QUOTE(Blindspot61 @ Mar 4 2016, 11:03 PM)
Do you have to feel bitter to complaint? Can't a complaint be out of concern?
In kron_ka situation, sounds like the person is bitter. If he's not bitter, why does he complaint about it all the time? Do you actually think that happy people need to complaint?
Sure people can address an issue out of concern but that would not be a complaint?
But to drag about it and talk incessantly about the matter forever is not being bitter? Surely that person is having negative thoughts about said topics everyday eh?
People complaint because they find the situation unacceptable to their desired condition. Is that not it?
Have a blessed weekend.
Cooking chicken stew and making black devil chocolate cake today because my mum BF is coming over. Sheesh.
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QUOTE(kron_ka @ Mar 4 2016, 11:37 PM)
Yes I know one or two junior pastors. I don't have much opportunity to talk to the main pastor.
Thats the thing, leadership always regard a person as nagging or complaining. Its how a church shut down dissenters by saying this person is an empty gong. There is no relation between bitterness and complaining. Have seen quiet bitter people before.
Well, not sure you have dug a hole to poo before.
Just because one is single doesn't mean one should not try to get married.
Why don't you have much opportunity?
How would you know that the church don't care about its members? Besides the stories that you told us, sounds like your church situation is getting troublesome.
Besides nobody going to judge you if you leave DUMC for another church.
Eww...I'll just ask some dude to dig up the hole then.
There's no rule that state a single person should get married. Besides some people happily live their single lives. hehe...
It all depend on one's preferences. Single, married does it matter? As long as you are happy.
Have a blessed weekend.