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post Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM, updated 2 months ago

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What's the purpose of life, actually? Just wondering...

Have you all ever thought even once in your life about what is the purpose of living here?

I mean, we're born into this world, go to school, eat and sleep, find a job just to stay alive.

Maybe buy a car, buy property, get married, have children.

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Then we think even deeply that all the stuff we do is actually useless and doesn't worth it.

Any opinions?


life is about resilience.

When we face failure, it's a chance to learn, grow, and try again.

Success is often not defined by never falling, but by how we rise after falling.

It's the ability to keep pushing forward, adapting, and finding new ways to achieve our goals that ultimately leads to success.


correct?





Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?


Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?


Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?



What do you regret the most in your life?




Throughout our lives,


1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,

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7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,

9)retire at age 65 or 68 ( Starting in 2026, the system may shift from a lump-sum withdrawal to monthly withdrawals, potentially impacting all members born in 1980 or later. )

10)and eventually pass away.

What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?


Do we live like cow ?





"We're all going to die one day. Is there any achievement or purpose to life?


Someone answered: 'Happiness.' To be happy, we need money, so we work hard all our lives to earn it. However, most of us hate the work we do, meaning every moment is unhappy.



Day after day, we feel further away from the goal of happiness due to education debt, home loans, medical bills, and the cycle of working every day just to make money for the rest of our 70 years. What do we get at the end of it?


Some of us never achieve anything and therefore aren't happy. Some of us accumulate wealth and power but still aren't happy. Let's say you have 100 million today, like everyone else.



One day you die and return to the soil. In 2024, you die; 100 years later, in 2124, does your 100 million have any meaning? No one will remember you. Your 100 million may be important to you, but no one else knows it.



You'll be found out! Will there be WW3, WW4, or in 2200, maybe Earth won't exist, or humanity will be extinct like the dinosaurs, leaving no trace of human life on Earth. So, what's your goal? There will be no one there to remember you."







DISCUSS IT.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Suggest you listen to Alan Watts. You'll find your answers there
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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:46 PM)
Suggest you listen to Alan Watts. You'll find your answers there
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Their marriage ended eleven years later, but Watts continued to exchange letters with his mother-in-law, Ruth Fuller Everett. In the 1960s, Watts and his wife Mary Jane lived in Sausalito, California. In his later years, he sometimes lived in a houseboat and other times in his cabin on Mount Tamalpais.


Due to societal and economic pressures, he frequently used alcohol to numb himself, which worsened his health.


In October 1973, Watts returned to his cabin on Mount Tamalpais exhausted after giving lectures in Europe. He died in his sleep the following month from heart failure at the age of 58.




Bondi Blue: If life has no meaning, what drives humanity to continue living it to the fullest?







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to enjoy by having able to see the wonders of earth

n to do this, need money

so work hard to make money
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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BORN -> STUDY -> WORK -> MARRY -> PROCREATE/Have CHILDREN -> RETIRE -> DIE

If only the rich who has so much excess and living comfortably share their wealth to the unfortunate.

Say you own 1000 homes, have a set of 50 luxury cars, 10 wives, 20 children Eat Michelin Restaurants >4Meals a day, go holiday overseas several times a year.

When you die you cannot take them along with you. Instead with the excess you have, why not donate to the needy and the unfortunate. Let everyone remember you when you die and tell the story of you as a saint when you were still alive?

The rest as King Solomon says are MEANINGLESS in the Ecclesiastes book he authored.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:49 PM)
Their marriage ended eleven years later, but Watts continued to exchange letters with his mother-in-law, Ruth Fuller Everett. In the 1960s, Watts and his wife Mary Jane lived in Sausalito, California. In his later years, he sometimes lived in a houseboat and other times in his cabin on Mount Tamalpais.
Due to societal and economic pressures, he frequently used alcohol to numb himself, which worsened his health.
In October 1973, Watts returned to his cabin on Mount Tamalpais exhausted after giving lectures in Europe. He died in his sleep the following month from heart failure at the age of 58.
Bondi Blue: If life has no meaning, what drives humanity to continue living it to the fullest?
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Asking you to checkout his work on philosophy. Not his life

Just pointing out with good intention since you wanted to understand the meaning of life

Seems like you're more focus on finding the bad in others. Can't help you

Wish you all the best
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Yi / Shi / Zhu / Sin
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The more knowledge you seek, the more sorrow/sadness will haunt you.

The more world material you seek the more fearful you will become because you fear someone will overtake you one day or steal all your belongings.

Death will eventually take everything from you one day and you'll not be able to take it along with you.
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every consciousness, including you, me., plants. animals are all part of the universe.

lessons learnt by conscious beings alters the total intelligence of the universe

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QUOTE(ze2 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:49 PM)
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Piap, piap, piap....
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QUOTE(ikankering @ Apr 7 2023, 10:45 PM)
life is about make money.
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making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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QUOTE(blek @ Apr 7 2023, 11:04 PM)
making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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Between born and death, your purpose is to make it liveable and tenable. Just save more money for rainy days and keep yourself happy and healthy.
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QUOTE(ikankering @ Apr 7 2023, 10:45 PM)
life is about make money.
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bro ur IT literate... can't write a trading bot n make money for you ... really a failure...

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QUOTE(blek @ Apr 7 2023, 11:04 PM)
making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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ok.target how many now reached?
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for me life is about hedonism and i will seek it any way possible.

The Modern Definition of Hedonism

When hedonism first appeared in English in the middle of the 19th century, it referred to the doctrines of certain schools of philosophy in ancient Greece (such as the Epicureans and Cyrenaics), who held that happiness or pleasure constituted the chief goal in life. As used today, the word frequently carries a judgmental tinge. If someone is described as living a life of hedonism, the implication is that he or she derives happiness from debauchery rather than, say, spending quality time with family or forming meaningful relationships at work. Hedonism comes from the Greek hēdonē (“pleasure”), which also provides the root of the word anhedonia (“a psychological condition characterized by inability to experience pleasure in normally pleasurable acts”).
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I can tell you what is the meaning of life from a globalist mega rich psychopath point of view.

Be their slave and serve the state. Like an ant. Without the state, you are nothing. You have no purpose.

Actually many are already doing this happily, although they refuse to acknowledge it.

Oh, and eat ze bugs like a slave.
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QUOTE(Hobbez @ Apr 7 2023, 11:07 PM)
I can tell you what is the meaning of life from a globalist mega rich psychopath point of view.

Be their slave and serve the state. Like an ant. Without the state, you are nothing. You have no purpose.

Actually many are already doing this happily, although they refuse to acknowledge it.

Oh, and eat ze bugs like a slave.
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Everyone will meet death leaving the world. You only need comfort, food and companionship through your life until your life ends. Not over abundance which everything is wasted.
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everything human created , for a purpose.
we create cuisines, devices, tools,and things for a purpose.

just like us human, the answer is from our creator. Hopefully you find answer through the truth channel.


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QUOTE(Hobbez @ Apr 7 2023, 11:07 PM)
I can tell you what is the meaning of life from a globalist mega rich psychopath point of view.

Be their slave and serve the state. Like an ant. Without the state, you are nothing. You have no purpose.

Actually many are already doing this happily, although they refuse to acknowledge it.

Oh, and eat ze bugs like a slave.
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That is how moderation and simple life destroys their plans. Do nothing but enjoy everything around you with every opportunity. Earn enough just to give you comfort, protection and food and die without wasting them on others.
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QUOTE(Kaya Butter Toast @ Apr 7 2023, 11:07 PM)
for me life is about hedonism and i will seek it any way possible.

The Modern Definition of Hedonism

When hedonism first appeared in English in the middle of the 19th century, it referred to the doctrines of certain schools of philosophy in ancient Greece (such as the Epicureans and Cyrenaics), who held that happiness or pleasure constituted the chief goal in life. As used today, the word frequently carries a judgmental tinge. If someone is described as living a life of hedonism, the implication is that he or she derives happiness from debauchery rather than, say, spending quality time with family or forming meaningful relationships at work. Hedonism comes from the Greek hēdonē (“pleasure”), which also provides the root of the word anhedonia (“a psychological condition characterized by inability to experience pleasure in normally pleasurable acts”).
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"Psychological hedonism" is the theory that all human actions are driven by the pursuit of pleasure.
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QUOTE(vhs1 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:03 PM)
Piap, piap, piap....
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Yap...lots of it
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:15 PM)
"Psychological hedonism" is the theory that all human actions are driven by the pursuit of pleasure.
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Even pleasure has its limits and setbacks for a mere human.

What pleasure when you have say 100 luxury homes/mansions/palaces, 50 sport luxury cars parked in your garage, a Michelin personal chef to your personal needs, 20 wives, tenths of children.

Do they follow you when you die? Can you stay in 100 houses all by yourself? Drive 50 cars which you owned? Bed all 20 wives when you sleep? Dedicate your time on every child you have?
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What is the point of living when we all will eventually die anyway

Is there life after death? I can only find this out when my time comes

What is life?
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Life is about working hard your whole life to make money. When you are old enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then your money will be scammed by scammers or char siew son.
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QUOTE(ze2 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:17 PM)
Yap...lots of it
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King Solomon is believed to have 300 or more wives. Everyday he piap until he fedup. Later his wives started introducing problems to his life. Made him worship idols and forget God. Took away his concentration in making strategic decisions and almost destroyed his country.
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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Apr 7 2023, 11:20 PM)
Life is about working hard your whole life to make money. When you are old enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then your money will be scammed by scammers or char siew son.
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Then your charsiew son will also have charsiew sons until all burnt and nothing left with no descendants.

After that?
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From buddhist / Taoist pov, v will b reincarnated again n again until v learn our life lessons, repay all our “karma debts”… so try to do as much good / clear as much karma debts at every opportunity ?
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Then your charsiew son will also have charsiew sons until all burnt and nothing left with no descendants.

After that?
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QUOTE(potatolala @ Apr 7 2023, 11:20 PM)
What is the point of living when we all will eventually die anyway

Is there life after death? I can only find this out when my time comes

What is life?
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reincarnation?

https://malaysia.kinokuniya.com/Many_Lives,...w/9780749913786
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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Apr 7 2023, 11:20 PM)
Life is about working hard your whole life to make money. When you are old enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then your money will be scammed by scammers or char siew son.
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Even if money not scammed away, most will find out they no longer got healthy body or the mindset to enjoy their hard labour.
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QUOTE(ze2 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:49 PM)
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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Apr 7 2023, 11:20 PM)
Life is about working hard your whole life to make money. When you are old enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then your money will be scammed by scammers or char siew son.
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Ever heard org tua2 cerita:
Charsiew son is believed 2 come 2 collect karma debt fr parents tis life. As for scammers, they could b after u cos past life u done them wrong… repayment time! certain events, why tis why tat etc all can b explain tis way… ?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:15 PM)
"Psychological hedonism" is the theory that all human actions are driven by the pursuit of pleasure.
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world would be a lot peaceful if everyone aim for pleasure instead of religious indoctrination bullshit
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 7 2023, 11:26 PM)
From buddhist / Taoist pov, v will b reincarnated again n again until v learn our life lessons, repay all our “karma debts”… so try to do as much good / clear as much karma debts at every opportunity ?
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There is actually scholar citing and proof that the idea of reincarnation actually exists in Christian scriptures but was purposely removed by the Roman Emperor Justinian I because he feared that the souls could undermine the authority of the emperor, and even belittle the attributed supremacy of the church

Modern day science and Quantum Physics is now bringing back the possibility that multiverse exists and when a soul leaves a body it will transmigrate into another new body and life which is based on the karma/life of before.

https://www.amazon.com/Reincarnation-Remove...k/dp/B0927HLD75
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I often ask myself about the meaning of life,, why would human being has to work, for some people, for their whole dam life just to earn penny, end up died in sick or accident eventually
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 7 2023, 11:40 PM)
Ever heard org tua2 cerita:
Charsiew son is believed 2 come 2 collect karma debt fr parents tis life. As for scammers, they could b after u cos past life u done them wrong… repayment time! certain events, why tis why tat etc all can b explain tis way… ?
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Maybe. So that nice innocent guy you ill treated last life reincarnated as scammer this life? Macam not right.
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It's all about eat, work, piap, sleep.

What you eat / or what you can afford / enjoy to eat;
Where you work, what you can achieve in work;
Which / How / who you piap / you can piap;
How well / where you can sleep after all that you have done.

These defines the meaning of life.


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QUOTE(The.Lucas.DaY @ Apr 7 2023, 11:53 PM)
I often ask myself about the meaning of life,, why would human being has to work, for some people, for their whole dam life just to earn penny, end up died in sick or accident eventually
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It's all about eat, work, piap, sleep.

What you eat / or what you can afford / enjoy to eat;
Where you work, what you can achieve in work;
Which / How / who you piap / you can piap;
How well / where you can sleep after all that you have done.

These defines the meaning of life.
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Should you inherit this world you will still die one day and leave it all to someone else. All your work and efforts sia-sia only when you waste all your life earning it. Charsiew child takes over but that's not you it's still someone else and worst burn it all away for you making you jump out of grave?
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Life is about coming back from home after a long day at home.
Take a hot shower then put on a Micky Mouse broken T-shirt, flip on 24 inch LED monitor and reading this topic while taking a sip of Angela Sandy.
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QUOTE(blek @ Apr 7 2023, 11:04 PM)
making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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Won't it feel meaningless after few times. Like first 50 maybe ok la hnnnghhh


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Whatever makes you happy, go do it as long it doesn't break any laws.

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Life is about working hard your whole life to make money. When you are old enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then your money will be scammed by scammers or char siew son.
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Seems like Angela shandy made u drunk that u came back home from home
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I mentioned many time I work at my parent's house basement
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I memang work from home ma.

I mentioned many time I work at my parent's house basement
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56. And I created not the Jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me. 57. I seek not any provision from them nor do I ask that they should feed Me.

https://www.alim.org/quran/tafsir/ibn-kathir/surah/51/52/
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I memang work from home ma.

I mentioned many time I work at my parent's house basement
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i also cant find the answer
i find answer until gave up liao

i just live my furgal live till i die jer
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for me personally:

to seek fun and chase things that excites me
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purpose of life is finding meaning in the purpose of your life
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Life is about waiting to die.
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life is short,short is life
life is long,long is life
long life,short life,half life,full life
life is L I F E
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just be contemp with what u got...dont compare human with human...
eat sleep got chance then fak.... rince n repeat till die

at least we all got 'freedom' that alone is the biggest thing

at this point i aready stop looking for the answer of 'what is life' its a bottomless pit

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Life is about the value you can bring to other people. See this post I just wrote on Facebook:

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid...mibextid=Nif5oz

I don't regret anything.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:49 PM)
Their marriage ended eleven years later, but Watts continued to exchange letters with his mother-in-law, Ruth Fuller Everett. In the 1960s, Watts and his wife Mary Jane lived in Sausalito, California. In his later years, he sometimes lived in a houseboat and other times in his cabin on Mount Tamalpais.
Due to societal and economic pressures, he frequently used alcohol to numb himself, which worsened his health.
In October 1973, Watts returned to his cabin on Mount Tamalpais exhausted after giving lectures in Europe. He died in his sleep the following month from heart failure at the age of 58.
Bondi Blue: If life has no meaning, what drives humanity to continue living it to the fullest?
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survival is an effort of getting away from dying,..
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Be an ant, work and work and work and work, when u expire, u die and nobody cares.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Piak piak as many as you can blush.gif
Get Piak piak by as many as you can

Choose one of the above
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Apr 8 2023, 03:19 AM)
i also cant find the answer
i find answer until gave up liao

i just live my furgal live till i die jer
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How is Cambodia?

Any nice village girls?
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How is Cambodia?

Any nice village girls?
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haven gone inside thier vilage
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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Apr 7 2023, 10:58 PM)
Life is about coming back from home after a long day at home.
Take a hot shower then put on a Micky Mouse broken T-shirt, flip on 24 inch LED monitor and reading this topic while taking a sip of Angela Sandy.
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lol...you nail it.....80% match my life...lol
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I ask Chatgpt to give you advise.

TLDR: You need to find out the meaning of your life yourself.
I elect Nietzsche, Heidegger, Kant, Confucius, Schopenhauer being my favourite approach to life.

Sycamore: Can you tell me what famous philosopher think about the meaning of life?

Chatgpt:

1. Aristotle: Aristotle believed that the meaning of life is to achieve happiness, which he called eudaimonia. According to him, happiness is achieved through a life of virtue and excellence, which involves using reason to develop good character and living in accordance with the moral virtues. He believed that humans are social animals and that a life of friendship and community is essential for achieving happiness.

2. Epicurus: Epicurus believed that the meaning of life is to achieve a state of tranquility and freedom from pain and anxiety, which he called ataraxia. According to him, this can be achieved by living a simple life of pleasure, but not excessive indulgence, and avoiding unnecessary desires and fears.

3. Friedrich Nietzsche: Nietzsche believed that life has no inherent meaning or purpose, and that individuals must create their own meaning through self-overcoming and the pursuit of their individual will to power. He believed that individuals should embrace the challenges of life and find meaning through their struggles, rather than seeking comfort or conformity.

4. Jean-Paul Sartre: Sartre believed that life has no inherent meaning, and that individuals are free to create their own meaning through their choices and actions. He believed that individuals should embrace their freedom and take responsibility for their lives, rather than relying on external factors or pre-determined destinies.

5. Martin Heidegger: Heidegger believed that the meaning of life is to exist in a state of authenticity, which involves being aware of one's mortality and the finite nature of existence. He believed that individuals should embrace the existential anxiety that comes with this awareness and strive to live a meaningful life, despite its inherent limitations.

6. Immanuel Kant: Kant believed that the ultimate goal of human life is to achieve a state of moral perfection or what he called the "Kingdom of Ends," where all individuals act in accordance with the universal moral law. He believed that the meaning of life is not derived from external factors such as wealth, power, or pleasure, but rather from the internal pursuit of fulfilling one's moral duty.

7. Confucius: Confucius believed that the meaning of life is to achieve harmony with oneself, others, and the world. According to him, this can be achieved by following the moral principles of benevolence, righteousness, and respect for tradition, and cultivating the virtues of wisdom, courage, and sincerity.

8. Arthur Schopenhauer: Schopenhauer believed that life is full of suffering and that the only way to achieve meaning is to transcend the individual will and embrace a state of detachment and inner peace. According to him, this can be achieved through the contemplation of beauty, art, and nature, and the realization that all individuals are part of the same universal will.

9. Plato: Plato believed that the meaning of life is to achieve knowledge and understanding of the eternal Forms or Ideas that underlie the material world. According to him, this can be achieved through a life of philosophy and the pursuit of truth and wisdom, which involves transcending the physical world and accessing the realm of the Forms.

10. Simone de Beauvoir: de Beauvoir believed that the meaning of life is to embrace one's freedom and reject the limitations that society imposes on individuals based on their gender, race, or class. She believed that individuals should strive to create their own identities and meaning, rather than conforming to societal norms or expectations.
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meaning of life is due to your parents itchy , the cacing went to an egg, and cells multiply, you got pushed out and survived like any mammal...

and then depending which sex organ you have, you TRY to reproduce the same DNA elsewhere.

the other stuff between is misc.

unless your reproduction organ is impaired, then your meaning in life is to complete the end-to-end feeding self til die of old age, diseases or accidents.


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I also ask Chatgpt to answer the question on what poets think about the meaning of life.
I like Emily Dickinson and Tagore's answer.

Sycamore: Can you tell me what many famous poet think about the meaning of life?

Chatgpt:

Certainly, I can give you an overview of what some of the most famous poets have said about the meaning of life. I will provide brief explanations of ten poets and their perspectives on the subject.

1. William Wordsworth: Wordsworth believed that the meaning of life can be found in nature and the contemplation of natural beauty. He believed that nature can inspire individuals to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

2. Emily Dickinson: Dickinson believed that the meaning of life can be found in the exploration of the self and the inner life of the mind. She believed that individuals should embrace their own unique perspectives and find meaning in the exploration of their own consciousness.

3. Walt Whitman: Whitman believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of individual freedom and self-expression. He believed that individuals should embrace their own unique identity and find meaning in the expression of their own thoughts and feelings.

4. Rumi: Rumi believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of spiritual enlightenment and the realization of the divine within oneself. He believed that individuals should cultivate their own inner light and seek to connect with the divine through meditation and contemplation.

5. T.S. Eliot: Eliot believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of transcendence and the exploration of the mysteries of the universe. He believed that individuals should seek to understand the deeper truths of existence and transcend their own individual selves.

6. Langston Hughes: Hughes believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of social justice and the liberation of oppressed peoples. He believed that individuals should work to create a more just and equitable society and find meaning in the pursuit of social change.

7. Pablo Neruda: Neruda believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of love and the exploration of human relationships. He believed that individuals should embrace their own passions and desires and find meaning in the connections they make with others.

8. Maya Angelou: Angelou believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of personal growth and the realization of one's full potential. She believed that individuals should embrace their own strengths and weaknesses and find meaning in the journey of self-discovery.

9. Rabindranath Tagore: Tagore believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of beauty and the expression of the human spirit. He believed that individuals should cultivate their own creative impulses and find meaning in the pursuit of artistic expression.

10. Percy Bysshe Shelley: Shelley believed that the meaning of life can be found in the pursuit of social progress and the transformation of society. He believed that individuals should work to create a more just and equitable world and find meaning in the pursuit of social change.

In conclusion, these are some of the perspectives on the meaning of life from ten famous poets. While they all approach the topic from different angles, they share a common belief in the importance of finding meaning and purpose in life through personal growth, social change, creativity, and spirituality.


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For me, the meaning of my life now is to enjoy my life with my wife with no kids.

Just the two of us doing things together, having meals together, sleeping together, doing laundry and housework together, growing old together.

As selfish as this may sound, but I hope to die before before her so that she can cremate me and throw into sea.

If really come a day if she passes before me, I would just go donate all my money, possession and go 14th floor.
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meaning of life is all about money..

to those that keep saying money doesnt mean anything in life, you're living in denial and cant accept the fact money can do wonders.

poor means poor, no need keep saying some motivating things to self comfort.
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QUOTE(blek @ Apr 7 2023, 11:04 PM)
making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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use money to create more money.

in real life. live poor.
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life is about a journey to find something meaningful in life.


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first of all, you have to know what life or existence is.

If you don't even know what it is , there is no point talking about meaning of life.
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This has been discussed here thousands of times...

There's no inherent meaning to life, life is just life, you create your own meaning.
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QUOTE(squareballs @ Apr 8 2023, 10:26 AM)
meaning of life is all about money..

to those that keep saying money doesnt mean anything in life, you're living in denial and cant accept the fact money can do wonders.

poor means poor, no need keep saying some motivating things to self comfort.
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you sounds miserable. its true that money is important, but any adult who worked hard and has a stable job dont really need to constantly echoing importance of money because money is not a problem to them. if its a problem to you, i am sorry lol.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Apr 8 2023, 06:03 AM)
just be contemp with what u got...dont compare human with human...
eat sleep got chance then fak.... rince n repeat till die

at least we all got 'freedom' that alone is the biggest thing

at this point i aready stop looking for the answer of 'what is life' its a bottomless pit
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 8 2023, 12:14 AM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 8 2023, 09:35 PM)
So your life ok?
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ok

now live furglly as usual and start save a bit , minght buy 2023 axia E after raya (haven launch yet)
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ok

now live furglly as usual and start save a bit , minght buy 2023 axia E after raya (haven launch yet)
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Red color hghhhhh
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QUOTE(squareballs @ Apr 8 2023, 10:26 AM)
meaning of life is all about money..

to those that keep saying money doesnt mean anything in life, you're living in denial and cant accept the fact money can do wonders.

poor means poor, no need keep saying some motivating things to self comfort.
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i got more than sufficient to foot the bill for my brothers hospitalization but at the end he couldn't make it.. so what money brings you? no matter how much you have there's something in life which can never be bought with money.

the best things in life are free.. u better start figuring out what are they.
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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Apr 9 2023, 03:35 AM)
Red color hghhhhh
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i think E spec only got white

hope price still same 25k

heard gov wan to remove fuel subsidi?

i really got no use of a car still...

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Apr 9 2023, 03:46 AM)
i think E spec only got white

hope price still same 25k

heard gov wan to remove fuel subsidi?

i really got no use of a car still...
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White not nice le. Easily kotor. Drive kl manual no susah? Buy the cheapest auto?
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White not nice le. Easily kotor. Drive kl manual no susah? Buy the cheapest auto?
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manual and auto price diff veli big

and i am used to manual anyway

i dun really care about a car exterior...
more on interiur kindda guy (audio system)
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QUOTE(kidmad @ Apr 9 2023, 03:46 AM)
the best things in life are free.. u better start figuring out what are they.
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To me, best free things in life are things like walking in a park, enjoying the flowers, having a picnic:
https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5370918&hl=

Family and loved ones healthy and happy

For the stuff that can be bought with money, it is things like travelling
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If not, then just live your life to the fullest.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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what are we doing here
and where are we gonna go?
it’s like we just woke up one morning
and then it’s welcome to the show
don’t ask any questions
just go with the flow
make as much money as you can
and try your best not to get broke
copy everything you see on the tv from the
hairstyles to the clothes and
don’t think too often
just do exactly as you’re told
and if you ever get confused then just turn towards the alcohol
you still hear your thoughts?
then just turn up the radio
as you, learn to live a lifestyle of
drugs
sex
and
rock n roll

but in all honesty
i just need to know
is there more to the cycle than
growing and getting old
living and dying just to
leave behind a happy home and a
whole lot of property that
somebody else is going to own
i just really need to know before the
caskets closed
cause i’m not
willing to gamble with my soul nor am i
ready to take any chances
these are just simple life questions and i’m just
searching for some answers

like what are we doing here
and what is our purpose
how did we get here and
who made us so perfect?
and what happens once we go or is this
world all really worth it
questions we don’t answer because
apparently, we don’t really have to
there’s no purpose to this life and our existence is merely natural?
then in that case please let me ask you
did you create yourself or was it somebody else who had fashioned you?
cause you’re a being that’s impeccable
faultless and unparalleled
you are a product of Supreme Intelligence and i’m
merely being rational

for there isn’t a camera on this earth that can come close to the human eye
nor a computer that can compete
alongside the human mind
and if the
whole world was to come together we wouldn’t be able to create a single fly
so many signs yet we
still deny
as science tries to justify that
all this could come from none
when it’s a simple sum
zero plus zero plus zero cannot possibly ever give you one
so from where did all this
order come?

for everything has its origins
a Maker, a Creator of its Own
i mean the only reason your watching this video is because somebody had to press upload
so we can believe in the Big Bang but I’d rather
believe in He who caused it
to explode
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life is about makes oneself become happy

if kahwin happy then kahwin

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most people want to make money
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most people dont like work therefore everyone want to save money for retirement, therefore when looking for a job, ask yourself, if kena loteri 1000 million will you still continue that work



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According to sohai kevin sexy sarah life is all about money and you are a failure in life if you are poor. That's why he busy licking his clients asses now.
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as a multi celled organism... you membiak jer!.... be it intelligent or sihambodoh... aim is to multiply and spread your seed to sustain human population in hopes that we dont get depopulated in the process by our own doing...

anything else like... work..getting married... buy a house, a car.. getting a degree.... travel... business... = IS ALL NOISE!...
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Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
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QUOTE(kidmad @ Apr 9 2023, 03:46 AM)
i got more than sufficient to foot the bill for my brothers hospitalization but at the end he couldn't make it.. so what money brings you? no matter how much you have there's something in life which can never be bought with money.

the best things in life are free.. u better start figuring out what are they.
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At least u have the money to try the best treatment, even the patient could not make it.

