Found out my nephew watches gay porn
Found out my nephew watches gay porn
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Nov 19 2020, 04:09 AM
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maybe it's not him, it's someone else?
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Nov 19 2020, 04:29 AM
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QUOTE(xianw @ Nov 17 2020, 01:44 AM) IDK why no actual gay people hv given their 2 cents. Personally, I too discovered that I was attracted to muscular male bodies in Lat comics & superhero comics, in primary school. It's not something that can be censored or controlled. Sad reading your stuff...jor mood booster...i suggest you watch jap series...Cherry Magic. It might make you happyPersonally, at that age, if someone close told me that being gay is ok & not something that can be changed or is abnormal, I would hv been so much more confident in myself. I think even primary school knows that this is something deeply scandalous & must be kept secret. Being prematurely outed to conservative parents at that age would seriously make me want to suicide. Personally, the ts saying that if it was straight porn he will not intervene, that's a totally repulsive position, & perfectly illustrated our screwed up mindset in society here. I find the majority of gay porn or any porn, a real turn off. It all looks more like a torture or power show then an expression of love or pleasure. I recommend the ts do nothing. After ts mindset is all straight porn is ok what? As nothing ts does will change anything really. But if ts truly cares about his nephew, maybe a few years form now when he's older, he will try to tell him that his uncle knows who he really is & that it's ok. A few years from now ts will know for sure, as even with all the hiding, gay people are just slightly different from the rest. But right now, as we don't actually know that the nephew is actually gay, doing anything at this point is risking a lot of damage & misery for all. Ultimately gay people must all decide if the want to keep hiding forever in this cruel world Actually a few things in ts story a bit... hard to believe? 1st, your uncle's pc in HIS ROOM HIS HOUSE=best place to surf porn? Really so poor, don't hv own old phone or pc for something so personal? Nephew at uncle's hse using pc ALL the time?? I'm surprised he's sophisticated enough to surf porn but doesn't incognito mode? & alot of porn needs vpn. Also what kind of porn? Boy cum alone? A lot of questions really... Actually I don't know when gay became a shameful, taboo thing to be hidden away; for me, as I was in a ulu primary school in Sungai Lembing after moving from KL. That time was 1998 & kampung & no computers or porn. Sometimes I wonder if this same question posed by the ts, if it was in Thailand, what the responses would look like. So Even I'm 29 now, I find it difficult to come out to my westernized atheist parents & my mother passed away without my telling her. Never told anyone, never in a relationship. Gay people here hv to live with this reality, and no one would wish it to be this way. All my life I hv felt like I hv to create a facade, to hide. Even with my privileged liberal circumstances. ENDoflongsobstory |
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Nov 19 2020, 06:15 PM
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QUOTE(oc_rooney @ Nov 19 2020, 02:14 AM) Its still not to late to counter. If this is not trolling pls simpan kebodohan itu & yr toxic ideology. If the person is really gay then they already hv enough personal crisis. If your parents or elders treat you like this then I pity your lifetime pretending that 'conversion therapy' works. Really no point replying to these troll comments. These people are the root of the world's misery!Invite him to play soccer n football or put him into classes Throw away all of his pink and girly shirts, buy hin jersey jersey n jersey If u see any of he interest sounds girlish example he likes sewing and baking, ask him to to more manly works like carpenting fishing Also check who is guy friend, if sissy sissy one telll him dont friend with them Lastly strengthsn his skill on prayers. |
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Nov 19 2020, 06:26 PM
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QUOTE(Bendot @ Nov 19 2020, 04:29 AM) Sad reading your stuff...jor mood booster...i suggest you watch jap series...Cherry Magic. It might make you happy Yes I like Japanese movies & will check it out. I didn't mean to sound sad as I had wonderful primary school years in that town & I hv wonderful parents who love me unconditionally. I'm very blessed in a way. |
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Nov 19 2020, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(oc_rooney @ Nov 19 2020, 02:14 AM) Its still not to late to counter. I don't like to play football. I'm a typical kaki bangku.Invite him to play soccer n football or put him into classes Throw away all of his pink and girly shirts, buy hin jersey jersey n jersey If u see any of he interest sounds girlish example he likes sewing and baking, ask him to to more manly works like carpenting fishing Also check who is guy friend, if sissy sissy one telll him dont friend with them Lastly strengthsn his skill on prayers. I don't like fishing. I can sew and bake bread better than my mom, sisters and wife - combined. Am I gay? Nope. Are you silly? Probably. |
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Nov 19 2020, 09:41 PM
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It could be he's just exploring, as he's at that age.
