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Leto
post Jun 7 2023, 11:02 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 10:53 AM)
I know and she did told me that. She said she talk to me most. Other just ask and answer. But why so sudden just because I didn't hang 1k flower?
Before this I get to know a lady which is a local with proper job. Everything goes well suddenly she told me stop treating her well and missing again? Before this told me luckily she met me because I treat her well.
I don't have much money to spend on them to be honest. At first I did said I wont go this kind of place because I don't have much money and very noisy. She understand it and continue to be my friend.
Said she want a guy that can take care about her not financially. But why so sudden missing? Just because I go 1 time did not hang flower?
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no money then move on bro
find local girl

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post Jun 7 2023, 11:34 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 6 2023, 08:28 PM)
Sorry for long story.

2 weeks ago I play wechat and I successfully added a vietmoi. She look like local chinese then after I added her only I know she is vietmoi. We have unlimited topic to talk with. When we get closer, she started to video call me.
She look so pretty although I know she work at TFC place. Actually I didn't mind she work at TFC as we are friend. As times goes by I started to fall in love with her. She know that I like her, she will take her picture to me before she work and show me how she wear, reach the place she work she will inform me, finish work also will video call me. I never feel like I have this kind of happiness before. Yesterday she told me she sick because did not reply me much.
She said she going work and I offer to fetch her and she say no because her customer will fetch her home. After that she no longer reply me till now. I know fall in love with a TFC girl is kind of stupid but I middle age and did not have any relationship almost 4 years. I am dry. Guys, what should I do?
Disclaimer: reasonable tembak ok? I very hurt already.
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You want to know if the girl is into you hang out cheap place for 6 months to 1 year+. After 6 months generally you will start to see clearly cause no blood flowing to your little brother.

By hanging out for 6 months to 1 year at cheap place like economy rice stall, you will see if she's after your money. Do not spend much on her in these period. If she's after your money trust me, she will leave.
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:40 AM

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You just lack of options my brother.
Invest into yourself more socially physically and mentally.
Your vibe will change and attraction begins.

Or

You can keep giving excuses and stay the same.

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post Jun 7 2023, 11:42 AM

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QUOTE(ctys2012 @ Jun 6 2023, 08:38 PM)
its bad news bro, u know they are not real right? its just a way to flirt with you and get your attention and then your money.

i could be wrong, let me know if she agrees to stop working in TFC and marry you for real.

good luck.
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Haha..after u married with her..standby...she take ur child back to Vietnam...
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:44 AM

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dangerous game
TFC girls are human too. you could TRY but always tell yourself that if you see a hint that shes trying to take advantage of you. CUT IT OFF.
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:46 AM

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QUOTE(Leto @ Jun 7 2023, 11:02 AM)
no money then move on bro
find local girl
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Really don't have true love in TFC? She told me her sister found true love in TFC and get married.

QUOTE(Ramjade @ Jun 7 2023, 11:34 AM)
You want to know if the girl is into you hang out cheap place for 6 months to 1 year+. After 6 months generally you will start to see clearly cause no blood flowing to your little brother.

By hanging out for 6 months to 1 year at cheap place like economy rice stall, you will see if she's after your money. Do not spend much on her in these period. If she's after your money trust me, she will leave.
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I did do that to local girl and all failed. After that i try to bring them to a bit premium place and still failed.

QUOTE(mothangel @ Jun 7 2023, 11:40 AM)
You just lack of options my brother.
Invest into yourself more socially physically and mentally.
Your vibe will change and attraction begins.

Or

You can keep giving excuses and stay the same.
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I'm not fat nor thin. Just i afraid to talk maybe because i bald?
TSFnLockSpace
post Jun 7 2023, 11:49 AM

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QUOTE(maxmove2nd @ Jun 7 2023, 11:42 AM)
Haha..after u married with her..standby...she take ur child back to Vietnam...
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She did told me she prefer Malaysia lifestyle. If really marry here and she not going back because her sister married to local. So I assume won't lari my kids back to vietnam?

