Thats considered long, based on the ffedback i receive from ppl i know most girls already doing alot of onz stuff with their guys within a week or two after meeting together lol

You invite her to bali and yet complain about spending on her. what the fish you talking.

You want to talk bout shared responsibilities but you boast bout your Audi and stuffs like that.

Come on, grow up. So many contradictions coming from you. Don't even know what the fish you want. If money is not the problem for you, why you worry about those hundred/thousand bucks. Please la. If want to gold dig, they will gold dig richer guys. Why aim for you? Audi but stingy to spend and even insulted her to live in low cost building. Haihz.

First of all, I'm not complaining on spending her too much on a girl. And yes, most girls would want to gold dig me if they know me because im the gold standard who drives a continental car at 22 and grandson of a USD 500 million company. Dont be salty. I'm just pointing out the fact that girls should at least show some class by taking a small initiative to at least show their appreciation and care for the guy by offering to spend the guy back; maybe doing small deeds like buying coffee for the guy will mean the whole world to him. I dont want a girl to just gold dig me because of my financial background, that is just wrong in my opinion. Whoever said i insulted her? I just mentioned she lives in a low cost building, that is not an insult.

This post has been edited by JimmyGainz: Feb 22 2019, 12:13 PM

If you're not degrading her financial status then what is your point to mention her house?

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Just giving you a small overview background of her la

So she DID pay for a few occasions.

So where is the part where she didn't share responsibilities? And remind us why you were saying she's a gold digger.

My Rich Fren, instead of buying coffee for you, she already bought you a freaking Ramli Burger. Twice. So you got your small deed that would mean the whole world to you already. Twice. Apa lagi mau?

Maybe i wasnt exactly too clear in giving a detailed explanation of my activities with her. She enjoys going ktv and ppl who go there do 'stuff' that makes them high and they can stay there from morning until night. those kind of place. I told her im tired and just say lets go hotel. She just die die say no and must go ktv. I'm like i accompany u go ktv few times edy, least u could do for me is be for me and stay at hotel with me because im tired and cant really drive coz drink alot. You know, just caring for each other those sort of vibes. When did i mentioned she was a gold digger? Dude u got read my posts or not if no dontsimply coomment la diu waste my time only. Im just saying i spend and treat her 5x more than what she did for me la,

1. Yup she is selfish for doing that to you.

2. Yup you have been implying the entire thread that she is more interested in your ability to spend, and her reluctance in reciprocating financial responsibilities despite having adequate income abilities. A short version of that is generally "gold digger".

3. Maybe you spend 5x more than what she does because your grandfather's company is more than 5x her entire extended family's aggregated value

Because you have been complaining about forking money for her despite being rich. If I'm rich, I will never complain about this issue.

Side note becareful of your language please

This post has been edited by fearless_kiki: Feb 22 2019, 12:57 PM

Salty? hahaha you made my day. what a funny joke coming from a 22 years old kid asking for opinion yet degrading comments from people and insulting the girl he plans to court. No doubt you are rich as hell but too bad you got that insecurity inside that you are always going to think girls gold dig you, LOL have fun forever with that thinking. Besides, you are just lucky you come from a golden spoon family. Let's see what happens if the wealth goes to you. Wonder how are you going to sustain that wealth for long since your attitude is like that. I don't even need to be envious of you. I carve my own path and doing well so far. I don't go boosting around talking bout audi, degrading girls and then having the nerve to post on forum about your own wealth. No wonder you can be filthy dirty rich but no experience with girls. I think we can guess what's the reason for that

Enough said, reply all you want. I rest my case trying to help such preposterous kid like you. The only advantage from you is what your family give you, not what you can give people HAHA

mmm everyone is different i guess. I come from a protective family who tirelessly lecture me about not simply spending money on outsiders and i guess i kinda grew up with that mentality of being aware of how i spend my money and that. I say what i want to say, this is my post, if you dont like my way of language dont comment

Just lecturing on your manners about how to talk to people, kid. This is simple etiquette. Do your parents not teach you to speak politely? Since you are a... Rich kid? It's rude to use foul language. Go back to school if you haven't learn your manners.

lol is it a bad thing that I'm insecure about whether a girl really likes me or just wants to old dig me? I grew up under a family that is very protective and cautious on how i deal with my money, especially on outsiders. I'm just merely asking on advice on what i should do yet ur commenting shit and not giving any help. I'm merely just giving my background and hers so everyone can assess the situation in a clearer manner.

Alamak now want change topic and talk about my manners.This is a chill online forum, i can text you how unconventionally i want. If you got nothing to say about my situation dont waste ur time and comment on the post.

oh boy, where do i start?

oh yeah, just F'n'Dump her. what do you have to lose? you're 22 and loaded. you are lucky she is not clingy to you because she has others F'boys out there.

you should be like ok, we are done. take your number and wait for my call. next!!

what if she's still a uni student? hasn't start earning money yet?

This post has been edited by tehoice: Feb 22 2019, 02:11 PM

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After dating so many girls in my younger days, my conclusion is that girls who don't offer to pay after the 3rd date is not worth as a long term gf.

It shows lack of courtesy to the other person.

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what if she's still a uni student? hasn't start earning money yet?

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Tbh it still shouldnt be an excuse to not offer to pay.

Hentam jer!!

teach people? just because you drive an audi?