What if you’re poor and can’t afford the best treatment? And the patient passed away and you’ll regret for not being rich. (Even in the end the best treatment couldn’t save him, at least you tried)

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life is about makes oneself become happy

if kahwin happy then kahwin

not happy then divorced

most people want to make money
because money can buy 99% happiness
most people dont like work therefore everyone want to save money for retirement, therefore when looking for a job, ask yourself, if kena loteri 1000 million will you still continue that work
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If ask like that who want to accept the job
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as a multi celled organism... you membiak jer!.... be it intelligent or sihambodoh... aim is to multiply and spread your seed to sustain human population in hopes that we dont get depopulated in the process by our own doing...

anything else like... work..getting married... buy a house, a car.. getting a degree.... travel... business...  = IS ALL NOISE!...
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No life no suffering.
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According to buddhism, v will keen reincarnating… n those managed 2 repay their karma debts will be reincarnated to better parents better countries enjoy better material wealth/ Social status etc… ( depends v owe WHO wat past lives….)

n Children r x randomly born 2 parents… parents n child must “hv affinity” 2 come together … they come to either repay kindness/ inflict miseries, get back material debts/ give parents material comforts aka take care of parents … depends the cause/effek of this/past lives … deswai there r bad children good children filia children charsiew children.. etc

So if x breed = x karma debt with children… neutral of d above…


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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 9 2023, 12:45 PM)
According to buddhism, v will keen reincarnating… n those managed 2 repay their karma debts will be reincarnated to better parents better countries enjoy better material wealth/ Social status etc… ( depends v owe WHO wat past lives….)

n Children r x randomly born 2 parents… parents n child must “hv affinity” 2 come together … they come to either repay kindness/ inflict miseries, get back material debts/ give parents material comforts aka take care of parents  … depends the cause/effek of this/past lives … deswai there r bad children good children filia children charsiew children.. etc

So if x breed = x karma debt with children… neutral of d above…


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Meaning no kids ppl no prior life debt, after this round maybe can graduate from cycle of suffering and enter Nirvana. innocent.gif
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Meaning no kids ppl no prior life debt, after this round maybe can graduate from cycle of suffering and enter Nirvana. innocent.gif
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Not so fast! biggrin.gif U still hv 2 repay karma debts 2 parents n those u interacting with… since u hv many lives b4… maybe need 2 continue reincarnate as someone’s baby , grow up n continue repay karma (aka do good)… when betul2 semua hutang beres dibayar… then only u enter Nirvana… omitoufu… innocent.gif
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Not so fast!  biggrin.gif U still hv 2 repay karma debts 2 parents n those u interacting with… since u hv many lives b4… maybe need 2 continue reincarnate as someone’s baby , grow up n continue repay karma (aka do good)… when betul2 semua hutang beres dibayar… then only u enter Nirvana… omitoufu…  innocent.gif
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Work?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Maybe we are just their toys, maybe they watch our suffering, our happiness while sipping their favourite drinks.
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 9 2023, 01:20 PM)
Not so fast!  biggrin.gif U still hv 2 repay karma debts 2 parents n those u interacting with… since u hv many lives b4… maybe need 2 continue reincarnate as someone’s baby , grow up n continue repay karma (aka do good)… when betul2 semua hutang beres dibayar… then only u enter Nirvana… omitoufu…  innocent.gif
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Jipunis succeeding in ending the karma cycle, they stay in house as hikikimori limiting interactions with others, hence no debts with ppl. Their shrinking population show this is the proven way to end the karma cycle.
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Jipunis succeeding in ending the karma cycle, they stay in house as hikikimori limiting interactions with others, hence no debts with ppl. Their shrinking population show this is the proven way to end the karma cycle.
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The figure accounts for some 2% of the total population of people between 15 and 64 years of age in the country. Some 20% became social recluses due to the COVID-19 pandemic, according to the survey. A Cabinet Office official warned that anyone could become a social recluse.

The estimate was based on a survey conducted in November last year on 30,000 people the ages of 10 and 69 across the country.




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Asking you to checkout his work on philosophy. Not his life

Just pointing out with good intention since you wanted to understand the meaning of life

Seems like you're more focus on finding the bad in others. Can't help you

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Not so fast!  biggrin.gif U still hv 2 repay karma debts 2 parents n those u interacting with… since u hv many lives b4… maybe need 2 continue reincarnate as someone’s baby , grow up n continue repay karma (aka do good)… when betul2 semua hutang beres dibayar… then only u enter Nirvana… omitoufu…  innocent.gif
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Spending unnecessary money to prove you're the shit.
Im not saying occasionally? you shouldnt spend money to pamper yourself (as an average income earner), but i think a lot of people are brainwash to live in short sense that buying a lot of meaningless stuffs, doesnt make you happy
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QUOTE(ZerOne01 @ Apr 9 2023, 07:46 AM)
According to sohai kevin sexy sarah life is all about money and you are a failure in life if you are poor. That's why he busy licking his clients asses now.
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In life, money is important. That is without any doubt. But sometimes even with money, it can still be hard on some people. For instance in this case, I think Mdm Wang could have also received some kinda monetary assistance from friends or family members?? But she must still suffer a lot from watching her son suffered from his 生不如死的活受罪?And no amount of money can diffuse her sense of responsibility 自责 AND the over 40 years questioning of herself "did I do anything that my flesh and blood is now doing this 赎罪 on my behalf??"

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=ST&f=23&t=5370352

As for me, my ideas about money had been damaged or hurt by my mom's experiences with her younger step siblings. It happened a long time ago, when I was just a teen, about 15-16 years old, when my dad fell ill with liver cancer. My mom merely suggested to her younger step brother that she might NEED to sell a piece of land (her hometown is in Johor Benut, near Pontain) which her grandmother had left to her. (I guess it's probably because the old lady knew that my mom being the eldest daughter of all her grandchildren was about the only one who could be entrusted to keep the family together??)

It's not a very big piece of property, only slightly over 4.1 hectares of land?? But her step siblings ALL ganged up together and signed a caveat that stated that it's not legal property on my mum's part. (Apparently I think it's because upon my grandfather's death, my great grandmother instructed someone to use his thumbprint to change the title deed to my mom, because it should be called the ancestral land since their house was on that piece of land so the title deed of the land was actually initially under the grandfather's name.)

I mean, I see it as not only overreaction on their part (because mum's only meaning was that she needed some money for my dad's medical treatment and possibly even also she felt fed up with the younger brother's staying in that ancestral home without any rental payment and also, he was harvesting palm oil by making use of the rest of the land behind the house. But did he know what is the meaning of 情亲情人情 etc?? No. Over the more than one decade of such arrangement, he never once brought say just a few mandarin oranges and paid mum a CNY visit.). But also SELFISHNESS beyond belief. They NEVER once had a thought: what if eldest sister brought her three still in school kids and jumped to their DEATHS?? No. 你死你的事。

The entire episode brought a lot of pain and hurt to my mum and she used to shed tears whenever someone brought up the subject. Because from her POV, she had done her best as the eldest sister: in her teens when she left home at the age of 17-18 to learn sewing and working as a seamstress, during CNY she even picked up the cloth remnants and sewed a new dress for every single younger sister (altogether she has 5 younger step sisters and one younger stepbrother, I call him 三代单传二世祖败家子). So she had to sew and make 5 dresses for the sisters to choose their favourite.(车衣,车啊!车的,车到眼睛都快要瞎了。)Because in those days, you can't go to say Jaya Jusco or even just some pasar pagi or pasar malam to buy new dress even for CNY.

Anyway to cut the story short, mum did consult some lawyer and asked about what options did she have?? The lawyer suggested that she could do something like reverse caveat that stopped my step uncle from harvesting the palm oil. But mum didn't want to make the feud worse than it was and so she didn't take the lawyer's advice.

Ended up she was like some kinda 守财奴 held on to the land until my cousin (step uncle's eldest son) finished his university education. And upon his graduation, my mum signed the land and gave it to her nephew. Some kinda graduation present?? But her stepbrother was still like: how could she accept the minimal sum of 50k ringgit?? Why isn't it FOC?

Thing is her this stepbrother is a 败家子二世祖 because he had actually squandered ALL the other properties his grandmother gave him long before he even got married. (My great grandfather was an astute business person who managed to accumulate a bit of wealth in their kampung but unfortunately he was killed by the Japanese soldiers in WW2.)

And mum's thinking is: if she had given them the land FOC, most likely her nephew would behave like his father who didn't have an ounce of appreciation, gratitude or contentment 不懂知足珍惜或感恩。

Just the other day, I Googled for the price of land in Benut Johor and found that it's now worth RM1m for one hectare.

But from my POV, even 48 million hectares of land or all the land on the entire globe. It's cheaper than 血浓于水的亲情。

PS: Thought of this, does anyone know?? How to know (or keep track of) the amount of land in the entire globe? Since some countries are going under the sea level and so is disappearing land and some countries are doing land reclamations. I guess this is an interesting idea, but since it can't possibly generate any revenue, no one is interested to start an agency to keep records?? Or else we might have to go ask UN.

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Spending unnecessary money to prove you're the shit.
Im not saying occasionally? you shouldnt spend money to pamper yourself (as an average income earner), but i think a lot of people are brainwash to live in short sense that buying a lot of meaningless stuffs, doesnt make you happy
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 9 2023, 02:30 PM)
In life, money is important. That is without any doubt. But sometimes even with money, it can still be hard on some people. For instance in this case, I think Mdm Wang could have also received some kinda monetary assistance from friends or family members?? But she must still suffer a lot from watching her son suffered from his 生不如死的活受罪?And no amount of money can diffuse her sense of responsibility 自责 and questioning of herself "did I do anything that my flesh and blood is now doing this 赎罪 on my behalf??"

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=ST&f=23&t=5370352

As for me, my ideas about money had been damaged or hurt by my mom's experiences with her younger step siblings. It happened a long time ago, when I was just a teen, about 15-16 years old, when my dad fell ill with liver cancer. My mom merely suggested to her younger step brother that she might NEED to sell a piece of land (her hometown is in Johor Benut, near Pontain) which her grandmother had left to her. (I guess it's probably because the old lady knew that my mom being the eldest daughter of all her grandchildren was about the only one who could be entrusted to keep the family together??)

It's not a very big piece of property, only slightly over 4.1 hectares of land?? But her step siblings ALL ganged up together and signed a caveat that stated that it's not legal property on my mum's part. (Apparently I think it's because upon my grandfather's death, my great grandmother instructed someone to use his thumbprint to change the title deed to my mom, because it should be called the ancestral land since their house was on that piece of land so the title deed of the land was actually initially under the grandfather's name.)

I mean, I see it as not only overreaction on their part (because mum's only meaning was that she needed some money for my dad's medical treatment and possibly even also she felt fed up with the younger brother's staying in that ancestral home without any rental payment and also, he was harvesting palm oil by making use of the rest of the land behind the house. But did he know what is the meaning of 情亲情人情 etc?? No. Over the more than one decade of such arrangement, he never once brought say just a few mandarin oranges and paid mum a CNY visit.). But also SELFISHNESS beyond belief. They NEVER once had a thought: what if eldest sister brought her three still in school kids and jumped to their DEATHS?? No. 你死你的事。

The entire episode brought a lot of pain and hurt to my mum and she used to shed tears whenever someone brought up the subject. Because from her POV, she had done her best as the eldest sister: in her teens when she left home at the age of 17-18 to learn sewing and working as a seamstress, during CNY she even picked up the cloth remnants and sewed a new dress for every single younger sister (altogether she has 5 younger step sisters and one younger stepbrother, I call him 三代单传二世祖败家子). So she had to sew and make 5 dresses for the sisters to choose their favourite.(车衣,车啊!车的,车到眼睛都快要瞎了。)Because in those days, you can't go to say Jaya Jusco or even just some pasar pagi or pasar malam to buy new dress even for CNY.

Anyway to cut the story short, mum did consult some lawyer and asked about what options did she have?? The lawyer suggested that she could do something like reverse caveat that stopped my step uncle from harvesting the palm oil. But mum didn't want to make the feud worse than it was and so she didn't take the lawyer's advice.

Ended up she was like some kinda 守财奴 held on to the land until my cousin (step uncle's eldest son) finished his university education. And upon his graduation, my mum signed the land and gave it to her nephew. Some kinda graduation present?? But her stepbrother was still like: how could she accept the minimal sum of 50k ringgit?? Why isn't it FOC?

Thing is her this stepbrother is a 败家子二世祖 because he had actually squandered ALL the other properties his grandmother gave him long before he even got married. (My great grandfather was an astute business person who managed to accumulate a bit of wealth in their kampung but unfortunately he was killed by the Japanese soldiers in WW2.)

And mum's thinking is: if she had given them the land FOC, most likely her nephew would behave like his father who didn't have an ounce of appreciation or gratitude 不懂珍惜感恩。

Just the other day, I Googled for the price of land in Benut Johor and found that it's now worth RM1m for one hectare.

But from my POV, even 48 million hectares of land or all the land on the entire globe. It's cheaper than 血浓于水的亲情。
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How old is your mother?

Why her siblings suddenly turn bad or after adult turn bad?
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How old is your mother?

Why her siblings suddenly turn bad or after adult turn bad?
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She's already going to be 81 this August.

I don't think her siblings suddenly turned bad or after adult turned bad. It's more like they take EVERYTHING for granted. And CANNOT be trusted in a crisis.

And from our (mom and me) POV, their actions are interpreted as 打落水狗,落井下石。I mean we were having some crisis with my dad's illness and who had the guts or the skin thick enough to go ask for their help?? Mum merely suggested that she might NEED to sell it for my dad's medical fees. Probably also to gauge their reactions first.

Guess what?? Almost another decade after everything had settled down, me and mum actually came across with the aunty (step uncle's wife. He passed away a few years back already.) Who apparently didn't wanna stay in the ancestral house any more. (After they succeeded in practically 把别人的东西占为己有)

She had moved to a house very near my older place in Setia Alam, in fact in the same taman. Because her eldest son's married and they are all staying together, I think the son's working in some engineering company in Selangor?? (Either Subang or Shah Alam.) She even tried to invite me to her second son's wedding dinner. But I 怕死他们了:有钱他就把你当人,或是 “自己人”,没钱就把你当 外星人 + 外星狗 来 “打落水狗”。Also I worry that in future, her kids (altogether 3 sons and a youngest daughter?? I'm also not sure, since the relationship has soured.) Might 有样学样,上梁不正下梁歪 ALL ganged up to fight for the property with their eldest brother?? Then they might come ask me for advice 做 LJ 公亲,说公道话 etc.

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Not so fast!  biggrin.gif U still hv 2 repay karma debts 2 parents n those u interacting with… since u hv many lives b4… maybe need 2 continue reincarnate as someone’s baby , grow up n continue repay karma (aka do good)… when betul2 semua hutang beres dibayar… then only u enter Nirvana… omitoufu…  innocent.gif
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I'm actually participating in this online course called Stock Market Index Mastery. Guru is this I think in his early 30s guy called Wei Sheng.

He started the class with an explanation called Retirement model. I guess it's the kinda stuff that the younger generation (or the Z millennials??) are learning in school.

I wonder if my mum's economic model can be called Philanthropy model?? Just a joke la. Ha ha ha 😂😂

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How old is your mother?

Why her siblings suddenly turn bad or after adult turn bad?
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From my mom's experiences, I learned this: 好人难做。I KNOW.

I know that her younger sisters must have upon receiving the CNY hand sewn dress, they must have compared with each other: A?!? WHY. Why is my dress shorter than no. 5? Or why is no. 3's dress brighter and prettier than mine?

It's all 大姐's fault. 大姐偏心。
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For me, the meaning of my life now is to enjoy my life with my wife with no kids.

Just the two of us doing things together, having meals together, sleeping together, doing laundry and housework together, growing old together.

As selfish as this may sound, but I hope to die before before her so that she can cremate me and throw into sea.

If really come a day if she passes before me, I would just go donate all my money, possession and go 14th floor.
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What if.

What if 计划赶不上变化?

Wait until she gets pregnant!
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She's already going to be 81 this August.

I don't think her siblings suddenly turned bad or after adult turned bad. It's more like they take EVERYTHING for granted. And CANNOT be trusted in a crisis.

And from our (mom and me) POV, their actions are interpreted as 打落水狗,落井下石。I mean we were having some crisis with my dad's illness and who had the guts or the skin thick enough to go ask for their help?? Mum merely suggested that she might NEED to sell it for my dad's medical fees. Probably also to gauge their reactions first.

Guess what?? Almost another decade after everything had settled down, me and mum actually came across with the aunty (step uncle's wife. He passed away a few years back already.) Who apparently didn't wanna stay in the ancestral house any more. (After they succeeded in practically 把别人的东西占为己有)

She had moved to a house very near my older place in Setia Alam, in fact in the same taman. Because her eldest son's married and they are all staying together, I think the son's working in some engineering company in Selangor?? (Either Subang or Shah Alam.) She even tried to invite me to her second son's wedding dinner. But I 怕死他们了:有钱他就把你当人,或是 “自己人”,没钱就把你当 外星人和 外星狗 来 “打落水狗”。Also I worry that in future, her kids (altogether 3 sons and a youngest daughter?? I'm also not sure, since the relationship has soured.) Might 有样学样,上梁不正下梁歪 ALL ganged up to fight for the property with their eldest brother?? Then they might come ask me for advice 做 LJ 公亲,说公道话 etc.
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Wow. Reading this very detailed story…

While I didn’t experience the same thing like you, I also grew up noticing money can wreak a perfect/happy family…not that I personally experienced it though.

That’s why I just do my own, not expecting any hand me downs or favours.

Life is tough, but it’s a journey. Everyone’s journey is different, there will be ups and downs.

Most importantly, be happy. Life is short.
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Wow. Reading this very detailed story…

While I didn’t experience the same thing like you, I also grew up noticing money can wreak a perfect/happy family…not that I personally experienced it though.

That’s why I just do my own, not expecting any hand me downs or favours.

Life is tough, but it’s a journey. Everyone’s journey is different, there will be ups and downs.

Most importantly, be happy. Life is short.
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the reason why we have fears worries and grudges is because we held ourselves or other people to certain expectation(s)
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From my mom's experiences, I learned this: 好人难做。I KNOW.

I know that her younger sisters must have upon receiving the CNY hand sewn dress, they must have compared with each other: A?!? WHY. Why is my dress shorter than no. 5? Or why is no. 3's dress brighter and prettier than mine?

It's all 大姐's fault. 大姐偏心。
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So you want to hold grudges for the rest of your life
seeing you write detailed like this pretty explanatory why you being or attract certain kind of people into your life
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meaning of life is all about money..

to those that keep saying money doesnt mean anything in life, you're living in denial and cant accept the fact money can do wonders.

poor means poor, no need keep saying some motivating things to self comfort.
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Actually as far as I am concerned, after I finished my tertiary education, I shouldn't have much to worry about in this respect. Because I had actually met my 贵人 aka 伯乐 Deputy Commissioner of police Mr. Goh Liang Kwang. He was the person who signed my commission as the first direct entry woman ASP for the Singapore Police Force. 原本我也准备好要当一只千里马的,unfortunately events subsequently transpired and I guess I was the person who FAILED myself as a good (or perhaps even qualified??) Police officer. Because I had tendered my own resignation. (After kena bull dozed and threatened by another male ASP Tong San Keok who was behaving like some MACHINE GUN.)

But I guess I should reaaaally count my blessings: because beside him, there were quite a number of other more senior officers who were VERY kind to me, such as Ng Yow Meng, Kui Yong Sin, Tan Puay Kern, the commander and deputy commander of Central Police Division (formerly at Beach Rd), and even CP Khoo Boon Hui and his wife Mdm Betty Aw.

Even now, I would also say that even PM Lee Hsien Loong and the current CP Hoong Wee Teck. They are ALL still trying to be nice and kind to me.

后注:I suspect la. (Born suspicious I guess??) PM Lee Hsien Loong also thought of being my “贵” 人??But stupid + retarded me. Had. I had to something like 把他当成魔 “鬼” 试探一轮先?

After calming down, I regretted my actions (of sending him THAT crazy, pathetic, inexplicably and ridiculously nonsensical email) and apologized quite profusely. But if he 找不到台阶下还是无法原谅我的话??我也无可奈何:只可以再写首诗来 (怪人不如)怪自己:

Title of poem:

猪头没脑
猪(刚好是肖猪)哪里说得通人话?
猪若说得通人话,它就不叫猪了啦!
它就叫人头人脑、插头电脑、童话通话、对话电话了 8?

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So you want to hold grudges for the rest of your life
seeing you write detailed like this pretty explanatory why you being or attract certain kind of people into your life
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I don't hold grudges. If I even knew how to hold on to ANY grudge at all, I wouldn't have left the SPF.

I was appointed the first direct entry woman ASP of the Singapore Police Force in 1995. But after receiving the 9 months training and leaving the police academy I was posted to the police station to do the stint of patrol officer and then investigation officer. But just a few months into the IO stint, two EVIL monkeys pretending to be officers designed a trap to hurt me. 他们处心积虑设下陷阱圈套,要把我置于死地。I didn't fall into their trap (they took out a Portuguese visitor who was accused of being part of a pickpocket syndicate who was under my investigation from the lockup cell and brought him into the office where I was all alone doing OT late at night trying to clear my files. They proceeded to punch him left right and centre in a pretense to help me interrogate him. But I knew instantly that they wanted me to open my mouth and tell them to stop doing THAT, so they could then go tell the other colleagues and fellow officers in the station that I had rejected their help. If I really did that, I would become like totally isolated and helpless in the police division!!). But I was like this inside of me: f*CK off la. Where got justice or God in this world?? I also can't be bothered to wanna try be a quality police officer anymore la because I was merely trying to get three meals a day working for the police and what did I do to deserve that kinda "heavy office politics" (some k/tard mentioned this when I wrote about this story few years ago)?? So I stopped writing my pocket book lor. But I hanged around with them la, something like 吊儿郎当 with about ONLY one plan in mind "any day any one of them the 老夫子 aka my superior officers come to make life difficult for me using the PKT BOOK, I will just 丢信走人死给你们看”。

As for those TWO evil jokers, I also 怕死他们了。I made it a point to keep out of their way, only sometimes in the morning in the office corridors, when I chanced upon them, I would give a perfunctory nod of my head and said a "good morning" and went on to do my work. I guess I had successfully pushed the entire episode out of my mind, because from my POV, life's difficult and tedious enough. I simply don't have that kinda energy or interest or time to keep such stuff in my brains. Even if I can remember it, what good will that do for anyone?? It's not in me to 耿耿于怀、怀恨在心,在他们背后装神弄鬼,能干嘛呢?难不成下药下毒下他们降头,以图报复报仇吗?(This incident at the police station happened back in 1996 and I really had forgotten ALL about it. Many years after that, after I gave birth to my sons and suffered from post natal depression, which the docs termed "bipolar". I moved back to stay with my mom when I calmed myself down and precipitated a lot. Then all of a sudden, everything came back to me "I had actually given up on God and my calling to be a police officer, at the police station." It was also the point when I managed to heal myself from the bipolar thingy.)

I consider myself to be more of a 知足常乐、报恩报答 kinda person and don't hold grudges just for "vengeance is sweet and vengeance is mine" kinda life philosophy.

It's just that I observed my mum weeping and shedding tears on several occasions when someone mentioned how her step siblings have hurt her feelings. That's why I still remember the story. Also it's difficult to erase all this because it all started during my formative years.

In any case I'm still friends with mom's no. 6 & no. 3 step sisters on Facebook.

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QUOTE(Jjoottt @ Apr 9 2023, 03:59 PM)
Wow. Reading this very detailed story…

While I didn’t experience the same thing like you, I also grew up noticing money can wreak a perfect/happy family…not that I personally experienced it though.

That’s why I just do my own, not expecting any hand me downs or favours.

Life is tough, but it’s a journey. Everyone’s journey is different, there will be ups and downs.

Most importantly, be happy. Life is short.
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Ha ha ha.

Now that I remember it, maybe. Just maybe. Maybe I felt happy?? When that aunty came to invite me to her second son's wedding dinner (she didn't come to our house, but did it when we met at the playground one evening when I was out for my evening walk), I told her clearly “我没钱,无法包红包,所以您就不要来请我了吧。”

I was walking away from the playground where she was pushing her grandson in a pram I think?? And she was practically chasing me saying “自己人,不需要包红包的”。

🤣🤣

I think I then said something like I don't have transport and left her.
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Forgiveness is a big part of spiritual enlightenment
the reason why we have fears worries and grudges is because we held ourselves or other people to certain expectation(s)
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I also don't know why.

My Christmas name is Adeline, given me by my primary 6 form teacher. It's meaning is "Noble serpent. Passionate, sensitive, unforgiving. Very moody temperament, yet she can be kind and charitable."

From my personal POV, my spiritual enlightenment is creating POETRY:

老痴呆

老人痴呆从哪来?
三言两语说不清,
容我作诗来道明。

做了坏事还害人,
骗过鬼神瞒了人,
无奈欺心终害己,
就会变成老痴呆。

一定变成老痴呆,
咎由自取老痴呆,
自作自受老痴呆!

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BTW, I have changed the spelling of this Christmas name to Adelyyne. Mainly because I prefer the English and American pronunciation:



PS: Most people I know only seem to know the French pronunciation. But even though I don't quite YET know how to define myself: Hakka dad with Hokkien mum. (Can I be a little more creative and call myself Teochew or Hakkien?? 😂😂 )

I am definitely NOT French or even anything close to being an European.

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Apr 9 2023, 04:08 PM)
Forgiveness is a big part of spiritual enlightenment
the reason why we have fears worries and grudges is because we held ourselves or other people to certain expectation(s)
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Honestly some people are like: 左看右看,还是找不到他们行为性格上有什么地方值得 forgive 的??

See this: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid...mibextid=Nif5oz

I tell you: she gave birth to her daughter. Just so that she can put the blame of ALL the other tragedies, misfortunes etc in her life on both Jackie Chan AND her daughter.

And when she's old enough to receive the diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease 老痴呆 from the docs, she will expect AND demand that her daughter take care of her 替她养老养病 + 送终。

这种垃圾哪里有什么地方值得原谅的??要是她当时听成龙的话,把她的孩子洗掉的话,那么成龙说不定还对她会有一丁点的亏欠感?以后见面还可以做朋友寒暄几句?她还替小龙女取名 “吴卓林”:很多人都说她应该是怨恨林凤娇才会取这个名的。一个莫名其妙的 “鸡鸭鹅”,硬硬把 “鹅子女鹅” 生下来,把成龙搞到 “焦头烂鹅”,还有想要伤害他原配夫人的意图,您自己说吧:成龙如何不恨她,恨之入骨?

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Strange coincidence??

Today I just learnt that Fibonacci number or golden ratio of 0.618 is used in trading in stocks etc. And just told my coursemates that my mum's birthday is 16th August 1608.

Mum's year of birth is 1942.
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Possibly THAT.

Plus: 认错认输,要不然就学习认识多几个字吧。

Take me for example: I apologized to PM Lee Hsien Loong, aka 认错。(For my 没大没小。)

But with regards to my aunty (step uncle's wife) I think I have to 认输:because I think she's trying to get some competition?? 比较比赛挖鼻孔??比赛谁的脸皮厚?不用包红包可以参加婚宴。(脸皮厚厚,天下无敌?)

我输了!!输所有人 55,055 条街 8!!所以已经决定了:认命 8。

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I'm actually participating in this online course called Stock Market Index Mastery. Guru is this I think in his early 30s guy called Wei Sheng.

He started the class with an explanation called Retirement model. I guess it's the kinda stuff that the younger generation (or the Z millennials??) are learning in school.

I wonder if my mum's economic model can be called Philanthropy model?? Just a joke la. Ha ha ha 😂😂
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He have Youtube channel right?

Looks like scammer
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He have Youtube channel right?

Looks like scammer
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WHY.

What proof do you have??
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What if.

What if 计划赶不上变化?

Wait until she gets pregnant!
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I think they do not plan to have kids.

Kids really change a lot of life
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I think they do not plan to have kids.

Kids really change a lot of life
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TRUE enough.

Some kids arrive to 报答报恩,some do the 报复报仇 + 讨债抱怨。

As the saying goes 久病床前无孝子,but change the POV: most. Most parents if their kids have any problems or genetic conditions, they will do the 上刀山下火海 to get a cure or healer for their child.
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before GE my life objective want ph win fed. now i happy.
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I think the following REALIZATIONS came before GE:

My Christmas name is Adeline, given me by my primary 6 form teacher. It's meaning is "Noble serpent. Passionate, sensitive, unforgiving. Very moody temperament, yet she can be kind and charitable."

