Is sex really important?, What is your opinion??
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 Jan 1 2007, 03:41 AM
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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 23 2006, 03:48 PM) there is no GOD. deal with it ! Yeah.....Good luck to u in your afterlife.... Or u believe in re-incarnation into a pig or something? Or maybe u believe u'd just vanish into thin air... |
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Jan 1 2007, 03:44 AM
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2,823 posts Joined: Jun 2006 From: West Malaysia 
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Someone else prolly already said this but....
Sex can... 1) Make a good relationship stronger and closer 2) Make a unsteady relationship have more problems which will later cause them to breakup. Cheers  |
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Jan 1 2007, 12:33 PM
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316 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: PG/IPOH
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QUOTE(quireyuyue @ Dec 7 2006, 09:21 AM) Recently, a fren of mind encounter a problem. She and her bf decided to get married by next yr, so they have been having sex a few times d but my fren does not really enjoy it. She feel uncomfortable and she said its painful for her bcoz of it. Voted "Yes".So, she's been giving excuses and tried to avoid from having sex coz even after she told him the problem, he still insist. Now her bf did not push my fren anymore, but he also did not tok to her. Did not touch her anymore, not even hold her hand!!! he basically just ignore my fren. Not just ignore, he totally pretend as if she's not there!!!! FYI, they're living together and both parents also know about their relationship and the suppose to be coming soon marriage(i dont really know if marriage will take place anymore anot) so their relationship is very very much a serious 1. haiz....i did not know how i can comfort my fren but i personally disgusted at that guy. I wanna ask my fren to dump him straight out but then i just dun wan push my own opinion on her. Pls give ur opinion on this so i can tell my fren about it. i've decided to skip the 14 pages of replies and proceed with replying.. to a guy, the sexual relationship can mean one kind of recognition to the relationship. so her reactions to his eyes could be somewhat a demotion to the relationship. before disgusting the guy, one should probably put oneself in his shoe, imagine that ur partner express dislike--at some point even reject all kinds of intimacy to take place, how would u feel? he, in this case should not be the only one to get the blame. they both share equally responsibility to make the relationship works. the pain during the initial few times of sex is bound to happen. Try using lubricants and better foreplay before attempting again. they may need counseling if this situation continues, marital counselors might help too. This post has been edited by weeluvmal: Jan 1 2007, 02:59 PM |
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Jan 1 2007, 12:35 PM
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QUOTE(weeluvmal @ Jan 1 2007, 12:33 PM) Voted "Yes". I guessed u didnt read my posti've decided to skip the 14 pages reply and proceed to replying.. to a guy, the sexual relationship can mean one kind of recognition to the relationship. so her reactions to his eyes could be somewhat a demotion to the relationship. before disgusting the guy, one should probably put oneself in his shoe, imagine that ur partner express dislike--at some point even reject all kinds of intimacy to take place, how would u feel? he, in this case should not be the only one to get the blame. they both share equally responsibility to make the relationship works. the pain during the initial few times of sex is bound to happen. Try using lubricants and better foreplay before attempting again. they may need counseling if this situation continues, marital counselors might help too. Go here http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/378926/+240# |
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Jan 1 2007, 12:37 PM
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no all girls know how to foreply and lubricant i think, coz some they lack of knowledge, and girls seldom see porn movie, so they wont know that.
This post has been edited by amduser: Jan 1 2007, 12:38 PM |
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Jan 1 2007, 01:04 PM
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depend gua......nx time u wan find a bf/gf , better ask his/her "is it sex important" if his/her answer "yes" then this guy/girl can say bb liao
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Jan 1 2007, 01:10 PM
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My friend always said
Mei You Zhuo De Ai Jiu Bu Shi Zhen Ai!!!!! (Love Without Making Love Isn't True Love!) |
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Jan 1 2007, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Jan 1 2007, 12:35 PM) obviously, i didn't.  and i doubt if my reply has got anything to do with your post, after all my reply is for the TS.  btw, that's not the right way to point to the link of a particular post. try click on the "Post #XXX", and paste the link provided instead. This post has been edited by weeluvmal: Jan 1 2007, 01:12 PM |
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Jan 1 2007, 01:10 PM
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921 posts Joined: Apr 2005 From: Argentina
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Sex of coz is important, but depends on how the 2 person deal with it.
