QUOTE(aspartame @ Apr 11 2019, 09:29 AM)
What do you want? Ha ha....
This contribution from both spouses or only one spouse depends on so many factors ... whether both working, whose income higher etc. It can be a thorny issue and requires understanding from both spouses...
Not an easy issue to deal with... ideally, both should take care of their own expenses with some bigger items paid by the one earning more... like you say, both must have mentality that they are in it 100% for the family.. if calculative type... sure got friction
Don't think naughty ya, all I want is the reciprocal love and loyalty
I usually do not let my other half pay for anything. I am the man of the family which means whatever we do, we do it together and I will pay.
For our travel trips, I will also pay unless my other half has a little extra cash and is insisting, then I would give in.
QUOTE(rivetindigo @ Apr 11 2019, 09:35 AM)
Hello,
Im 39 and considered pre-retired oredi. Life in retiremnet is BORING i tell u; ur friends and wife are working, not much things to do, just browse in LYN see what topic interest me πππ
Again, why do you need to live such a boring retirement life? Retirement is supposed to be enjoyed without any worry.
Go travel with friends every 3-4 months, do some small-scale business that isn't time consuming to keep your brain moving (remember to do not for the money), write blogs of your post-retirement and give advice to readers how you achieve it and what you are getting out of retirement, play some sports or go hiking once every fortnight with friends, go out and meet like-minded community who may need some encouragement from you, and the most important one is to go explore for good eats (if you are into food).
There are so many things I would love to spend my time on when I am retired that I can't even wait to be retired.