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 Girlfriend's parents rushing and pushing, for a wedding and engagement

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Oxygen!
post Jun 14 2021, 10:24 PM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Jun 14 2021, 06:25 PM)
The fact that he end up marrying her in the first place boggles my mind.

If those huge red flags are already present before marriage, why still go for it?

If he proceed the marriage because he wants a trophy wife, then he has to accept that he'll have to burn money to sustain this person, he's perfectly capable of doing so, but end up complaining needing to burn money.

On the flip side, he will have a much much better life having many affairs with different girls just like his friends instead of all these BS. I don't think any rational male will see this marriage as something they would sign up for. Signed the wrong deal sir.

Would GTFO 10/10.
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I’m surprised the Cupid edgelord didn’t post a single reply/ join the discussion before TS closed his thread. A lot of juicy information in there for u to reflect upon smile.gif. Should have joined it sasuke95
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post Jun 14 2021, 11:28 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Dec 27 2016, 10:58 PM)
oh really?

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so this ring I am custom making is a sign I'm self centered aye? pfft . that's an aquamarine that she always wanted for her engagement ring. had to get my own jeweler to head to Singapore and Thailand to source for it. tell me to my face one more time I'm being self centered
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F**K apa lanjio man use money as a ruler how much she love her women.
Sasuke95
post Jun 14 2021, 11:47 PM

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QUOTE(Oxygen! @ Jun 14 2021, 10:24 PM)
I’m surprised the Cupid edgelord didn’t post a single reply/ join the discussion before TS closed his thread. A lot of juicy information in there for u to reflect upon smile.gif. Should have joined it sasuke95
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The edgelord have things to do in real life too, no surprise that I missed it.

But yeah, juicy info there. What baffles me is that he's a guy that got the brain to earn that much money, but the decision on the marriage doesn't seem like a person of his brain would do. All I can say is, beware of marriage deathtrap. All the more reason just to enjoy life and fool around than to just sign the contract and live a miserable life. Sometimes I just don't get so many people here still believe in marriage and still think they can handle it, heck even the most successful men in the world can't handle it.
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post Jun 15 2021, 04:42 PM

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Looks like the False Consensus Effect is really true.

Eg. those who are lazy will think everyone else is lazy like them.

Those who don't plan will think that everyone else don't plan.

In this case, their daughter doesn't plan, most likely her parents are the similar type that don't plan, hence assume that TS also didn't plan for the future.
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post Jun 15 2021, 04:46 PM

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QUOTE(MakNok @ Dec 27 2016, 10:44 PM)
then dump her.
End of story.
If you want to help... Help willingly and not complaining.
Don't tell me it take 2 years to realise when she push you for marriage.
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https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4742550&hl= "forced into wedding"

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5148052&hl= "saving up for the future"

he puts it in cupids to avoid being trolled...

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Kylow
post Jun 16 2021, 04:10 PM

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TS thanks for sharing, you saved a 20 y.o from repeating your mistakes
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post Jun 16 2021, 04:15 PM

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QUOTE(Kylow @ Jun 16 2021, 04:10 PM)
TS thanks for sharing, you saved a 20 y.o from repeating your mistakes
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No worries. You need any advice?

PS I'm getting trolled in other subs and some called me a beta cuck over this. Whatever rocks your boats bros I'm just here to get some advice.

I'm still happily married as of today of course there's up and downs. You only read my downs as I needed people to talk to
Sasuke95
post Jun 16 2021, 05:57 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 16 2021, 04:15 PM)
No worries. You need any advice?

PS I'm getting trolled in other subs and some called me a beta cuck over this. Whatever rocks your boats bros I'm just here to get some advice.

I'm still happily married as of today of course there's up and downs. You only read my downs as I needed people to talk to
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Then talk about the happy part, i wish and am curious to know, because i know and accepted that it won't happen on me due to my reluctance to marry, looking at someone else's happy story is enough for me.

This post has been edited by Sasuke95: Jun 16 2021, 05:58 PM

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