From my personal POV, my spiritual enlightenment is creating POETRY:

老痴呆

老人痴呆从哪来?
三言两语说不清,
容我作诗来道明。

做了坏事还害人,
骗过鬼神瞒了人,
无奈欺心终害己,
就会变成老痴呆。

一定变成老痴呆,
咎由自取老痴呆,
自作自受老痴呆。

user posted image

BTW, I have changed the spelling of this Christmas name to Adelyyne. Mainly because I prefer the English and American pronunciation:



PS: Most people I know only seem to know the French pronunciation. But even though I don't quite YET know how to define myself: Hakka dad with Hokkien mum. (Can I be a little more creative and call myself Teochew or Hakkien?? 😂😂 )

I am definitely NOT French or even anything close to being an European.

PS: Another I would call it more "classic" POETRY:

超级白

曹操击败了李白,然后改名曹击白。

🤣🤣

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Jipunis succeeding in ending the karma cycle, they stay in house as hikikimori limiting interactions with others, hence no debts with ppl. Their shrinking population show this is the proven way to end the karma cycle.
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Btw v can reincarnate to other geographical locations… bad karma maybe reborn in 4th world countries, warring countries n suffer there… so bestest advice is try 2 clear as much karma debts as possible b4 v go… icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(zuozi @ Apr 9 2023, 02:48 PM)
Then if my parents abandoned me during age of 12 should i ask them repay me? Hahaha 😂🤣 omitoufu ge lan lah...
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u nonit ask la… universe will provide opportunities.. but if they dun make up 2 u then d karma debt will fall on them…. then next lives they gotta repay u 1 way or another ( they x necessarily resurface as ur parents… could b jilted lovers etc )
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 9 2023, 07:25 PM)
d idea is 2 clear as much karma debt as possible tis life time… lock 1 self up like tat helpful? Bring forward 2 next life ka? Oso they trouble their parents make them sad…  unsure.gif how many Times kena reincarnate b4 qualify 4 Nirvana?

Btw v can reincarnate to other geographical locations… bad karma maybe reborn in 4th world countries, warring countries n suffer there… so bestest advice is try 2 clear as much karma debts as possible b4 v go…  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Nobody can get away from dying… we should instead embrace it by legalising euthanasia when the need arise.
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 9 2023, 07:25 PM)
d idea is 2 clear as much karma debt as possible tis life time… lock 1 self up like tat helpful? Bring forward 2 next life ka? Oso they trouble their parents make them sad…  unsure.gif how many Times kena reincarnate b4 qualify 4 Nirvana?

Btw v can reincarnate to other geographical locations… bad karma maybe reborn in 4th world countries, warring countries n suffer there… so bestest advice is try 2 clear as much karma debts as possible b4 v go…  icon_rolleyes.gif
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No lah…karma ppl always say kids come to collect debt from parents. So hikikimori ppl just collecting their debt from parents, by limiting interaction with others, they avoid creating debts towards others, so less likely need to repay debt in another life hence no need further reincarnation innocent.gif
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 9 2023, 07:35 PM)
u nonit ask la… universe will provide opportunities.. but if they dun make up 2 u then d karma debt will fall on them…. then next lives they gotta repay u 1 way or another ( they x necessarily resurface as ur parents… could b jilted lovers etc )
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U make karma sound like never ending debt system sweat.gif
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QUOTE(iGamer @ Apr 9 2023, 08:15 PM)
No lah…karma ppl always say kids come to collect debt from parents. So hikikimori ppl just collecting their debt from parents, by limiting interaction with others, they avoid creating debts towards others, so less likely need to repay debt in another life hence no need further reincarnation innocent.gif
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Meaning of life: as taught by Adelyyne to her two sons who are both in form 3 this year.

做人要对得起自己的良心,防人之心不可无,害人之心不可有。

I told my kids: when you are still in school, you must also work and study hard. Respect and obey your elders and teachers, so that you can reduce your regrets or sorrows after you reached adulthood. 少壮不努力,老大徒伤悲 type of regrets.

And even though there was one occasion when I was like a bit rude to their grandfather in front of my sons, I didn't explain to them very much. (Actually I can't remember if I mentioned anything about THAT incident to them at all or not??) If they came to accuse me of not practising what I preached in their adulthood or in future, I am already psychologically prepared to accept it!! (Anyway their grandfather had already passed away sometime late last year.)

As long as they have tried their best in their school work, I NEVER ever once made demands of them, such as you must get position number 1 (counting from the bottom) or get positions 10-20 (counting from the front). I told them this: as long as you put in the work, you can tell yourself 我对得起昨天的我,对得起当下的我,也对得起明日的我。 THAT is sufficient for them at their age because it already means 他们对得住自己的天地良心了。(I don't believe in giving too much pressures to my kids because I don't want the situation to become like the kid complaining that "my mom gives me too much stress, expecting me to be high achiever etc". I just want them to be happy and healthy.)

Fortunately I guess for us, their school results 还不至于满江红 la. I guess I must count my blessings that they are quite self motivated and not need too much adult supervision or nagging or reminders to do their school work.

PS: As for 害人之心不可有,防人之心不可无,I told them that at their age, there are some teens who got peers bullying. Because they stay at the school hostel on weekdays and only return home on the weekends, I was worried that some of them might do the campus bullying of peers as in a group of teens ganged up to punch, hit or kick one of the hostel mates?? So I have also given them detailed instructions on what to do if they met such situations.

I told them: you must leave the "scene of crime" immediately. If someone asked you why you are leaving, give an excuse such as "I have to go to the toilet". Then leave them and go tell an adult aka teacher. Don't stand there and stare as kids are sometimes prone to do when in shock or in some crisis. If you did that, the leader(s) of the bullies might notice that you haven't joined in with the hitting and kicking of the victim and he or they might challenge you "Hey! It's your turn. You must also hit him." Then you would be put in a spot.

And no need to try any heroic actions such as trying to stop the BULLYING or you might end up becoming the next target aka victim. Because in such situations, usually ONLY adults and teachers can help save the victim. If the victim doesn't know how to help himself la.

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U make karma sound like never ending debt system sweat.gif
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life is all about paying bill / commitment, make safe investment, take care one self body and house, dont betray / cross people path , eat food, travel, work until die, enjoy whenever possible, keep out of family / work / friend politic , stay close with those ppl who really genuine care for you, not for your money and your fame and your beauty make up appearance, keep helping whenever it is possible , travel other country once in every 10 years or 5 years . As we know, human personality always change once a year.

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Life is a process of refinements.

For the one who believes in Fate, regardless how thing turn out to be in life, the plans by Heaven will never be affected. If the Heaven”s plan is never to be affected :-

Across the generations, the way of human living has improves. In ancient time , we hunt for foods but now we cultivate & farms our foods. It is a process of refinements. This refinements are almost in all aspects at the broader persective.

At the micro perseptive or individual level , it is a process of refinements as well. We are refining the process or way of livings to become better day by day. Some ppl may question if living is a refinements process , how come I failed to achieve what other ppl are achieving ? How am I a part of this refinements concept?

In life , it is not necessary about succes. It could be about failure. If your life decision making leads you to failure , your failure will serve as the lesson to the other individual in their life process refinements. We may not achieve what other ppl have achieve in the life but every decision that we made in the daily life will be part of the refinements process. If our life is leading a better way compare to the other ppl, it will also serves as a good example for the other to follow. Every aspects of living is self correcting & self improving over time.

If today an older generation have made a mistake in their life, the older generation will advice their next generation to avoid a similar mistake. It is a processs of refinements.

If today a town Planner made a mistake in town planning & causes the massive heavy traffic , the lesson learn will be used for the future town planning to avoid the similar mistake - it is a proceed of refinements.

If today an individual failed his/her marriage or didn”t manage to find their life partner - their life decision making which leads to their state can be used by the people of younger generation to prevent falling into such state. It is the process of refinements.

Human lifespan is short ~ about 80 years cycle , it could be intended in such way by Fate. We are not the generation of the very first beginning & do not know what were happened since the creation of world. There is always a room to either to doubt or believe, it is conditioned in such on purpose.

In life, we are subjected 6 desires and 7 emotions inevitably. If it is inevitable, it only means we are suppose to learn , deal & embrace it as part of living while in this world.

Regardless you make it or not make it in life, you happy or not happy , you are part of the refinements process in the broader persective.

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QUOTE(nihility @ Apr 9 2023, 10:30 PM)
Life is a process of refinements.

For the one who believes in Fate, regardless how thing turn out to be in life, the plans by Heaven will never be affected. If the Heaven”s plan is never to be affected :-

Across the generations, the way of human living has improves. In ancient time , we hunt for foods but now we cultivate & farms our foods. It is a process of refinements. This refinements are almost in all aspects at the broader persective. 

At the micro perseptive or individual level , it is a process of refinements as well. We are refining the process or way of livings to become better day by day. Some ppl may question if living is a refinements process , how come I failed to achieve what other ppl are achieving ? How am I a part of this refinements concept?

In life , it is not necessary about succes. It could be about failure. If your life decision making leads you to failure , your failure will serve as the lesson to the other individual in their life process refinements. We may not achieve what other ppl have achieve in the life but every decision that we made in the daily life will be part of the refinements process. If our life is leading a better way compare to the other ppl, it will also serves as a good example for the other to follow. Every aspects of living is self correcting & self improving over time.

If today an older generation have made a mistake in their life, the older generation will advice their next generation to avoid a similar mistake. It is a processs of refinements.

If today a town Planner made a mistake in town planning & causes the massive heavy traffic , the lesson learn will be used for the future town planning to avoid the similar mistake - it is a proceed of refinements.

If today an individual failed his/her marriage or didn”t manage to find their life partner - their life decision making which leads to their state can be used by the people of younger generation to prevent falling into such state. It is the process of refinements.

Human lifespan is short ~ about 80 years cycle , it could be intended in such way by Fate. We are not the generation of the very first beginning & do not know what were happened since the creation of world. There is always a room to either to doubt or believe, it is conditioned in such on purpose.

In life, we are subjected 5 desires and 7 emotions inevitably. If it is inevitable, it only means we are suppose to learn , deal & embrace it as part of living while in this world.

Regardless you make it or not make it in life, you happy or not happy , you are part of the refinements process in the broader persective.
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Hi.

If I may point out a typo: 6 desires and 7 emotions.

七情六欲,对吗?
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Hi.

If I may point out a typo: 6 desires and 7 emotions.

七情六欲,对吗?
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Better cars, better houses, more money, more branded stuff.
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Watch Monty Python - Meaning of Life.
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Endless cycle of chasing material things.

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Must find a target

Cannot endless increase target
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 9 2023, 04:12 PM)
Actually as far as I am concerned, after I finished my tertiary education, I shouldn't have much to worry about in this respect. Because I had actually met my 贵人 aka 伯乐 Deputy Commissioner of police Mr. Goh Liang Kwang. He was the person who signed my commission as the first direct entry woman ASP for the Singapore Police Force. Unfortunately events subsequently transpired and I guess I was the person who FAILED myself as a good (or perhaps even qualified??) Police officer. Because I had tendered my own resignation. (After kena bull dozed and threatened by another male ASP Tong San Keok who was behaving like some MACHINE GUN.)

But I guess I should reaaaally count my blessings: because beside him, there were quite a number of other more senior officers who were VERY kind to me, such as Ng Yow Meng, Kui Yong Sin, Tan Puay Kern, the commander and deputy commander of Central Police Division (formerly at Beach Rd), and even CP Khoo Boon Hui and his wife Mdm Betty Aw.

Even now, I would also say that even PM Lee Hsien Loong and the current CP Hoong Wee Teck. They are ALL still trying to be nice and kind to me.

后注:I suspect la. (Born suspicious I guess??) PM Lee Hsien Loong also thought of being my “贵” 人??But stupid + retarded me. Had. I had to something like 把他当成魔 “鬼” 试探一轮先?

After calming down, I regretted my actions (of sending him THAT crazy, pathetic, inexplicably and ridiculously nonsensical email) and apologized quite profusely. But if he 找不到台阶下还是无法原谅我的话??我也无可奈何:只可以再写首诗来 (怪人不如)怪自己:

Title of poem:

猪头没脑
猪(刚好是肖猪)哪里说得通人话?
猪若说得通人话,它就不叫猪了啦!
它就叫人头人脑、插头电脑、童话通话、对话电话了 8?
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Before that, malaysian can become a police in singapore?

I think from 2005 cannot right?

Or you are singaporean?

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 9 2023, 11:51 PM)
https://eresources.nlb.gov.sg/printheritage...5d-652f90c32d51
Before that, malaysian can become a police in singapore?

I think from 2005 cannot right?

Or you are singaporean?
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Even though my citizenship is Malaysian, but I am actually born in Singapore and I also grew up in SG. I studied in SG schools until I finished my A levels and then went to Sydney for my tertiary education where HE. He was the one who pursued me but..... Another long story.

Anyway I drove my car onto the highway for the first time on last Saturday to go to Bkt Jalil to attend the course of trading stock market index where I met motorcyclists, lorries etc. Plus a group of police motorcyclists who were escorting some VVIP. I was almost forced to go into the emergency lane on my left!! Luckily there were no vehicles in front or behind me. (I'm wondering: do they have any kinda SOPs for such tasks? Surely there will be conditions on the road when they are also caught in some jams or might even endanger other road users?? Or do they really feel that they MUST have the right of way every time those VIPs request for their escort services?? I just hope they don't cause other people to get into road traffic accidents la.)

And when I was trying to get out of the underground carpark after attending the class, I almost couldn't do it!! Because it was my first time there and I got totally messed up by the instructions: no left turn, no right turn etc.The lighting conditions in the carpark were also not in exactly excellent conditions and there was a time when I was like a bit panicky, wondering if I could EVER get out of it. After I got out of the car to ask a lady driver how to find the exit (the first time I honked to ask another lady where to locate the ticket machine, good thing she was polite and kind!), I decided that to hell with all those signs saying no left turn, no right turn and I really had no choice but to go against them. Or else I think I might still be stuck inside the carpark until now.

I remember when I was working as IO in the police station when there was once I needed to go to the DPP's office to hand over some files. But because all the other police sedan cars were used, I was actually given the police van which I had to drive to the DPP's offices at Coleman Street. The carpark was an outdoor carpark and it wasn't very big. (I hope they have already upgraded it to multistorey carpark la!) After I drove the police van in and couldn't find any parking lot I had no choice but to reverse the vehicle and try to get out. But the instant I did THAT, I realized that my vehicle was completely stuck with one car parked in front of my van and another vehicle (was it a lorry??) blocking the way behind!! I broke out in a cold sweat "oh shit! What if someone took a photo of my predicament at that moment? Then the next day the newspaper headlines might read 'police woman caught in carpark'." Luckily some guy came and told me that he would reverse his car out of the lot in front of me and give me the space for getting out!!!

Anyway I thought over my experience in the underground carpark on Saturday and I guessed this "Maybe the reason I couldn't become a qualified police officer is because I am actually like this DEEP in my soul: 安分守己、奉公守法、循规蹈矩。And perhaps was lacking some "I am the LAW" kinda 狠劲。So I guess I was the one who FAILED myself as a police officer la.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 9 2023, 11:51 PM)
https://eresources.nlb.gov.sg/printheritage...5d-652f90c32d51
Before that, malaysian can become a police in singapore?

I think from 2005 cannot right?

Or you are singaporean?
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Sigh..... If. IF they really don't want me back with the police, then I guess I might have to adopt this as the meaning of my LiFE.

Go around telling people I meet that the Chinese translation of my name Adelyyne is:

曹击败李白。Aka my pseudonym.

🤣🤣

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 10 2023, 07:30 AM)
Even though my citizenship is Malaysian, but I am actually born in Singapore and I also grew up in SG. I studied in SG schools until I finished my A levels and then went to Sydney for my tertiary education where HE. He was the one who pursued me but..... Another long story.

Anyway I drove my car onto the highway for the first time on last Saturday to go to Bkt Jalil to attend the course of trading stock market index where I met motorcyclists, lorries etc. Plus a group of police motorcyclists who were escorting some VVIP. I was almost forced to go into the emergency lane on my left!! Luckily there were no vehicles in front or behind me. (I'm wondering: do they have any kinda SOPs for such tasks? Surely there will be conditions on the road when they are also caught in some jams or might even endanger other road users?? Or do they really feel that they MUST have the right of way every time those VIPs request for their escort services?? I just hope they don't cause other people to get into road traffic accidents la.)

And when I was trying to get out of the underground carpark after attending the class, I almost couldn't do it!! Because it was my first time there and I got totally messed up by the instructions: no left turn, no right turn etc.The lighting conditions in the carpark were also not in exactly excellent conditions and there was a time when I was like a bit panicky, wondering if I could EVER get out of it. After I got out of the car to ask a lady driver how to find the exit (the first time I honked to ask another lady where to locate the ticket machine, good thing she was polite and kind!), I decided that to hell with all those signs saying no left turn, no right turn and I really had no choice but to go against them. Or else I think I might still be stuck inside the carpark until now.

I remember when I was working as IO in the police station when there was once I needed to go to the DPP's office to hand over some files. But because all the other police sedan cars were used, I was actually given the police van which I had to drive to the DPP's offices at Coleman Street. The carpark was an outdoor carpark and it wasn't very big. (I hope they have already upgraded it to multistorey carpark la!) After I drove the police van in and couldn't find any parking lot I had no choice but to reverse the vehicle and try to get out. But the instant I did THAT, I realized that my vehicle was completely stuck with one car parked in front of my van and another vehicle (was it a lorry??) blocking the way behind!! I broke out in a cold sweat "oh shit! What if someone took a photo of my predicament at that moment? Then the next day the newspaper headlines might read 'police woman caught in carpark'." Luckily some guy came and told me that he would reverse his car out of the lot in front of me and give me the space for getting out!!!

Anyway I thought over my experience in the underground carpark on Saturday and I guessed this "Maybe the reason I couldn't become a qualified police officer is because I am actually like this DEEP in my soul: 安分守己、奉公守法、要守规矩。And perhaps was lacking some "I am the LAW" kinda 狠劲。And I guess I was the one who FAILED myself as a police officer la.
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You are singapore pr.
Before that pr can become police right?

Do you regret to join police?
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Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Regret never get to piap diff woman in this lifetime..but what to do? thats life... hahaha

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 10 2023, 09:16 AM)
Regret never get to piap diff woman in this lifetime..but what to do? thats life... hahaha
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How old are you?
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How old are you?
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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 10 2023, 09:19 AM)
uncle 50+ liao
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now go cambodia still can fak different girl dailly ma

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now go cambodia still can fak different girl dailly ma
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Be like you. Work in Singapore and invest in stock market
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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 10 2023, 09:26 AM)
dangerous place.... nanti pigi sana cannot come back.. scary  doh.gif
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i living proff ok jer...
wat also scared ini machem tabuli

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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According to Islamic beliefs, This life is just a test.

All that there is in this life will grow old, will become besi buruk, will just become ruins.

Nothing is certain in life, only death . Everyday got news ppl accident, ppl dead. The rich, the young, the old , the poor, . All will be greeted by death. This world is also just temporary. In the grand scheme of things, we are already at the end of times since 13.7 billion years ago until now.

How many of ppl who escaped judgement (think hitler, who commit war crimes, etc). He may escaped in this world, but he would not escape in the next.

Thinking about this alone made me 100% sure about afterlife is real. But that does not mean you need to neglect this world. In fact, the religion demands you to be successful in this world as well. Becoming rich, becoming knowledgeable is a noble pursuit as long as you are not misusing it.



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This life is just a test. afterlife is real.

All that there is in this life will grow old, will become besi buruk, will just become ruins.

Nothing is certain in life, only death . Everyday got news ppl accident, ppl dead. The rich, the young, the old , the poor, . All will be greeted by death. This world is also just temporary. In the grand scheme of things, we are already at the end of times since 13.7 billion years ago until now.
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Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
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I knew edi
You are singapore pr.
Before that pr can become police right?

Do you regret to join police?
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Actually I only applied and received my PR after they accepted me as a police officer. Now I also can't remember exactly when?? Was I still in the Police Academy undergoing my 9 months training or when did I receive my PR?

I don't regret anything la. Mainly because my conscience is clear. Actually I didn't even set out to join them. My degree was electrical engineering and actually my first job was with Philips (S) Pte Ltd, where I was appointed as audio engineer. But I was like dozing off in front of my computer almost everyday after lunch. So I told myself "must switch line of work" and so I went to flip the newspapers. At that time I flipped the 联合早报 and found an entire page of advertisement from MHA (Ministry of Home Affairs) who were looking for executive officers. I saw the line "fresh graduates are welcome" and so sent in my application. I still remember at the interview (I think there were at least two rounds of interviews??) There were three of them. They gave me three choices: CNB, Immigration and the police. I thought over it: CNB sounds too scary (you know la, those who would 铤而走险,走私毒品 are ALL 亡命之徒, I don't think I can do the HEROIC job, 万一英雄变狗熊??No, cannot. Immigration sounded too boring, because all I could imagine was sitting there and chopping passports?? Might as well stay with Philips?? Police?? Ok, sounds just nice in terms of the safety vs danger part AND the boring vs interesting aspects of the work. So I told them I picked police. (I think maybe. Maybe some of them might have thought to themselves: Wow! So idealistic. Because I actually was an NPCC National Police Cadet Corps cadet for the four years in my secondary school called St. Nicholas Girls' School. When young, was a police cadet, now adult decide to pick police as my career??

😂😂 I also don't know what to say anymore la.)

I think I have to say that I was like a blurred fish 蒙查查,给警队的警官们牵着鼻子走的。They informed me that I was going to be one of first two direct entry women ASPs and I said "okay" because I also didn't have any idea what it really meant or entailed. But now on hindsight I think I have to say that it was exactly because they made me one of the first two direct entry women ASPs that I incurred the envy, jealousy, hatred and wrath of those two EVIL monkeys pretending to be police officers, one was a rank and file inspector and the other one was a Staff Sergeant. Because. FROM their POVs, I was just a 黄毛丫头 young girl who just left school, how come my police rank was higher than theirs?? They wanted to give me the message 强龙不压地头蛇 la!! (Or else maybe. Maybe I was like 对所有人都一视同仁、彬彬有礼, and they also HATED me for THAT??)

But whatever happened, they gave me the choices. No one pointed some weapon at me or forced me to do anything. I picked it myself. So what is there to regret???

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I knew edi
You are singapore pr.
Before that pr can become police right?

Do you regret to join police?
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Speaking of heroism, (female version is heroine, strange how similar the word is to heroin??) I watched the movie called The Towering Inferno when I was young. (Think it could be black and white TV?? Not sure anymore la.)

I was impressed by the scene where the glass elevator, after I think the firefighters managed to rescue the people trapped inside, the elevator then exploded into glass shreds.

Who knows?? If they had given me the SCDF (Singapore Civil Defence Force = firefighters) as one of the choices, I might have picked THAT?? Because I was young and more energetic I guess.

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Be like you. Work in Singapore and invest in stock market
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But i no invest in stock market liao

Just fd and put self contribute to kwsp

Stable 5 percent until 6 percent
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 10 2023, 10:27 AM)
Actually I only applied and received my PR after they accepted me as a police officer. Now I also can't remember exactly when?? Was I still in the Police Academy undergoing my 9 months training or when did I receive my PR?

I don't regret anything la. Mainly because my conscience is clear. Actually I didn't even set out to join them. My degree was electrical engineering and actually my first job was with Philips (S) Pte Ltd, where I was appointed as audio engineer. But I was like dozing off in front of my computer almost everyday after lunch. So I told myself "must switch line of work" and so I went to flip the newspapers. At that time I flipped the 联合早报 and found an entire page of advertisement from MHA (Ministry of Home Affairs) who were looking for executive officers. I saw the line "fresh graduates are welcome" and so sent in my application. I still remember at the interview (I think there were at least two rounds of interviews??) There were three of them. They gave me three choices: CNB, Immigration and the police. I thought over it: CNB sounds too scary (you know la, those who would 铤而走险,走私毒品 are ALL 亡命之徒, I don't think I can do the HEROIC job, 万一英雄变狗熊??No, cannot. Immigration sounded too boring, because all I could imagine was sitting there and chopping passports?? Might as well stay with Philips?? Police?? Ok, sounds just nice in terms of the safety vs danger part AND the boring vs interesting aspects of the work. So I told them I picked police. (I think maybe. Maybe some of them might have thought to themselves: Wow! So idealistic. Because I actually was an NPCC National Police Cadet Corps cadet for the four years in my secondary school called St. Nicholas Girls' School. When young, was a police cadet, now adult decide to pick police as my career??

😂😂 I also don't know what to say anymore la.)

I think I have to say that I was like a blurred fish 蒙查查,给警队的警官们牵着鼻子走的。They informed me that I was going to be one of first two direct entry women ASPs and I said "okay" because I also didn't have any idea what it really meant or entailed. But now on hindsight I think I have to say that it was exactly because they made me one of the first two direct entry women ASPs that I incurred the envy, jealousy, hatred and wrath of those two EVIL monkeys pretending to be police officers, one was a rank and file inspector and the other one was a Staff Sergeant. Because. FROM their POVs, I was just a 黄毛丫头 young girl who just left school, how come my police rank was higher than theirs?? They wanted to give me the message 强龙不压地头蛇 la!! (Or else maybe. Maybe I was like 对所有人都一视同仁、彬彬有礼, and they also HATED me for THAT??)

But whatever happened, they gave me the choices. No one pointed some weapon at me or forced me to do anything. I picked it myself. So what is there to regret???
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Nice sharing.
Nowadays foreigners only can become fire fighters or prison service.

Now foreigners Cannot become Police.I think because national security.


That time you all using pagers?
Or big water bottle handphone?



So before that many malaysians join sg police?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 10 2023, 12:01 PM)
When you want to come sg ?

But i no invest in stock market liao

Just fd and put self contribute to kwsp

Stable 5 percent until 6 percent
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Now getting 8.6%/annum on saving using my wife account lol

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Working remotely previously, not interested moving to Singapore and pay taxes and expensive rental as I have family now

Now getting 8.6%/annum on saving using my wife account lol
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Stock investment?
Kwsp?



So high rates
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May i know what account?
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Vietnam bank account
Saving between 8% - 9%/annum interest

There this digital bank as well, up to 8.6%/annum for term deposit / fixed deposit
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 10 2023, 11:07 AM)
Nice sharing.
Nowadays foreigners only can become fire fighters or prison service.

Now foreigners Cannot become Police.I think because national security.
That time you all using pagers?
Or big water bottle handphone?
So before that many malaysians join sg police?
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I joined them in year end 1995?? (Because my graduation was end 1994.)

Think I was posted to the police station in 1996, after the training at the PA = Police Academy. Yes, we were given police pagers, handcuffs, our own police weaponry (only for senior ranks?? Not 100% sure about THIS anymore), police name cards (I remember how I went to get a quite high class name cards holder made of metal for THIS purpose. See picture:) AND the infamous POCKET BOOK, sometimes abbreviated as PKT book.

Ha ha ha. One of my supervisors at PHQ called Puay Kern Tan aka PKT.

I don't remember I was given any handphones?? Now I'm not sure la.

Sigh..... 怪人不如怪自己:must attribute ALL the blame on myself la. Since being a Malaysia citizen, I wasn't able to provide them with the 101% confidence they needed loh.

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This one is adapted from something I found on Google:

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题目:多情总被无情伤

鱼儿那么信任水,
水却把它煮熟了。
树叶那么信任风,
风却把它吹落了。
我本那么信任你,
你却把我伤害了。
后来我已然发现:
煮熟鱼的不是水,
是水火不容的火。
吹落叶的不是风,
是风的自由自在,
秋天的无孔不入。
伤害我的不是你,
是我的自作多情。

天若有情天亦老,
自作多情空遗恨,
自作自受是自找!

后注:笨 同 本。

🥰🥰😎

Poem by: Adelyyne Lee HL aka 曹祭拜李白。

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Life is about "what to eat"
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Eat?? Eat, eat, eat, whole day ONLY care about eat?

Yeah, sure, go ahead and eat ALL you want or need.

Just make sure that after you swallow the foods, it won't turn toxic or POISON in the body, cause you indigestion, constipation etc la!

