So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age

Found out by checking the browser history since he always use the computer in my room whenever im not around to play games and watch youtube. But one particular day he locked the door whereas normally he wont even close the door properly. Since then i always check the history and yeah he did watch it on other days as well.

I want to tell my sister about it so that something can be done to correct him before its too late, but at the same time i dont want my sister and my bro in law to be very disappointed that their son is gay. And also im afraid he will do something with my kids if i expose him, although i can ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history

Another possibility would be he was simply curious on how to masturbate

His google search was always “boy cum”

how do u know boy cum is gay porn for sure?

could it be him curious of why is he cumming n wanna check n see if others are the same, or also just checking the way of boy cumming?

i think he's just curious since he's at the stage where he discovered his body is changing.

better talk to him early and give the right guidance.

Oh that was the google search. Then theres a list of porn sites with gay titles like hot twink jerk on cam, sweet hot big cock asian twink, etc

Not sure bout being curious when he watches a few times already with many different videos. But I agree about guiding him but I definitely wont be the one doing it. So u reckon i should tell my sister?

You are not the parents

Just tell the parents

If you don't want. Then you do you

and it is sorta challenging nowadays especially during this pandemic where kids are left unsupervised and have lots of energy on their hand without school occupying their day time.

I think if you guys haven't initiated the talk with him yet, now is the time. Don't corner him and seat him at the dinner table like some sorta intervention, it should be done in a safe and casual environment.

Maybe bring it up with him after his fap session over a comedic tween flick, I'd suggest American Pie. Do not strategist a battle plan and even a bailing sentence, remember sex is not a form of punishment but overloading on dopamine is long term.

Do not expect this talk to be a one time thing because he's a growing kid and these talks will certainly occur more frequently as he grows older. Let him be comfortable, let him come to you willingly on this topic.

Good luck TS.

that little kid only 11 years old..i thought we only can classify other people gender only after 18 years old..maybe he a she trapped inside male body..until then that person is genderless..#genderlesscommunity
#freedom #dontbestraightasruler

I fucking love this.
It's his self-discovery.
And it is totally fine if he is gay.



Also, on your question, whether you should act upon it or even change him

YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO SO.
You have no right to expose him.
You have no right to force his coming out.

He should be doing it on his own and on his own terms.

There is completely nothing wrong with being gay.

he probably have bukakke fetish

jokes aside, its better to have man to man talk with ur nephew.

Whatever he chooses to be...just support him.

I have a nephew too. I am ready for him to be either straight or gay. I will be supportive in any way

Honestly, I hate it when people like to put matters in their own hands.
This is about sexuality and it's private.

He's a kid you dimwit. He could be curious and exploring that doesn't mean he's gay. A dimwit uncle you are.

Though it's still prudent you show the browser history directly to the parents. Don't be sohai and use words like gay. Just show them and let them draw their own conclusion you dimwit.

If I am you, i would tell my sis about it. But i will ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history. Then let his parents decide what do they want to do next.

this I agree

unless if TS caught him red handed watching gay porn, well...

things can gone wrong in so many ways

most likely the sis will accuse TS of being busy body and cari pasal with the kid

If he is gay there is nothing you or his parents can do about it. Gay or straight is not something anybody can control.

If he is just curious he will grow out of it. I would suggest do nothing.

Leave the boy alone. Would a 5 year old you want your uncle suddenly ask you why you surf porn?

Watch with him and finds out what interest him.

Parents dont take lightly on nonsence by their children especially reported by 'others'. As uncle and a third party, you are more neutral to handle the situation.

This little secret between uncle and nephew is best sorted out b4 informing the parents so that they can keep an eye and to help him if necessary. They may even have to accept his 'wish' in the future.

Teach him the right way to fap and the right content to look at.