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post Feb 13 2019, 12:50 PM

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1st date ...i'd never bring my women watch movies

Spend my time chit chat in hipster cafe
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post Feb 13 2019, 12:53 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 12 2019, 11:30 PM)
Wah,  a lot of places I could think of. But it pretty much depends on what the interest of your date. (but I'm sure you all ask when you get to know the person right?)

1. Events like countdown, food fair because it doesn't happen all year long. Can make memorable memories. Go facebook or ask around to know whether got events lately.
2. Places that has nice view to take photographs like park,  selfie museum, cafes with nice deco. During Christmas, CNY,  Raya, Deepavali time lagi best because a lot of mall deco. Take photos of each other. Can learn photography skills like angles from your date maybe. If your date very shy,  just say: I will make you look good, no worries
3. Window shopping. Even supermarket also can for some people.  If your date spot something nice and within your budget, can offer to buy for your date. Can learn what he/she like and dislike.
4. Learn cooking.  Can learn new recipe and have fun.
5. Ice skating. Can hold hand hold waist without being label hamsap.
6. Hiking. Can hold hand to pull the girl at steep. Can see the girl without makeup.
7. Go Arcade play multiple player games like taiko drum or racing. Be sure to give your date to win so everyone happy.

These are few I could think of...
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your gf ok with these place?

just ask

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post Feb 13 2019, 12:54 PM

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QUOTE(leotorino @ Feb 13 2019, 12:41 PM)
i knew this. But maybe u can suggest good topic incase she introvert
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Even topic like football works. Can gauge the type of lengzai through superstar athletes. Do you like CR7? Or Messi?
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post Feb 13 2019, 12:55 PM

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QUOTE(outsider @ Feb 13 2019, 12:53 PM)
your gf ok with these place?

just ask
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I AM the gf.

Lol. Speaking through experience. My bf and I went to a few places listed before become couple and I always feel happier than watching a movie.

This post has been edited by fearless_kiki: Feb 13 2019, 12:59 PM
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post Feb 13 2019, 12:59 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 13 2019, 12:55 PM)
I AM the gf. Lol. Speaking through experience.
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Later got people pm to berkenalan..lol

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post Feb 13 2019, 01:00 PM

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QUOTE(edisoner90 @ Feb 13 2019, 12:19 PM)
is there proper place to sit? the most dangerous place is the safest place ? hahaha
The putra bridge seem like a good consideration. thanks.
rarely girl will want to follow to KLIA see airplane...LoL.. they will just say waste of time doing nothing.
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luckily my girl have some what similar taste

we prefer to go somewhere less hectic
even tho we do nothing, we always have like deep conversation among ourself
while gazing at airplanes sipping McCafe or Starbucks till late night nod.gif

yes you have a point there, not many girls like to go KLIA to enjoy the scenery

i tried with my ex and crush
their response are: Boring, nothing to do or to see, became major turn-off for them..so sad of me cry.gif
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:04 PM

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QUOTE(myteam94 @ Feb 13 2019, 01:00 PM)
luckily my girl have some what similar taste

we prefer to go somewhere less hectic
even tho we do nothing, we always have like deep conversation among ourself
while gazing at airplanes sipping McCafe or Starbucks till late night  nod.gif

yes you have a point there, not many girls like to go KLIA to enjoy the scenery

i tried with my ex and crush
their response are: Boring, nothing to do or to see, became major turn-off for them..so sad of me  cry.gif
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I just proposed KLIA to my bf and he said "go klia no fly, go there for wat" cry.gif

Maybe he's a frequent flyer (mostly to Singapore) so no feel. sad.gif
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:05 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 13 2019, 01:04 PM)
I just proposed KLIA to my bf and he said "go klia no fly, go there for wat" cry.gif

Maybe he's a frequent flyer (mostly to Singapore) so no feel.  sad.gif
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I suppose he is not into planes.

