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Found out my nephew watches gay porn
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moosset
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 Oct 31 2020, 06:57 PM
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I don't think you should tell his parents. This is not your info to share. He can come out whenever he feels like it. He's too young for you to break him out of his shell, out of his comfort zone. You'll just destroy him.
Would you do anything differently if he watched straight videos?
Do you really think a person's sexuality can be guided? So if someone guided you, you could also bend?
Now he's being discreet. If you force him to come out, then he'll no longer be discreet. He might get bullied and discriminated in schools. His whole childhood and relationship with his parents will be different. If his parents hate him, that'd be even worse!
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KennyKB
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Oct 31 2020, 06:57 PM
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If you expose him his parents will be aghast and put pressure on him. It may destroy his childhood. In the end nothing will be achieved because he will still follow his gender preference. Just let it be a secret between you and him.
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shuin1986
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Oct 31 2020, 07:19 PM
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Being gay is not a choice, if you not sure your sister family can accept that kind of 'abnormality', don't tell her, u may end up destroying his/their life (being forced to marry, or worst abandon his parent for his gay partner)
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SUSadam09
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Oct 31 2020, 07:24 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 04:57 PM) So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age  Found out by checking the browser history since he always use the computer in my room whenever im not around to play games and watch youtube. But one particular day he locked the door whereas normally he wont even close the door properly. Since then i always check the history and yeah he did watch it on other days as well. I want to tell my sister about it so that something can be done to correct him before its too late, but at the same time i dont want my sister and my bro in law to be very disappointed that their son is gay. And also im afraid he will do something with my kids if i expose him, although i can ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history Another possibility would be he was simply curious on how to masturbate  His google search was always “boy cum”  Interact with him more ... U will can find out first he straight or gay before telling ur sis... Does he behave like a normal boy or a gay boy |
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shaktiv8
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Oct 31 2020, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 04:57 PM) So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age Found out by checking the browser history since he always use the computer in my room whenever im not around to play games and watch youtube. But one particular day he locked the door whereas normally he wont even close the door properly. Since then i always check the history and yeah he did watch it on other days as well. I want to tell my sister about it so that something can be done to correct him before its too late, but at the same time i dont want my sister and my bro in law to be very disappointed that their son is gay. And also im afraid he will do something with my kids if i expose him, although i can ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history Another possibility would be he was simply curious on how to masturbate His google search was always “boy cum” Please thread lightly, i'm studying psych now and there is a lot you can do wrong to fuck his whole life up unintentionally Don't regret your decisions, don't force it out of him, don't drive someone to suicide |
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shaktiv8
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Oct 31 2020, 07:34 PM
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QUOTE(moosset @ Oct 31 2020, 06:57 PM) I don't think you should tell his parents. This is not your info to share. He can come out whenever he feels like it. He's too young for you to break him out of his shell, out of his comfort zone. You'll just destroy him. Would you do anything differently if he watched straight videos? Do you really think a person's sexuality can be guided? So if someone guided you, you could also bend? Now he's being discreet. If you force him to come out, then he'll no longer be discreet. He might get bullied and discriminated in schools. His whole childhood and relationship with his parents will be different. If his parents hate him, that'd be even worse! agreed! If the parents are not going to be able to accept it's best to wait until he's older rather than risking emotional and maybe even physical abuse of the child they might resent |
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fish_hoo
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Oct 31 2020, 07:49 PM
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first, teach him to use Incognito mode
second, let him be whoever he wants to
third, act dunno
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TSx-meng
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Oct 31 2020, 07:55 PM
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Ok based on most of the replies, im gonna do nothing bout it and let him choose to be gay or straight or whatever, because like some said it would pressure him and my sister to correct his sexual preference if he is indeed gay
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SUSpot-8-O's
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Oct 31 2020, 07:59 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 07:55 PM) Ok based on most of the replies, im gonna do nothing bout it and let him choose to be gay or straight or whatever, because like some said it would pressure him and my sister to correct his sexual preference if he is indeed gay dude, it's not about being gay or not ... it's about developing an unhealthy masturbating habit at a young age. |
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mini orchard
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Oct 31 2020, 08:19 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 07:55 PM) Ok based on most of the replies, im gonna do nothing bout it and let him choose to be gay or straight or whatever, because like some said it would pressure him and my sister to correct his sexual preference if he is indeed gay Since your oredi know something, is difficult for you to ignore him. Have more interaction and you can guide him that way since he still young. Otherwise, he learn from others and come home with unwanted things. What he wants when he reaches adulthood is up to him. |
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SUSGibeDeMuny
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Oct 31 2020, 08:28 PM
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nyies
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Mr.Robert
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Oct 31 2020, 08:36 PM
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Intro XMM to him.
He need more interaction with opposite sex.
Mixed school, boys n girls should play together.
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ViktorJ
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Oct 31 2020, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE(Mr.Robert @ Oct 31 2020, 08:36 PM) Intro XMM to him. He need more interaction with opposite sex. Mixed school, boys n girls should play together. Uncle FINDING a Standard 5 XMM for nephew is going to get uncle into even more trouble than nephew LOL This post has been edited by ViktorJ: Oct 31 2020, 08:39 PM |
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xpole
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Oct 31 2020, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(KennyKB @ Oct 31 2020, 06:57 PM) If you expose him his parents will be aghast and put pressure on him. It may destroy his childhood. In the end nothing will be achieved because he will still follow his gender preference. Just let it be a secret between you and him. |
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msacras
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Oct 31 2020, 08:43 PM
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Show your D and cum infront of him, if he didn't enjoy then he isn't gay
No, seriously, learning to cum doesn't mean he's a gay, yet.
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sakuraboo
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Oct 31 2020, 09:19 PM
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Truth is, people want to be progressive, but simple responsibility like telling the parents is so hard because takut of blow back
Truth is the way forward, whether you like it or not, that's my opinion on any issue. Clarification and explanation is required and everyone to be open about it. And lose the assumptions on every damn thing.
The acceptance gotta come sooner or later. only the weak minded like to hide stuff here and there.
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Spitzer
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Oct 31 2020, 09:38 PM
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I would just leave him be, and give him advice only if you can see something is really ruining his wellbeing.
Also, correcting someone sexual preference is just not gonna be worth it, it's like trying to tell YOU, to start sexualizing guys instead of girls
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Cheeky
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Oct 31 2020, 09:42 PM
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QUOTE(Teddysaur @ Oct 31 2020, 05:22 PM)  I fucking love this. It's his self-discovery. And it is totally fine if he is gay. Also, on your question, whether you should act upon it or even change him YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO SO. You have no right to expose him. You have no right to force his coming out. He should be doing it on his own and on his own terms. There is completely nothing wrong with being gay. I fully agree with you. If he is gay, then it is what it is. If you force him otherwise, nothing good can come out of it. |
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melvin91motorola
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Oct 31 2020, 09:46 PM
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Just let him grow see he dating girls or no....maybe he just at curious stage, dont expose him like that, it would ruin his childhood
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J1g54w
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Oct 31 2020, 09:56 PM
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he's just curious la. talk to him in a positive way and encourage him to speak out, then give proper guidance and knowledge.
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