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Apr 10 2023, 12:22 PM)
Vietnam bank account
Saving between 8% - 9%/annum interest

There this digital bank as well, up to 8.6%/annum for term deposit / fixed deposit
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Currently I have 6 months renew automatically for 8.0% that linked to credit card facility

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Joint Stock Commercial Bank for Investment and Development of Vietnam (BIDV)

Vietnam Joint Stock Commercial Bank For Industry and Trade (Vietinbank)

Joint Stock Commercial Bank For Foreign Trade Of Vietnam (Vietcombank)

Military Commercial Joint Stock Bank


So your wife open bank account at vietnam?
Do you worried ringgit and vietnam dong currency rate drop or rise?
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I have written about four different types of poetry here so far:
1)怪人不如怪自己的 “猪头没脑”
2)classic POETRY of “草几百李白”
3)客观性的 “老痴呆”
4)抄袭式的 “多情自古就有难”

Few years ago (I think back in 2020-2021?) I had written almost 30 pieces of poetry based on the comics 老夫子 on Facebook, but because at that time I was harassed (AND discriminated against) by the FB team workers who claimed that I had sorta picked on the LGBTQIAs sometimes and they were like suspending my Facebook account something like once every few months?? So I got fed up and deleted the entire Facebook account. In some kinda protest against them “有种你们就干脆 delete 我的 户口啦,不要高兴就 suspend 不高兴也 suspend! @#$:;!?£+-& ”

A little regret that I didn't at least get a copy of my all those 老夫子 poetry on record first before deleting it la! 不过也算了吧,做了事就不要后悔,后悔药吃得再多也没用了!

Newest and latest 老夫子 poem:

妇人在路边求救
指着火灾现场喊
我孩子还在里面
老夫子热心助人
冲进火场救小孩
把小孩交给妇人
妇人说里面还有
孩子贵重的物品
夫子再度冲进去
最后成功救玩具
可怜人却烧焦了!

Title of poem: 多多要求

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Title of poem: 要求多多

老夫子找陈小姐
陈小姐请他吃梨
老夫子嫌弃梨子
吃梨像是吃木头
姐说就换苹果吧!
夫子还是嫌苹果
感觉像是吃泥土
姐就大发脾气了
把盘子梨和苹果
统统丢在他头上
哼一声不识抬举!
老夫子应否感恩
她手里还有刀子
可把刀子插他嘴
鬼叫他不懂感恩
还要嘴贱人就贱?

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Title of poem: 鞠躬尽瘁

先生来找老夫子
说大番薯请我们
去他家吃顿便饭
夫子叫先生自便
要先生自己先去
他还有功夫得做
秦先生拉起夫子
要他明天才来做
夫子说明天还有
其他的单子要打
最后夫子成功被
先生说服就放着
自己工作后跟着
先生去找大番薯
谁知去到番薯家
两人吃饭老夫子
却在饭桌上继续
没完没了地赶工!

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Title of poem: 鞠躬尽瘁

先生来找老夫子
说大番薯请我们
去他家吃顿便饭
夫子叫先生自便
要先生自己先去
他还有功夫得做
秦先生拉起夫子
要他明天才来做
夫子说明天还有
其他的单子要打
最后夫子成功被
先生说服就放着
自己工作后跟着
先生去找大番薯
谁知去到番薯家
两人吃饭老夫子
却在饭桌上继续
没完没了地赶工!

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Title of poem: 飞来横祸 aka 多管闲事

老夫子在散着步
遇见美女掉硬币
美女自己弯下身
老夫子也想帮忙
没想两人一起都
想要捡起该硬币
不小心头撞下巴
美女大发脾气了
手袋往他头上砸
骂他越帮越忙就
是等同多管闲事!

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 11 2023, 10:58 AM)
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Title of poem: 照顾小孩

陈太要求老夫子
帮她照顾她幼儿
事因她得走开下
妈妈一走小小孩
哇哇大哭找妈妈
老夫子略动脑筋
叫他不要再哭啦
我给你苹果吃吧!
陈太刚好回到家
看见她儿嘴巴里
塞着一粒大苹果!
老夫子不会是个
成功奶娘奶爸吧。

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Second version of(怪人不如)“怪自己” 诗歌创作。

Title of poem: 猪头没脑

猪(刚好是肖猪)哪里说得通人话?
猪若说得通人话,它就不叫猪了啦。
它就可称之为人头人脑、插头电脑、
它也可说是童话通话、对话电话了?

魔鬼说不定讲人小鬼大、没大没小,
菩萨佛主则说讲话带刺、牙尖嘴利!

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:44 PM)
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Before u ask about meaning of life, mayb think abit deeper what is the purpose of your existence in this planet or universe. End of the day every1 will.go through same journey which is death. So god created you and die later...so whats the purpose?? At same time u need to go through all.the sins and misery , happy and sad...good and ugly...etc ....end of the day you die with all these memories....and then???


Eat sleep work travel entertainment etc is just secondary part of your life bcoz u hv been created here without knowing whats the purpose of your exiatence.
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if all else fails, tap into your animal instincts.

sex sex sex and tons of it.

fly to pattaya cambodia angeles city china japan eastern europe.

tapao diff gal each time. trust me it will motivate you to work more and find more money to sustain.

you being productive equal you being happy.
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QUOTE(commanderz @ Apr 11 2023, 12:15 PM)
Money = everything
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For me.

曹操祭拜李白 = CCB is more important!

😂😂
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After writing this Facebook post just a few hours ago:

"Haven't been here for a long time. This caféteria is very near my old place in Setia Alam.

After thinking about everything, decided to adopt the 得饶人处且饶人 and may even pay my step uncle's widowed wife a visit.

Unfortunately aunty no. 6 Yoke Ai Chan gave me her mobile number which is currently turned off."

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid...mibextid=Nif5oz

Just now mum was saying that she thought of buying 4D again, but I told her "no", because 不赌就是赢,还有 “得饶人处且饶人” 也是一种赢。

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I am going through alot and i realized even with money it dosent guarantee you happiness. If there is no love, no family your life might feel meaningless.
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QUOTE(anndroid @ Apr 11 2023, 06:36 PM)
I am going through alot and i realized even with money it dosent guarantee you happiness. If there is no love, no family your life might feel meaningless.
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What happened to you??

Care to share.
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After writing post #252, I went to Google for “老夫子 宽恕” because I was wondering if 王家禧 his real name Alfonso Wong had ever used "to forgive is divine" as the theme for ANY of his comics.

And only managed to find this: 先见之明。

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And also managed to read this:
https://m.9kd.com/note/5609295

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 11 2023, 02:50 PM)
For me.

曹操祭拜李白 = CCB is more important!

😂😂
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盗墓拜曹操、


黑道拜关羽,太监拜岳飞、


青楼拜吕洞宾

https://www.32ez.com/s/25a6473f45f4941a253de77068018877.html


Actually what relationship between 李白 and 曹操 ?

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 11 2023, 08:09 PM)
盗墓拜曹操、
黑道拜关羽,太监拜岳飞、
青楼拜吕洞宾

https://www.32ez.com/s/25a6473f45f4941a253de77068018877.html
Actually what relationship between 李白 and 曹操 ?
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I also have no idea the answer to your question.

But maybe 基白 “诗人” 得拜李白??
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 11 2023, 08:09 PM)
盗墓拜曹操、
黑道拜关羽,太监拜岳飞、
青楼拜吕洞宾

https://www.32ez.com/s/25a6473f45f4941a253de77068018877.html
Actually what relationship between 李白 and 曹操 ?
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From Google, have these answers:

Looks like 曹操 is older than 李白?

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Kesian, tered TS kena hijacked and derailed

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QUOTE(Jjoottt @ Apr 11 2023, 09:41 PM)
Kesian, tered TS kena hijacked and derailed
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Jimat forum space meanwhile saving ts frm overthinking about life.
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QUOTE(Jjoottt @ Apr 11 2023, 09:41 PM)
Kesian, tered TS kena hijacked and derailed
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Only this thread ?
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Read Old Master Q comic

that's the purpose of life
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Read Old Master Q comic

that's the purpose of life
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Wong became well known in 1961 when he made the manhua Old Master Q.[2] The comic was one of the most influential pieces of work in Hong Kong under British rule before it was transferred back to China, and was popular across Asia.[3] It voiced the opinions of the citizens in an exaggerated comical sense at a time when comics avoided controversial political issues. From integration with mainlanders to the education gap, there were few limitations being broached by the sensitive subjects which accompanied his stories.




The comic became known for maintaining popularity for over 40 years against endless competition with other Hong Kong manhua and Japanese manga. Later adaptations into movies, Chinese animation and other works of fiction continued well after his retirement. He later emigrated to the United States and retired by the mid-1990s.[5]

In an exhibition showcasing Wong, the Hong Kong Arts Centre called his work, "a collective memory of Chinese-speaking communities around the world."[3][6] Original pieces of Wong's work have been exhibited by both Sotheby's and Christie's auction houses.[3]


guiness world record?
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Wong became well known in 1961 when he made the manhua Old Master Q.[2] The comic was one of the most influential pieces of work in Hong Kong under British rule before it was transferred back to China, and was popular across Asia.[3] It voiced the opinions of the citizens in an exaggerated comical sense at a time when comics avoided controversial political issues. From integration with mainlanders to the education gap, there were few limitations being broached by the sensitive subjects which accompanied his stories.
The comic became known for maintaining popularity for over 40 years against endless competition with other Hong Kong manhua and Japanese manga. Later adaptations into movies, Chinese animation and other works of fiction continued well after his retirement. He later emigrated to the United States and retired by the mid-1990s.[5]

In an exhibition showcasing Wong, the Hong Kong Arts Centre called his work, "a collective memory of Chinese-speaking communities around the world."[3][6] Original pieces of Wong's work have been exhibited by both Sotheby's and Christie's auction houses.[3]
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Either Guinness world record.

Or at least a Nobel peace prize?

Whatever it may be, giving Alfonso Wong a posthumous peace prize is better than giving that LJ Lama.

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QUOTE(Jjoottt @ Apr 11 2023, 09:41 PM)
Kesian, tered TS kena hijacked and derailed
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What is the meaning of Life??

Being grateful. For stuff such as whose car AND/OR train wasn't derailed??

Or ever kena plane hijacking.
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Apr 12 2023, 02:54 AM)
Read Old Master Q comic

that's the purpose of life
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One of my purposes in Life.

Some others are: writing poetry, attending Zumba class, taking care of my mum and family members in general.

As well as this:
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168 (I went in at page 5.)

替新加坡政府做些 “义工”。

Because not everything in life can be quantified using a number?? Stuff such as 义气福气骨气(自己要争气),这种种如何以一个数目字量化呢?有容乃大,无欲则刚,佛法无边 之 无量为大。

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I am going through alot and i realized even with money it dosent guarantee you happiness. If there is no love, no family your life might feel meaningless.
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Means your money isnt enough to make you happy, keep finding more money.
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 12 2023, 09:55 AM)
One of my purposes in Life.

Some others are: writing poetry, attending Zumba class, taking care of my mum and family members in general.

As well as this:
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168 (I went in at page 5.)

替新加坡政府做些 “义工”。

Because not everything in life can be quantified using a number?? Stuff such as 义气福气骨气(自己要争气),这种种如何以一个数目字量化呢?有容乃大,无欲则刚,佛法无边 之 无量为大。
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替新加坡政府做些 “义工”??

What means?
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替新加坡政府做些 “义工”??

What means?
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Meaning I left them in either May/June of year 2000. After the Y2K emergency operation was completed, I left. Because "boh bian"! (That Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun.)

Actually I think I managed to read the minds of several other officers: PK Tan said I was "botak". CP Khoo Boon Hui said I was "boh chap". Actually I am not boh chap 不管闲事, it was more of a case that I didn't know where to start the chap,从何下手??当时美国的校园霸凌枪击事件频频发生,人命关天的问题啊!可是问题的症结在于什么?敌人是谁?我一头雾水、百思不得其解、丈八金刚摸不着脑袋啊。每个人嘴上都在说什么 宪法第二修正案(不对啊!那只是一个法律条文罢了。),枪支弹药泛滥成灾(也不对,那只是每个人都得面对的现实状况,为何只有几个番薯青少年会做出那种恐怖变态的事??)。我又吓坏了啊,因为心里的想法还有:shit! This time I'm toast! Pocket book(1996 年就没有写了)是拿不出来了。天天(从 1998 年头到 2000 年中,前后超过两年吧)冲来冲去,像一只断了头的苍蝇,要不然就是走来走去提心吊胆,胆战心惊,哪一天哪个老夫子要来用我的 pocket book 为难我,我心里当时其实只有一个 plan A 罢了。所以后来 Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun I was like already feeling TOTALLY exhausted 精疲力尽,疲惫不堪了。

我有尝试冷静下来的,可是冷静冷静再冷静,留意到的是新加坡的地理位置:前有狼(印尼狼当年 1998 搞排华),后面隔着马六甲海峡的也不懂是老虎(还是 骂妈熊?)的,哪天万一他们真的冲过新柔长堤,难不成真的拿起枪支炸药、刀剑弓箭跟他们对着干?想到这里,我就自己先觉得手软脚也软了吧。(That's why when I was trying to answer my supervisor Puay Kern Tan's question, 怕到声音都发抖!)

I guess maybe fortunately for me, back in 2013 I noticed the news about Philippines 苏禄军登录沙巴这件事,我才得以 work out some kinda formula to protect THEM (and everyone else)??

I know that CP Khoo was so suspicious of me that even after I left the SPF, he got the CID officers to hack into my email inboxes everyday?? To investigate or keep track of my activities?? He wanted (or needed) to know if I was doing some kinda 友谊联系,email 联系,贸易交易往来 with some 猪朋狗友、妖魔鬼怪 and/or even some Middle Eastern terrorists organisations??

You say la: I how to not become like 一肚子火?我做了五年多六年的警官,没有功劳也没有苦劳,在 2000 年 小小的 ASP 1 升到 ASP 2 他们也不肯给我。我对所有人真心诚意、全心全意、一心一意、忠心耿耿、一视同仁、彬彬有礼,换来的却是在一开始在警察局的那两个变态黑皮黑心鬼 阴谋诡计、阴险狡诈、陷阱圈套 的 “职场霸凌”,后来去了 police headquarters 那个 Tong San Keok 的 “光明正大、大大方方” 的 大喊大叫,那算是欺凌霸凌吗?(还有警队老大 莫明其妙 的 疑神疑鬼??)

I just emailed PM Lee a few days (or weeks ago):我不会出卖背叛任何人的啦!我在警察学院受训后的毕业典礼上还有握着右拳放在心房上,誓死效忠新加坡警察部队和新国政府领导层的。我若是出卖任何人,那就是在出卖我自己,日后还得担心因果报应??(不是报应在我自己头上,就是报应在我儿身了。)

Anyway 我替他们做义工的意思是:I haven't received any renumeration from them since I left them in 2000, but I started to think about the issues with regards the LGBTQIAs from year 2018 and even went to their Pink Dot Facebook page to try reason and argue with some of them. The rest of the story can be seen in this thread, starting from page 5 #82:

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168/

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 14 2023, 08:56 AM
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ytd i read about FIRE from drweatlh.com

then i realize

the author mentioned....if you FIRE, you need to find a purpose.
if you dont have a purpose, youll just go from financially non-independent purposeless person to a financial independent purposeless person. then what? youll end up staring at wall wondering what to do.

then i read about ikigay also
i suggest u gaise go read about it. ikigay means u r doing something u r good at, at a good pay, that interests you, and society needs it.

of course not everyone lucky enough to find their ikigay. thats the ultimate in terms of purpose.

u can have millions but without purpose u wont be happy as someone who has just enough but has a purpose in life. thats why u see those people who reproduce like rabbits, nasi also just enough to eat, yet they happier than u in ur lambo. because they found their purpose. to kangkang, beranak, then bring up their children.

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 13 2023, 11:37 AM)
Meaning I left them in either May/June of year 2000. After the Y2K emergency operation was completed, I left. Because "boh bian"! (That Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun.)

Actually I think I managed to read the minds of several other officers: PK Tan said I was "botak". CP Khoo Boon Hui said I was "boh chap". Actually I am not boh chap 不管闲事, it was more of a case that I didn't know where to start the chap,从何下手??当时美国的校园霸凌枪击事件频频发生,人命关天的问题啊!可是问题的症结在于什么?敌人是谁?我一头雾水、百思不得其解、丈八金刚摸不着脑袋啊。每个人嘴上都在说什么 宪法第二修正案(不对啊!那只是一个法律条文罢了。),枪支弹药泛滥成灾(也不对,那只是每个人都得面对的现实状况,为何只有几个番薯青少年会做出那种恐怖变态的事??)。我又吓坏了啊,因为心里的想法还有:shit! This time I'm toast! Pocket book(1996 年就没有写了)是拿不出来了。天天(从 1998 年头到 2000 年中,前后超过两年吧)冲来冲去,像一只断了头的苍蝇,要不然就是走来走去提心吊胆,胆战心惊,哪一天哪个老夫子要来用我的 pocket book 为难我,我心里当时其实只有一个 plan A 罢了。所以后来 Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun I was like already feeling TOTALLY exhausted 精疲力尽,疲惫不堪了。

我有尝试冷静下来的,可是冷静冷静再冷静,留意到的是新加坡的地理位置:前有狼(印尼狼当年 1998 搞排华),后面隔着马六甲海峡的也不懂是老虎(还是 骂妈熊?)的,哪天万一他们真的冲过新柔长堤,难不成真的拿起枪支炸药、刀剑弓箭跟他们对着干?想到这里,我就自己先觉得手软脚也软了吧。(That's why when I was trying to answer my supervisor Puay Kern Tan's question, 怕到声音都发抖!)

I guess maybe fortunately for me, back in 2013 I noticed the news about Philippines 苏禄军登录沙巴这件事,我才得以 work out some kinda formula to protect THEM (and everyone else)??

I know that CP Khoo was so suspicious of me that even after I left the SPF, he got the CID officers to hack into my email inboxes everyday?? To investigate or keep track of my activities?? He wanted (or needed) to know if I was doing some kinda 友谊联系,email 联系,贸易交易往来 with some 猪朋狗友、妖魔鬼怪 and/or even some Middle Eastern terrorists organisations??

You say la: I how to not become like 一肚子火?我做了五年多六年的警官,没有功劳也没有苦劳,在 2000 年 小小的 ASP 1 升到 ASP 2 他们也不肯给我。我对所有人真心诚意、全心全意、一心一意、忠心耿耿、一视同仁、彬彬有礼,换来的却是在一开始在警察局的那两个变态黑皮黑心鬼 阴谋诡计、陷阱圈套 的 “职场霸凌”,后来去了 police headquarters 那个 Tong San Keok 的 “光明正大、大大方方” 的 大喊大叫,那算是欺凌霸凌吗?(还有警队老大 莫明其妙 的 疑神疑鬼??)

I just emailed PM Lee a few days (or weeks ago):我不会出卖背叛任何人的啦!我在警察学院受训后的毕业典礼上还有握着右拳放在心房上,誓死效忠新加坡警察部队和新国政府领导层的。我若是出卖任何人,那就是在出卖我自己,日后还得担心因果报应??(不是报应在我自己头上,就是报应在我儿身了。)

Anyway 我替他们做义工的意思是:I haven't received any renumeration from them since I left them in 2000, but I started to think about the issues with regards the LGBTQIAs from year 2018 and even went to their Pink Dot Facebook page to try reason and argue with some of them. The rest of the story can be seen in this thread, starting from page 5 #82:

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168/
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 13 2023, 11:37 AM)
Meaning I left them in either May/June of year 2000. After the Y2K emergency operation was completed, I left. Because "boh bian"! (That Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun.)

Actually I think I managed to read the minds of several other officers: PK Tan said I was "botak". CP Khoo Boon Hui said I was "boh chap". Actually I am not boh chap 不管闲事, it was more of a case that I didn't know where to start the chap,从何下手??当时美国的校园霸凌枪击事件频频发生,人命关天的问题啊!可是问题的症结在于什么?敌人是谁?我一头雾水、百思不得其解、丈八金刚摸不着脑袋啊。每个人嘴上都在说什么 宪法第二修正案(不对啊!那只是一个法律条文罢了。),枪支弹药泛滥成灾(也不对,那只是每个人都得面对的现实状况,为何只有几个番薯青少年会做出那种恐怖变态的事??)。我又吓坏了啊,因为心里的想法还有:shit! This time I'm toast! Pocket book(1996 年就没有写了)是拿不出来了。天天(从 1998 年头到 2000 年中,前后超过两年吧)冲来冲去,像一只断了头的苍蝇,要不然就是走来走去提心吊胆,胆战心惊,哪一天哪个老夫子要来用我的 pocket book 为难我,我心里当时其实只有一个 plan A 罢了。所以后来 Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun I was like already feeling TOTALLY exhausted 精疲力尽,疲惫不堪了。

我有尝试冷静下来的,可是冷静冷静再冷静,留意到的是新加坡的地理位置:前有狼(印尼狼当年 1998 搞排华),后面隔着马六甲海峡的也不懂是老虎(还是 骂妈熊?)的,哪天万一他们真的冲过新柔长堤,难不成真的拿起枪支炸药、刀剑弓箭跟他们对着干?想到这里,我就自己先觉得手软脚也软了吧。(That's why when I was trying to answer my supervisor Puay Kern Tan's question, 怕到声音都发抖!)

I guess maybe fortunately for me, back in 2013 I noticed the news about Philippines 苏禄军登录沙巴这件事,我才得以 work out some kinda formula to protect THEM (and everyone else)??

I know that CP Khoo was so suspicious of me that even after I left the SPF, he got the CID officers to hack into my email inboxes everyday?? To investigate or keep track of my activities?? He wanted (or needed) to know if I was doing some kinda 友谊联系,email 联系,贸易交易往来 with some 猪朋狗友、妖魔鬼怪 and/or even some Middle Eastern terrorists organisations??

You say la: I how to not become like 一肚子火?我做了五年多六年的警官,没有功劳也没有苦劳,在 2000 年 小小的 ASP 1 升到 ASP 2 他们也不肯给我。我对所有人真心诚意、全心全意、一心一意、忠心耿耿、一视同仁、彬彬有礼,换来的却是在一开始在警察局的那两个变态黑皮黑心鬼 阴谋诡计、陷阱圈套 的 “职场霸凌”,后来去了 police headquarters 那个 Tong San Keok 的 “光明正大、大大方方” 的 大喊大叫,那算是欺凌霸凌吗?(还有警队老大 莫明其妙 的 疑神疑鬼??)

I just emailed PM Lee a few days (or weeks ago):我不会出卖背叛任何人的啦!我在警察学院受训后的毕业典礼上还有握着右拳放在心房上,誓死效忠新加坡警察部队和新国政府领导层的。我若是出卖任何人,那就是在出卖我自己,日后还得担心因果报应??(不是报应在我自己头上,就是报应在我儿身了。)

Anyway 我替他们做义工的意思是:I haven't received any renumeration from them since I left them in 2000, but I started to think about the issues with regards the LGBTQIAs from year 2018 and even went to their Pink Dot Facebook page to try reason and argue with some of them. The rest of the story can be seen in this thread, starting from page 5 #82:

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168/
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Now I am also interested in second (or even third) generation of 老夫子:
https://www.orientaldaily.com.my/news/xmzt/2016/02/01/124885

Maybe rename it 孔夫子和老番薯 + 勤先生??

Title of poem: 简单油漆

以前人工艺了得
一个梯子就可以
耐操耐用几十年

老夫子心血来潮
要更新他的梯子
拿桶油漆油黑它

谁知他从下往上
一级一级慢慢油
最后卡在最高级

我深觉他太愚蠢
把梯子打横放下
不就是完美方法?

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are you on meds now
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I was indeed on medications for a while, immediately after I gave birth to my pair of Irish twin boys. The docs claim that I had post natal condition turned bipolar. It lasted from about 2008 to 2016.

It was also during this period of time that I travelled once (or twice) to SG and the ICA (immigration department of SG) developed a misunderstanding of me and they had put me on some kinda blacklist from entering SG. (It's not a lifelong ban, macam like THAT Indonesian preacher, but I need to get a local Singapore citizen or PR as a sponsor and also need to fill in some form 14 if I wish to visit them again.)

But since 2016 (when my kids reached standard 2) I moved back to stay with my mum and a few weeks later, when I went for the psychiatrist's appointment (at some government hospital here in Selangor), I asked him this question: (bipolar=) Please go buy (bi) me some polar bears and I'll be fine. He replied "But I have no money!! If I were a millionaire, I can organise an expedition to the North Pole and tangkap you one polar bear."

I didn't know if I should 😂 😹 🤣 or 😢 🤧 😭 when I received his answer. I had to sit there and patiently explain to him about the DANGERS of the climate in NP and that a polar bear isn't exactly a sleepy, lazy OR herbivorous creature sitting there waiting patiently for some humans to go capture??? He looked me in my eyes and had to agree with me "yeah, true huh."

Ok, one psychiatrist down. Still not quite sure?? I went back for another appointment a few weeks (or months) later, and asked another psychiatrist the same question. This one didn't dare to look at me in the eyes and while looking at his desk he responded with "there are no polar bears in Russia or Indonesia or even SEA = South East Asia." (I'm almost 101% certain that they had discussed my question behind me??) Ok, at least his answer is CORRECT?? So I accepted his meds and the appointment card and went home.

Few days later, while sitting on my mum's sofa chair in front of the TV (could have been on?? No idea already la.) I thought over THAT conversation with the doc and then it struck me "A?!? Did I ask for a REAL polar bear?? How come he didn't tell me: you please go pasar malam where they sell polar bears for like one for 2.50 and five for ten ringgit??"

About one plus week after getting this REALIZATION, I checked out my appointment card to see the date of my next appointment, but hey presto!!! It was blank. I interpreted that as: a DIVINE message from God "no need to go back again".

And I have been off meds from 2016 to today.

Picture of MY polar bear, along with the FREE gifts of Christmas bell and ribbon:

🤒🤕🥶

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I was indeed on medications for a while, immediately after I gave birth to my pair of Irish twin boys. The docs claim that I had post natal condition turned bipolar. It lasted from about 2008 to 2016.

It was also during this period of time that I travelled once (or twice) to SG and the ICA (immigration department of SG) developed a misunderstanding of me and they had put me on some kinda blacklist from entering SG. (It's not a lifelong ban, macam like THAT Indonesian preacher, but I need to get a local Singapore citizen or PR as a sponsor and also need to fill in some form 14 if I wish to visit them again.)

But since 2016 (when my kids reached standard 2) I moved back to stay with my mum and a few weeks later, when I went for the psychiatrist's appointment (at some government hospital here in Selangor), I asked him this question: (bipolar=) Please go buy (bi) me some polar bears and I'll be fine. He replied "But I have no money!! If I were a millionaire, I can organise an expedition to the North Pole and tangkap you one polar bear."

I didn't know if I should 😂 😹 🤣 or  😢 🤧 😭 when I received his answer. I had to sit there and patiently explain to him about the DANGERS of the climate in NP and that a polar bear isn't exactly a sleepy, lazy OR herbivorous creature sitting there waiting patiently for some humans to go capture??? He looked me in my eyes and had to agree with me "yeah, true huh."

Ok, one psychiatrist down. Still not quite sure?? I went back for another appointment a few weeks (or months) later, and asked another psychiatrist the same question. This one didn't dare to look at me in the eyes and while looking at his desk he responded with "there are no polar bears in Russia or even Indonesia." (I'm almost 101% certain that they had discussed my question behind me??) Ok, at least his answer is CORRECT?? So I accepted his meds and the appointment card and went home.

Few days later, while sitting on my mum's sofa chair in front of the TV (could have been on?? No idea already la.) I thought over THAT conversation with the doc and then it struck me "A?!? Did I ask for a REAL polar bear?? How come he didn't tell me: you please go pasar malam where they sell polar bears for like one for 2.50 and five for ten ringgit??"

About one plus week after getting this REALIZATION, I checked out my appointment card to see the date of my next appointment, but hey presto!!! It was blank. I interpreted that as: a DIVINE message from God "no need to go back again".

And I have been off meds from 2016 to today.

Picture of MY polar bear, along with the FREE gifts of Christmas bell and ribbon:

🤒🤕🥶

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i see

maybe it would be in the best interests of everyone for you to be on follow up at least?

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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Apr 13 2023, 01:00 PM)
i see

maybe it would be in the best interests of everyone for you to be on follow up at least?
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I see? Actually I dunno what "you see".

