From what ive read so far, you sound as if you're just obsessed over her physically and interested in bedding this girl. If that's the case , then you have no rights to request such emotional investments in that girl. Get a grip on your stupid mindset before you turn into a walking bag of scum

My fiancée back when I was dating paid for our dates and sometimes my food when my businesses have not reached profitability and when I was still dumping my full time salary into my businesses (and properties). She even worked for free for me during those times as my personal assistant and accountant.

All these talks by females saying that males should be gentlemen are proofs to the world that males SHOULD DEFINITELY earn more than females.

To TS:

1. Make it clear to her that when there is always a HIGH point to your life, there is always a LOW point to your life. You have to live your life thinking that there might/will be a day when you sell your Audi for a motorbike to keep your grandfather's company alive.

2. Behind every successful man, there is always a woman that is stronger than him supporting, but behind every unsuccessful man, there usually have more than just one woman.

Take your time and look for the right one. This is definitely not the right one. I think you don't need other LYN forummers to tell you this because you should by now already know what to do.