QUOTE(exsea @ Jun 7 2023, 11:44 AM)
dangerous game
TFC girls are human too. you could TRY but always tell yourself that if you see a hint that shes trying to take advantage of you. CUT IT OFF.
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Cannot try anymore. Don't want reply me. Yesterday i go to the place she work but didn't enter. Don't know why. Maybe scare to see those uncle raba raba her. I really too stupid.🥹
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:50 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 10:53 AM)
I know and she did told me that. She said she talk to me most. Other just ask and answer. But why so sudden just because I didn't hang 1k flower?
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she replying yet?


btw you can read thru pocoloco threads with cambodia girl

great example

This post has been edited by hightechgadgets8: Jun 7 2023, 11:54 AM
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:52 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 11:49 AM)
She did told me she prefer Malaysia lifestyle. If really marry here and she not going back because her sister married to local. So I assume won't lari my kids back to vietnam?
Cannot try anymore. Don't want reply me. Yesterday i go to the place she work but didn't enter. Don't know why. Maybe scare to see those uncle raba raba her. I really too stupid.🥹
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i ll say this.

if you wanna chase such a girl. NEVER KNOW ABOUT HER WORK.

if it bothers you. then just cut off.

its not uncommon that such girls could sleep with certain customers.

if you cant accept it. move on.

dont try anymore then.

i hope your heart recovers.
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post Jun 7 2023, 11:56 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 6 2023, 08:28 PM)
Sorry for long story.

2 weeks ago I play wechat and I successfully added a vietmoi. She look like local chinese then after I added her only I know she is vietmoi. We have unlimited topic to talk with. When we get closer, she started to video call me.
She look so pretty although I know she work at TFC place. Actually I didn't mind she work at TFC as we are friend. As times goes by I started to fall in love with her. She know that I like her, she will take her picture to me before she work and show me how she wear, reach the place she work she will inform me, finish work also will video call me. I never feel like I have this kind of happiness before. Yesterday she told me she sick because did not reply me much.
She said she going work and I offer to fetch her and she say no because her customer will fetch her home. After that she no longer reply me till now. I know fall in love with a TFC girl is kind of stupid but I middle age and did not have any relationship almost 4 years. I am dry. Guys, what should I do?
Disclaimer: reasonable tembak ok? I very hurt already.
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becareful of becoming water fish. Their MO is always catching fish like you...
Leto
post Jun 7 2023, 01:30 PM

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QUOTE(loki @ Jun 7 2023, 11:56 AM)
becareful of becoming water fish. Their MO is always catching fish like you...
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exactly, sweet talk is their professional behaviour
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post Jun 7 2023, 02:38 PM

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oh my...


this is not going to end well

my advice, just stay away before your heart get broken, i seen too many sad ending for this type of relationship
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post Jun 7 2023, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jun 7 2023, 11:50 AM)
she replying yet?
btw you can read thru pocoloco threads with cambodia girl

great example
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No longer reply me. I do not know what happen? Maybe I did not hang that RM1000 flower? That day I just bring RM600. Pocoloco thread? Do you have the link?

QUOTE(exsea @ Jun 7 2023, 11:52 AM)
i ll say this.

if you wanna chase such a girl. NEVER KNOW ABOUT HER WORK.

if it bothers you. then just cut off.

its not uncommon that such girls could sleep with certain customers.

if you cant accept it. move on.

dont try anymore then.

i hope your heart recovers.
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Haiz.... She said her previous boyfriend hurt her so much. I told her don't find bf at such place. Was thinking she gonna choose me but in the end maybe I'm just 1 of her potential customer?

QUOTE(loki @ Jun 7 2023, 11:56 AM)
becareful of becoming water fish. Their MO is always catching fish like you...
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I believe that. Before that still mention I can chase her but take it slowly to monitor. After visit her the place and did not hang flower, getting lesser talk and gone just like that.

QUOTE(Leto @ Jun 7 2023, 01:30 PM)
exactly, sweet talk is their professional behaviour
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Ya if compare to local. Local mouth so hard to open. Won't tell you anything. Not willing to share.

QUOTE(billy3336 @ Jun 7 2023, 02:38 PM)
oh my...
this is not going to end well

my advice, just stay away before your heart get broken, i seen too many sad ending for this type of relationship
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I kena fuck by my boss today for doing shit work. Totally cannot concentrate. I thinking that I did not find any girl in TFC place then I can avoid such scenario. In the end, I still kena! cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif
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post Jun 7 2023, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 03:53 PM)

I kena fuck by my boss today for doing shit work. Totally cannot concentrate. I thinking that I did not find any girl in TFC place then I can avoid such scenario. In the end, I still kena!  cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif
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like others said, she might treat u as water fish, just avoid it

keep urself busy, try to forget about her

yes u might be bald and middle age,so what? no need to feel desperate, even fat old dude can score young lady, just improve urself and keep ur option open