On my end, I SEE that SEA = South East Asia.

And Asia, Russia and Indonesia, all rhymes with "Mahresia".

🤣🤣

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i see

maybe it would be in the best interests of everyone for you to be on follow up at least?
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Ok la.

Maybe la. Maybe if I happened to pass by the hospital, I will go visit them again.

And get some afternoon tea time snacks for them.
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Meaning I left them in either May/June of year 2000. After the Y2K emergency operation was completed, I left. Because "boh bian"! (That Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun.)

Actually I think I managed to read the minds of several other officers: PK Tan said I was "botak". CP Khoo Boon Hui said I was "boh chap". Actually I am not boh chap 不管闲事, it was more of a case that I didn't know where to start the chap,从何下手??当时美国的校园霸凌枪击事件频频发生,人命关天的问题啊!可是问题的症结在于什么?敌人是谁?我一头雾水、百思不得其解、丈八金刚摸不着脑袋啊。每个人嘴上都在说什么 宪法第二修正案(不对啊!那只是一个法律条文罢了。),枪支弹药泛滥成灾(也不对,那只是每个人都得面对的现实状况,为何只有几个番薯青少年会做出那种恐怖变态的事??)。



我又吓坏了啊,因为心里的想法还有:shit! This time I'm toast! Pocket book(1996 年就没有写了)是拿不出来了。天天(从 1998 年头到 2000 年中,前后超过两年吧)冲来冲去,像一只断了头的苍蝇,要不然就是走来走去提心吊胆,胆战心惊,哪一天哪个老夫子要来用我的 pocket book 为难我,我心里当时其实只有一个 plan A 罢了。所以后来 Tong San Keok came to bulldoze and THREATEN me with his machine gun I was like already feeling TOTALLY exhausted 精疲力尽,疲惫不堪了。

我有尝试冷静下来的,可是冷静冷静再冷静,留意到的是新加坡的地理位置:前有狼(印尼狼当年 1998 搞排华),后面隔着马六甲海峡的也不懂是老虎(还是 骂妈熊?)的,哪天万一他们真的冲过新柔长堤,难不成真的拿起枪支炸药、刀剑弓箭跟他们对着干?想到这里,我就自己先觉得手软脚也软了吧。(That's why when I was trying to answer my supervisor Puay Kern Tan's question, 怕到声音都发抖!)

I guess maybe fortunately for me, back in 2013 I noticed the news about Philippines 苏禄军登录沙巴这件事,我才得以 work out some kinda formula to protect THEM (and everyone else)??

I know that CP Khoo was so suspicious of me that even after I left the SPF, he got the CID officers to hack into my email inboxes everyday?? To investigate or keep track of my activities?? He wanted (or needed) to know if I was doing some kinda 友谊联系,email 联系,贸易交易往来 with some 猪朋狗友、妖魔鬼怪 and/or even some Middle Eastern terrorists organisations??

You say la: I how to not become like 一肚子火?我做了五年多六年的警官,没有功劳也没有苦劳,在 2000 年 小小的 ASP 1 升到 ASP 2 他们也不肯给我。我对所有人真心诚意、全心全意、一心一意、忠心耿耿、一视同仁、彬彬有礼,换来的却是在一开始在警察局的那两个变态黑皮黑心鬼 阴谋诡计、陷阱圈套 的 “职场霸凌”,后来去了 police headquarters 那个 Tong San Keok 的 “光明正大、大大方方” 的 大喊大叫,那算是欺凌霸凌吗?(还有警队老大 莫明其妙 的 疑神疑鬼??)

I just emailed PM Lee a few days (or weeks ago):我不会出卖背叛任何人的啦!我在警察学院受训后的毕业典礼上还有握着右拳放在心房上,誓死效忠新加坡警察部队和新国政府领导层的。我若是出卖任何人,那就是在出卖我自己,日后还得担心因果报应??(不是报应在我自己头上,就是报应在我儿身了。)

Anyway 我替他们做义工的意思是:I haven't received any renumeration from them since I left them in 2000, but I started to think about the issues with regards the LGBTQIAs from year 2018 and even went to their Pink Dot Facebook page to try reason and argue with some of them. The rest of the story can be seen in this thread, starting from page 5 #82:

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5293168/
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The year 2000 problem, also known as the Y2K problem, Y2K scare, millennium bug, Y2K bug, Y2K glitch, Y2K error, or simply Y2K refers to potential computer errors related to the formatting and storage of calendar data for dates in and after the year 2000. Many programs represented four-digit years with only the final two digits, making the year 2000 indistinguishable from 1900. Computer systems' inability to distinguish dates correctly had the potential to bring down worldwide infrastructures for computer reliant industries.


That time even bank computer have this kind of problem?
So you handle some teenagers violence case at that time?

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 13 2023, 02:24 PM)
The year 2000 problem, also known as the Y2K problem, Y2K scare, millennium bug, Y2K bug, Y2K glitch, Y2K error, or simply Y2K refers to potential computer errors related to the formatting and storage of calendar data for dates in and after the year 2000. Many programs represented four-digit years with only the final two digits, making the year 2000 indistinguishable from 1900. Computer systems' inability to distinguish dates correctly had the potential to bring down worldwide infrastructures for computer reliant industries.
That time even bank computer have this kind of problem?
So you handle some teenagers violence case at that time?
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Teenagers violence problems. None in Singapore.

I think it all happened in 1998, just one year after 1997 when Hong Kong was returned to China. We had the SPF Discussion Group which was an internal discussion forum within the SPF, it just came up. Suddenly the world financial markets had this 金融风暴, Indonesia had their 排华 and American teens had the Columbine High School shooting.

The front line officers of the SPF were sorta like jumping up and down in the internal forum "shouting" "you pay peanuts you get monkeys" PLUS "We don't want (or need) our police guns anymore. Stun gun, stun guns. We want our stun guns and we want them NOW!" (From my POV: 上面一群几十,可能有一百个?老夫子(from DSPs to CP),下面一大群几千,甚至可能是几万个大小孩子、大小猴子 + 大小番薯,在网络里吵吵闹闹、跳上跳下地吵着 “Stun gun, stun guns. We want our stun guns and we want them NOW.”)

And I was like this: 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 13 2023, 02:24 PM)
The year 2000 problem, also known as the Y2K problem, Y2K scare, millennium bug, Y2K bug, Y2K glitch, Y2K error, or simply Y2K refers to potential computer errors related to the formatting and storage of calendar data for dates in and after the year 2000. Many programs represented four-digit years with only the final two digits, making the year 2000 indistinguishable from 1900. Computer systems' inability to distinguish dates correctly had the potential to bring down worldwide infrastructures for computer reliant industries.
That time even bank computer have this kind of problem?
So you handle some teenagers violence case at that time?
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I know about the Y2K millennium bug.

I was even part of the 24 hour emergency operation team that was set up for exactly this purpose, I think it was from 0800 hrs on 31st December 1999 to 2000 hrs on 1st January 2000.

But can't remember exactly the numbers already la.

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The meaning of life is a philosophical question that has been debated by many scholars throughout history. According to Merriam-Webster, life is "the quality that distinguishes a vital and functional being from a dead body" ². In other words, life is the state of being alive and having the ability to grow, reproduce, and respond to stimuli.

There are many different views on what gives life meaning. Some people believe that life has no inherent meaning and that it is up to each individual to create their own purpose ⁴. Others believe that life has a specific purpose or goal that we must strive to achieve ³. Ultimately, the meaning of life is a deeply personal question that each person must answer for themselves.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

Source: Conversation with Bing, 13/04/2023(1) Life Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/life Accessed 13/04/2023.
(2) The Meaning of Life - Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy. https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/life-meaning/ Accessed 13/04/2023.
(3) Meaning of life - Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meaning_of_life Accessed 13/04/2023.
(4) . https://bing.com/search?q=meaning+of+life Accessed 13/04/2023.
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The meaning of life is a philosophical question that has been debated by many scholars throughout history. According to Merriam-Webster, life is "the quality that distinguishes a vital and functional being from a dead body" ². In other words, life is the state of being alive and having the ability to grow, reproduce, and respond to stimuli.

There are many different views on what gives life meaning. Some people believe that life has no inherent meaning and that it is up to each individual to create their own purpose ⁴. Others believe that life has a specific purpose or goal that we must strive to achieve ³. Ultimately, the meaning of life is a deeply personal question that each person must answer for themselves.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

Source: Conversation with Bing, 13/04/2023(1) Life Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/life Accessed 13/04/2023.
(2) The Meaning of Life - Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy. https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/life-meaning/ Accessed 13/04/2023.
(3) Meaning of life - Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meaning_of_life Accessed 13/04/2023.
(4) . https://bing.com/search?q=meaning+of+life Accessed 13/04/2023.
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Meaning of life: I think TS had also asked the question "do you regret anything??"

I had an ex bf when I was studying in Sydney who's a doc, and also two gfs from the Women's College which is actually the students' hostel in university. One gf is also a doc now and the other is a lawyer practising in Ohio, USA, I think. The ex bf I shall just name him Dr. O (for Orgy or Orally??) And the gf who's a doc I shall name her Dr. L and the lawyer is Mdm. Ho.

From the years 1999-2000, we were all in Singapore and I think Mdm. Ho moved to the States also in year 2000, after I moved back to Selangor. Because Mdm Ho was actually born in Hong Kong and we all met in Women's College in Sydney uni. But she also came to Singapore to work for a law firm (one of the big fours) in 1999.

To be continued.

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 13 2023, 04:05 PM)
I know about the Y2K millennium bug.

I was even part of the 24 hour emergency operation team that was set up for exactly this purpose, I think it was from 0800 hrs on 31st December 1999 to 2000 hrs on 1st January 2000.

But can't remember exactly the numbers already la.
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That time just standby for the paper writing report cases?
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That time just standby for the paper writing report cases?
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Not only paper writing report cases, but I think it was more like almost ALL the police forces in ALL the countries of our modern world had to get together to cooperate AND coordinate for the cross over from 2359 hrs on 31st December 1999 to 0000 hrs on 1st January 2000 operation.
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which one more important?
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Life is about making a living, having a family.

If not, got 20k+ salary also no use, in the end die in the house, body decomposed already also no one knows.

Ktards even worse, all got 20k+ imaginary salary only. In addition to dying alone, die in poverty also.
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Life is about making a living, having a family.

If not, got 20k+ salary also no use, in the end die in the house, body decomposed already also no one knows.

Ktards even worse, all got 20k+ imaginary salary only. In addition to dying alone, die in poverty also.
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So you achieve it?
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 13 2023, 04:01 PM)
Teenagers violence problems. None in Singapore.

I think it all happened in 1998, just one year after 1997 when Hong Kong was returned to China. We had the SPF Discussion Group which was an internal discussion forum within the SPF, it just came up. Suddenly the world financial markets had this 金融风暴, Indonesia had their 排华 and American teens had the Columbine High School shooting.

The front line officers of the SPF were sorta like jumping up and down in the internal forum "shouting" "you pay peanuts you get monkeys" PLUS "We don't want (or need) our police guns anymore. Stun gun, stun guns. We want our stun guns and we want them NOW!" (From my POV: 上面一群几十,可能有一百个?老夫子(from DSPs to CP),下面一大群几千,甚至可能是几万个大小孩子、大小猴子 + 大小番薯,在网络里吵吵闹闹、跳上跳下地吵着 “Stun gun, stun guns. We want our stun guns and we want them NOW.”)

And I was like this: 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
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btw when u quit polis, did u have to sign. Form stating that you won't divulge certain info

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So you achieve it?
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In the progress, especially the salary part, I don't plan to reach 20k though, just sufficient to take care of my family and still have some extra to spend and save should be ok.
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QUOTE(blek @ Apr 7 2023, 11:04 PM)
making money for what? money is only a tools help you reach what you want(certain things)

for me my meaning of life is finding meaning in piaping every women i meet
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piaping also need money buy dom dom, rent hotel, bring gal out to eat drink play

unless u really handsome the gal bao u that is different setori
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the day when your parent realize your mom is pregant with you, they are already thinking which school to enrol you in.
why need to study? to earn more money in later years.
why need earn money? so that you can live comfortably.
no money then no place to stay, no food, no love.
they world is all about the money, money, money.
die also need money bro. buy coffin, buy land etc.
when you no money, you see your wife will love you or not?
Or any girl will love you or not?
that's y beggar also need to beg for money.
in conclusion, since they day you are born, life is just all about money.
unless you become sakai. live in another part of the sakai world/cave. then different story.

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QUOTE(anndroid @ Apr 11 2023, 06:36 PM)
I am going through alot and i realized even with money it dosent guarantee you happiness. If there is no love, no family your life might feel meaningless.
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Mind to share your journey? Since majority thinks that money could solve most of the 'worry' so perhaps your experience on this might enlighten them.
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which one more important?
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9 6 4 2.

Ha ha ha 🤣🤣

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Come to think about it, I don't think so??

I can only remember that a lady from the Manpower department, gave me a letter of recommendation. Which certified that I was an ASP (A Stupid Person ± Assistant Superintendent of Police) from the SPF.

But ended up I only put THAT in my file of certificates. And don't think I had even used it ONCE.

Maybe they finally realised that I am not a talkative type of person. And that I was having some problems expressing myself??

My first job after returning to Selangor from SG was some kinda teacher (cum babysitter cum maid cum nanny) for kids with special needs such as autism and hyperactivity.

PS: After thinking about it, I remember the lady from Manpower department already. I think her name is Eunice. Not her last name though. She's a really sweet lady.

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I think it's fair to say that for a woman, the most important meaning of her life is her husband, marriage and kids. Unfortunately in this respect I have been badly hurt already.

My first bf "rapped" me. The second one who is a qualified (or disqualified) doctor made me kill his baby. And the last and third one (also my first time obeying my mom's wishes since she matchmade me with him) is a jerk, liar and a wife beater.

What's more, I already have given birth to two sons with this last g*y, who is also divorced from me already. 大恶魔,臭蟑螂。(第一个是大色狼 aka 放牛郎,第二个是 大番薯 aka 武大郎!)

About the ONLY one good thing is that I AM stupid.

But at least not stupid enough to go become a lesbian!?!

🤣🤣

PS: Also quite thankful that my two kids are doing okay in school. And also that I didn't give birth to any daughter?? Or else I would most probably be in DEEPER shit!

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Anti-Natalism: The Argument To Stop Giving Birth



Antinatalism is the ultimate answer to all life's problems



The Real Meaning of Life



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Anti-Natalism: The Argument To Stop Giving Birth



Antinatalism is the ultimate answer to all life's problems



The Real Meaning of Life


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In short, no matter how well we have planned ahead of time, we will never be able to keep up with the unexpected changes, and more changes that will come following a phone call thereafter.

Let’s enjoy the journey of life.

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 15 2023, 03:47 PM)
I think it's fair to say that for a woman, the most important meaning of her life is her husband, marriage and kids. Unfortunately in this respect I have been badly hurt already.

My first bf "rapped" me. The second one who is a qualified (or disqualified) doctor made me kill his baby. And the last and third one (also my first time obeying my mom's wishes since she matchmade me with him) is a jerk, liar and a wife beater.

What's more, I already have given birth to two sons with this last g*y, who is also divorced from me already. 大恶魔,臭蟑螂。(第一个是大色狼 aka 放牛郎,第二个是 大番薯 aka 武大郎!)

About the ONLY one good thing is that I AM stupid.

But at least not stupid enough to go become a lesbian!?!

🤣🤣

PS: Also quite thankful that my two kids are doing okay in school. And also that I didn't give birth to any daughter?? Or else I would most probably be in DEEPER shit!
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Why daughter no good?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 16 2023, 03:08 AM)
Why daughter no good?
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You can go read post #42 of this thread first: https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5372659/

I think he's got an eldest son and the younger one should be a daughter.

Daughters, when young worry about she not able to grow up, when adult worry about her not able to find a husband and after she got married, worry about her getting BULLIED by her husband's family. Also might even worry about the kinda shit that happened to Hong Kong's 蔡天凤 happen to her, no??
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“是否女人,永远不要多问,她最好永远天真”。

我就是这样啦:我也没有问他,他自己来跟我讲什么 I'm going out with Pollyanna (the pork chop??).

弄到我晴天霹雳,我就不大正常了,因为(原来。。。)我内心就萌生了恨意,我恨他,恨我自己,恨全天下所有的大人物、小人物、人事物、动植物、非生物和微生物吧?!我恨,恨得入心入肺,恨之入骨,嫉恶如仇那般的恨。

结果,他最后还选择以那句话顶到我寡母哑口无言,我也放他自然发展、自行发挥、自己决定、自由自在。可是事情居然演变成他被一个 chicken chop 自己坚持把鸡鸭鹅的小孩生下来,把他搞到 “焦头烂鹅” 了。

不懂他现在是要笑死我,气死我,还是恶心想吐,吐死我??

🤮🤮🤬😡😂🤣🤣😹

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Would u recommend ur sons go to SG to work?
SG seems small, but it is a big city to me.

The above ground n underground activities n so on.
It would change a kampong boy.
Any advice?

QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 15 2023, 03:47 PM)
I think it's fair to say that for a woman, the most important meaning of her life is her husband, marriage and kids. Unfortunately in this respect I have been badly hurt already.

My first bf "rapped" me. The second one who is a qualified (or disqualified) doctor made me kill his baby. And the last and third one (also my first time obeying my mom's wishes since she matchmade me with him) is a jerk, liar and a wife beater.

What's more, I already have given birth to two sons with this last g*y, who is also divorced from me already. 大恶魔,臭蟑螂。(第一个是大色狼 aka 放牛郎,第二个是 大番薯 aka 武大郎!)

About the ONLY one good thing is that I AM stupid.

But at least not stupid enough to go become a lesbian!?!

🤣🤣

PS: Also quite thankful that my two kids are doing okay in school. And also that I didn't give birth to any daughter?? Or else I would most probably be in DEEPER shit!
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QUOTE(Mr.Robert @ Apr 16 2023, 10:15 AM)
Would u recommend ur sons go to SG to work?
SG seems small, but it is a big city to me.

The above ground n underground activities n so on.
It would change a kampong boy.
Any advice?
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They are only in form 3 this year. Some time to go even to university, how to think so far as to their working life.

I leave it to FATE (with the capital letter G) la.

Just hope they can get a scholarship from NUS lor.
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Meaning of life: enjoy the music.


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Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?

Is it all about money?

LIFE = goal of life?

Love?

marriage?

children?

Travel?

Competition?

Work?

Entertaiment?

Travel?

humour ?
Food?

Branded items?

Car?

Property?

Movie?

Sports?

power?

business?

social position?
What do you regret the most in your life?
DISCUSS IT.
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Die rich

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QUOTE(petpenyubobo @ Apr 7 2023, 10:54 PM)
BORN -> STUDY -> WORK -> MARRY -> PROCREATE/Have CHILDREN -> RETIRE -> DIE

If only the rich who has so much excess and living comfortably share their wealth to the unfortunate.

Say you own 1000 homes, have a set of 50 luxury cars, 10 wives, 20 children Eat Michelin Restaurants >4Meals a day, go holiday overseas several times a year.

When you die you cannot take them along with you. Instead with the excess you have, why not donate to the needy and the unfortunate. Let everyone remember you when you die and tell the story of you as a saint when you were still alive?

The rest as King Solomon says are MEANINGLESS in the Ecclesiastes book he authored.
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QUOTE(iGamer @ Apr 7 2023, 11:02 PM)
Life is about waiting to die.
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1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.


What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?


Do we live like cow ?






there are 10 parts of life!!!!

which part ?

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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Apr 7 2023, 10:58 PM)
Life is about coming back from home after a long day at home.
Take a hot shower then put on a Micky Mouse broken T-shirt, flip on 24 inch LED monitor and reading this topic while taking a sip of Angela Sandy.
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do you meant to say "Life is about coming back home after a long day at work" ?


Why don't you drink Guinness stout?

1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.


What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 16 2023, 09:52 AM)
Meaning of my life:



“是否女人,永远不要多问,她最好永远天真”。

我就是这样啦:我也没有问他,他自己来跟我讲什么 I'm going out with Pollyanna (the pork chop??).

弄到我晴天霹雳,我就不大正常了,因为(原来。。。)我内心就萌生了恨意,我恨他,恨我自己,恨全天下所有的大人物、小人物、人事物、动植物、非生物和微生物吧?!我恨,恨得入心入肺,恨之入骨,嫉恶如仇的恨。

结果,他最后还选择以那句话顶到我寡母哑口无言,我也放他自然发展、自行发挥、自己决定、自由自在。可是事情居然演变成他被一个 chicken chop 自己坚持把鸡鸭鹅的小孩生下来,把他搞到 “焦头烂鹅” 了。

不懂他现在是要笑死我,气死我,还是恶心想吐,吐死我??

🤮🤮🤬😡😂🤣🤣😹
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Throughout our lives,




1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.



Which part do you think is the most difficult?


What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?
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QUOTE(ikankering @ Apr 7 2023, 10:45 PM)
life is about make money.
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Life is about kongkek
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QUOTE(kcchong2000 @ Apr 7 2023, 11:01 PM)
To customize ur own death. Trust me bero
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1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,


6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.


i think there are 10 parts of life
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QUOTE(Ayambetul @ Apr 19 2023, 01:23 PM)
Life is about kongkek
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married or no married?

have kids or no kids better?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 19 2023, 01:19 PM)
do you meant to say "Life is about coming back home after a long day at work" ?
Why don't you drink Guinness stout?

1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.
What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?
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But but.

Unker work from home. sad.gif
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 19 2023, 01:22 PM)
Throughout our lives,
1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.
Which part do you think is the most difficult?
What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?
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Meaning of life:

Afternoon tea. (Today's the last day of the second 2nd month on the Chinese calendar and the few peanut cookies in the bottle happened to also be the last of the CNY cookies in my house.)

Simple answer for now. Will give you a more formal answer after I am done with eating.

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there is no meaning of life, only u can give it a meaning
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married or no married?

have kids or no kids better?
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Doesn't matter.

Janji kongkek.
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Doesn't matter.

Janji kongkek.
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According to "Su Nv Jing," the optimal frequency of ejaculation changes with age.


For people in their 20s, once every 4 days is recommended,
7 time in 1 month


while for those in their 30s, once every 8 days is optimal.
almost 1 time per week


At age 40, it is suggested to ejaculate every 16 days,
1 months only 2 times


and at age 50, every 20 days.
1month 1 time

For individuals over 60, it is advised to refrain from sexual activity,
but if they are still healthy, once a month may be acceptable.


do you agree?

Weakens immunity

Excessive sexual activities weaken the body’s natural immunity. The hormone prostaglandin E-2, which serves an important function in sexual arousal, is overproduced when one engages in marathon or excessive sexual activities and has an inflammatory effect on the body by;

damaging tissues, nerves and joints,
weakening immunity,
causing muscular and nervous pain, and
promoting infection, inflammation, and even cancer.

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 19 2023, 04:50 PM)
Meaning of life:

Afternoon tea. (Today's the last day of the second 2nd month on the Chinese calendar and the few peanut cookies in the bottle happened to also be the last of the CNY cookies in my house.)

Simple answer for now. Will give you a more formal answer after I am done with eating.

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do you still keep your sg pr?

breakdown of the population of Singapore based on the figures you provided:

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Population Group Estimated Population Percentage
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Citizens ............. 3.52 million........... ...........62.0%
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Permanent Residents 0.52 million ...............9.1%
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Non-residents ........... .....1.64 million... ...........28.9%
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Total Population ........... ....... 5.68 million.... ...........100.0%
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https://www.singstat.gov.sg/census2020/census-2020

https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/p...lation2022.ashx


https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/c...n-pamphlet.ashx

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 19 2023, 10:35 PM)
do you still keep your sg pr?

breakdown of the population of Singapore based on the figures you provided:

------------------------------------------------------------
Population Group        Estimated Population Percentage
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Citizens                                              .............      3.52 million...........      ...........62.0% 
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Permanent Residents          0.52 million        ...............9.1% 
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Non-residents                                  ...........    .....1.64 million...      ...........28.9% 
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Total Population                                ...........      ....... 5.68 million....      ...........100.0% 
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https://www.singstat.gov.sg/census2020/census-2020

https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/p...lation2022.ashx
https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/c...n-pamphlet.ashx
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Doesn't quite matter about the SG PR.

Lee Kuan Yew's son PM Lee already don't like me la.

😭😭
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 19 2023, 01:22 PM)
Throughout our lives,
1)many of us are born,
2)educated,
3)find jobs,
4)finding a life partner ,
5)married,
6)have children,
7) teach your children ,
8)advance in our careers,
9)retire,
10)and eventually pass away.
Which part do you think is the most difficult?
What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning behind all this?
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No part is all THAT different from the other parts, as long as we learn and live our lives with an upright heart and don't harm other people as much as possible.

NOW a quite important meaning of my life is to teach my sons this "NEVER ever blame another person for your perceived suffering because you will end up also blaming God which includes yourself. Always always remember 一山更比一山高, when you are comparing yourself with someone else, there's always someone out there who is having a more difficult time or life than yourself."

For example me (their mum). When I was young my mum sent me to Kampung Glam community centre in SG to learn dancing under a lady called 严众莲老师。She's a strict teacher with high standards for her students and even though she was said to teach us Chinese dance, she's a modern dancer who also taught us her students important ballet moves such as the five feet positions.

She also took out some time to ask about our school results because she also wanted her students to not forget our school work. I remember when she told us to sit down and asked us what position we got in class. When it was my turn, I was silent as usual and merely pointed my right forefinger. I think she felt a bit incredulous?? 🤣🤣

There was once when I was also one of the performers for this dance she choreographed and named 冰释 "Ice melting". (Let me state upfront: I definitely wasn't one of the more naturally talented dancers in class, because my bones are stiff and my ears are actually naturally tone deaf?? But I would say that I definitely worked hard because I wanted to please all my parents, elders and teachers. There was this particular move which teacher couldn't find the four girls to perform a somewhat difficult move involving a somersault plus a bend over from the waist down. I knew about it and practised in secret. When I felt that I finally could master it, I showed it to a friend in class. So events developed that this friend told teacher in front of everyone else and she made me show her. Even though I wasn't exactly perfect at that time, but I guess it was sufficient for her requirements. So I ended up in this dance performance.)

That time I think it was at Victoria concert hall?? We were dancing this 冰释 dance when stupid old me fell flat on my face (because the costumes were actually a little complicated and teacher also required that we danced on bare feet. In order to create this performance of ice melting there were also machines on the stage which were puffing out fumes to create the idea of condensation or evaporation?? So the stage was actually a little slippery and I slipped.). I got up to my feet but was rendered totally confused as to what the other dancers were doing. So imagine me on stage 东张西望 looking here and there for I think it was close to an entire minute?? (At the same time had the feeling that ALL the spotlights on stage were on me, including the few thousands eyes of the spectators!! In short I panicked.) Then I finally figured out which point of the dance the other girls were doing and managed to join them.

After that when I went back to class, I was scolded upside down by my teacher. And up to today I don't blame her. I mean WHY. How come none of the other girls fell down? And why?? Why should my teacher be made to (I imagine la) sit among the few hundred (or even a thousand) spectators gripping her seat in tension watching me (her stupid student) turning my head here and there, left and right, possibly wondering to herself "what more surprises is this 笨蛋 gonna add to my dance??"

And also: never, NEVER ever 自作多情。Because 天若有情天亦老,自作多情空遗恨!

https://www.des.org.sg/traces/

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诗歌:
鱼儿那么信任水,
水却把它煮熟了。
树叶那么信任风,
风却把它吹落了。
我本那么信任你,
你却把我伤害了。

后来的我发现了,
煮熟鱼的不是水,
是水火不容的火。
吹落叶的不是风,
是风的自由自在,
和秋天无孔不入。

伤害我的不是你,
是我的自作多情!

I have also NEVER once said to my kids "I expect you to get good grades because it's for your own good". I feel that's giving them stress and high pressures. I believe in 顺其自然 and even if they scored last position in class, I will tell them this "it's also number 1, counting from the back." And then if necessary, sit down with them to understand and analyse the reason(s) behind their poor performance.