And the guy ignore the girl becoz get rejected for sex ? I guess the guy is abit small kid la oni know how to ask and neva guide his galfren properly, but the girl also 1 thing, she neva learn the proper way to smoothen the sex life. So in the end, the guy ask for sex = gal reject the gal reject = guy boh song guy bohsong = girl sad girl sad = guy sien guy sien = dea damage to the relationship. so whats the point even if get married if the problem cant even dig out the roots ? still taht miserable. If a relationship with no sex, i would say it cant last long. If girl always want her man to use mouth to tell her "I love u" of coz man as well need girl use the action to show that she love him as well. |
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Jan 1 2007, 01:27 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Jan 1 2007, 01:10 PM) man as well need girl use the action to show that she love him as well. U can find "love" at Jln Alor  |
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Jan 1 2007, 01:37 PM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Jan 1 2007, 01:27 PM) U can find "love" at Jln Alor dun tell me the ayam will lepas u after u tell her that u love her lol |
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Jan 1 2007, 06:39 PM
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to all guys who say no sex before marriage i really find that ludicrous.. lol
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Jan 1 2007, 08:10 PM
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sex be4 marriage is shouldn't but after married is must lar, if u want to hv a baby
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Jan 1 2007, 08:38 PM
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WTH Is it without sex, your relationship will crumble???
YES [71.54%] adoi.... NO[28.46%] i cant believe it i dont think my gf will ever allow sEx to happen if didnt get married yet ................ but all of you terror put yes i dont know how already |
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Jan 1 2007, 08:39 PM
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QUOTE(tomzy @ Jan 1 2007, 06:39 PM) to all guys who say no sex before marriage i really find that ludicrous.. lol You want to be father early and can support then no problem ....................if no leh tell me how   |
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Jan 1 2007, 09:46 PM
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QUOTE(amduser @ Jan 1 2007, 09:10 PM) sex be4 marriage is shouldn't but after married is must lar, if u want to hv a baby time paradoxwell, we can have babies without sexual intercourse. it's called, in-vitro fertilization. abstinence ftw!!! |
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Jan 1 2007, 10:08 PM
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QUOTE(quintessential @ Jan 1 2007, 09:46 PM) time paradox In-vitro fertilization is also known as test tube babies. It is done by fertilizing the male's sperm and the female's ovum outside the body.well, we can have babies without sexual intercourse. it's called, in-vitro fertilization. abstinence ftw!!! |
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Jan 1 2007, 10:21 PM
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WaCKy-Angel, u still bo shong with those ppl that says about premarital sex is okay?Why bother what they say?they belief in what they belief, you belief in what you belief. That's all.No need to prove that you are right or they are right.
I dont see where this topic is going.Kinda out of topic. Besides, the thread starter also never bother to reply us...  |
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Jan 2 2007, 02:33 PM
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QUOTE(cadmus @ Jan 1 2007, 10:21 PM) WaCKy-Angel, u still bo shong with those ppl that says about premarital sex is okay?Why bother what they say?they belief in what they belief, you belief in what you belief. That's all.No need to prove that you are right or they are right. dude, WaCKy-Angel just wanna show how holy he is. Its a way of promoting. Mostly church chick will kena I dont see where this topic is going.Kinda out of topic. Besides, the thread starter also never bother to reply us...  |
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Jan 2 2007, 02:36 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Jan 2 2007, 02:33 PM) dude, WaCKy-Angel just wanna show how holy he is. Its a way of promoting. Mostly church chick will kena Neah im not holy......Im just pointing out that the fact, man wants woman to obey them.... If u dont know what im talking about, kindly read my previous posts. |
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