Let's see, where she stay in Malaysia? I see if it's me AHAHHAA
But many ppl study in Melbourne now bah

Got once during college years. even if she likes me beyond logic, i can foresee that her family/social circle wont. it's gonna be suffering no matter what we do.

i am a very realistic person IRL. i know my background and what kind of earning i am capable of. cantonese saying "wood door face wood door, bamboo door face bamboo door"

so i cut it short and wish her well. we lost contact although occasionally i still can see her FB postings. still living her rich man daughter's life but i dont know if she is already seeing anyone. no mention of it in her FB postings but from the photos taken it is no selfie. got ppl cature using dslr punya style. so i dunno who could be taking those photos. probably the guy he is dating? cant be tripod-ing herself no?

sometimes questions of "what could have been" occasionally does pop up in my mind. but then again, it's just an occasional thoughts that quickly disappears just as soon as it came.

Especially in our eastern world, of our Oriental culture, is for guy who is richer to marry a lady who is poorer or both same wealth. This is called 'men dang hu dui' meaning of same class or social/economic status.

Have u ever dated a girl who is of higher class than u, meaning richer, more knowledgeable, higher education and speaks better English than u?

I did, I once dated a girl who just move from other school to my school, well to my class. She is of rich family, dad is a company CEO, mom is a lawyer. She doesn't quite speak Chinese, but excellent English. She read those kind of Ernest Hemingway books, watching American shows and always get top 5 in class.

While me, i seldom study, always last few positions, watch those Hong Kong fighting movies, anime, no read books at all, listen Jay Chou songs. Speaking English? Lol, I failed my English test.

So, we dated. It feels so hard to mingle with her friends and to chat with her because we didn't share same hobby. I tried hard to enter her 'world' but I failed. Cause I hardly grasp what she wanted. In then end we broke up. I guess I wasn't meant for her, I'm too poor too low class.

What about u guys? Ever dated higher class ladies? Share

I did (13 yrs ago), didnt last long, she wanted to save our relationship but i cant hold it anymore when the mom staring at me like shit every time we met. Her dad is ok but the mom wants a "keluarga sama taraf" and slightly after 1 yr anniversary, we broke up. we only contact each other as friend after that. not long until no more news.

met her 2 yrs ago at a mall, she was with her baby, i was with my buddy for lunch. she's fat now, hahahaha. later that day after the encounter, she pm my fb and said "ehemmm, makin hensem eh sekarang". we chat a little and no more after that.

Who's her hubby

dunno personally, but look like a smart guy (from fb pic, professional look, but not good looking la, i think i look way better), but i cant beat his wallet, hahahaha

U got piap her before? If got, then her reliance and dependence on u will increase. Not easy break up

Got once during college years. even if she likes me beyond logic, i can foresee that her family/social circle wont. it's gonna be suffering no matter what we do.

i am a very realistic person IRL. i know my background and what kind of earning i am capable of. cantonese saying "wood door face wood door, bamboo door face bamboo door"

so i cut it short and wish her well. we lost contact although occasionally i still can see her FB postings. still living her rich man daughter's life but i dont know if she is already seeing anyone. no mention of it in her FB postings but from the photos taken it is no selfie. got ppl cature using dslr punya style. so i dunno who could be taking those photos. probably the guy he is dating? cant be tripod-ing herself no?

sometimes questions of "what could have been" occasionally does pop up in my mind. but then again, it's just an occasional thoughts that quickly disappears just as soon as it came.

U got piap her before?

Nope, of course not although i did have the intention to. i'm a straight guy damnit!

but after some time together, i realise i cant afford her.

we're from 2 different worlds. she may sacrifice abit to fit my world, but i can never fit her world. it's just never meant to be.

so rather than piap and dump, she was too precious for me to treat her like that and we parted on amicable terms.

Especially in our eastern world, of our Oriental culture, is for guy who is richer to marry a lady who is poorer or both same wealth. This is called 'men dang hu dui' meaning of same class or social/economic status.

Have u ever dated a girl who is of higher class than u, meaning richer, more knowledgeable, higher education and speaks better English than u?

I did, I once dated a girl who just move from other school to my school, well to my class. She is of rich family, dad is a company CEO, mom is a lawyer. She doesn't quite speak Chinese, but excellent English. She read those kind of Ernest Hemingway books, watching American shows and always get top 5 in class.

While me, i seldom study, always last few positions, watch those Hong Kong fighting movies, anime, no read books at all, listen Jay Chou songs. Speaking English? Lol, I failed my English test.

So, we dated. It feels so hard to mingle with her friends and to chat with her because we didn't share same hobby. I tried hard to enter her 'world' but I failed. Cause I hardly grasp what she wanted. In then end we broke up. I guess I wasn't meant for her, I'm too poor too low class.

What about u guys? Ever dated higher class ladies? Share

if she doent have a partner, can only tripod herself.

also bammboo is also kayu le

mana drillz?

U now married?

my anak pun sudah almost 4 years old lah kawan