To discover the reason you are here. So just keep on looking.

Looks promising but not quite there.
Especially if she is too busy this month for you.
When Jesus called his disciples to follow him they immediately left what they were doing to follow him.
You were created for fellowship with God. Being close to a person is great because we are made in God's image but is no comparison to being close to your Creator.

This post has been edited by SharpSword: Jun 9 2025, 07:19 AM

Friend it does not matter what the age difference is. As long as you enter into a relationship expecting the other person to meet your needs and to provide you with fulfillment that relationship is predicated to failure from the onset. One has to enter a relationship with the aim instead to attempt to cater to the need of the other. You can only do this if your own needs have already been met by your Creator God.

In the Bible there is an account in John's gospel where Jesus encounters a Samaritan woman at the well drawing water. Now this woman has been involved in multiple relationships with numerous husbands 5 to be precise and was presently in a relationship with a man who was not her husband. Consequently she was looked upon as a woman of ill repute and shunned by the community. Jesus knew what her problem was and used the act of drawing water from the well to illustrate to her true spiritual need. He pointed to the water she had gotten from the well and said " Whoever drinks of this water shall thirst again". Now he said this as a way of alluding to her manner of seeking satisfaction in life through relationship with a man. And this is end result : you will thirst again. Meaning human relationships cannot be the means to satisfy the deepest needs within you, it will ultimately fail. Simply because another human does not have the capacity to know and understand you in the way you so desire. Only God can. That is why Jesus tells this woman "if you know the gift of God and who it is that is speaking to you ; you would have asked of him and he would have given you living water. Whoever drinks this water then will never thirst again. Instead it will become in them a well that springs up into everlasting life. "