thesoothsayer @ Dec 29 2023, 01:40 PM)
I think 9 or 10k? Saw their brochure. Christian is cheapest. Thinking of taking that package since I'm atheist and they charge 1k cheaper for Christian compared to atheist.

Not sure if got other cheaper packages elsewhere. Want to look the cheapest. Islam I'll avoid because if inheritance issues later on with my heirs.
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No wor.

I remember is 20k for Chinese

Is it possible your one long time ago?
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:47 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ Dec 29 2023, 01:33 PM)
if doing funeral at home,.. the house worship shrine must be covered ,.. dead family also ghost,.. they will come back on the 7th day,..

but i waited for my dad on the 7th day,.. tarak come back and give me lottery numbers also,..
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Bro, Haha... You ar...

Same same... My late dad was a kutu 4d hard-core enthusiast.
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:50 PM

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QUOTE(St0rmFury @ Dec 29 2023, 01:07 PM)
My folks already pesan just cremate them and scatter wherever I want.

No need to spend money on burial plot or urn space.
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same, unker already leave will to lawyer as no child. dont wanna bother anyone, lawyer will help carry ash to iceland.
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(karazure @ Dec 29 2023, 01:50 PM)
same, unker already leave will to lawyer as no child. dont wanna bother anyone, lawyer will help carry ash to iceland.
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U die dy.Lawyer carry ur ash to klang river throw hehe. Save liao plane ticket to iceland
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Dec 29 2023, 01:43 PM)
No wor.

I remember is 20k for Chinese

Is it possible your one long time ago?
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Mine was at Fook Look Siew KK there.. just use their service this month.

RM5999 for the whole funeral ceremony. (100 cup drinks , 100 有心 packs to give out, 3 days on the funeral parlour place for friends and family to go pay respect, the casket, cremation service and and ash urn included)

as for place to put the urn. We bought one place for RM5999 + RM380++ (paid one time only, no need to pay maintenance fee every year or month).

So all in all it's around RM12k.. well I didn't add in additional extra fee from me asking to add in another 100 有心 packs, another 100 cup drinks... the white t-shirts for the family... la..

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post Dec 29 2023, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE(hteekay @ Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM)
Mine was at Fook Look Siew KK there.. just use their service this month.

RM5999 for the whole funeral ceremony. (100 cup drinks , 100 有心 packs to give out, 3 days on the funeral parlour place for friends and family to go pay respect, the casket, cremation service and and ash urn included)

as for place to put the urn. We bought one place for RM5999 + RM380++ (paid one time only, no need to pay maintenance fee every year or month).

So all in all it's around RM12k
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Good price
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:55 PM

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QUOTE(vhs1 @ Dec 29 2023, 01:47 PM)
Bro, Haha... You ar...

Same same... My late dad was a kutu 4d hard-core enthusiast.
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Pernah kena big 4d before rip?
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post Dec 29 2023, 01:57 PM

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QUOTE(hteekay @ Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM)
Mine was at Fook Look Siew KK there.. just use their service this month.

RM5999 for the whole funeral ceremony. (100 cup drinks , 100 有心 packs to give out, 3 days on the funeral parlour place for friends and family to go pay respect, the casket, cremation service and and ash urn included)

as for place to put the urn. We bought one place for RM5999 + RM380++ (paid one time only, no need to pay maintenance fee every year or month).

So all in all it's around RM12k
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in kl/kv,.. condominium for ash urn around rm15k-30k liao,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:00 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ Dec 29 2023, 01:57 PM)
in kl/kv,.. condominium for ash urn around rm15k-30k liao,..
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Yeah, my relatives from Semenanjung also surprised to find it that cheap actually when we told them...
The building is fully air conditioned, got elevator and very clean and tidy.. really nice place. A lot of my passed family are placed over there and they are nearby too so it's very convenient and worth it.

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post Dec 29 2023, 02:01 PM

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Got money no issue, no money anything is also issue
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:01 PM

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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Dec 29 2023, 01:55 PM)
Pernah kena  big 4d before rip?
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Yes
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:02 PM

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QUOTE(wilsonjay @ Dec 29 2023, 11:57 AM)
if you want peace of mind, i suggest you to hire someone from nirvana to settle evrything for you
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This.
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(Cincai lar @ Dec 29 2023, 01:33 PM)
if doing funeral at home,.. the house worship shrine must be covered ,.. dead family also ghost,.. they will come back on the 7th day,..

but i waited for my dad on the 7th day,.. tarak come back and give me lottery numbers also,..
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Cover until when?
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:06 PM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 02:05 PM)
Cover until when?
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Until funeral day departure to crematorium or burial.
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:06 PM

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QUOTE(tatmeng @ Dec 29 2023, 11:55 AM)
My father is at hospital now. Don’t think can make it these few days
Hence start to prepare for the funeral.
Already got a burial ground back in hometown. It’s a shared lot with my grandparents and uncles.

Just a matter to go through the rites and bring back to hometown.
Plan to have the funeral service in KL before, cremate and bring back the ashes to hometown

How to kickstart the whole thing? Either Taoist or Buddhist rite. Likely Taoist.

The funeral shop will approach the family?

Any tip is appreciated. Thank you
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post Dec 29 2023, 02:07 PM

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