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Tips for Chinese funeral
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TStatmeng
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Dec 29 2023, 11:55 AM, updated 2y ago
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My father is at hospital now. Don’t think can make it these few days Hence start to prepare for the funeral. Already got a burial ground back in hometown. It’s a shared lot with my grandparents and uncles.
Just a matter to go through the rites and bring back to hometown. Plan to have the funeral service in KL before, cremate and bring back the ashes to hometown
How to kickstart the whole thing? Either Taoist or Buddhist rite. Likely Taoist.
The funeral shop will approach the family?
Any tip is appreciated. Thank you
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SUSwilsonjay
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Dec 29 2023, 11:57 AM
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if you want peace of mind, i suggest you to hire someone from nirvana to settle evrything for you
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SUSleonghao
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Dec 29 2023, 11:57 AM
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Contact nirvana
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samjet
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Dec 29 2023, 11:58 AM
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Don’t worry funeral services 一条龙服务
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SUSBlackscreamerz
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Dec 29 2023, 12:00 PM
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If you not doing it at nirvana, many coffin shops will have contact on this.
You only need to think to do it at home or funeral parlor.
The rite will depends on your family or your father wish. In fact, if he also knew his time is coming, you may want to ask him.
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ycs
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Dec 29 2023, 12:00 PM
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funeral shop agent will appear soon enough;
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wwc1987
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Dec 29 2023, 12:01 PM
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contact coffin shop or funeral agent at hospital they will handle A-Z
This post has been edited by wwc1987: Dec 29 2023, 12:01 PM
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ycs
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Dec 29 2023, 12:04 PM
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icemanfx
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Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM
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Prepare to pay >RM 30k.
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bengang15
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Dec 29 2023, 12:08 PM
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stay strong.. faster look for photos. seriously
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KevProp
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Dec 29 2023, 12:08 PM
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Google caretaker
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hotdayum
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Dec 29 2023, 12:08 PM
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Firstly, condolences to you and your family.
Nirvana is a one stop shop. Smaller funeral parlours also have this arrangement.
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leongcp
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Dec 29 2023, 12:09 PM
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Hi. Sorry to hear this. If your father can speak, best to ask him first on what he wants. Especially burial or cremation. Next is whether you are Hokkien, Teochew, Hakka, Cantonese, etc. As some elders may want to insist on following certain customs. Clarify first, don't follow blindly. One member pointed at ktc, a good recommendation, also one of the cheaper one. There are others like Jing An Memorial Village, etc. They can recommend undertakers (coffin and funeral arrangements).
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carloz28
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Dec 29 2023, 12:10 PM
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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM) Not necessarily la, there are cheap package and there are giler babi packages Dont limit urself to nirvana , there are plenty of other funeral parlors who offered the same and simplified services at much lower price Nirvana is for folks like Mahathir This post has been edited by carloz28: Dec 29 2023, 12:15 PM
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MR_alien
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Dec 29 2023, 12:10 PM
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u best find funeral parlour on your own...they have packages like set menu u see in restaurant and the plot of land that u want to be buried on...own private land or owned by funeral parlour?
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Matchy
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Dec 29 2023, 12:10 PM
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nowadays, the funeral parlour such as nirvana should be able to handle everything for you.
else, contact the place where you bought the burial ground. they should be able to assist as well.
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MR_alien
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Dec 29 2023, 12:12 PM
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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM) hometown burial...avoid nirvana, engage local funeral parlour....it can be done cheap not everybody has the money for nirvana
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vapanel
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Dec 29 2023, 12:13 PM
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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM) What? Nirvana only 20k
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Treepex
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Dec 29 2023, 12:15 PM
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im sorry to say this but alot agent really waiting at hospital one
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andrekua2
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Dec 29 2023, 12:15 PM
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Kedai keranda is one stop service center ma...
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