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Koranshita
post Nov 1 2020, 12:40 AM

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Let him search for his own sexuality. And you think you can correct a gay person? Don't do it. Let him be.


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post Nov 1 2020, 01:20 AM

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QUOTE(AnimeSinceForever @ Oct 31 2020, 11:19 PM)
So ... someone who is 11 years old and male is not a guy?

"you are having a weird kind of SJW agenda" ... by pointing out that people can become gay versus born gay?

So explaining how things happen is SJW agenda? Maybe you are the one with the SJW agenda, to dis-allow people from explaining how things happen brows.gif
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I am thoroughly confused as to who you are talking about now.

I thought this topic was talking about a child possibly discovering about homosexuality.

Who is whiteknighting who? The boy? The uncle? The mom? Wut?

I neither sided with "keep it a secret" nor "tell the mom to correct him". I cannot disallow anyone from talking about anything. I am not a moderator. I believe in freedom of speech, which incidentally also applies to me.

Why did I bring up about you being a Social Justice Warrior? Because you think that a 11 year old boy can choose to do anything in their life. No they cannot, because they are a minor and therefore underaged sex is illegal in Malaysia. No idea why you are encouraging something that is both ethically and legally wrong.
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post Nov 1 2020, 01:23 AM

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You keep adding questions that you already know the answers to,

and telling people not to do something has rarely stopped them.

Underaged sex still happens.

Pointing that out is not "encouraging" it.

Good to know my replies keep you occupied to think how you want to be the person with the last word.

The child may or may not be homosexual, and pointing out that it may be a reaction to how he is treated by the opposite sex is perfectly rational.

Would love to hear you explain how the way other people treat you, doesn't affect how you behave.

But you will probably reply with more questions (whataboutism seems to be your forte).

QUOTE(ViktorJ @ Nov 1 2020, 01:20 AM)
I am thoroughly confused as to who you are talking about now.

I thought this topic was talking about a child possibly discovering about homosexuality.

Who is whiteknighting who? The boy? The uncle? The mom? Wut?

I neither sided with "keep it a secret" nor "tell the mom to correct him". I cannot disallow anyone from talking about anything.  I am not a moderator. I believe in freedom of speech, which incidentally also applies to me.

Why did I bring up about you being a Social Justice Warrior? Because you think that a 11 year old boy can choose to do anything in their life. No they cannot, because they are a minor and therefore underaged sex is illegal in Malaysia. No idea why you are encouraging something that is both ethically and legally wrong.
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This post has been edited by AnimeSinceForever: Nov 1 2020, 01:24 AM
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post Nov 1 2020, 01:42 AM

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A small population of people are born that way.

But better to tell the parents for the sake of the child before he lands in jail.



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post Nov 1 2020, 04:11 AM

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I laughed at the search term.

Anyway, just let it be. You cant pray the gay away.
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post Nov 1 2020, 06:17 AM

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I'd puke if I saw cumming P video at his age

I'm perfectly straight I guess
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QUOTE(Teddysaur @ Oct 31 2020, 05:22 PM)
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I fucking love this.
It's his self-discovery.
And it is totally fine if he is gay.
Also, on your question, whether you should act upon it or even change him

YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO SO.
You have no right to expose him.
You have no right to force his coming out.

He should be doing it on his own and on his own terms.

There is completely nothing wrong with being gay.
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post Nov 1 2020, 07:25 AM

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QUOTE(Cmyong88 @ Oct 31 2020, 05:42 PM)
He's a kid you dimwit. He could be curious and exploring that doesn't mean he's gay. A dimwit uncle you are.

Though it's still prudent you show the browser history directly to the parents. Don't be sohai and use words like gay. Just show them and let them draw their own conclusion you dimwit.
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post Nov 1 2020, 07:32 AM

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talk to him man to man.
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post Nov 1 2020, 08:22 AM

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Don't allow him access to your PC anymore by putting a password on it. Tell him you know what's he's been surfing and you don't encourage it. Nothing to do with gay porn, at his age he should stay away from any porn. You do not have to inform hi parents but allowing him to continue accessing porn is irresponsible.
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post Nov 1 2020, 08:26 AM

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Let the parents know. You don't know his circle of friends like parents; they are supposedly in better position and hawkish to do something to curb it.

How they'll correct the kid is up to them. Don't intervene unless they didn't.
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post Nov 1 2020, 09:13 AM

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QUOTE(Teddysaur @ Oct 31 2020, 11:30 PM)
This isn't about me nor YOU
this is about his privacy and sexuality

You,
don't make it personal
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This is serious k, don't make it to your personal venting thread la. Whoever or whatever you hate, go voice it out in k, not in this thread or section.

Nothing against gays but don't make this thread about yoy
Jliew168
post Nov 1 2020, 10:44 AM

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I think it is perfectly normal for boy to surf porn even he might curious what is gay porn
As adult u should give him a proper sex education and I think this should be man to man talk
Teach him about the physical change on his body during puberty and mastubation and sex topic ..I think this is nothing ashame about
Let him be open with u and give a correct sex education, consequences ,usage of condom and sexual health
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Standard 5 is too young to know about such things in details, It's about time to have a serious talk of sex education with him. Kids are curious, but make sure they expose the right and correct info, don't put the blame on what he's done.
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 05:57 PM)
So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age  blush.gif

Found out by checking the browser history since he always use the computer in my room whenever im not around to play games and watch youtube. But one particular day he locked the door whereas normally he wont even close the door properly. Since then i always check the history and yeah he did watch it on other days as well.

I want to tell my sister about it so that something can be done to correct him before its too late, but at the same time i dont want my sister and my bro in law to be very disappointed that their son is gay. And also im afraid he will do something with my kids if i expose him, although i can ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history

Another possibility would be he was simply curious on how to masturbate  laugh.gif

His google search was always “boy cum”  doh.gif
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how he knows word cum?
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 04:57 PM)
So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age  blush.gif
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So it's okay as long it's something you did before?

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Sneak in some lesbian bookmarks instead and see his reaction laugh.gif
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post Nov 1 2020, 11:22 AM

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QUOTE(Ginny88 @ Nov 1 2020, 08:22 AM)
Don't allow him access to your PC anymore by putting a password on it. Tell him you know what's he's been surfing and you don't encourage it. Nothing to do with gay porn, at his age he should stay away from any porn. You do not have to inform hi parents but allowing him to continue accessing porn is irresponsible.
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As though only can access pc at home.
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post Nov 1 2020, 11:27 AM

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QUOTE(mini orchard @ Nov 1 2020, 11:22 AM)
As though only can access pc at home.
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He may be able to access other PCs but you don't have to make it easy for him. Just because a person is able to buy guns outside doesn't mean you have to give him the key to your gun cabinet.

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post Nov 1 2020, 11:31 AM

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QUOTE(Ginny88 @ Nov 1 2020, 11:27 AM)
He may be able to access other PCs but you don't have to make it easy for him. Just because a person is able to buy guns outside doesn't mean you have to give him the key to your gun cabinet.
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Is education .. not locking up things or reprimand him. The more you deny him, the more he is curious ... normal in a growing up children.

The topic is about pc and not gun.

A child needs to access a pc for school work but never a gun. When it involves a gun, it will be different advise.

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Nov 1 2020, 12:14 PM

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