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post Dec 29 2023, 12:18 PM

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QUOTE(tatmeng @ Dec 29 2023, 11:55 AM)
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Either Taoist or Buddhist rite. Likely Taoist.

The funeral shop will approach the family?

Any tip is appreciated. Thank you
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Taoist 2-3 times the price of Buddhist.
These days many Chinese opt for simple Buddhist.
And at funeral parlor. No need over night jaga. Less stressful for all.

Funeral shop networking is the bestest in the world.
Within 1 - 2 hour, da mai!

This post has been edited by DarkNite: Dec 29 2023, 12:19 PM
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(Treepex @ Dec 29 2023, 12:15 PM)
im sorry to say this
but alot agent really waiting at hospital one
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This.

You haven't even got time to grief and they already asking if you need their service. shakehead.gif
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:23 PM

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QUOTE(ycs @ Dec 29 2023, 12:00 PM)
funeral shop agent will appear soon enough;
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This.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:27 PM

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QUOTE(MR_alien @ Dec 29 2023, 12:12 PM)
hometown burial...avoid nirvana, engage local funeral parlour....it can be done cheap
not everybody has the money for nirvana
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True.
at home no need stress to jaga, just employ 2 to 3 from relas. From midnight to 7am.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:28 PM

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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM)
Prepare to pay >RM 30k.
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Got many package la.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:29 PM

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Sorry to hear this news brother.

BTW, how about the other stuff that you and family need to settle -- your father's property, houses, cars, FD, cash, EFP etc. Does he have a will, or set beneficiary for the EPF ?
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:29 PM

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Dec 29 2023, 12:13 PM)
What?

Nirvana only 20k
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Less then that if Christian.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:31 PM

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if got budget then go for nirvana

or "sub" to main contractor

because you wont be having enough time to sort out everything yourself

u just need to supervise on top to ensure no over quoting

taoist style they will keep replacing siew yok and chicken ..more expensive

buddhist style just sayur and fruit ..technically will be cheaper

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post Dec 29 2023, 12:33 PM

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QUOTE(ycs @ Dec 29 2023, 12:00 PM)
funeral shop agent will appear soon enough;
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The moment the name is a n the mourge logbook, instantly got people call offer funeral service.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:34 PM

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did your father leave any will behind?

It might stated how he wanna have his last ride.


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post Dec 29 2023, 12:34 PM

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Just prepare some cash.

The funeral agents will approach u within hours after death.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:34 PM

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U got burial land already why cremate? At the hospital will have ppl approach u edey
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:35 PM

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TS.... condolences to you and family
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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 29 2023, 12:06 PM)
Prepare to pay >RM 30k.
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Bak gum can cover. If Kenot means overspend above standard edey.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:37 PM

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Xiao Ern is another good option offering professional services. They have trained personnel that can coordinate everything for you.
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:37 PM

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Funeral prayers can ask the coffin shop or if u know ppl urself, u can contact taoist or buddhist temples for service.

Depends on preference, Taoist is more detailed, Buddhist is simpler
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:42 PM

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if got relative or friend know any funeral organiser then let them do lor,... if not, also no worry,.. there's some salesman lurking around hospital,.. they will approach u the moment your dad died,..

i kena b4,. when my dad died,.. within minutes got salesman approach me liao,.. i didn't scold them off, i just told them let me calm myself on the news 1st,.. b4 looking at their package,.. actually their price just around there depending how big u want funeral be,..
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post Dec 29 2023, 12:47 PM

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Condolences to you and your family

Usually agents will approach you quickly in hospital, but do take time to calm down first and consider later

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post Dec 29 2023, 12:48 PM

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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Dec 29 2023, 12:18 PM)
Taoist 2-3 times the price of Buddhist.
These days many Chinese opt for simple Buddhist.
And at funeral parlor. No need over night jaga. Less stressful for all.

Funeral shop networking is the bestest in the world.
Within 1 - 2 hour, da mai!
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yup,.. taoist one more complicated,.. buddhist one more cincai,.. but not 2x3 times lar,.. just a little bit expensive only depend on the package,.. special order will be add on price,..

and funeral parlor easier,.. b'cos save the the hassle to set up b4 the funeral and clean up after,..

This post has been edited by Cincai lar: Dec 29 2023, 12:48 PM
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