It's not shameful to fail in life. It will ONLY become a shame if you failed to pick yourself up and TRY. Try and try again. It's your CHOICE.(而且 “人比人逼死人” 的意思是:你输了,心理就难以忘怀(难以平衡),你赢了,也同样难逃 “骄兵必败” 的 沾沾自喜。” 所以尽可能不要跟别人比较比赛挖鼻孔,最后还可能挖到流鼻血!)

And even if at the end of the day, you still haven't succeeded, at least you can say to yourself "At least I have given it ALL I have got and tried my very BEST. 我对得起昨日的我,当下的我和明日的我 = 我对得起天地良心。”

Take for example this case: https://www.nst.com.my/news/nation/2023/04/...xams-third-time

Law student after failing his exams the third time set himself on fire at the petrol station in an attempt to commit suicide. WHY. I think this kinda thinking and decision is actually worse than failing his examinations, no? If I were him (or his parents) I would probably tell him: never mind, go learn a skill or technique such as car repairing or even work as an apprentice at the car accessories shop. Give yourself a chance in LiFE. And when you are 50 or even 60 years old, if you still wanna try THAT law exam, then you go try again. You will DEFINITELY 101% pass with flying colours!

活到老,学到老。人生的意义就是如此而已。

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I went to a cell group gathering brought by Mia's mama yesterday. This is the second time I attended. The first time was at Li Ann's house (yesterday was at Melissa's house).

The short sermon was on this topic:
https://www.marquette.edu/faith/reflections...th%20Samaritans.

Yesterday the pastor in the video recording said that because of the cultural norms at THAT time, many women got 休妻 by their husbands because of infertility. THAT could be one of the reasons why she had had six men altogether. But this webpage here gave yet another possible reason.

Whatever it may be, Jesus as God found enough value in her to approach her because He wanted to save her soul??

I think I finally figured out this: I'm also not sure if I was filled with 恨(恨铁不成钢,亦或是恨他恨自己恨全天下的所有人事物 etc). Or else maybe I wasn't even sure if I was worthy of the RESPECT and KINDLINESS the 老夫子 in the SPF had shown to me??

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No part is all THAT different from the other parts, as long as we learn and live our lives with an upright heart and don't harm other people as much as possible.

NOW a quite important meaning of my life is to teach my sons this "NEVER ever blame another person for your perceived suffering because you will end up also blaming God which includes yourself. Always always remember 一山更比一山高, when you are comparing yourself with someone else, there's always someone out there who is having a more difficult time or life than yourself."

For example me (their mum). When I was young my mum sent me to Kampung Glam community centre in SG to learn dancing under a lady called 严众莲老师。She's a strict teacher with high standards for her students and even though she was said to teach us Chinese dance, she's a modern dancer who also taught us her students important ballet moves such as the five feet positions.

She also took out some time to ask about our school results because she also wanted her students to not forget our school work. I remember when she told us to sit down and asked us what position we got in class. When it was my turn, I was silent as usual and merely pointed my right forefinger. I think she felt a bit incredulous?? 🤣🤣

There was once when I was also one of the performers for this dance she choreographed and named 冰释 "Ice melting". (Let me state upfront: I definitely wasn't one of the more naturally talented dancers in class, because my bones are stiff and my ears are actually naturally tone deaf?? But I would say that I definitely worked hard because I wanted to please all my parents, elders and teachers. There was this particular move which teacher couldn't find the four girls to perform a somewhat difficult move involving a somersault plus a bend over from the waist down. I knew about it and practised in secret. When I felt that I finally could master it, I showed it to a friend in class. So events developed that this friend told teacher in front of everyone else and she made me show her. Even though I wasn't exactly perfect at that time, but I guess it was sufficient for her requirements. So I ended up in this dance performance.)

That time I think it was at Victoria concert hall?? We were dancing this 冰释 dance when stupid old me fell flat on my face (because the costumes were actually a little complicated and teacher also required that we danced on bare feet. In order to create this performance of ice melting there were also machines on the stage which were puffing out fumes to create the idea of condensation or evaporation?? So the stage was actually a little slippery and I slipped.). I got up to my feet but was rendered totally confused as to what the other dancers were doing. So imagine me on stage 东张西望 looking here and there for I think it was close to an entire minute?? (At the same time had the feeling that ALL the spotlights on stage were on me, including the few thousands eyes of the spectators!! In short I panicked.) Then I finally figured out which point of the dance the other girls were doing and managed to join them.

After that when I went back to class, I was scolded upside down by my teacher. And up to today I don't blame her. I mean WHY. How come none of the other girls fell down? And why?? Why should my teacher be made to (I imagine la) sit among the few hundred (or even a thousand) spectators gripping her seat in tension watching me (her stupid student) turning my head here and there, left and right, possibly wondering to herself "what more surprises is this 笨蛋 gonna add to my dance??"

And also: never, NEVER ever 自作多情。Because 天若有情天亦老,自作多情空遗恨!

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诗歌:
鱼儿那么信任水,
水却把它煮熟了。
树叶那么信任风,
风却把它吹落了。
我本那么信任你,
你却把我伤害了。

后来的我发现了,
煮熟鱼的不是水,
是水火不容的火。
吹落叶的不是风,
是风的自由自在,
和秋天无孔不入。

伤害我的不是你,
是我的自作多情!

I have also NEVER once said to my kids "I expect you to get good grades because it's for your own good". I feel that's giving them stress and high pressures. I believe in 顺其自然 and even if they scored last position in class, I will tell them this "it's also number 1, counting from the back." And then if necessary, sit down with them to understand and analyse the reason(s) behind their poor performance.

It's not shameful to fail in life. It will ONLY become a shame if you failed to pick yourself up and TRY. Try and try again. It's your CHOICE.(而且 “人比人逼死人” 的意思是:你输了,心理就难以忘怀(难以平衡),你赢了,也同样难逃 “骄兵必败” 的 沾沾自喜。” 所以尽可能不要跟别人比较比赛挖鼻孔,最后还可能挖到流鼻血!)

And even if at the end of the day, you still haven't succeeded, at least you can say to yourself "At least I have given it ALL I have got and tried my very BEST. 我对得起昨日的我,当下的我和明日的我 = 我对得起天地良心。”

Take for example this case: https://www.nst.com.my/news/nation/2023/04/...xams-third-time

Law student after failing his exams the third time set himself on fire at the petrol station in an attempt to commit suicide. WHY. I think this kinda thinking and decision is actually worse than failing his examinations, no? If I were him (or his parents) I would probably tell him: never mind, go learn a technique such as car repairing or even work at the car accessories shop. Give yourself a chance in LiFE. And when you are 50 or even 60 years old, if you still wanna try THAT law exam, then you go try again. You will DEFINITELY 101% pass with flying colours!

活到老,学到老。人生的意义就是如此而已。
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Simi old teaching is this?
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According to "Su Nv Jing," the optimal frequency of ejaculation changes with age.
For people in their 20s, once every 4 days is recommended,
7 time in 1 month
while for those in their 30s, once every 8 days is optimal.
almost 1 time per week
At age 40, it is suggested to ejaculate every 16 days,
1 months only 2 times
and at age 50, every 20 days.
1month 1 time

For individuals over 60, it is advised to refrain from sexual activity,
but if they are still healthy, once a month may be acceptable.
do you agree?

Weakens immunity

Excessive sexual activities weaken the body’s natural immunity. The hormone prostaglandin E-2, which serves an important function in sexual arousal, is overproduced when one engages in marathon or excessive sexual activities and has an inflammatory effect on the body by;

damaging tissues, nerves and joints,
weakening immunity,
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QUOTE(Julie Ting @ Apr 22 2023, 11:50 AM)
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Hope you have a great weekend ahead!!
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Thanks for your approval.

Hope you have a great weekend ahead!!
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https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5367372&hl=


any suggestion?


now i ask her date of presentation, cause this month need to submit any day of block ot.

need to go kl for presentation


i work 4 day rest 3 days


sun - wed or sun - tue is my working day

other is rest day

she never reply the teacher.....


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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 22 2023, 01:32 PM)
https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5367372&hl=
any suggestion?
now i ask her date of presentation, cause this month need to submit any day of block ot.

need to go kl for presentation
i work 4 day rest 3 days
sun - wed or sun - tue is my working day

other is rest day

she never reply the teacher.....
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Already given you my responses in your thread.
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 22 2023, 03:33 PM)
Already given you my responses in your thread.
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NOW IS WEEK 11


i just block 4 days of week 13


hope she can get the date


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NOW IS WEEK 11
i just block 4 days of week 13
hope she can get the date
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Convocation??
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 22 2023, 03:40 PM)
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i just block 4 days of week 13
hope she can get the date
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If she's having problems finding her motivation, maybe you can try ask her which subject she is MOST interested in or can score higher marks.

Just gotta tone down a bit on the calling her lazy (lousy or crazy) parts.

We don't want the situation to develop to the point where she might accuse her family members of adding insult to injury making her even less motivated than before. Or even more disheartened AND discouraged.

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Right now, the meaning in my life is listening to music like this when driving:



For some reason don't particularly like Joyride by Roxette.
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 28 2023, 03:04 PM)
Right now, the meaning in my life is listening to music like this when driving:



For some reason don't particularly like Joyride by Roxette.
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Finally i found it.
Meaning of life to me is


Live
Learn
Work
Play


Like sp setia berhad


I want to train my muscle.....

Withib 6 month.
Until 31 december should have effect
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 22 2023, 04:01 PM)
Convocation??
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Convocation should be september or october


This is just school study week
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 24 2023, 06:08 PM)
Finally i found it.
Meaning of life to me is
Live
Learn
Work
Play
Like sp setia berhad
I want to train my muscle.....

Withib 6 month.
Until 31 december should have effect
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Meaning of my LiFE now is to go see him and ask him: so. What now?? Your Harlot of Babylon wants to come bully me macam like how Diana bullied aka confronted Camilla, izit??

Return me my cross-stitches. And thanks for your HELPING her to BULLY me!!

See this: https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=ST&f=23&t=5381455
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https://www.xiaohongshu.com/discovery/item/...source=question


this is life!!!!
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Life is about money
Life partner

Father and mother

June 2023 i realized

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Answer from Quran

In Quran, Allah Almighty says: “I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship.” (Quran, 51:56)

http://www.quranreading.com/blog/purpose-o...quranic-verses/
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QUOTE(Epci @ Jun 20 2023, 01:29 AM)
Answer from Quran

In Quran, Allah Almighty says: “I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship.” (Quran, 51:56)

http://www.quranreading.com/blog/purpose-o...quranic-verses/
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Can you explain?
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Explain what?
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In Quran, Allah Almighty says: “I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship.” (Quran, 51:56)
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In Quran, Allah Almighty says: “I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship.” (Quran, 51:56)
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You mean the meaning of worship

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/49016/the-r...ssion-to-allaah
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Got money, happy.

No money, worry.

Me as long listen to my wife, happy and got money, hmm... Good life I think.

Sometimes, had a good wife will settle everything for a man.
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The meaning of life is not like ts, keep copy pasta random thing open thread on several forum
And keep necro own thread when no reply
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QUOTE(augusta23 @ Apr 7 2023, 10:52 PM)
For some, it is reproduction.
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Then we think even deeply that all the stuff we do is actually useless and doesn't worth it.

Any opinions?
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QUOTE(AfraidIGotBan @ Jun 20 2023, 02:53 AM)
Got money, happy.

No money, worry.

Me as long listen to my wife, happy and got money, hmm... Good life I think.

Sometimes, had a good wife will settle everything for a man.
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What if wife lazy or no wife?


Boring life?
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What if wife lazy or no wife?
Boring life?
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Lazy wimmin still get married = sendiri cari pasal.
No wife = sendiri pesal

Mix together, pesal berkali kali ganda. extra terrible horrible vegetable.
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Life is the begining of death
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Life is the begining of death
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QUOTE(petpenyubobo @ Apr 7 2023, 11:01 PM)
Here in video:



The more knowledge you seek, the more sorrow/sadness will haunt you.

The more world material you seek the more fearful you will become because you fear someone will overtake you one day or steal all your belongings.

Death will eventually take everything from you one day and you'll not be able to take it along with you.
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一命二运三风水,
四积阴德五读书,
六名七相八敬神,
九交贵人十养生。


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人生不如意十之八九,如意一二,很多人都对现在的生活不满,不如意,这是为什么呢?很多人苦苦思索,穷尽一生未有答案,其实这都是有原因的。 Life is often unsatisfactory, with only one or two moments of contentment. Many people are dissatisfied with their current lives, wondering why. Despite much contemplation throughout their lives, some never find an answer. In reality, there are reasons for this discontent.
一命 One Fate: Fate is predetermined at birth. As the saying goes, 'In life, there is a time for everything. It is essential to accept one's fate, as it is determined by birthdate and time, commonly known as the 'Ba Zi' or Eight Characters. It is unchangeable. It is crucial not to fight against fate but to work with it.
二运 Two Opportunities: Fortunes can change. Having good fate does not necessarily mean having good fortune. Fortune, like the seasons, varies throughout life. Some may experience prosperity in early, middle, or late years. Opportunities are akin to luck, with ups and downs. It's crucial to wait for the right time, seize opportunities, and progress positively during peak times, stepping back during challenging times. Major life cycles occur every ten years, with smaller cycles every five years. Overall, waiting for the right moment and seizing opportunities is the key to success.
三风水 Three Feng Shui: Feng Shui is the wonder of nature. Good Feng Shui nurtures, while bad Feng Shui harms. It emphasizes the significance of a favorable environment. Learning basic Feng Shui knowledge is essential to understand the impact of one's surroundings.
四积阴德 Four Accumulate Virtue: Establishing accomplishments through goodness. Good deeds bring good rewards, and virtue attracts companionship. A virtuous life ensures the support of others. The saying 'A thousand people's accusations, not sick but dead' underscores the importance of accumulating virtue. By doing good and avoiding evil, one can extend life, increase wealth, and protect future generations.
五读书 Five Read Books: Knowledge changes destiny. In today's society, knowledge plays a vital role. Reading enriches one with knowledge and culture, guiding them away from life's pitfalls. Reading is a powerful tool for personal and societal improvement.
六名 Six Name: Names and titles. A bestowed name can be as valuable as treasures. Famous individuals often have names that reflect their virtues or characteristics. Reflect on your own name and its significance.
七相 Seven Appearance: Facial features and demeanor. One's appearance is influenced by their inner qualities. Facial features indicate the present and future state of an individual.
八敬神 Eight Respect the Divine: Lift your head three feet, and there are gods. Gods represent higher beings, existing in the universe or in higher dimensions. The universe is like the Tai Chi, vast and boundless.
九交贵人 Nine Connect with Influential People: Associating with virtuous and influential individuals. Moral, wise, powerful, wealthy, healthy, beautiful, and well-informed people are considered influential. Building connections with such individuals depends on fate and shared encounters.
十养生 Ten Health Maintenance: The way of nurturing life. Diet, exercise, meditation, sleep, emotions, daily routines, clothing, massage, bathing, habits, and hobbies all contribute to maintaining good health.



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人生不如意十之八九,如意一二,很多人都对现在的生活不满,不如意,这是为什么呢?很多人苦苦思索,穷尽一生未有答案,其实这都是有原因的。
一命 命是先天注定。******正所谓命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求。命就是一个人的出生年月日时,也叫生辰八字,是更改不了的,十年寒窗无人问,一朝成名天下知。所以与天斗与地斗千万不要与命斗。
二运 运势可以变化,命好不如运好。********运气犹如春夏秋冬,人有旦夕祸福,有人一生旺,有人一声衰,早年旺,中年旺,晚年旺。甘罗十二为秦相,姜太公八十遇文王。孔明初出茅庐,范蠡泛舟西湖。机不可失失不再来。旺运积极奋进,衰运退避三舍。十年一大运,五年一小运。总之等待时机,抓住机遇,功成身退。
三风水 风水是自然之妙。********地吉苗旺,宅吉人旺。山清水秀出美人,穷山恶水出刁民,说的都是风水的重要性,好的风水养人,坏的风水害人,所以我们要学习一些基础风水知识。
四积阴德 建立功业积善成德。*****善有善报恶有恶报,德不孤必有邻,千夫所指,不病而死,积德行善,必有余庆,莫以善小而不为,莫以恶小而为之,积阴德可以助人长寿,增加你的财富,甚至庇佑子孙后代。
五读书 知识改变命运。******我们都知道现在的社会知识的重要性,读好书有知识有文化,就能有很好的前途,人生也能少走很多弯路,万般皆下品,惟有读书高。
六名 名字称号,赐子千金,不如赐子一名。******刘德华:德才兼备。宋美龄:美好年龄。董建华,何厚铧:港澳归华,问问自己什么名。
七相 相貌仪表,相由心生,善心生善相。******骨骼定一生之荣枯,气色看行年之休囚。所以人的面相可以看出一个人目前和未来的状态。
八敬神 举头三尺有神灵。******比人高级的存在就是神,神其实就是宇宙中高于人类的存在,或者在更高维度的空间,或者在更深层次的太空,宇宙就是太极,其大无外,其小无内。
九交贵人 结交贵人你就会出类拔萃。******有道德,有智慧,有权利,有财富,有健康,有美丽,有信息等这些人都是贵人,交贵人要看缘分,有缘千里来相会,无缘对面不相逢。
十养生 养生之道。******饮食,运动,静坐,夜卧,情绪,起居,衣着,按摩洗澡,习惯爱好都是养生之道。

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QUOTE(3rdEdition @ Apr 7 2023, 10:48 PM)
Life is about /k
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"We're all going to die one day.

Is there any achievement or purpose to life?


Someone answered: 'Happiness.'


To be happy, we need money, so we work hard all our lives to earn it. However, most of us hate the work we do, meaning every moment is unhappy.



Day after day, we feel further away from the goal of happiness due to education debt, home loans, medical bills, and the cycle of working every day just to make money for the rest of our 70 years.


What do we get at the end of it?


Some of us never achieve anything and therefore aren't happy. Some of us accumulate wealth and power but still aren't happy.

Let's say you have 100 million today, like everyone else.



One day you die and return to the soil. In 2024, you die;

100 years later, in 2124, does your 100 million have any meaning?


Your 100 million may be important to you, but no one else knows it.



You'll be found out! Will there be WW3, WW4, or in 2200, maybe Earth won't exist, or humanity will be extinct like the dinosaurs, leaving no trace of human life on Earth.



So, what's your goal?


New thinking 2024

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Dec 5 2023, 03:01 AM)
一命二运三风水,
四积阴德五读书,
六名七相八敬神,
九交贵人十养生。
**Chinese** **English**
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人生不如意十之八九,如意一二,很多人都对现在的生活不满,不如意,这是为什么呢?很多人苦苦思索,穷尽一生未有答案,其实这都是有原因的。 Life is often unsatisfactory, with only one or two moments of contentment. Many people are dissatisfied with their current lives, wondering why. Despite much contemplation throughout their lives, some never find an answer. In reality, there are reasons for this discontent.
一命 One Fate: Fate is predetermined at birth. As the saying goes, 'In life, there is a time for everything. It is essential to accept one's fate, as it is determined by birthdate and time, commonly known as the 'Ba Zi' or Eight Characters. It is unchangeable. It is crucial not to fight against fate but to work with it.
二运 Two Opportunities: Fortunes can change. Having good fate does not necessarily mean having good fortune. Fortune, like the seasons, varies throughout life. Some may experience prosperity in early, middle, or late years. Opportunities are akin to luck, with ups and downs. It's crucial to wait for the right time, seize opportunities, and progress positively during peak times, stepping back during challenging times. Major life cycles occur every ten years, with smaller cycles every five years. Overall, waiting for the right moment and seizing opportunities is the key to success.
三风水 Three Feng Shui: Feng Shui is the wonder of nature. Good Feng Shui nurtures, while bad Feng Shui harms. It emphasizes the significance of a favorable environment. Learning basic Feng Shui knowledge is essential to understand the impact of one's surroundings.
四积阴德 Four Accumulate Virtue: Establishing accomplishments through goodness. Good deeds bring good rewards, and virtue attracts companionship. A virtuous life ensures the support of others. The saying 'A thousand people's accusations, not sick but dead' underscores the importance of accumulating virtue. By doing good and avoiding evil, one can extend life, increase wealth, and protect future generations.
五读书 Five Read Books: Knowledge changes destiny. In today's society, knowledge plays a vital role. Reading enriches one with knowledge and culture, guiding them away from life's pitfalls. Reading is a powerful tool for personal and societal improvement.
六名 Six Name: Names and titles. A bestowed name can be as valuable as treasures. Famous individuals often have names that reflect their virtues or characteristics. Reflect on your own name and its significance.
七相 Seven Appearance: Facial features and demeanor. One's appearance is influenced by their inner qualities. Facial features indicate the present and future state of an individual.
八敬神 Eight Respect the Divine: Lift your head three feet, and there are gods. Gods represent higher beings, existing in the universe or in higher dimensions. The universe is like the Tai Chi, vast and boundless.
九交贵人 Nine Connect with Influential People: Associating with virtuous and influential individuals. Moral, wise, powerful, wealthy, healthy, beautiful, and well-informed people are considered influential. Building connections with such individuals depends on fate and shared encounters.
十养生 Ten Health Maintenance: The way of nurturing life. Diet, exercise, meditation, sleep, emotions, daily routines, clothing, massage, bathing, habits, and hobbies all contribute to maintaining good health.
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人生不如意十之八九,如意一二,很多人都对现在的生活不满,不如意,这是为什么呢?很多人苦苦思索,穷尽一生未有答案,其实这都是有原因的。
一命 命是先天注定。******正所谓命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求。命就是一个人的出生年月日时,也叫生辰八字,是更改不了的,十年寒窗无人问,一朝成名天下知。所以与天斗与地斗千万不要与命斗。
二运 运势可以变化,命好不如运好。********运气犹如春夏秋冬,人有旦夕祸福,有人一生旺,有人一声衰,早年旺,中年旺,晚年旺。甘罗十二为秦相,姜太公八十遇文王。孔明初出茅庐,范蠡泛舟西湖。机不可失失不再来。旺运积极奋进,衰运退避三舍。十年一大运,五年一小运。总之等待时机,抓住机遇,功成身退。
三风水 风水是自然之妙。********地吉苗旺,宅吉人旺。山清水秀出美人,穷山恶水出刁民,说的都是风水的重要性,好的风水养人,坏的风水害人,所以我们要学习一些基础风水知识。
四积阴德 建立功业积善成德。*****善有善报恶有恶报,德不孤必有邻,千夫所指,不病而死,积德行善,必有余庆,莫以善小而不为,莫以恶小而为之,积阴德可以助人长寿,增加你的财富,甚至庇佑子孙后代。
五读书 知识改变命运。******我们都知道现在的社会知识的重要性,读好书有知识有文化,就能有很好的前途,人生也能少走很多弯路,万般皆下品,惟有读书高。
六名 名字称号,赐子千金,不如赐子一名。******刘德华:德才兼备。宋美龄:美好年龄。董建华,何厚铧:港澳归华,问问自己什么名。
七相 相貌仪表,相由心生,善心生善相。******骨骼定一生之荣枯,气色看行年之休囚。所以人的面相可以看出一个人目前和未来的状态。
八敬神 举头三尺有神灵。******比人高级的存在就是神,神其实就是宇宙中高于人类的存在,或者在更高维度的空间,或者在更深层次的太空,宇宙就是太极,其大无外,其小无内。
九交贵人 结交贵人你就会出类拔萃。******有道德,有智慧,有权利,有财富,有健康,有美丽,有信息等这些人都是贵人,交贵人要看缘分,有缘千里来相会,无缘对面不相逢。
十养生 养生之道。******饮食,运动,静坐,夜卧,情绪,起居,衣着,按摩洗澡,习惯爱好都是养生之道。
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nice info but what am I supposed to do with this information? Any tips and examples?

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I lost 50% of my smell to covid lately (still improving). At the time I lost my sense of smell it was devastating because eating good food is a little joy in my life. And I thought about the time I am complaining about my husband's body ordour and smelly roadside stalls and toilets. I would give almost anything to smell those again.

I always thought of Jesus' word "Live a Day at a Time". Live everyday slowly, in the moment. Come what may. Enjoy the simple things, both good and bad.

I also read that human brains are basically made out of 2 variations. Optimistic or pessimistic. There's no way to change it because it is genetic neural structure. Optimistic people are driven by want. Pessimistic people are driven by fear.

Unfortunately I inherit a pessimist brain. Critical thinking but with an overthinking mental that always imagine the worst just so I don't lose my mind. Then I learn about amor fati. To embrace my fate, because I have no choice, this is the card you are given, brooding will not help. Time still passes.

The point here is, just find what works for you. That gives you peace. Some people compare themselves to less fortunate people to feel happy and calm. Some just focus on sensual enjoyment, trying to drown out themselves until they can accept their fate. Some keep themselves busy so they don't spend time thinking about meaning of life. Some hit the lottery ticket, they are simple minded, and they don't think much of things just on the day or week or month, what their current want is.

Point is, find your ikigai, or not. doesn't matter. Just do what works for you, there is no fixed KPI. not everyone wants to he happy. some wants to be fulfilled. some wants to be angry, or any strong emotion cause they like the thrill of feeling alive. our parents give us this life, we just run with it. What is there to think about. Everything is random, nothing matters, except what you focus on now.


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Enjoy the roller coaster life. 😅

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nice info but what am I supposed to do with this information?  Any tips and examples?
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Ten Health Maintenance: The way of nurturing life.


Diet, exercise, meditation, sleep, emotions, daily routines, clothing, massage, bathing, habits, and hobbies all contribute to maintaining good health.


Can follow this.....


Or follow religion...

Are you buddhist or taoist?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Oct 17 2024, 09:32 PM)
Why If we do not enjoy it?
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I am being having troubles in my life since move out from family staying independent.

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Work Is Meaningless

17 So I hated life. That’s because the work done on this earth made me sad. None of it has any meaning. It’s like chasing the wind.

18 I hated everything I had worked for on earth. I’ll have to leave all of it to someone who lives after me.

19 And who knows whether that person will be wise or foolish? Either way, they’ll take over everything on earth I’ve worked so hard for. That doesn’t have any meaning either.

20 So I began to lose hope because of all my hard work on this earth.

21 A person might use wisdom, knowledge and skill to do their work. But then they have to leave everything they own to someone who hasn’t worked for it. That doesn’t have any meaning either. In fact, it isn’t fair.

22 What do people get for all their hard work on earth? What do they get for all their worries?

23 As long as they live, their work is nothing but pain and sorrow. Even at night their minds can’t rest. That doesn’t have any meaning either.
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The Purpose Of Life: ........

1. Christians = to obey God's Law for a good and long life on earth and to believe/trust/have faith in Jesus Christ and His atoning Cross for going to heaven in the afterlife.
....... Christians follow both the Old and New Testaments.

2. Jews = to obey God's Law or Torah for both a good and long life on earth and going to heaven in the afterlife.
....... Jews follow the Old Testament only, ie they reject the New Testament

3. Muslims = similar to Jews except obey Allah's Law or Sharia.
....... Muslims follow the Koran, ie both the OT and NT have been obsoleted or replaced by their Koran.

4. Hindus and Buddhists = to have good merits or deeds in this life, in order to be reincarnated or reborn into a better next or afterlife, until achieve enlightenment or nirvana or godhood, which will end their cycles of rebirths.
....... Ghosts are the spirits of the dead before being reborn/reincarnated. In monotheism, ghosts are demons of Satan.

5. Atheists = to have subjective morals according to what is good in his/her own eyes/views, ie sans the objective morals/laws of God (some atheists are hedonists or pleasurists), and they believe they will just die into nothingness or decay back into dust or atoms = no afterlife.

6. Etc.
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QUOTE(amiee @ Oct 17 2024, 09:11 PM)
I lost 50% of my smell to covid lately (still improving). At the time I lost my sense of smell it was devastating because eating good food is a little joy in my life. And I thought about the time I am complaining about my husband's body ordour and smelly roadside stalls and toilets. I would give almost anything to smell those again.

I always thought of Jesus' word "Live a Day at a Time". Live everyday slowly, in the moment. Come what may. Enjoy the simple things, both good and bad.
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MATTHEW.6: (NKJV) = Do Not Worry

25 “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? ...

For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

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The Purpose Of Life: ........

1. Christians = to obey God's Law for a good and long life on earth and to believe/trust/have faith in Jesus Christ and His atoning Cross for going to heaven in the afterlife.
....... Christians follow both the Old and New Testaments.