I'm introvert just like you, i seldom go out at all, but after my break-up recently,i try to run and hiking, even if u do it solo, it's fine, in fact,even better


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post Jun 7 2023, 04:15 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 03:53 PM)
No longer reply me. I do not know what happen? Maybe I did not hang that RM1000 flower? That day I just bring RM600. Pocoloco thread? Do you have the link?
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https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5351602&hl=
https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5360158&hl=

move along, many other fish in the sea
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post Jun 7 2023, 04:29 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 03:53 PM)

Haiz.... She said her previous boyfriend hurt her so much. I told her don't find bf at such place. Was thinking she gonna choose me but in the end maybe I'm just 1 of her potential customer?

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never date a person who has not healed.

jada was a broken woman who loved tupac with all her heart.

will thought he could show her how life can be good. he treat her well and try his best to be a model black man.

what he got is her bringing him on a podcast to publically inform him that shes banging his son's friend.

she also openly tells her daughter shit like how she would have prefered tupac.

fuck that bitch.

will smith used to be someone i looked up to. she brought him down and made him into a bitch.
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post Jun 7 2023, 04:30 PM

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She sacrifice her comfort zone in her home town all the way to here,
sacrifice all the soft skill she can learn and just work in TFC.

Please stand in her shoes, she came here with a plan to earn money, not doing charity.
Open what own business if her working experience is only with working in TFC?

TFC good example? she just trying to tell you it is exactly fine to invest on people like her.

But anyways when you are blinded by love you hardly understand whoever trying to convince you here,
but it will all start to makes sense when you start moving on.
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no matters TFC or ktv..
play can dun put real heart inside..
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post Jun 7 2023, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 11:46 AM)
I did do that to local girl and all failed. After that i try to bring them to a bit premium place and still failed.
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You haven't try hard and haven't meet the right giel. If the girl likes you she would be ok with eating at at economy rice stall, kopitiam.

This is my way of testing girls. Girls who don't want to eat at those place, I don't need to continue the relationship already.
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post Jun 7 2023, 05:44 PM

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QUOTE(billy3336 @ Jun 7 2023, 04:05 PM)
like others said, she might treat u as water fish, just avoid it

keep urself busy, try to forget about her

yes u might be bald and middle age,so what? no need to feel desperate, even fat old dude can score young lady, just improve urself and keep ur option open

I'm introvert just like you, i seldom go out at all, but after my break-up recently,i try to run and hiking, even if u do it solo, it's fine, in fact,even better
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Yup. I try my best to make myself busy and don't think about her. I hope it could be as short as possible. This kind of feeling it's hurting me!

QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jun 7 2023, 04:15 PM)
When I healed, I look for new fish. I should know that I am not handsome and why she willing to spend her time on me without asking me a single cent. I am too stupid.

QUOTE(exsea @ Jun 7 2023, 04:29 PM)
never date a person who has not healed.

jada was a broken woman who loved tupac with all her heart.

will thought he could show her how life can be good. he treat her well and try his best to be a model black man.

what he got is her bringing him on a podcast to publically inform him that shes banging his son's friend.

she also openly tells her daughter shit like how she would have prefered tupac.

fuck that bitch.

will smith used to be someone i looked up to. she brought him down and made him into a bitch.
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I know she is a bitch long time ago.

QUOTE(zero5177 @ Jun 7 2023, 04:30 PM)
She sacrifice her comfort zone in her home town all the way to here,
sacrifice all the soft skill she can learn and just work in TFC.

Please stand in her shoes, she came here with a plan to earn money, not doing charity.
Open what own business if her working experience is only with working in TFC?

TFC good example? she just trying to tell you it is exactly fine to invest on people like her.

But anyways when you are blinded by love you hardly understand whoever trying to convince you here,
but it will all start to makes sense when you start moving on.
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I trying my best. I know I should stop thinking about her as soon as possible. That's why I did tell her maybe there are a lot of skill she can learn from vietnam and come here work like maybe barista for vietnam coffee? or learn to cook some vietnam dishes. Anyway I too naive. TFC easier to earn money.

QUOTE(lalakiki @ Jun 7 2023, 04:36 PM)
no matters TFC or ktv..
play can dun put real heart inside..
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Yalor. I didn't expect i also 1 of the victim. cry.gif


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