QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Jul 4 2018, 09:40 AM)
"FIRE" is a scam ! Sorry to burst the bubble for those young ones who posted here....
It's a scam devised by the elderly, society, parents, bosses, including MLM/insurance etc (collectively known as "beneficiaries") so that the beneficiaries can motivate young people to work hard for them
It's a carrot that looks sweet, but eventually if you get it, it is just a normal plain old carrot.
The whole FIRE concept is wrong in the first place. It assumes "work life is shit, and retirement is heaven". For those young people who suffer much while working, it fits perfectly into their true experience. But no, the assumption is not correct.
Have you considered that to be in the heaven, you not only require financial freedom ? To be able to just live day-to-day plain survival life, you will not enjoy life. Meaning if you just watch TV, surf internet, gardening, exercise, (and all those activities that cost very little) which you thought is stress free and enjoyable life, then you will find out soon human beings are species which will get bored easily.
Human needs more than food to live happily. Human is also greedy so living with minimum necessity will not make him/her happy.
In other words, human needs a lot of other stuff besides money to be happy. Love, sense of success, recognition, health, to be the best in the field, seeing people around you to be successful and happy......etc etc depending on individuals
Come back to the assumption that "work life is shit, retirement is heaven". If you feel that work is shit, then you are just pushing the blame to the boss. The core problem is not with the work, but your attitude ! The fact is you cannot face stress in your life. Who told you making money and work is easy in the first place ? They are not ! So, if you change your attitude that work is not easy and you have to deal with problems everyday, eventually you will get used to the stress, and work is no more shit. Work and problems are normal phenomenon which happens everyday. You should be happy there are problems for you to solve. Otherwise, you are redundant and have no job !
If there is no problem for one day, that is just a bonus, but entitlement.
If you can get your perspective right, then you will look at the problem as a challenge. If you can overcome any challenge in life, then nothing will make you unhappy.
I don't expect young people to understand and appreciate what I said. Because when I was young, I think like all of you too. But as you experience life when it unfolds, both extreme happy and sad events, you will reach a stage that everyday is a blessing to you. Work or retire has no difference anymore. No more mood difference be it a Monday or Friday. Work is just a small part of your life. There are many more important stuff.
So, don't be influenced by the FIRE concept. It tells you life is a drink which tastes bitter first, sweet later. Is the drink taste all the same for everybody ? Most probably not. What if you find out your drink also taste bitter later ? It will be too late.
If you can ditch the FIRE concept, change your attitude towards life, then you actually start enjoying a nice drink (with all taste of life) for the remaining 50-70 years...
Try me bro. I eat the same food in out on a daily basis (prepared at home). But I never get tired of them. Why? Because
1) I make sure they are nice
2) and all food turns to shit.
For me, nutritional value of the food is better than the taste. Again try me bro. I have the cash to buy the latest gadget, cars, indulge in YOLO lifestyle, go for overseas vocation but I don't. I don't follow the herd mentality of YOLO. I don't need those "wants" nor do I intend or embrace them. I prefer my simple lifestyle. Why do you think my friends look at me one kind when I am talking about FIRE, savings, investing? It's because they are not doing that and don't see the urgency for it. They prefer to "live the moment". They are eagerly awaiting the month's paycheck as
1) their bank account is dry
2) eager to go shopping/indulge in good food/go on expensive vacation.
I look forward to the month's paycheck too but not for the reasons above. I look forward as it's a means to increase my warchest, ready for deployment.
I don't drink starbucks/dine at fancy restaurants/o high tea/ buffet or buy branded clothes, buy apple products (except their ipad which I am still using to this day - ipad air 2). My clothes are all pasar malam/bundle shops clothes. My sandals cost < RM10/pair and can last a year. My Laptop and my phones last min 5 years. I eat at your regular economy rice stall. So try me bro.
Businesses will hate people like me as I don't spend. I only spend when is needed.
For me, I like the option to work or not to work rather than force to work.
The concept of FIRE is having the option to work or not to work and not force to work. o need to worry about when the next paycheck is coming in/no need to worry whether you will be retrench.
QUOTE(aspartame @ Jul 4 2018, 09:49 AM)
It is only logical that only a small % of population can achieve FIRE, especially early FIRE. Otherwise,
there won't be enough rats running in the treadmill to generate power to sustain the whole society. So, how to become the minority?
To do what the majority can't or won't do. Spending is easy. Saving is hard. So, u must do the opposite. Savings is earnings less spending.
Do your best to climb up the laddder to increase earnings. Then, while earnings increase, do not increase spending like most people do. Maintain spending, increase savings. Invest the savings. That's it.
Many aim to achieve FIRE before age 40. Close to impossible unless u live like a monk after that. Why quit when earnings is at its highest? Delay to about 45 to 50 at least would be good. Meantime, I know it sounds contradictory, but u dun want to live like a peasant now. Whatever people enjoy now, u also go for it but less frequently. It's a fine line.. because spending begets more spending. This is where discipline comes in. Otherwise, life is too dull. Why sit at home when u r most youthful. Go for those low expense activities. "You dun want to save up sex for when u r old."..Warran Buffett.
Agreed. If more and more people get into FIRE, there's nothing to power the economy as consumerism will drop. Again agreed. Never let inflation lifestyle hit you.
This post has been edited by Ramjade: Jul 4 2018, 10:35 AM