2. Jews = to obey God's Law or Torah for both a good and long life on earth and going to heaven in the afterlife.
....... Jews follow the Old Testament only, ie they reject the New Testament

3. Muslims = similar to Jews except obey Allah's Law or Sharia.
....... Muslims follow the Koran, ie both the OT and NT have been obsoleted or replaced by their Koran.
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If heaven is filled with people who cheat, murder and steal like many rich want to believe then it is no longer a nice place you want to be in your afterlife.

This is the sick Abrahamic belief which is very hard to accept.

I noticed many influential and wealthy faces preaching the gospel as though they will make it to heaven despite knowing all the sins they committed throughout their life but they deny their doings.

Then they preach that heaven is certain if you commit yourself to the religion but they themselves fear death and will pay whatever to keep themselves alive.

Say?
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To understand the purpose of life, you must first understand what "this life" is all about first, the this body/mind that you call self...
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Your answer does not show understanding to the topic itself.

What is life and this body/mind unique to the thing called "self"?

It refers to your SOUL and CHARACTER.

A beggar who is wise, cheerful, humble, trustworthy, helpful has a more powerful soul than a selfish king who greedy, bad tempered and liar.

As King Solomon said, all is meaningless in life and nothing can be carried with you to the grave means one's soul/character makes up most of of the weight that you can only bring with you when death invites.

All the physical body, wealth, the hard work, and material accumulation even family members mentioned as your 2nd, 3rd and 4th wives will leave you when you die. Only your 1st wife which is your soul/character will be allowed to follow you when you die.
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Huh? You mean you agree with the Pajeets of Bharat?  shakehead.gif

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sati_(practice)
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How you know heaven exist? You been there on tour and returned? How come God didn't invite me for that tour and only invited you? laugh.gif

Don't start telling me people testify their near death experiences and claim so and so. They could have been bribed by you. laugh.gif

So do you agree that being a badass in life but repent and accept God's salvation guarantees you a place in eternal heaven?

If that heaven really exists, then many including myself feel it isn't really a nice place to be. laugh.gif It'll be filled by many ex-thieves, murderers, scammers and liars all over there. Is that what a paradise is called?

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How you know heaven exist? You been there on tour and returned? How come God didn't invite me for that tour and only invited you? laugh.gif

Don't start telling me people testify their near death experiences and claim so and so. They could have been bribed by you. laugh.gif

So do you agree that being a badass in life but repent and accept God's salvation guarantees you a place in eternal heaven?

IF that heaven exists, then  like many including myself feel it isn't really a nice place to be. laugh.gif
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People talking about your statement of bringing your wife along in death, you pulak...... doh.gif

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People talking about your statement of bringing your wife along in death, you pulak...... doh.gif
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Adui heaven is a nice place they say, filled with ex-rapists, scammers, murderers and thieves but as soon as they accept salvation they're saved?

Hellooo, like that idea also can still sell meh? The sales person needs a new argument to sell heaven. innocent.gif
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Adui heaven is a nice place they say, filled with ex-rapists, scammers, murderers and thieves but as soon as they accept salvation they're saved?

Hellooo, like that idea also can still sell meh? The sales person needs a new argument to sell heaven. innocent.gif
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So you belip that your wife needs to die and join you in death? icon_question.gif
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So you belip that your wife needs to die and join you in death?  icon_question.gif
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Unless you want your tomb stone to be hammered or spitted on when you die, your soul after death is still despise by the public and people around you because your foul character is still remembered by all your victims including their families.
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Did u even read wat those 4 wives symbolized, or has hatred clouded your mind? 🤪
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Go read this book "Ikigai". I am sure U will find your meaning there
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Go read this book "Ikigai". I am sure U will find your meaning there
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“Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life,”


written by Héctor García and Francesc Miralles.



Ikigai loosely translates to “the happiness of always being busy,” and is centered around a person’s true purpose in life.


Finding your ikigai is said to make life more meaningful.


In Okinawa, Japan, a blue zone with the highest concentration of centenarians in the world, ikigai is a common theme, according to García and Miralles who interviewed some of the world’s oldest people.

A Japanese proverb states: “Only staying active will make you want to live a hundred years.” And García and Miralles encourage you to stay active by immersing yourself in your ikigai.

Here are the 10 rules that they’ve found have made living in your purpose more seamless.

The 10 rules of ikigai


1) Stay active; don’t retire.

Many of the world’s longest-lived people work well into their 80′s and 90′s or don’t retire. Take for instance, Jayne Burns, a 100-year-old woman who works at a craft store in Ohio; Burns jokingly said her only birthday wish after turning 100 was “to keep working.”


2) Take it slow.

It may feel normal to rush through things and be in a hurry, but that can actually have negative effects on the quality of your life, according to García and Miralles. Instead, they recommend taking your time and seeing how it adds more meaning to your life.


3) Don’t fill your stomach.

Often, centenarians that the authors spoke to suggested eating only 80% of what’s on your plate. “The extra side dish, the snack we eat when we know in our hearts we don’t really need it, the apple pie after lunch—all these will give us pleasure in the short term, but not having them will make us happier in the long term.”


4) Surround yourself with **** good friends. ****
Having great relationships in your life has been linked to happiness and longevity, according to an 85-year Harvard study.

Centenarians in Okinawa, whom García and Miralles interviewed, prioritized spending time together at community centers in their village and often competed in friendly sports games.


5) Get in shape for your next birthday. *************
Exercise is a huge component that contributes to longevity. Even if strenuous exercises aren’t your thing, there are five-minute movements like radio taiso 體操 that the oldest residents of Okinawa do daily.


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6) Smile. **************
“It’s good to recognize the things that aren’t so great, but we should never forget what a privilege it is to be in the here and now in a world so full of possibilities,” wrote García and Miralles.


7) Reconnect with nature. ************

Find time to breathe in some fresh air and take a walk, even if you live in a city. Spending time in nature may seem like a waste of time, but it can boost your productivity, enhance your mood and improve your memory.

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8) Give thanks.
Gratitude is a great way to remind yourself of all of the best things in your life. Take some time to share your appreciation for your loving family, wonderful friends or even yourself.



9) Live in the moment. “Stop regretting the past and fearing the future. Today is all you have.

Make the most of it. Make it worth remembering,”

wrote García and Miralles.


10) Follow your ikigai.
Discover what your passion is and let it drive you. Having an ikigai adds purpose to your life and can lead to more happiness.



But japanese all do not happy....

Work too many

They do not read the book or reality is more cruel than dream?

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“Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life,”
written by Héctor García and Francesc Miralles.
Ikigai loosely translates to “the happiness of always being busy,” and is centered around a person’s true purpose in life.
Finding your ikigai is said to make life more meaningful.
In Okinawa, Japan, a blue zone with the highest concentration of centenarians in the world, ikigai is a common theme, according to García and Miralles who interviewed some of the world’s oldest people.

A Japanese proverb states: “Only staying active will make you want to live a hundred years.” And García and Miralles encourage you to stay active by immersing yourself in your ikigai.

Here are the 10 rules that they’ve found have made living in your purpose more seamless.

The 10 rules of ikigai
Stay active; don’t retire.

Many of the world’s longest-lived people work well into their 80′s and 90′s or don’t retire. Take for instance, Jayne Burns, a 100-year-old woman who works at a craft store in Ohio; Burns jokingly said her only birthday wish after turning 100 was “to keep working.”
Take it slow.

It may feel normal to rush through things and be in a hurry, but that can actually have negative effects on the quality of your life, according to García and Miralles. Instead, they recommend taking your time and seeing how it adds more meaning to your life.
Don’t fill your stomach.

Often, centenarians that the authors spoke to suggested eating only 80% of what’s on your plate. “The extra side dish, the snack we eat when we know in our hearts we don’t really need it, the apple pie after lunch—all these will give us pleasure in the short term, but not having them will make us happier in the long term.”
Surround yourself with good friends.
Having great relationships in your life has been linked to happiness and longevity, according to an 85-year Harvard study. Centenarians in Okinawa, whom García and Miralles interviewed, prioritized spending time together at community centers in their village and often competed in friendly sports games.
Get in shape for your next birthday.
Exercise is a huge component that contributes to longevity. Even if strenuous exercises aren’t your thing, there are five-minute movements like radio taiso that the oldest residents of Okinawa do daily.
Smile.
“It’s good to recognize the things that aren’t so great, but we should never forget what a privilege it is to be in the here and now in a world so full of possibilities,” wrote García and Miralles.
Reconnect with nature. Find time to breathe in some fresh air and take a walk, even if you live in a city. Spending time in nature may seem like a waste of time, but it can boost your productivity, enhance your mood and improve your memory.
Give thanks.
Gratitude is a great way to remind yourself of all of the best things in your life. Take some time to share your appreciation for your loving family, wonderful friends or even yourself.
Live in the moment. “Stop regretting the past and fearing the future. Today is all you have. Make the most of it. Make it worth remembering,” wrote García and Miralles.
Follow your ikigai.
Discover what your passion is and let it drive you. Having an ikigai adds purpose to your life and can lead to more happiness.
But japanese all do not happy....

Work too many

They do not read the book or reality is more cruel than  dream?
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Ten Health Maintenance: The way of nurturing life.
Diet, exercise, meditation, sleep, emotions, daily routines, clothing, massage, bathing, habits, and hobbies all contribute to maintaining good health.
Can follow this.....
Or follow religion...

Are you buddhist or taoist?
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The 5 AM Club: What Is It And Should You Join?


Waking up at 5 am may seem like a nightmare, but for a growing number, it's the route to a fulfilled life.


Based on a book of the same name, the 5 am club is all about rising early to concentrate on your life goals before the rest of the world wakes up.

This new trend became popular in 2018 when the club’s ‘President’, Robin Sharma, released his book titled ‘


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The 5 am Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life’.


It’s since become an international bestseller and the concept has become a bit of an online sensation too.

Now, members are soaring. Influencers sing the club’s praises. Life coaches share Sharma’s motivational quotes. Social platforms are awash with the #5amclub hashtag. So, given its popularity, it may be time to consider your own 5 am club application.



On my first morning, I got all the wisdom found in Sharma’s book and felt ready to apply it to my own life.

Here are three key ideas I learned from Blinkist’s explainer of The 5 AM Club.

1. You Need to Protect Your Limited Mental Capacity
We all have a limited mental capacity or cognitive bandwidth. And this can easily be taken up with work responsibilities, childcare duties, social media notifications, and all the errands we need to run.

We may have the best intentions to work out or read a chapter of a personal development book each day, but before we know it, our to-do lists have taken over and our cognitive bandwidth has been used up.

Getting up at 5 A.M., and focusing on the things that matter to us first thing without any distractions, stops this from happening.

2.


Use Day Stacking to Improve One Skill by 1% Each Day
One hour a day doesn’t sound like much when you want to improve a skill, especially when you only spend 20 minutes of that hour reading and learning.


But Sharma argues that a small amount of daily progress can add up.

This is what he calls “day stacking.”

If you aim to improve a skill by just 1% each day, over a year, these days will stack up and you’ll have improved by more than 300%.

“All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.”

Robin S. Sharma.


3. Follow the 20/20/20 Rule

Waking up at 5 A.M. alone won’t transform your life. After all, you could just wake up and spend the extra time on social media or watching T.V. The 20/20/20 rule is what makes Sharma’s morning routine so powerful.

Sharma says you should spend 20 minutes on vigorous exercise, 20 minutes on reflection by meditating and journaling, and 20 minutes on growth by reading and learning.

He recommends this order, but, of course, you can customize the routine to suit your life and goals. The point is you get up early and spend an hour bettering yourself each day.


Take excellent care of the front end of your day, and the rest of your day will pretty much take care of itself.

Own your morning.

Elevate your life.


At the top level, the benefits include **** a reduction of stress***** in the morning,
******improved sleep quality****, and an
****overall happier mood.*****


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**Tips for a Better Sleep Cycle** **Details**
**Go to Bed Earlier** Allows plenty of rest time, at least 7 hours of sleep per night.
**Avoid Sleep Deprivation** Less than 7 hours of sleep may cause morning fight-or-flight mode.
**Maintain Consistent Wake Times** Helps realign your circadian rhythm for better sleep quality.
**Aim for Quality Sleep** A consistent schedule supports uninterrupted, restful sleep.
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**Time** **Brain Activity and Effects**
Early Morning - Brain feels calm and focused due to changes in chemical composition.
- Prefrontal cortex (responsible for overthinking) is temporarily less active.
- Dopamine多巴胺 and serotonin levels increase, promoting energy and tranquility.
During the Day - Engaging in activities like social media, online interactions, and TV fills up brain "bandwidth".
- Limited mental capacity is left for learning or absorbing new information.
Conclusion Starting the day early allows better focus and productivity, setting a positive tone.



**Tips to Join the 5 AM Club** **Details**
**Start in Increments** Gradually wake up earlier (e.g., from 7:00 am to 6:45 am) to make the transition smoother.
**Adjust Your Sleeping Schedule** Go to bed earlier to ensure at least 7-8 hours of sleep (e.g., asleep by 10:00 pm).
**Plan Your Routine** Prepare essentials the night before (e.g., clothes, shoes, journal) to simplify your morning.

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Meaningfully, what is the meaning of the purpose of meaning of life?
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Meaningfully, what is the meaning of the purpose of meaning of life?
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What is the meaning of the purpose of the meaning of life?


This is a profoundly philosophical question with no definitive answer, as it varies from person to person.


For some, the meaning of life might lie in the pursuit of happiness, love, and relationships; for others, it may be found in the pursuit of knowledge, achievements, or helping others.


Some believe that life has no inherent meaning and that it is up to us to create it.

Ultimately, the meaning of life is about how each individual chooses to live and find value in their existence. It can come from passions, connections with others, or contributing to a greater cause.
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whats so hard to understand?

purpose of life is to live in the moment.

you are very lucky to just EXIST.

do you realize there are many other things never got the chance to exist?


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Watch this movie, some how related to your question:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxM1kDmF_eE&t=1s

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Watch this movie, some how related to your question:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxM1kDmF_eE&t=1s
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The 5 AM Club: What Is It And Should You Join?


Waking up at 5 am may seem like a nightmare, but for a growing number, it's the route to a fulfilled life.


Based on a book of the same name, the 5 am club is all about rising early to concentrate on your life goals before the rest of the world wakes up.

This new trend became popular in 2018 when the club’s ‘President’, Robin Sharma, released his book titled ‘


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The 5 am Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life’.
《早晨5点起床俱乐部:掌控清晨,成就人生》

It’s since become an international bestseller and the concept has become a bit of an online sensation too.

Now, members are soaring. Influencers sing the club’s praises. Life coaches share Sharma’s motivational quotes.


Social platforms are awash with the #5amclub hashtag.
So, given its popularity, it may be time to consider your own 5 am club application.



On my first morning, I got all the wisdom found in Sharma’s book and felt ready to apply it to my own life.

Here are three key ideas I learned from Blinkist’s explainer of The 5 AM Club.

1. You Need to Protect Your Limited Mental Capacity
We all have a limited mental capacity or cognitive bandwidth. And this can easily be taken up with work responsibilities, childcare duties, social media notifications, and all the errands we need to run.

We may have the best intentions to work out or read a chapter of a personal development book each day, but before we know it, our to-do lists have taken over and our cognitive bandwidth has been used up.

Getting up at 5 A.M., and focusing on the things that matter to us first thing without any distractions, stops this from happening.

早上5点起床,先专注于对我们最重要的事情,避免任何干扰,能够有效避免这种情况的发生。

2.


Use Day Stacking to Improve One Skill by 1% Each Day
One hour a day doesn’t sound like much when you want to improve a skill, especially when you only spend 20 minutes of that hour reading and learning.


But Sharma argues that a small amount of daily progress can add up.

This is what he calls “day stacking.”

If you aim to improve a skill by just 1% each day, over a year, these days will stack up and you’ll have improved by more than 300%.

“All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.”

使用“日积月累”法每天提高1%的技能

每天一小时看似不多,尤其是当你在这其中只花20分钟进行阅读和学习时,似乎不足以提升技能。

但Sharma认为,每天的小进步会积累起来。

这就是他所说的“日积月累”。

如果你每天只提高1%的技能,一年下来,这些天数会积累成一个巨大变化,你的技能提升将超过300%。

“所有的改变开始时都很困难,中间有些混乱,但最终会变得非常美好。”

Robin S. Sharma.


3. Follow the 20/20/20 Rule

Waking up at 5 A.M. alone won’t transform your life. After all, you could just wake up and spend the extra time on social media or watching T.V. The 20/20/20 rule is what makes Sharma’s morning routine so powerful.

Sharma says you should spend 20 minutes on vigorous exercise, 20 minutes on reflection by meditating and journaling, and 20 minutes on growth by reading and learning.

Sharma提到,您应该花20分钟进行剧烈运动,
20分钟进行冥想和写日记反思,
另外再花20分钟通过阅读和学习来成长。

He recommends this order, but, of course, you can customize the routine to suit your life and goals. The point is you get up early and spend an hour bettering yourself each day.


Take excellent care of the front end of your day, and the rest of your day will pretty much take care of itself.

Own your morning.

Elevate your life.


At the top level, the benefits include **** a reduction of stress***** in the morning,
******improved sleep quality****, and an
****overall happier mood.*****


/---------------------------/
**Tips for a Better Sleep Cycle** **Details**
**Go to Bed Earlier** Allows plenty of rest time, at least 7 hours of sleep per night.
**Avoid Sleep Deprivation** Less than 7 hours of sleep may cause morning fight-or-flight mode. 少于7小时的睡眠可能会导致早晨进入“战斗或逃跑”模式。
**Maintain Consistent Wake Times** Helps realign your circadian rhythm for better sleep quality.
**Aim for Quality Sleep** A consistent schedule supports uninterrupted, restful sleep.
/---------------------------/


**Time** **Brain Activity and Effects**
Early Morning - Brain feels calm and focused due to changes in chemical composition.
- Prefrontal cortex (responsible for overthinking) is temporarily less active.
- Dopamine多巴胺 and serotonin levels increase, promoting energy and tranquility.
During the Day - Engaging in activities like social media, online interactions, and TV fills up brain "bandwidth".
- Limited mental capacity is left for learning or absorbing new information.
Conclusion Starting the day early allows better focus and productivity, setting a positive tone.



**Tips to Join the 5 AM Club** **Details**
**Start in Increments** Gradually wake up earlier (e.g., from 7:00 am to 6:45 am) to make the transition smoother.
**Adjust Your Sleeping Schedule** Go to bed earlier to ensure at least 7-8 hours of sleep (e.g., asleep by 10:00 pm).
**Plan Your Routine** Prepare essentials the night before (e.g., clothes, shoes, journal) to simplify your morning.

**加入“早晨5点起床俱乐部”的建议** **详细信息**
**逐步开始** 逐渐提前起床(例如,从早上7:00到6:45),使过渡更平稳。
**调整睡眠时间表** 提前上床,确保至少7-8小时的睡眠(例如,晚上10:00前入睡)。
**规划你的早晨例行事务** 前一天晚上准备好必需品(例如,衣服、鞋子、日记),简化早晨的准备工作。


[The Meaning of Life]

{{Reflections on Life}}

After a few days of doing absolutely nothing during the holiday, I have finally recharged my tired body and am ready to start work for 2025.
There are only 3 days left, and the new year is about to begin.

When I was about ten years old, I often asked myself,
"If the ultimate end of life is death, then why do we need to live?"
However, life went on— from birth to studying, exams, work, marriage, raising children, and finally retirement.

More than thirty years have passed, and I finally have the leisure to ask myself that Million Dollar Question again:
If everyone must die, what is the meaning of life?
I think the best answer is experience.

Each person comes into this world to experience their own life.

{{The Journey of Life}}

We live not for others, not for our parents or children; we live to experience our own journey.
Whether you choose to work hard your whole life or live a laid-back existence, it's a personal choice.

As long as no one is harmed, there is no right or wrong.
Be good to yourself, without needing a reason.

{{Memories of Each Stage}}

Whether it’s crying after losing a game at seven…
Failing to get enough A’s at twelve and not getting into the school you wanted…
Partying with friends until late at eighteen…
Feeling lost after graduation at twenty-three, like a rookie at your first job…
At thirty, when your wife just had a baby, living a fulfilling life as a parent…

At forty, when all your friends start retiring early, but you’re still working hard for a living…

At fifty, when your friends begin getting sick and are forced to retire…
At sixty, when your grandchild is born and you're busy taking care of them…
At seventy, when all your friends are passing away…

Each stage of life has its sweet memories worth savoring.
We should spend each day with those around us, creating more happy memories.


{{Cherish the Present}}

No matter what age we are, for the things and people that interest us, we shouldn’t hesitate because of our age.
If there's something we want to try, we should just do it.


Perhaps in the future, there will be even more experiences worth reliving.
From another perspective, the so-called "experiencing life" is really just about how to happily pass the time.

{{Life’s Routine}}

I think life needs a certain routine. We need a home to rest in and daily activities that may seem repetitive but can fill our time meaningfully.
These could include watering plants, feeding pets, cooking, cleaning, exercising, reading, watching shows, or writing.
In addition, we can spice things up with occasional trips, having fun with family and friends, or meeting up with old friends.

This can be quite satisfying and fulfilling.
I hope to save more money, keep exercising, and accumulate more memories.

{{Looking Ahead}}

2025 is about to begin, and I look forward to what the new year will bring.







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  【人生的意义】


{{生命的思考}}

经过几天在假期里什么都不做,我终于恢复了疲惫的身体,准备迎接2025年的工作。
只剩下3天,新的一年就要开始了。

在我大约十岁的时候,我常常问自己:“如果生命的最终结局是死亡,那我们为何要活着呢?”
然而,生活依旧继续 —— 从出生到学习、考试、工作、结婚、养育孩子,最终到退休。

三十多年过去了,我终于有闲暇再次问自己那个“百万美元的问题”:
如果每个人都必须死去,那生命的意义何在?
我想最好的答案就是体验。
每个人来到这个世界上,都是为了体验自己的人生。

{{生命的旅程}}

我们活着不是为了别人,不是为了我们的父母或孩子;我们活着是为了体验自己的旅程。
无论你选择辛勤工作一生,还是过一种悠闲的生活,这都是个人的选择。

只要不伤害他人,没有对错之分。
善待自己,不需要理由。

{{每个阶段的记忆}}

无论是七岁时输掉比赛后的哭泣...
十二岁时因为没有考到足够的A,没能进自己想上的学校...
十八岁时和朋友们一起通宵狂欢...
二十三岁时毕业后感到迷茫,像是第一份工作的新人...
三十岁时,妻子刚生下孩子,过着充实的父母生活...
四十岁时,所有朋友开始提前退休,而你还在为生计努力工作...

五十岁时,朋友们开始生病,迫不得已退休...
六十岁时,孙子出生了,你忙着照顾他...
七十岁时,所有朋友都相继离世...

每个生命的阶段都有值得回味的甜蜜回忆。
我们应该和身边的人一起度过每一天,创造更多的幸福回忆。


{{珍惜现在}}

无论我们多大年龄,对于那些自己感兴趣的事物和人,不应该因为年龄而犹豫。

如果你自己有想尝试的事情,就勇敢的去做吧。

或许将来,生活中会有更多值得回味的经历。
从另一个角度看,所谓的“体验人生”,其实就是如何愉快地度过时间。

{{生活的规律}}

我认为生活需要一定的规律。
我们需要一个可以休息的家和看似重复却能赋予我们意义的日常活动。


这些可以包括

浇花、喂宠物、做饭、打扫、锻炼、阅读、看剧或写作。



除此之外,我们还可以偶尔去旅行、和家人朋友一起娱乐,或与老朋友聚会,下棋。

这会让人感到非常满足和充实。
我希望能存更多的钱,保持锻炼,并积累更多的回忆。

{{展望未来}}

2025年即将到来,我期待着新的一年会给我带来什么。

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if u reali interested 2 knoe, try explore various riligen… each point 2 different truths… thumbup.gif choose ur own madu tongue.gif


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if u reali interested 2 knoe, try explore various riligen… each point 2 different truths…  thumbup.gif choose ur own madu tongue.gif


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Islam (Afterlife):
Muslims believe in a final judgment where souls are either rewarded with paradise (Jannah) or punished in hell (Jahannam) based on their deeds, faith, and adherence to Allah’s guidance.


Buddhism (Afterlife):
Buddhists believe in reincarnation (samsara), where the soul is reborn based on karma.
The ultimate goal is to achieve nirvana, liberation from suffering and the cycle of rebirth.


Hinduism (Afterlife):
Hindus believe in reincarnation (samsara), where the soul is reborn based on karma.
The ultimate goal is to achieve moksha, liberation from the cycle of birth and rebirth, and union with Brahman.


Christianity (Afterlife):
Christians believe in eternal life after death.
Those who accept Jesus Christ as Savior are promised eternal life in heaven, while those who reject Him face eternal separation from God in hell.


Catholicism (Afterlife):
Catholics believe in heaven, hell, and purgatory. Souls of the faithful who die in grace go to heaven, while sinners may go to hell, or undergo purification in purgatory.


Buddhism and Hinduism share the belief in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn based on past actions (karma). The goal in both is to escape the cycle of rebirth and attain liberation (nirvana or moksha).



These similarities suggest that many religions believe in the continuation of life after death in some form, whether through judgment, reincarnation, or spiritual liberation.

However, the specific details of these beliefs, such as the process, criteria for reward or punishment, and the nature of the afterlife, vary across different religions.


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What's the purpose of life, actually? Just wondering...

Have you all ever thought even once in your life about what is the purpose of living here?

I mean, we're born into this world, go to school, eat and sleep, find a job just to stay alive.

Maybe buy a car, buy property, get married, have children.
Then we think even deeply that all the stuff we do is actually useless and doesn't worth it.

Any opinions?
Can some intelligent explain to me what’s the meaning of life?
Is it all about money?
Preparing for the next life. Unless you can prove there is no next-life?
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Preparing for the next life. Unless you can prove there is no next-life?
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Buddhism and Hinduism share the belief in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn based on past actions (karma).

The goal in both is to escape the cycle of rebirth and attain liberation (nirvana or moksha).

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i believe

Buddhism and Hinduism share the belief in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn based on past actions (karma).

The goal in both is to escape the cycle of rebirth and attain liberation (nirvana or moksha).

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Hindu think Buddhism is just another branch of Hinduism. Hence the similarities.

Buddhism teaches that nothing is permanent. So nirvana is also not permanent.

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i believe

Buddhism and Hinduism share the belief in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn based on past actions (karma).

The goal in both is to escape the cycle of rebirth and attain liberation (nirvana or moksha).

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ancient Egyptians oso believe ...

via hypno western scientists slowly slowly provd there's reincarnations


Many very young children oso can recall past lives...but..they dun have sufficient language skills 2 tellall... as they develop ability to communicate they lose past lives memory... With internet n all, can do research.. many documented proof ..

Anyways as buddhist, v believe this body is precious, not easy to be reincarnated as humans ( brains + flex.gif ), as such must x waste our chance on earth to repay all our past / present debts ( fyi whomever u meet this life, v met b4 past lives....they exist 4 us to repay?) b4 moving on another adventure another life... smile.gif

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Eternal Love (Chinese: 三生三世十里桃花; pinyin: San Sheng San Shi Shi Li Tao Hua), also known as Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms,
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ancient Egyptians oso believe ...

via hypno western scientists slowly slowly provd there's reincarnations


Many very young children oso can recall past lives...but..they dun have sufficient language skills 2 tellall... as they develop ability to communicate they lose past lives memory... With internet n all, can do research.. many documented proof ..

Anyways as buddhist, v believe this body is precious, not easy to be reincarnated as humans ( brains +  flex.gif ), as such must x waste our chance on earth to repay all our past / present debts ( fyi whomever u meet this life, v met b4 past lives....they exist 4 us to repay?) b4 moving on another adventure another life...  smile.gif

Got watch this?  wub.gif
Eternal Love (Chinese: 三生三世十里桃花; pinyin: San Sheng San Shi Shi Li Tao Hua), also known as Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms,
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Three hundred years later, the two meet again at the East Sea King's son's full moon banquet. Ye Hua discovers that Bai Qian is actually Su Su from the past. The two stay together, rekindling their romance.


