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 In love with vietmoi, What should I do?

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Ramjade
post Jun 7 2023, 11:34 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 6 2023, 08:28 PM)
Sorry for long story.

2 weeks ago I play wechat and I successfully added a vietmoi. She look like local chinese then after I added her only I know she is vietmoi. We have unlimited topic to talk with. When we get closer, she started to video call me.
She look so pretty although I know she work at TFC place. Actually I didn't mind she work at TFC as we are friend. As times goes by I started to fall in love with her. She know that I like her, she will take her picture to me before she work and show me how she wear, reach the place she work she will inform me, finish work also will video call me. I never feel like I have this kind of happiness before. Yesterday she told me she sick because did not reply me much.
She said she going work and I offer to fetch her and she say no because her customer will fetch her home. After that she no longer reply me till now. I know fall in love with a TFC girl is kind of stupid but I middle age and did not have any relationship almost 4 years. I am dry. Guys, what should I do?
Disclaimer: reasonable tembak ok? I very hurt already.
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You want to know if the girl is into you hang out cheap place for 6 months to 1 year+. After 6 months generally you will start to see clearly cause no blood flowing to your little brother.

By hanging out for 6 months to 1 year at cheap place like economy rice stall, you will see if she's after your money. Do not spend much on her in these period. If she's after your money trust me, she will leave.
Ramjade
post Jun 7 2023, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 11:46 AM)
I did do that to local girl and all failed. After that i try to bring them to a bit premium place and still failed.
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You haven't try hard and haven't meet the right giel. If the girl likes you she would be ok with eating at at economy rice stall, kopitiam.

This is my way of testing girls. Girls who don't want to eat at those place, I don't need to continue the relationship already.
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post Jun 7 2023, 08:14 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 7 2023, 05:45 PM)
In the end, did you manage to find the one that willing to eat economy rice stall and kopitiam with you for quite some time?
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Surprisingly yes. Of course not the first date bring people go eat there. On and off la eat at economy rice stall and kopitiam.

For me I walk the talk and not just NATO only.

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post Jun 8 2023, 12:33 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 8 2023, 12:17 AM)
Of cos I hope she is genuine. If really need help I definitely will help. It seems like she doesn't need my help at all. No la. I'm not looking for sex. I looking for someone really care about me and love me.
Maybe should I said one of the rare case? I hope I got a girl like that as well. My friend did ask me go gym and build up some muscle. Just that I hate to visit gym whereby those muscular man like to show off muscle and conquer those equipment for long time.
Right now need time use to heal my wound and get a decent car. Not myvi anymore.
Not bad. I hope I will meet this kind of girl someday. She did tell me she prefer street food rather than luxury restaurant which caught my attention. Was thinking found the 1 I want. In the end still the same.  cry.gif
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You don't know if she's playing other guys the same way too.

It's all lust. Like I said hang out, chill and come back after 6-8 months time. If after 6-8 months time you still feel the same by all means go ahead. Keep in mind if you want to marry her, lots of paperwork both side.

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post Jun 8 2023, 04:16 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 8 2023, 02:15 PM)
When i get to know her that time, she haven't work back TFC. Only recently starting to work back and start changing. Erm... I don't think she will reply me anymore because i might not her potential candidate. Or she think i didn't keep my promise?
I keep my myvi until now because my myvi doesn't give me any issue at all. Small reliable car and also can filter gold digger. But my friend told me, you 35 years old driving myvi and girl will think like you are not financially stable hence look for better guy. No girl on the first day go and see how big your house is? First impression very important. I always make initiative to pay first and said hie about next meal you treat me back? So that i have chance to meet them again but in the end always single way no return.
No idea. Maybe after work no car go home then need customer fetch but she refuse me to fetch her. Haiz...
Ya i am too stupid in relationships stuff. Always in the end I'm the 1 who injured. Too easily trust people.
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Like I said hang out, chill with her and see how after 6-8 months. That time you will be able to think more clearly.

Myvi is a good car to filter out gold digger. No need follow your friend.
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post Feb 23 2024, 08:02 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Feb 21 2024, 04:10 PM)
I didnt't on purpose to find TFC girl. Male eventually look for attractive girl. I have meet up some girl from dating app who is not that attractive too. Even some didnt talk to me again after meet up. They just put their requirement too high?
Sometimes I feel like even can't be couple at least can be friend? No.... If I am not wealthy rich or sweet talk liar or super handsome guy, I am doomed to be single. My friend told me not all girl will demand guy not to bald. Ya I know, but I can't meet one of them. Some of them meet me just for MLM.
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If you keep going for attractive girls, good luck. Find girls that are not so pretty and they will treat you better. Reason is they know they don't have the looks, so they makeup for it in terms of personality.

Don't just think of sex.

 

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