That's what I'm trying to say...............

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Apr 30 2007, 10:33 AM

thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*

Ooh.. like this ah... then it's up to you then.. Haha I don't know whatelse to say but good luck to you!

actually is there anything that u stopped him for doing something that u dun like?
did he actually stopped? iz same thing... he might think u r too much oso but as i said, GIVE AND TAKE...

you dont have to do anything. the fact is that she left you for this guy whom she think is better than you. so what's with the complaining? made me wonder whether she got complain about you to other guy who have feeling for her or not when you guys are together. i totally feel that complaing about current bf to an ex-bf is totally wrong. no respect at all, both to the ex-bf and bf. she's really got attitude problem.

yeah, correct, you absolutely have the right to ignore her stupid sms complaining about bf to you. you have no obligation to reply to her.

erm... i think about tattooing and piercing, your bf can give his opinion, but it's absolutely your decision on your body. he gotta respect you decision. whether he likes it or not, he gotta learn to accept it cos it is how you think and how you see things. respecting each others decision and respecting each other's different point of view is really important. maybe you ought to talk to him nicely about this.

As to him stopping you from hugging other guy, what kind of hugging do you mean? is it placing the hand on the shoulder type of hugging or hugging front to front, or romantic kind of hugging, or friendly hug. well, i guess, this you gotta try to judge for yourself. there some kind of hugging or physical contact that you might think is OK, but he think is being not respectful of him. so, what you ought to do is compromise. i wish you all the best yeah.

Tell him to stop being such a control freak. Over possessive guys are a major turn off to a lot of women and screws up relationships, period. I never ever tell my girl how to dress or what not to do with her body. Mutual respect is very important in a relationship and your guy needs to learn some of that respect.

kinna agreed.. opinion is good, but not control...

No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.

First of all, in order for me to properly advise you, i need some personal shots of that tattoo on your lower back.

since you have made up your decision, then try to talk to him nicely lorr... sure will ok geh...

Yalor.. Aih, why ask us for advice leh.. I mean you could but it already seems like you made up your mind.. - We CAN give you opinions.. Not to offend you la.. Just wondering why only.. anyway spunk since you made up your mind then do what you should do lor.. But one thing in reminder is TRY NOT TO ARGUE AND ALWAYS REMEMBER TO HAVE SOME COMPROMISE IF YOU CAN

IMHO, since you two now are having different view I kinda have the feeling of uhh arguement.. so CALM DOWN

I guess i won't be getting that tattoo shot.

Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals.. But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.

You want mine?

i want! i want!

Well, all 3 of you can pm me your tattoo shots, that is if miyoko has one too. So it's spunkberry and the 2 of you. Thanks.

i dont have one, though i wanna have one. i'm still looking for a nice pattern and gathering my courage to have it done. i'm very damn afraid of pain. hahaha... i know i'm gonna love it when it's done.

jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done.
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Apr 30 2007, 06:34 PM

I got your pm. That's very good stuff! They look great on you. My sis has got a gothic design in the middle of her back, something with a red rose. It's pretty big though not as large as your design.
All i can say is you know what to do with your body and it shows well. Your bf must be blind not to appreciate what you've done to enhance its appearance. Great work!

Thanks a lot.

you know what my bf says? he got jealous cos my tattoo artist is/was a guy. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him sometimes. He loves me for who I am...but he gets jealous and possessive really easily. Sometimes I feel like just running off...not with someone else, just RUNNING OFF.

Your bf seems to have some serious insecurity issues if he cannot trust a guy who's profession is to tattoo designs on your body. Lol. you need to have a serious talk with him before it starts boiling over and believe me you don't want that. I sent you a pm. Take it easy babe. You'll be fine. You can talk to me anytime.