Maybe try boats! rclxms.gif haha
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:06 PM

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QUOTE(pers1stence @ Feb 13 2019, 01:05 PM)
go KLIA so far for tok?
these kind of romantic activities a female has to earn for it.
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Oh? What do you suppose they have to do to deserve such romantic gestures?
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:09 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 13 2019, 01:04 PM)
I just proposed KLIA to my bf and he said "go klia no fly, go there for wat" cry.gif

Maybe he's a frequent flyer (mostly to Singapore) so no feel.  sad.gif
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hahaha

yea probably for him, already used to it console.gif

for me, never bored of it
if just wanna spend time with my girl

i always start wanna go Putrajaya or KLIA for hangout

KLIA has higher tendency of winning because can eat and sipping coffee while Putrajaya mainly Palace of Justice, close by is Mcdonald only rclxub.gif
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:10 PM

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QUOTE(tomato people @ Feb 13 2019, 12:50 PM)
1st date ...i'd never bring my women watch movies

Spend my time chit chat in hipster cafe
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Tu lah... Hipster cafe can talk about the deco also.
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:11 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 12 2019, 08:42 PM)
So I had a conversation with other people about where guys would bring dates to. The most cliche response were: go to movies, follow up with a dinner. (because everyone watches movies so it's a no brainer?)

You know what?

Bringing your date to the movies is the worst place you can bring.

You are wasting 2 hours of your date having 0 interactions.  You cannot be touchy touchy to the girl because she's not your girlfriend (at least not yet). Any attempts would be deemed as hamsap. After the movie you think you have 1 topic to start the conversation?  Well,  what if the movie suck? Or even if the movie is good,  you learn nothing about her,  and she learns nothing about you too. And...  You don't stand out from the 99 guys that are courting her too.
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true...noob mistake usually
i always bring my to be gf for good food on first date, can spend hours looking at her and talk bulshit
no movies until later dates...coz most likely what u like to watch not same as gal taste

fearless kiki list is a good start for those looking for clue

This post has been edited by Lion Cut: Feb 13 2019, 01:13 PM
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:12 PM

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QUOTE(pers1stence @ Feb 13 2019, 01:09 PM)
a lot. you sendiri go figure out.
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Oh I am so terribly clueless, like many others here.

You are the sifu, why not impart your knowledge?
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:12 PM

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before go on 1st date try to gauge on what kind of person she/he would be. so from there u can have some ideas and discussion on best place to meet and spend time.

my experience, 1st meeting date is dataran merdeka. from there we just talk and talk then move to eat eat.

if she/he into u before u met in person is better than to meet in person then not knowing bout ur opposite half then go awkward all the way.
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(pers1stence @ Feb 13 2019, 01:05 PM)
go KLIA so far for tok?
these kind of romantic activities a female has to earn for it.
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hangout place for both us la laugh.gif
where can have some quality time in KL
plus we go when we are bored and need to let some steam off nod.gif

There is nothing for us in Kl tho doh.gif

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post Feb 13 2019, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(maestrox_69 @ Feb 13 2019, 01:12 PM)
before go on 1st date try to gauge on what kind of person she/he would be. so from there u can have some ideas and discussion on best place to meet and spend time.

my experience, 1st meeting date is dataran merdeka. from there we just talk and talk then move to eat eat.

if she/he into u before u met in person is better than to meet in person then not knowing bout ur opposite half then go awkward all the way.
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Hmm Dataran Merdeka is an interesting venue. What is good to eat nearby? Majestic?

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post Feb 13 2019, 01:17 PM

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QUOTE(maestrox_69 @ Feb 13 2019, 01:12 PM)
before go on 1st date try to gauge on what kind of person she/he would be. so from there u can have some ideas and discussion on best place to meet and spend time.

my experience, 1st meeting date is dataran merdeka. from there we just talk and talk then move to eat eat.

if she/he into u before u met in person is better than to meet in person then not knowing bout ur opposite half then go awkward all the way.
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Eh? Dataran Merdeka? Girl won't complain hot sun?
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:20 PM

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QUOTE(ViktorJ @ Feb 13 2019, 01:15 PM)
Hmm Dataran Merdeka is an interesting venue. What is good to eat nearby? Majestic?
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everything is nearby also. for us that time we went NZ KLCC.

original plan is to meet up at dataran only, from there improvise.

works for both of us.

other couple (to-be-couple) might not.

bonus tips: make urself seen as reliable to ahmoi. they want to feel safe and secured
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:22 PM

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QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Feb 13 2019, 01:17 PM)
Eh?  Dataran Merdeka?  Girl won't complain hot sun?
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hahaha pick good timing lorh. that time was past six. the girl was scared of hot sun. until now.
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post Feb 13 2019, 01:30 PM

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QUOTE(pers1stence @ Feb 13 2019, 01:17 PM)
waste of time 2 hours car travel back and forth (not including conversation etc, traffic jam etc)

i've better time to spend onto
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well, different people different way of spending the time with their love one nod.gif

for me only 1+ hr drive back and forth (40mins each)
plus driving at night where got traffic nod.gif
I love late night driving. wub.gif

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