the question is, where u wan to held it? here in KV or back in hometown.

if hometown kecil, then might not have one stop centre like nirvana.
where u dont need to held funeral at your house, block jalan etc.
those centre got aircond, parking, toilet, room etc etc.
which is my preferred choice, no need bother neighbours.

downside is might be slightly expensive than doing at home.
as in nirvana home vs nirvana centre.
u get to save mayb a few K at the expense of comfort.

if u have budget, get those nirvana like services at their building.
of course nirvana is the premium one. got those cheaper one, saving a few K.

u can plan now, but he havent move on yet.
once he moved on, at the morgue sure will have people offering you services.

u can arrange with the service provider.

edit
nirvana they provide those monk also according to your belief.
so u no need find those.
as for christian, you need to find your own pastor n worship service.

This post has been edited by ZforZebra: Dec 29 2023, 12:54 PM

What's overnight jaga?

If price is not a problem Nirvana will settle everything for u.

Take care.

if taoist custom,.. must jaga the body and constantly burn paper money piece by piece,..normally done by kids by shift schedule,.. also must make sure the oil lamp got enough oil, won;t burned out,..

not yet die lar,.. maybe his father will survived ??...

Char siew

Sorry to hear that & stay strong bro

My folks already pesan just cremate them and scatter wherever I want.

No need to spend money on burial plot or urn space.

Is your dad the eldest to your grandpa? If yes, follow his wish (have a word with him while posibble) if no, consult your eldest living uncle.

You mentioned "shared" with your late grands/ uncles (i know what you mean), so you need to consult your eldest living uncle on the ritual.

TS, stay strong to see matters through.

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Dec 29 2023, 01:15 PM

Wow..

Stay strong brother.
Hope eventually everything works out

Why need jaga one? Got wat to curi?

Longer nites, taoist. shorter night, buddhist.

Hantu kacau. Basically you just want to ensure not every lala can come in.

Black cat jump over coffin, the corpse will move? Like lam chi ying vampire movie taiost sifu

This post has been edited by skyblack4492: Dec 29 2023, 01:32 PM

But house usually ade God statue. Hantu can masuk kacau?

By the way, if your father is close to any chinese civil society or ethnics society, you can ask them for advice too.

Example, Cantonese ppl, find back Cantonese society.

My father after passaway at icu got ppl from nirvana call hospital ppl got nirvana contract punya

Islam funeral very fast one. Wrap in kain 1day prayer, 2moro burial liao

This post has been edited by skyblack4492: Dec 29 2023, 01:31 PM

Okay, usually la.. the same day/night your kin pass away in hospital, hospital will need one from the family to complete a form with their info and contact number on it. They will also ask you to go to police station and make a report for the death to get a release paper that will enable you to collect your deceased one (the report for no need of post-mortem/autopsy if the death is natural and not crime related).

They bring the deceased to the morgue for temporary time till you get the release paper and police report. During that time you'll get a call from people who does funeral one (they must have gotten your number from the hospital, I guess they have connection with the hospital) asking if you need a service. From there on you can ask them anything about the procedure and they basically will handle EVERYTHING for you.

They are very efficient at the service and are quick to respond.

Stay strong bro. Remember to take care of yourself and lookout for your other families.

This post has been edited by hteekay: Dec 29 2023, 01:33 PM