QUOTE(Dollores @ Mar 7 2016, 10:04 PM)
Hello!
I just know about this group.
Good to have a Christian Fellowship group here as I was just baptized 2 years ago, so I'm pretty new in all this, and I think I can know more info about Christianity besides from my church..
I got some basic bible study before, but I still don't understand many things..
I have this question,
does a Christian supposed to be rich or blessed financially?
Why i asked this is because my family are new Christians, we just baptized about 3 years ago, while I'm the latest one. We have been going to church ever since we have the freedom to choose our religion since our father passed away.
And my family all like this particular church where their teaching is that "the more you give, the more you'll receive"
So they give a lot to this church and then they did get the impact right away, example few days later they get bonus salary la, or big order la...
But I join this church that teaches the word of God, and how to be inspired by it. I understand many things about our Lord and I feel closer to Him, therefore, when there are people who doubted my religion, I cn convince them a bit from the bible verses that I studied n understood.
So the problem is, even though I learn bible and be inspired by it, I am not as "blessed" as my family.
Instead, I got so many trouble, financial crisis, my grades are the same..
And that makes me wondering, are Christian supposed to be financially blessed? if so, did I do something bad? was my donation to the church insufficient?
I'm so confused here, and I'm looking forward to fellow members here's insight..
thank you!
Firstly, congratulation on accepting and believing in Christ.
I feel compel to try to answer to your queries and dispel some of the myth that some people had about being a christian in a more 'down-to-earth' manner.
does a Christian supposed to be rich or blessed financially?The answer is NOT necessarily. Generally, lots of people sees Christians today (locally) seems to be very well off compare to others (in urban area). You see them going to churches and contributed to the growth of the church financially as well as in assets i.e. bigger church. Most, but not all Christian are well off. This can be attributed to people are being more educated and being closer to God, helps built up their confident in doing things/carrying out their daily work. This could be a contributing factor towards their financial well being. God does not promise you richness financially or more than what you actually 'need' rather than 'want'. Obviously, if you are blessed to be well of than the other, thanks God for that but if you don't, do not be despair though.
Most of the time, God answer your prayer in a way you least expected. You may want to read my posting #589 page 30
And my family all like this particular church where their teaching is that
"the more you give, the more you'll receive".
Please, DO NOT take that 'literary'.
Give what you can afford. Sorry to say this but churches is NOT a place that guarantee 'a return of your investment' in that sense. You may receive more spiritual blessing, you may feel more joy in giving and you may be rewarded financially
in time to come but its wrong to expect a multitude return financially. It don't work that way. Beside giving to churches, giving donation to charities organisation works the same way as if you are giving to churches too.
'Giving' does not meant only giving financially, it could be giving your 'time' to help someone who needed it. Do a good deed for the day, is also a form of giving.
So the problem is, even though I learn bible and be inspired by it, I am not as "blessed" as my family.
Instead, I got so many trouble, financial crisis, my grades are the same..
Remember the saying 'God help those who help themselves...'. We do need to do our part in whatever we try to achieve in life. Yes, we have to pray for guidance from Him but not to the extend of 'after praying and leaving thing as it is'. We need to participate to do our best in order to excel whether in our grades or financially.
And that makes me wondering, are Christian supposed to be financially blessed? if so, did I do something bad? was my donation to the church insufficient?One more time, being a Christian does NOT guarantee financially well off. You may be rich spiritually, the joy of giving is immeasurable. So as long as you are giving in whatever form whole heartedly without expecting anything in return, yo are not doing anything 'bad'. Just remember, giving does not applies to giving to churches only, giving in whatever form to someone who needed it is sufficient. So don't blame yourself for not giving sufficient to the church. Give what you can afford in whatever form and you will be bless.