Don't think naughty ya, all I want is the reciprocal love and loyalty

I usually do not let my other half pay for anything. I am the man of the family which means whatever we do, we do it together and I will pay.
For our travel trips, I will also pay unless my other half has a little extra cash and is insisting, then I would give in.
Again, why do you need to live such a boring retirement life? Retirement is supposed to be enjoyed without any worry.
Go travel with friends every 3-4 months, do some small-scale business that isn't time consuming to keep your brain moving (remember to do not for the money), write blogs of your post-retirement and give advice to readers how you achieve it and what you are getting out of retirement, play some sports or go hiking once every fortnight with friends, go out and meet like-minded community who may need some encouragement from you, and the most important one is to go explore for good eats (if you are into food).
There are so many things I would love to spend my time on when I am retired that I can't even wait to be retired.

I'm wondering why is your wife still working? Dont you have enough to cover household expenses, or she just feels like working?

ah ok, so you have enough for expenses but not for luxury stuff like travel. OK.

you sound like my ex boss? r you formerly from rolls royce?

he fired and wife still working and earning well.....

see him also so boring.... after lunch he sleeps in the afternoon for 2-3 hours to spend time

Perhaps with a durian plantation in hand, it's much more easier to retire?