One suggestion, just bring your dates home so you all can smash.

Distasteful and useless tahap /k advice

At some point...eventually...it will happen...just want people to know dont always bring dates out.... because it gets boring too after sometime

Where to go for a dinner date in kl/pj?

I dont even know what she likes

Where to go for a dinner date in kl/pj?

I dont even know what she likes

Casual first date on getting to know each other better only

Cafe cafe seems like a great place but prolly not now yet lor

Budget wise rm100 for both shud be ok lah

rarely girl will want to follow to KLIA see airplane...LoL.. they will just say waste of time doing nothing.

So I had a conversation with other people about where guys would bring dates to. The most cliche response were: go to movies, follow up with a dinner. (because everyone watches movies so it's a no brainer?)

You know what?

Bringing your date to the movies is the worst place you can bring.

You are wasting 2 hours of your date having 0 interactions.  You cannot be touchy touchy to the girl because she's not your girlfriend (at least not yet). Any attempts would be deemed as hamsap. After the movie you think you have 1 topic to start the conversation?  Well,  what if the movie suck? Or even if the movie is good,  you learn nothing about her,  and she learns nothing about you too. And...  You don't stand out from the 99 guys that are courting her too.

I brought my ex to places where my childhood memories were, and where I considered to have the strongest of memories. It's seriously better to bring your date to places that are interesting where y'all can talk to each other about stuff.

Plus, it's an adventure.

Just because it's cliched doesn't mean ppl shouldn't do it.

Depending on the movie, it gives the both of you something to talk about... and that's how you get to know each other.

When I dated my wife, I took her out to tango.

I'm shocked that partner dancing isn't on your long list of dating activities. LOL.

It's by far the easiest and quickest way to get intimate, provided you are not a shitty lead with zero rhythm & zero skills.

Many girls actually enjoy dancing and loooooove the idea of being shown a good time on the dance floor.

Problem is most men are too lazy and too lansi to learn proper dances. Their loss was my gain.

So I had a conversation with other people about where guys would bring dates to. The most cliche response were: go to movies, follow up with a dinner. (because everyone watches movies so it's a no brainer?)

You know what?

Bringing your date to the movies is the worst place you can bring.

You are wasting 2 hours of your date having 0 interactions.  You cannot be touchy touchy to the girl because she's not your girlfriend (at least not yet). Any attempts would be deemed as hamsap. After the movie you think you have 1 topic to start the conversation?  Well,  what if the movie suck? Or even if the movie is good,  you learn nothing about her,  and she learns nothing about you too. And...  You don't stand out from the 99 guys that are courting her too.

*Thanks to other forummers. Updated with suggestions of alternative venues* (please note the activities are based on individuals. So please do your research before the date itself to avoid dissapointment)

1. Hipster cafe
2. Karaoke
3. Park
4. Events or popout bazaars
5. Window shopping
6. Ice skating
7. Hiking
8. Airport or other sight seeing places
9. Cycling
10. Arcade
11. Places with good scenery
12. Boating
13. Learn cooking in bakery schools
14. Bowling
15. Archery
16. Theme park (if you willing to splurge)
17. Farm / zoo
18. Concert (if you willing to splurge)
19. Sepang Circuit
20. Beach
21. Batu caves or other cultural venues
22. Pasar malam
23. Play guitar / piano (Lot 10)
24. Swimming (not first dates)
25. Dancing