Its all about people's attitude to the game. And i have found out, that most times, your attitude in a MMORPG, especially your attitude to other people, is the same attitude you will have in real life. And vice versa, of course.
In real life, Malaysians especially, and to a lesser extent many of the privileged generation of the last decade or two of the 20th century, expect things to be handed to them.
If you're a Bumiputera Malaysian, you'll know what i mean. If you're a non-Bumi Malaysian, you'll know what i mean in an even more painful manner.
While my post that Nitro quoted was more for the raiders in LoTH, on principle, it was the same degree of relevance to anyone in any guild in WoW, at any level of play, anywhere between level 1-70, junior or senior.
The principle being: there are no free lunches. Not in WoW, and for those of you who have yet to realize it, not in RL either.
Its ok to ask for help, but its not ok to expect it. Coz if you expect people to help you, then you have to wonder (i mean this is what i myself have sometimes wondered), will this lead to a slippery slope? If someone helps me now, i will expect them to help me again in the future. And if they help me again in the future, then whats the point of doing it myself? Why even bother making myself better or independent when i can always rely on others to do things for me/hand things to me on a platter?
You see the problem? By saying yes to you now, just because we're in a guild, it just makes you worse later. By running you through instances and heroics, getting you free loot, when are you ever going to learn your class? I daresay, the best players in LoTH today are the ones who did it on their own, took the time to learn how to get things done, be self-aware, and self-sufficient. Because, the simple truth is, if people do things for you, either in helping you level, or running you through instances, or even handing you free epics, then you will never really learn how to play. Is that what you really want?
Remember, my earlier premise holds true. If you are that type of person in-game, you're likely to be that type of person in real-life. Perhaps a bit of self-sufficiency in a game might teach you how to break the cycle on dependence you have in real-life? I dont know, it might.
LoTH seniors have never been stingy with knowledge. While we dont do things for you (well, sometimes we do

), we have always pointed you in the right direction to get the answers you need to the questions you have. I challenge anyone to prove to me that an officer in this guild has not done this.
I sincerely applaud flyuphigh (it doesn't matter to me what his IGN is) for bringing this issue up. Its something that has cropped up every once in a while in LoTH, and i'm sure in other guilds as well. The reason why i'm responding to it in a lengthy manner here is because, we're Malaysians, and we know what our country is like, and this issue has larger ramifications for us than just what we can find in a game.
Perhaps, there is something in this game that can teach us to be better human beings and better Malaysians. Lets not dismiss that as impossible.