you can park your card near McD
then walk from McD to Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin Mosque along the lake side at night la

we just want to be useful that all .. hahaha...i want my gf to participate as well if she got better solutions.. nobody know all things.. thanks for the compliment..hahaha.. i still looking for a potential gf.


nothing way better xD

well for first date (before being GF) movie is ok i would but must be spending time to know each oother 1st la
lunch talk talk chat chat > movie
dinner talk talk chat chat > movie > late nite > piap

Go and get a room, you are the reason why the chairs are sticky! Disgusting fellow.

You don't need to be interesting or be interested onto her while she talks?
How can a topic like football be sexual to a girl? Sayin' things like "oh gurrlll... Imma gonna kick my balls onto your goal post... MmMMMMmMMm you like that??" - Like that ah??

People ask you question, you taichi and ask people to figure it out...

But you know what? This is your own thread.

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4732288

- 3 Months
- 2 Times kena blocked by THE SAME GIRL
- 1 Time also haven't meet her yet
- 0 Dates

I guess with your way of courting girls, you can only Rub Your Own Genie



He's the sifu of kena BLOCKED by GIRLS

This post has been edited by RubMyGenie_: Feb 13 2019, 03:54 PM

Just have to take everything with a pinch of salt. Afterall, this is an online forum.

The pinch of salt was just too salty, I couldn't tahan anymore. My Genie nearly died from dehydration due to the high sodium content. I had to Rub My Genie for the past hour just to make it wet enough for him to stay hydrated.

But putting that aside.

I do believe that everyone have different opinions on the topic as there is no 100% right or wrong answer.

Some boys & girls like movies, and some other don't; what TS is suggesting is just a basic guidance on where you should be bringing your partner to in dates, rather than just going for movies (which is one of the most common dates people usually bring their partner to).

While I would agree for the most part, in the end it would depends on your partner. If he/she like the specific movie, then going to the movies is a good idea since:

1 - Your partner already wanted to watch the movie in the first place, indicating interest. So, when you invite him/her that time, it would be easier for him/her to accept the invitation for the date.
2 - If your partner likes the movie, he/she would have a lot to say after the movie, as you both can discuss the things that had happened in the movie.

While I agree that if your date is still a "friend" and not upgraded into a bf/gf yet, it would be awkward if you suddenly hold his/her hand. It would be a bold move, I would say a 50/50 move. It would either score you an instant bf/gf or an instant weirdo/pervert/awkward event.

In the end, the most important thing is to learn what your partner likes, and bring his/her to the place. Guarantee a good time!

Lets put an example to it, shall we?

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Let's just say you're dating a land whale and you suggested her to go for hiking together - that's your dating venue. She will have 3 outcome:

1 - She will go hiking with you, just to see your 6-pax, your muscles, your awesomely handsome face, she just wants to spend time with you, no matter where you go.
2 - She will feel that its tiring, but because you want to go, she follow only.
3 - She will feel that its tiring and a waste of time, cancel the date.

So, knowing that you're dating with a land whale it would be safer if you just bring her to EATTTT instead; FOOD will never be a wrong option, especially to girls. Women LOOOVVEESS FOOODDD, be it skinny, skeleton, normal, plump, chubby or land whale, it won't go wrong.

But of course, I am just joking and using extreme condition to give the example. But what I'm trying to say is - just get to know your date first, then bring her to places that you can guarantee she will be having a great time.

Plus point if you could bring her to places that can do activity together; As TS has mentioned - Those places that she had suggested are great.

not if its something the date and you both enjoy.

its about keeping each other company. and in my cases, all end up holding hands first.... in the movies!

Haha, well all of us here in CC know who are the real deals, and who the foreveralones who live under the bridge, eating their own siham, only to ride their kuda out every once in a while just to tell cerita sejuk(s).

We find our entertainment where we can

But yeah, TS is just giving more options. Having more tools in your arsenal is better than having less.

This. If you don't talk about the movie afterward, what is the point of watching movies together? Most guys I went to to a date with just simply go straight back to their phones after the movies. Like, wtf? Talk to me, bitch. I'm right here, aho.

can always do dinner first then only movie

This post has been edited by lyc1982: Feb 13 2019, 05:02 PM

The main point is talk to each other and hands off your phone.

usually guys bring me to their house for netflix and chill, movies at cinema is so 70's

On first day? Impressive.

From any conversation any topic any subject also can get to know a person la. I feel it's a better way to understand him/her through things which seems not important.

Do you share similar cultural references. Can you share the same humor. She appreciates the story more, the graphic work more, or the art more.

Why the F u want to know bout her family, where she lives, what she have studied bla bla bla.......he/she could fabricate those anyway lol.

You missed my point. What I'm trying to say is watching movie doesn't create interesting memories, nor there is any interaction during the movie. Any just now you mentioned the stuff related to the movie, actors, visual effect... Those topics not related to you or your date at all.

Lol now pipu watching movie at home already, what year are you from? topkek

It is true that she can fabricate about her family, where she lives, what she have studied and more, but if you are truly looking for an honest relationship, wanting to find someone that you can rely on, that you can hold on to, that you can love for a long-period of time; trust and honesty is very much needed.

Are you saying that you're fabricating a lot of things in life to your partner? From earning only 3k a month, to owning a successful business with over 300k turnover, and wanting to buy p*ssy cream to your so called imaginative "wife" that you had 6 years ago. (Note: Those were your own threads) I see that it is quite sad that you need to imagine so many things, that you are not sure which is real and which is not, don't worry, you can Rub My Genie, and if he's satisfied, who knows? Maybe he'll grant you 3 wishes.

Well I guess it is true that from any conversation of any topic, any subject, we get to know a person by just how he speaks. Thanks - I very much agree on that.

This is not /k/

This post has been edited by RubMyGenie_: Feb 13 2019, 06:07 PM

hmm sure i do get your point, even on your first post, but if your mind is open enough (and you're not a boring companion in the movie house), you can get to know your date more in the movie house - and it doesn't even require you to be touchy.

you may be having your attention on the movie, but at some points you can definitely (instinctively) watch her reactions. how would she react on various situations on the movie can definitely help you take a peek of her personality. a comedy would be an awesome genre to watch with someone you are going to have a date with for the first few times - you can see and hear her laugh, and heck you can laugh with her. also, be ready to answer (properly) some of the questions she may ask within the movie. she can also very well do the same to you.

i've taken girls to movies for dates. i'm not much of a movie person but i know when and how to enjoy it when i'm with someone. some went okay, some had gone awkward. but i always do pay attention on how my date reacts on some parts of the movie, because i know that's a part of her personality. that's getting to know your date better in the movies.

but, movies are not for everyone. this doesn't work on everyone.

T_T you too deep into ma heart.

Watch movie can see a person's personality??? Tahap dewa ni.

Laugh a lot = ?
Laugh a little = ?
Not dare to watch horror movie = ?
Like action movie = ?
Dislike romance movie = ?
Cry a lot= ?

See you can answer correctly or not...