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Hav u ever dated gf 'richer & higher class' than u
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TSUkeke
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 Jul 31 2019, 09:14 AM, updated 7y ago
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Especially in our eastern world, of our Oriental culture, is for guy who is richer to marry a lady who is poorer or both same wealth. This is called 'men dang hu dui' meaning of same class or social/economic status.
Have u ever dated a girl who is of higher class than u, meaning richer, more knowledgeable, higher education and speaks better English than u?
I did, I once dated a girl who just move from other school to my school, well to my class. She is of rich family, dad is a company CEO, mom is a lawyer. She doesn't quite speak Chinese, but excellent English. She read those kind of Ernest Hemingway books, watching American shows and always get top 5 in class.
While me, i seldom study, always last few positions, watch those Hong Kong fighting movies, anime, no read books at all, listen Jay Chou songs. Speaking English? Lol, I failed my English test.
So, we dated. It feels so hard to mingle with her friends and to chat with her because we didn't share same hobby. I tried hard to enter her 'world' but I failed. Cause I hardly grasp what she wanted. In then end we broke up. I guess I wasn't meant for her, I'm too poor too low class.
What about u guys? Ever dated higher class ladies? Share
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Jul 31 2019, 09:16 AM) Me started working at age 15 She graduated master in Melb. Her family owns a few business. Still together, into our 4th year now. Our hobbies kinda link I guess? I know exactly someone who graduate master in Melbourne, family own few business, and has a bf of several years who doesn't study till spm. Don't tell me that ah Beng guy is u |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 09:22 AM
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QUOTE(ryedrift @ Jul 31 2019, 09:20 AM) she uk grad family all well known from the grandfather till father uncles etc me, local uitm grad only and poor lucky because i handsome Now ur wife? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 09:29 AM
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QUOTE(ryedrift @ Jul 31 2019, 09:28 AM) feyonce now, december wife Her parents never reject u? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:17 AM
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Jul 31 2019, 10:15 AM) Not at all. But very interesting way to chase her. Lol How u chase her? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Jul 31 2019, 10:18 AM) Let's see, where she stay in Malaysia? I see if it's me AHAHHAA But many ppl study in Melbourne now bah Did she just graduated recently? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:30 AM
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Jul 31 2019, 10:29 AM) Nah, working for like close to a year. Say la where she stay. Say area can liao Then wrong person. |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:53 AM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 10:44 AM) Got once during college years. even if she likes me beyond logic, i can foresee that her family/social circle wont. it's gonna be suffering no matter what we do. i am a very realistic person IRL. i know my background and what kind of earning i am capable of. cantonese saying "wood door face wood door, bamboo door face bamboo door" so i cut it short and wish her well. we lost contact although occasionally i still can see her FB postings. still living her rich man daughter's life but i dont know if she is already seeing anyone. no mention of it in her FB postings but from the photos taken it is no selfie. got ppl cature using dslr punya style. so i dunno who could be taking those photos. probably the guy he is dating? cant be tripod-ing herself no? sometimes questions of "what could have been" occasionally does pop up in my mind. but then again, it's just an occasional thoughts that quickly disappears just as soon as it came. U got piap her before? If got, then her reliance and dependence on u will increase. Not easy break up |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:54 AM
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QUOTE(superworm @ Jul 31 2019, 10:51 AM) I did (13 yrs ago), didnt last long, she wanted to save our relationship but i cant hold it anymore when the mom staring at me like shit every time we met. Her dad is ok but the mom wants a "keluarga sama taraf" and slightly after 1 yr anniversary, we broke up. we only contact each other as friend after that. not long until no more news. met her 2 yrs ago at a mall, she was with her baby, i was with my buddy for lunch. she's fat now, hahahaha. later that day after the encounter, she pm my fb and said "ehemmm, makin hensem eh sekarang". we chat a little and no more after that. Who's her hubby |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 10:58 AM
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QUOTE(superworm @ Jul 31 2019, 10:58 AM) dunno personally, but look like a smart guy (from fb pic, professional look, but not good looking la, i think i look way better), but i cant beat his wallet, hahahaha U got piap her before? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 11:08 AM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 11:01 AM) Nope, of course not although i did have the intention to. i'm a straight guy damnit! but after some time together, i realise i cant afford her. we're from 2 different worlds. she may sacrifice abit to fit my world, but i can never fit her world. it's just never meant to be. so rather than piap and dump, she was too precious for me to treat her like that and we parted on amicable terms. U now married? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 11:14 AM) my anak pun sudah almost 4 years old lah kawan Then frankly speaking, u got miss her now? And thinking about the 'what if's? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 12:18 PM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 12:16 PM) not i would purposely go and think about her. only occasionally when i come across her once-in-a-blue-moon FB post. truth be told she was my 1st college sweetheart. that's why ppl say 1st love cut is the deepest. really pure love one. i even met her parents and family. but i can never forget the way her mother look at me. like a dog looking down on people. just call it "cowardice" on my part lah but i know i can never measure up to their "standard". ukur baju badan sendiri. Meaning ur love with wife not pure? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 12:22 PM
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QUOTE(kenn0202 @ Jul 31 2019, 12:21 PM) every girl i date was richer and higher class then me as i was from poor family but there is this one super rich girl. family got land at aussie, own alot shoplot at kuchai. very down to earth, drive 2nd hand vw car, work as shop assistant. but the pressure given by her family is no joke. like those korean/hokkien never ending drama Hang in there, never give up for ur love! |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 12:24 PM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 12:24 PM) yup. moving on from the 1st love and then a few other girls later. my intentions was filled with lotsa horniness, dirty talks, hot steamy sex and aggressive loving.  in short, i was the ugly predator. the bad guy. that's why i chose her to be a mother to my child  Chose her to be ur child mom? She's stepmom? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 12:45 PM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 12:26 PM) nope. biological. u understood it different from what i intended, that's all Then meaning ur first love is like the forbidden fruit? All others u makan before just not her right? |
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TSUkeke
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Jul 31 2019, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Jul 31 2019, 01:21 PM) aiyoh... you are inferring too much. first love is special. even if it didnt end up in marriage, it will always have a special place in memory. wife love is wife love. first love is first love. you cant be so daft not able to differentiate it, do you? others in between, let's just say that it was a mutually beneficial short term relationship. I'm not daft or stupid. Just refuse to accept the way u categorize your love relationship into several stage? Mutually beneficial ? If ur 2nd 3rd gf were to know bout how u view your relationship with them, they must be v hurtful. U are basically using them as toys and not respecting then. Use them for ur own benefits and dump. First love so what? Bigger than sky? My ass la. I wonder if ur wife found out u still reminiscing first love, what will she feel? Bodoh sohai, no wonder ur first love Mom look u so down. U deserve it cause u have no respect for many girls who once sacrificed their all for u. |
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