But I agree with others who said that no matter if he's gay or not, it's important that your nephew is not made to feel bad or guilty. If you are close to him, you can ask him about some general questions about whether he likes anyone in school, or on TV. Be someone that he can trust and share things with. For me, when I was in secondary, I did search for naked guys or naked men. It's really hard to say whether he's gay or not because I know of guys who jerked with other guys but are straight and got married in the end. Turns out that was just being horny and curious. |
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Nov 19 2020, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Nov 19 2020, 12:41 AM) I think u r confused. so i'll answer these questions. Btw, the uncle = me aka TS. Please excuse me, but are we talking about muslim or not muslim family here (sorry I have no idea, and there's no clue from your post). But if muslim and moreover if the parent are religious, best thing to let them know asap but try make it suttle, not like it is a crisis.This is at my parents house. Of course i have my room at this house. I stay at my parents house. But my room is still there for whenever i wanna go back. So my father bought a gaming PC and put it in my room, since my PC is at another house. So my nephew and niece always use my room to play games, watch youtube, etc. They stay at my parents house together with my sister and bro in law. My nephew has his own ipad. I dont know if he watches it on the ipad as well. Not gonna check He only knows how to play games, youtube. He doesn;t know about VPN, incognito mode, etc What porn u watch until need to use VPN? I simply use some free dns enough to bypass. And i have tried without dns or VPN, there are some sites that can still be opened. You can try it yourself I tried opened some of his history, the ones i remember was guys jerking off, and one more is guy pounding another guy's ass But are you sure no one using the pc then yourself and nephew... 🤔 |
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Nov 19 2020, 10:34 PM
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QUOTE(farisq @ Nov 19 2020, 10:12 PM) Please excuse me, but are we talking about muslim or not muslim family here (sorry I have no idea, and there's no clue from your post). But if muslim and moreover if the parent are religious, best thing to let them know asap but try make it suttle, not like it is a crisis. muslim family. BUt i dont want to make it into a religion tered thats why i left that part outBut are you sure no one using the pc then yourself and nephew... 🤔 There are other ppl who uses the PC. But its easy to detect its him because on the history, there's date and time on each page visited. I can see the porn sites were visited right after or before watching gaming videos on youtube. Another one that i can confirm is that the day i found out, i was out and when i came back my room was locked. Usually he doesnt lock the door if just for gaming/youtube. And when i check the history the timing was like 10 to 20 minutes before i came back |
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Nov 19 2020, 10:59 PM
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QUOTE(x-meng @ Oct 31 2020, 04:57 PM) So as per topic, what should i do? He is standard 5 iinm. I dont care if he watches straight porn since i think most of us did the same at that age accidental gay niFound out by checking the browser history since he always use the computer in my room whenever im not around to play games and watch youtube. But one particular day he locked the door whereas normally he wont even close the door properly. Since then i always check the history and yeah he did watch it on other days as well. I want to tell my sister about it so that something can be done to correct him before its too late, but at the same time i dont want my sister and my bro in law to be very disappointed that their son is gay. And also im afraid he will do something with my kids if i expose him, although i can ask my sister to say she found it out herself by checking the browser history Another possibility would be he was simply curious on how to masturbate His google search was always “boy cum” unknowingly search gay related stuff, bombarded with gay stuff, become gay joke aside muslim family? dunno man, maybe you should let the parents handle it. i would consider that as private matter and aib. the best u can do is pray for him and start to block those porn site on ur pc. |
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