The male will say "no more wife material"/"pompuan jual mahal".
The female will say "no more husband material'/"all want piap only no true love".

On and on it goes, yet - wedding banquets are still fully book all year round (pls don't kira the pandemic ya).

And of course it is a gamble.
You wake up this morning, go toilet to take a piss, also gamble - you could probably slip - fall, crack your skull on the toilet-bowl, maybe you die on the spot OR you live a long life but paralyzed and confined to a wheelchair, who knows - still you went to piss.
Same thing when it comes to buy ToTo or investing in stock market - win some lose some.
Life itself is a gamble. We are all playing it. How you enrich it is up to you.

End of the day, it's really a "you do you" world. Go after what you want and if it happens to also fit your needs - that's a bonus itself
There will always be some form of pressure (whether it be from peers or family), how much you want to let it affect your decisions in life - it entirely up to you as well.