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Hindu think Buddhism is just another branch of Hinduism. Hence the similarities.

Buddhism teaches that nothing is permanent. So nirvana is also not permanent.
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Strange. I have different way of viewing it but not from the Buddhism. Rather I believe the memories experienced by each individual during their lifetime will be immortalized. Some memories were great memories as it still the impacts the life even after the passing of the individual. Hence, built the beautiful & meaningful memory while we are still alive & kicking.
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QUOTE(nihility @ Dec 29 2024, 03:27 PM)
Strange. I have different way of viewing it but not from the Buddhism. Rather I believe the memories experienced by each individual during their lifetime will be immortalized. Some memories were great memories as it still the impacts the life even after the passing of the individual. Hence, built the beautiful & meaningful memory while we are still alive & kicking.
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If you think memories can be recycled, then it points to reincarnation.

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QUOTE(touristking @ Dec 29 2024, 07:22 PM)
Hindu think Buddhism is just another branch of Hinduism. Hence the similarities.

Buddhism teaches that nothing is permanent. So nirvana is also not permanent.
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QUOTE(Chrono-Trigger @ Dec 30 2024, 06:29 AM)
you sure boh?

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If nothing is permanent, so how can nirvana be permanent?

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i believe

Buddhism and Hinduism share the belief in reincarnation, where the soul is reborn based on past actions (karma).

The goal in both is to escape the cycle of rebirth and attain liberation (nirvana or moksha).

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That is the “goal” of life. But what is the “purpose” of life?
Goal and purpose are 2 different things.
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QUOTE(touristking @ Dec 30 2024, 03:39 PM)
If nothing is permanent, so how can nirvana be permanent?

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Yes you are right the language is not exactly perfect.
If you prefer, 'nothing in human life is permanent'.

The ultimate of Buddhism is Nirvana, similar but not precisely equivalent with Abrahamic's 'heaven' or 'one with god'.

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QUOTE(Sycamore @ Dec 30 2024, 11:14 AM)
Yes you are right the language is not exactly perfect.
If you prefer, 'nothing in human life is permanent'.

The ultimate of Buddhism is Nirvana, similar but not precisely equivalent with Abrahamic's 'heaven' or 'one with god'.
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NOTHING is permanent. Says nothing about only limited to human.
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NOTHING is permanent. Says nothing about only limited to human.
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This is just semantics game.
If 'NOTHING' is the ultimate, then human life as a derivation of 'NOTHING', might as well be called as 'NOTHING-human life'.

For Abrahamic, they call the 'NOTHING' as 'God'.
'NOTHING' in fact is not nothing as human think.
Anything human can think is not nothing.
There is nothing called 'nothing'.

Hence 'NOTHING' is badly named, counterintuitive to human language and modern thinking.
You might want to rethink it.

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the purpose of life is to achieve nirvana, a state of freedom from suffering and rebirth.


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Life is actually nothing. Before you born, do you feel anything before that? Are you really reborn? Who is your previous life?
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Life is actually nothing. Before you born, do you feel anything before that? Are you really reborn? Who is your previous life?
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Your memory has been erased.

Reborn means to restart life.
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Your memory has been erased.

Reborn means to restart life.
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Your memory has been erased.

Reborn means to restart life.
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Life is actually nothing. Before you born, do you feel anything before that? Are you really reborn? Who is your previous life?
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This is a debate about consciousness or human consciousness.

Human consciousness 'seems to start' (let's not get into debate on this) with human life.
Human cannot truly understand anything outside human consciousness.

But we know for a fact animal seems to have 'some sort of consciousness'.
But we are unable to truly understand 'animal consciousness'.

Then the ultimate question comes: does universe have 'consciousness'? does atom have 'consciousness'?
What if the air have 'some sort of consciousness' but it is different from 'human consciousness' and human cannot understand?

The Chinese thought of this very long ago, though it is in a different language.
万物皆有

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QUOTE(Sycamore @ Dec 30 2024, 07:50 PM)
This is a debate about consciousness or human consciousness.

Human consciousness 'seems to start' (let's not get into debate on this) with human life.
Human cannot truly understand anything outside human consciousness.

But we know for a fact animal seems to have 'some sort of consciousness'.
But we are unable to truly understand 'animal consciousness'.

Then the ultimate question comes: does universe have 'consciousness'? does atom have 'consciousness'?
What if the air have 'some sort of consciousness' but it is different from 'human consciousness' and human cannot understand?

The Chinese thought of this very long ago, though it is in a different language.
万物皆有情
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the purpose of life is to achieve nirvana, a state of freedom from suffering and rebirth.
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That is not “purpose” of life. It’s more like the goal of life.
The purpose of life is “why do we exist”?
If we don’t exist then we don’t have to achieve nirvana.

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If you think memories can be recycled, then it points to reincarnation.
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I feel it is more like a memory can be copied/adapted. Maybe can be said as recycled or it can be copied, which resulted the living individual to have the past generation memories.

Recycled, the memories stay with the individual even after reborn (it didn't happen most of the time). The copied/adapted memories, the different individual at different era gained access to other individual's past memories and resonates well with it.

The recycled memories, the existing individual do not need to leave behind any of their works in form of writings, arts, composed songs, findings, etc.

The copied/adapted memories, the existing individual left behind theirs works in form of writings, arts, composed songs, findings, etc, in order for the future generation to pick up what left by them, to be studied, utilized & further improvised.

At my younger age, I have no tolerance toward certain subjects. Now at present time, I can have such high tolerance and acceptance toward certain subjects, which make it feel so strange.

Personally, I don't like the incarnation concept. It leaves the option for living being to screw up or give up their current life in the hope that they can restart by reincarnation. Ppl will not put 100% effort in their "this" life. I prefer the concept that we only have current the life, so live our life to the fullest & leave behind our life findings for the next generation to pick up. The coming generations do not need to start from the scratch what the past generations have discovered, suffer what have been suffered, continue to enjoy what is made known can be exploited / further enhance it.


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BORN -> STUDY -> WORK -> MARRY -> PROCREATE/Have CHILDREN -> RETIRE -> DIE

If only the rich who has so much excess and living comfortably share their wealth to the unfortunate.

Say you own 1000 homes, have a set of 50 luxury cars, 10 wives, 20 children Eat Michelin Restaurants >4Meals a day, go holiday overseas several times a year.

When you die you cannot take them along with you. Instead with the excess you have, why not donate to the needy and the unfortunate. Let everyone remember you when you die and tell the story of you as a saint when you were still alive?

The rest as King Solomon says are MEANINGLESS in the Ecclesiastes book he authored.
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QUOTE(Sycamore @ Dec 30 2024, 07:50 PM)
This is a debate about consciousness or human consciousness.

Human consciousness 'seems to start' (let's not get into debate on this) with human life.
Human cannot truly understand anything outside human consciousness.

But we know for a fact animal seems to have 'some sort of consciousness'.
But we are unable to truly understand 'animal consciousness'.

Then the ultimate question comes: does universe have 'consciousness'? does atom have 'consciousness'?
What if the air have 'some sort of consciousness' but it is different from 'human consciousness' and human cannot understand?

The Chinese thought of this very long ago, though it is in a different language.
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Life is actually nothing. Before you born, do you feel anything before that? Are you really reborn? Who is your previous life?
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more than that actually.

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That is not “purpose” of life. It’s more like the goal of life.
The purpose of life is “why do we exist”?
If we don’t exist then we don’t have to achieve nirvana.
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purpose of life is to experience to maximum
no matter whether you're born poor or rich ugly or good looking
everybody "image" will decay
thats why buddhism and Taoism focuses on the soul and letting go
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jan 2 2025, 11:51 AM)
purpose of life is to experience to maximum
no matter whether you're born poor or rich  ugly or good looking
everybody "image" will decay
thats why buddhism and Taoism focuses on the soul and letting go
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but going to heaven and reside there for quite a long time isn't that bad, if you compare human existence, just saying if you have a choice.

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but going to heaven and reside there for quite a long time isn't that bad, if you compare human existence, just saying if you have a choice.
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almost every human being have to reincarnate because they havent settled their debts completely. The idea of "empty self" is a difficult thing to achieve for most people
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almost every human being have to reincarnate because they havent settled their debts completely. The idea of "empty self" is a difficult thing to achieve for most people
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Provided you can settle and “stop” producing new karma.
But even as we speak now , there is new karma created by the mind - the outflow does not cease.


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Provided you can settle and “stop” producing new karma.
But even as we speak now , there is new karma created by the mind - the outflow does not cease.
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most people are not controlling the thoughts, its the emotions that gear them towards stupid decisions. I know myself like to fuck girls but i try not to get carried away too much by it

Its called the third party observer effect
the Buddha teaches us to leave our physical body by observing more
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The meaning or purpose of life is to worship Allah and believe in Prophet Muhammad is the last messenger.
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most people are not controlling the thoughts, its the emotions that gear them towards stupid decisions. I know myself like to fuck girls but i try not to get carried away too much by it

Its called the third party observer effect
the Buddha teaches us to leave our physical body by observing more
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The practice you mentioned is essentially a form of mindfulness or self-awareness. By adopting a third-party perspective to observe your emotions and desires rather than blindly following them, you can better take control of your life's direction.

Chanting can indeed support this process. Chanting, when done with focus, can help calm the mind, enhance concentration, and create a sense of detachment from overwhelming emotions or desires. It serves as an anchor, allowing you to return to the present moment and observe your inner state more clearly.
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The practice you mentioned is essentially a form of mindfulness or self-awareness. By adopting a third-party perspective to observe your emotions and desires rather than blindly following them, you can better take control of your life's direction.

Chanting can indeed support this process. Chanting, when done with focus, can help calm the mind, enhance concentration, and create a sense of detachment from overwhelming emotions or desires. It serves as an anchor, allowing you to return to the present moment and observe your inner state more clearly.
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most people would rather scroll through tiktok than doing this kind of shit ahahha
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purpose of life is to experience to maximum
no matter whether you're born poor or rich  ugly or good looking
everybody "image" will decay
thats why buddhism and Taoism focuses on the soul and letting go
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Are you saying our existence is to experience life and then escape cycle of life by achieving nirvana?

After achieving nirvana, what is next. Just exist without any purpose?

Do you agree that if we don’t exists then we don’t have to suffer so much to achieve nirvana?




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Are you saying our existence is to experience life and then escape cycle of life by achieving nirvana?

After achieving nirvana, what is next. Just exist without any purpose?

Do you agree that if we don’t exists then we don’t have to suffer so much to achieve nirvana?
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Wealth and Suffering:

The idea that those born into wealth do not suffer, while those born into poverty inevitably do, is a common misconception.


While it's true that material wealth can alleviate some forms of suffering, it does not remove the deeper forms of dissatisfaction that exist within us—such as the


fear of loss, loneliness, or existential anxiety.

Similarly, poverty does create hardships, but it also offers opportunities for resilience, growth, and a deeper understanding of life's impermanence.

In both cases, suffering comes from our attachment to what we have or do not have.


Wealth may ease physical pain but cannot guarantee peace of mind or spiritual fulfillment.

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In grand scheme of things nothing.

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I do have this thought randomly from time to time and it will come back to haunt me
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did you found your answer after 23 page?
I do have this thought randomly from time to time and it will come back to haunt me
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Are you saying our existence is to experience life and then escape cycle of life by achieving nirvana?

After achieving nirvana, what is next. Just exist without any purpose?

Do you agree that if we don’t exists then we don’t have to suffer so much to achieve nirvana?
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We are eternal beings who are always living. Coming to this material world & going through sufferings in various bodies is due to our own free will.

You are always free to renounce the attachment to the material body & hence the material existence & go back to your constituitional position as a blissful soul.

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Wealth and Suffering:

The idea that those born into wealth do not suffer, while those born into poverty inevitably do, is a common misconception.
While it's true that material wealth can alleviate some forms of suffering, it does not remove the deeper forms of dissatisfaction that exist within us—such as the
fear of loss, loneliness, or existential anxiety.

Similarly, poverty does create hardships, but it also offers opportunities for resilience, growth, and a deeper understanding of life's impermanence.

In both cases, suffering comes from our attachment to what we have or do not have.
Wealth may ease physical pain but cannot guarantee peace of mind or spiritual fulfillment.
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I agree.

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We are eternal beings who are always living. Coming to this material world & going through sufferings in various bodies is due to our own free will.

You are always free to renounce the attachment to the material body & hence the material existence & go back to your constituitional position as a blissful soul.
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Ok. But why do we exist?

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Life is about seeking happiness. Everyone derives happiness from different things. You have to find out what makes you happy.
Is it travelling? Having a family? Owning material goods? Earn money and achieve those things that give you happiness.
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Its in our human DNA to populate for survival of the species

Otherwise apes will take over
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Its in our human DNA to populate for survival of the species

Otherwise apes will take over
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The first apes evolved about 25 million years ago and by 20 million years ago were a very diverse group. Within the last 10 million years, however, many ape species became extinct as the earth’s climate cooled and dried and their forested environments changed to woodland and grassland. There are now only about 20 living species of apes and they are divided into two major groups. These are the:

Lesser Apes, containing the gibbons
Great Apes, containing the orang-utans, gorillas, chimpanzees and humans

Gorillas Are Extremely Intelligent


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Like all great apes, gorillas are extremely intelligent. Koko, a famous gorilla living in California, can communicate with more than 1,000 hand signals in "Gorilla Sign Language," a modified version of American Sign Language. Gorillas can also use tools and have various methods of communication, including around 25 different sounds.

At the ABQ BioPark, gorilla keepers utilize this animal's extreme intelligence to work on a pro-active healthcare program. Keepers ask for behaviors like presenting a forearm for a voluntary blood draw, offering fingers for nail trims and opening their mouth for teeth brushing (all activities are done through the safety of heavy-duty mesh to ensure human and animal safety). According to primate keepers, Tusa is the valedictorian of the gorilla group - not only does she pick up on new behaviors fast, but she is even able to anticipate what keepers want before they even ask.

The ABQ BioPark has Western lowland gorillas, which are native to several countries in the Congo Basin in West-Central Africa.



should be GORILLA.

SMARTER THAN APES
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The first apes evolved about 25 million years ago and by 20 million years ago were a very diverse group. Within the last 10 million years, however, many ape species became extinct as the earth’s climate cooled and dried and their forested environments changed to woodland and grassland. There are now only about 20 living species of apes and they are divided into two major groups. These are the:

Lesser Apes, containing the gibbons
Great Apes, containing the orang-utans, gorillas, chimpanzees and humans

Gorillas Are Extremely Intelligent
user posted image

Like all great apes, gorillas are extremely intelligent. Koko, a famous gorilla living in California, can communicate with more than 1,000 hand signals in "Gorilla Sign Language," a modified version of American Sign Language. Gorillas can also use tools and have various methods of communication, including around 25 different sounds.

At the ABQ BioPark, gorilla keepers utilize this animal's extreme intelligence to work on a pro-active healthcare program. Keepers ask for behaviors like presenting a forearm for a voluntary blood draw, offering fingers for nail trims and opening their mouth for teeth brushing (all activities are done through the safety of heavy-duty mesh to ensure human and animal safety). According to primate keepers, Tusa is the valedictorian of the gorilla group - not only does she pick up on new behaviors fast, but she is even able to anticipate what keepers want before they even ask.

The ABQ BioPark has Western lowland gorillas, which are native to several countries in the Congo Basin in West-Central Africa.
should be GORILLA.

SMARTER THAN APES
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The souls (jivatma) exist because the Supersoul (Paramatma) exists, the souls being parts & parcels of the ever existing Supersoul. Our constituitional position is to exist as eternal servitors of the Supersoul. But we may renounce the path of dedication & choose the path of exploitation of material nature, or vice versa, because of our free will.
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Welcome to the rabbit hole.

Itzhak Bentoz - Stalking the pendulum
https://youtu.be/KMbeK_6ATxQ

Jacobo Grinberg - Syntergic Theory
https://youtu.be/ORbVj4NJtG4

Practical
Robert Moonre - OBE, which beta/alpha frequencies and sort

Deep meditation to interchange your body frequencies from beta to alpha.

Remember this, we are frequency, energy being. Living in this organic body, jz to exp life, pain, suffer, love, etc and also to express ourselves tht something we cannot do in energy form.

When we wokeup, we r kind in the left brain mode. Beta frequencies being. Hence pure cognitive mode. While when we are in deep praying, meditation, we slowdown our beta frequencies, organic body, we will be rising, and in the state of alpha frequencies mode, in the state of pure observer, the real us.

Be careful, most of the author rip and gone suddenly after they wrote their book.

Jacobo Grinberg dissapear in 1994

Izthak Bentoz rip from airplane crash

The 3 Initiative the author of kybalion in 1908, nobody knows who they are

While CIA also released the paper called the gate way program, it similar concept with itzhak bentoz & jacobo grinberg. Using robert moonre technique
https://www.cia.gov/readingroom/docs/cia-rd...700210016-5.pdf

https://www.cia.gov/readingroom/docs/CIA-RD...700270006-0.pdf


Tldr: we r energy being, living in this organic disposable body, jz to exp life, & to rise our frequency for certain timeline . Proof? Practice meditation, follow jacobo, or u can also practice astral/out or body experiences by robert monroe. Remember, as u read this. U r in the state of organic disposable body, beta frequencies being, left brain, pure cognitive mode, brain desire and logic . While when u close ur eyes or in deep meditation, or when ur sleep, that is the original u. It jz u totally turn of your left brain when ur sleep, so every events that happen, no memories is saved. Unless u rise your alpha frequencies, at the same time rise your beta frequencies too. Hence u can be in the state of real u, while at the same time your cognitive mind also wakeup and control it.
That is what CIA trying to do. So that they can spy the soviet.

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Do you agree that if we don’t exists then we don’t have to suffer so much to achieve nirvana?
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The souls (jivatma) exist because the Supersoul (Paramatma) exists,  the souls being parts & parcels of the ever existing Supersoul. Our constituitional position is to exist as eternal servitors of the Supersoul. But we may renounce the path of dedication & choose the path of exploitation of material nature, or vice versa, because of our free will.
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I understand what you are saying. Thank you for the explanation.
You are explaining how we exists and what we can do. But there is no “why” we exist in your explanation.

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I understand what you are saying. Thank you for the explanation.
You are explaining how we exists and what we can do. But there is no “why” we exist in your explanation.
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There is. We exist as servants of God in His eternal kingdom & servants of nature in this material kingdom. In other words, we were created to exist & serve (or exploit).

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We are animal, reproduce is our only purpose.
We are unless animal anyway as we are not helping the eco system on balancing but destroying instead


So the purpose you want is you ownself find your own purpose and happiness
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The meaning or purpose of life is to worship Allah and believe in Prophet Muhammad is the last messenger.
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There is. We exist as servants of God in His eternal kingdom & servants of nature in this material kingdom. In other words, we were created to exist & serve (or exploit).
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Ok. That is one way to define the purpose of life.
But what/how am I contributing to God? Can a person still contribute if a person is atheist?
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are you face some work pressure or life pressure?
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i dont really know.. it just randomly..
sometimes feel helpless, cold, lonely even you have great partner and family that very close..

How about you? still cant find answer ? haha
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i dont really know.. it just randomly..
sometimes feel helpless, cold, lonely even you have great partner and family that very close..

How about you? still cant find answer ? haha
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I have some work pressure......

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5502090&hl=



Now single and plan to stay single also until retired.

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everything human created , for a purpose.
we create cuisines,  devices, tools,and things for a purpose.

just like us human, the answer is from our creator. Hopefully you find answer through the truth channel.
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life is about resilience.

When we face failure, it's a chance to learn, grow, and try again.

Success is often not defined by never falling, but by how we rise after falling.

It's the ability to keep pushing forward, adapting, and finding new ways to achieve our goals that ultimately leads to success.


correct?
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Someone once asked Jin Yong, "How should one live their life?"

The master replied, "Make a great stir, and then leave quietly."


Life in this world is as fleeting as the morning dew.


Why can't a person's life be like a martial arts novel, with the first half lived freely, boldly, and recklessly, and the second half filled with reverence, continuously striving to learn?


Just like the life of the great hero, Cha, it is both admirable and lamentable.

The passing of life is sorrowful, and it raises the question:


how should one view life and death?


What is the true meaning of life? In today's world, where everything is changing dramatically, how should we choose our path, manage the fatigue and helplessness in family and work, and find inner peace and tranquility?




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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jan 4 2025, 02:30 AM)
I have some work pressure......

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5502090&hl=
Now single and plan to stay single also until retired.
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so its due to work pressure and now you naked resign so this thought of meaning of life ome into mind?

i did it few times before..
Single or not single, its more about how you manage your commitment.

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QUOTE(eddie2020 @ Jan 6 2025, 12:36 AM)
so its due to work pressure and now you naked resign so this thought of meaning of life ome into mind?

i did it few times before..
Single or not  single, its more about how you manage your commitment.
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actually i Kena pip...



https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5479399

never mind.Already rest since 30 dec...

now almost 1 week


just relax at my sg and malaysia house
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actually i Kena pip...
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5479399

never mind.Already rest since 30 dec...

now almost 1 week
just relax at my sg and malaysia house
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byk post ni...
PIP very sensitive... I do seen it before which happen to friends and colleague..

Some really do work kena bcz not ngam with boss, and boss prejudice. Some can't work kena PIP but retaliate boss pull back.

It very depend on the company, policy, how the HR works, how is the system.
In my opinion, HR need to be very neutral and everything should be documented.

Like the Maxis case PIP and termination lastly won the court case 2xxk.
The world is always unfair.

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byk post ni...
PIP very sensitive... I do seen it before which happen to friends and colleague..

Some really do work kena bcz not ngam with boss, and boss prejudice. Some can't work kena PIP but retaliate boss pull back.

It very depend on the company, policy, how the HR works, how is the system.
In my opinion, HR need to be very neutral and everything should be documented.

Like the Maxis case PIP and termination lastly won the court case 2xxk.
The world is always unfair.
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https://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/...gful-dismissal/


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actually i Kena pip...
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5479399

never mind.Already rest since 30 dec...

now almost 1 week
just relax at my sg and malaysia house
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Ts banyak kaya

Anyway, u already got ur pot of gold in SG

Hari hari masuk hutan akan bertemu harimau satu hari nanti


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Purpose of life....go watch last dance
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Happy

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So do good everyday as if it's your last day living?
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Life is about seeking happiness. Everyone derives happiness from different things. You have to find out what makes you happy.
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BMW
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Now I reliase what is the meaning of life

I just found a woman

153cm
58kg

She is older than me 5 years

Age 38

This month she will be busy
Weekend we can meet up
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sounds a bit chubby
i realize also that sex actually makes a man look forward to living

last time i was in a sexless relationship, i felt like no drive to do anything

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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Jun 8 2025, 11:10 PM)
sounds a bit chubby
i realize also that sex actually makes a man look forward to living

last time i was in a sexless relationship, i felt like no drive to do anything
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24.78 — Still within the normal/healthy weight range (18.5–24.9). So yes… I’m okay! 😄


user posted image

But… still can’t carry girls with one hand like in the photo. 😅 Kesian me lah, not strong enough yet.


user posted image

She looks light though…


user posted image



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And I’m actually taller than her by around 27 cm…


user posted image

And honestly, I really like this kind of hugging position. It feels sweet and warm. 🤍



What’s the meaning or purpose of life?

hugging !!!

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Life is about seeking happiness. Everyone derives happiness from different things. You have to find out what makes you happy.
Is it travelling? Having a family? Owning material goods? Earn money and achieve those things that give you happiness.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 8 2025, 10:47 PM)
BMW
Business, Money, Woman

Now I realize the meaning of life.
I just met a woman.

She's 153 cm tall and weighs 58 kg.
She's 38 years old—5 years older than me.

She’ll be busy this month,
but we can meet up on the weekends.
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Looks promising but not quite there.
Especially if she is too busy this month for you.
When Jesus called his disciples to follow him they immediately left what they were doing to follow him.
You were created for fellowship with God. Being close to a person is great because we are made in God's image but is no comparison to being close to your Creator.

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QUOTE(SharpSword @ Jun 9 2025, 07:10 AM)
Looks promising but not quite there.
Especially if she is too busy this month for you.
When Jesus called his disciples to follow him they immediately left what they were doing to follow him.
You were created for fellowship with God. Being close to a person is great because we are made in God's image but is no comparison to being close to your Creator.
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Actually she is not busy.

Just 1 month have 5 weekend.

Work 5 days only..
No OT on Sat and Sun

Almost every week she want to go back hometown....
But maybe after I exercise with her,she will changed mind
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Sexercise ??
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Sexercise ??
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Siapa necro thread ni.

It's TS.

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Exercise


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Looks promising but not quite there.
Especially if she is too busy this month for you.
When Jesus called his disciples to follow him they immediately left what they were doing to follow him.
You were created for fellowship with God. Being close to a person is great because we are made in God's image but is no comparison to being close to your Creator.
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Do a man with 19 years old difference love relationship can sustain ?
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Do a man with 19 years old difference love relationship can sustain ?
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Friend it does not matter what the age difference is. As long as you enter into a relationship expecting the other person to meet your needs and to provide you with fulfillment that relationship is predicated to failure from the onset. One has to enter a relationship with the aim instead to attempt to cater to the need of the other. You can only do this if your own needs have already been met by your Creator God.

In the Bible there is an account in John's gospel where Jesus encounters a Samaritan woman at the well drawing water. Now this woman has been involved in multiple relationships with numerous husbands 5 to be precise and was presently in a relationship with a man who was not her husband. Consequently she was looked upon as a woman of ill repute and shunned by the community. Jesus knew what her problem was and used the act of drawing water from the well to illustrate to her true spiritual need. He pointed to the water she had gotten from the well and said " Whoever drinks of this water shall thirst again". Now he said this as a way of alluding to her manner of seeking satisfaction in life through relationship with a man. And this is end result : you will thirst again. Meaning human relationships cannot be the means to satisfy the deepest needs within you, it will ultimately fail. Simply because another human does not have the capacity to know and understand you in the way you so desire. Only God can. That is why Jesus tells this woman "if you know the gift of God and who it is that is speaking to you ; you would have asked of him and he would have given you living water. Whoever drinks this water then will never thirst again. Instead it will become in them a well that springs up into everlasting life. "
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Friend it does not matter what the age difference is. As long as you enter into a relationship expecting the other person to meet your needs and to provide you with fulfillment  that relationship is predicated to failure from the onset. One has to enter a relationship with the aim instead to attempt to cater to the need of the other. You can only do this if your own needs have already been met by your Creator God.

In the Bible there is an account in John's gospel where Jesus encounters a Samaritan woman at the well drawing water. Now this woman has been involved in multiple relationships with numerous husbands 5 to be precise and was presently in a relationship with a man who was not her husband. Consequently she was looked upon as a woman of ill repute and shunned by the community. Jesus knew what her problem was and used the act of drawing water from the well to illustrate to her true spiritual need. He pointed to the water she had gotten from the well and said " Whoever drinks of this water shall thirst again". Now he said this as a way of alluding to her manner of seeking satisfaction in life through relationship with a man. And this is end result : you will thirst again. Meaning human relationships cannot be the means to satisfy the deepest needs within you, it will ultimately fail. Simply because another human does not have the capacity to know and understand you in the way you so desire. Only God can. That is why Jesus tells this woman "if you know the gift of God and who it is that is speaking to you ; you would have asked of him and he would have given you living water. Whoever drinks this water then will never thirst again. Instead it will become in them a well that springs up into everlasting life. "
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If you start a relationship expecting the other person to make you happy and fulfill your needs, it’s likely to fail from the beginning.


A healthy relationship should be about trying to meet the other person’s needs instead.


Ok

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24.78 — Still within the normal/healthy weight range (18.5–24.9). So yes… I’m okay! 😄
user posted image

But… still can’t carry girls with one hand like in the photo. 😅 Kesian me lah, not strong enough yet.
user posted image

She looks light though…
user posted image
user posted image
user posted image

user posted image

And I’m actually taller than her by around 27 cm…
user posted image

And honestly, I really like this kind of hugging position. It feels sweet and warm. 🤍
What’s the meaning or purpose of life?

hugging !!!
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This pose reminds me of Tarzan x when he carried Eliana Dante and up n down up n down
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