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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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post Apr 14 2008, 08:50 AM

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QUOTE(GongFuChau @ Apr 13 2008, 01:24 PM)
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(unknown warrior @ Apr 11 2008, 05:09 PM)
Dude, I wish I can throw a huge rock to your head so that you'll bleed and be wide awake.
There are gazillion of other flowers, fish, whatever in the market.

It's time to move on and start trusting again. But nice touchy story btw.

The moral of the story is? You got to start living again!


Man, i was waiting for a chance to post this tongue.gif

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You have something AGAINTS me, bro. PM me la...

BTW,to ALL: i AM moving on god dammit.. It's not me who bumped into this thread and reply to it to make it alive again..
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post Apr 14 2008, 10:34 AM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 14 2008, 09:46 AM)
Old is gold....old thread is a gold thread!!!  rclxms.gif
eh, i thought she was your best friend. Didn't you guys go out together before?
Or did you misinterpret and thought she was your best friend. Were you her best friend too?

How long have you known each other la... if its really best friend, how can it suddenly stop JUST like that?
Means she just stopped being friends with you on that day?  hmmm...seems very very strange la

And it seems your friendship was quite one sided too. True Friends don't dump each other like that...as they are accountable to each other.

Anyhow, I got (*)(*) and ( Y ). Wanna be my best friend, cutie?  wub.gif
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Yup I misintepret the whole scam. Looking back, she just needs me to accompany her when she's on her night shift, when she wants to borrow money, do this and that etc..etc... Go figure.. I was blind, I admit it. She makes me believed that we're so "connected", she's so into me blah blah blah.. Even said she " sayang" me in person. Tell me which normal guy wouldnt fall head over heels for that?.

Well at least I've learnt my lesson. I'm more carefull towards women, especially the pretty ones. I cant stop thinking that there must be an ulterior motives if someone THAT pretty approaches me.. There's gotta be something they want or need, and to them I'm an easy target, someone who looks desperate enough to fall for it. But now, I know better..

Peace..
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 14 2008, 10:47 AM)
Well, SUCK is an understatement.

Next time be smarter, for each effort spent, there must be a form of "deposit" and then "final payment" when favour is done.

Shit...and you didn't even get laid after all your efforts...poor boy.

Hmm...thought of getting a boyfriend? Guys are much more loyal, you know.
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Gays. Oh no la.. (I hav nothing againts gays, though). I'm just a normal guy who attracted to woman..
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post Apr 14 2008, 05:14 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 14 2008, 10:54 AM)
try alternate relationships. You won't know how enjoyable buttsecks is until you try it out.
Hey, unknown_warrior and I...we had "things" going on. Apprehensive at first, but no regrets thereafter.

Besides, you'd find guys like yourself: full of heart, commitment, love, and full of win. You'll like it!  brows.gif
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hahaha.. again.. no thanks lah... biggrin.gif
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post Apr 16 2008, 04:22 PM

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QUOTE(b3rnard7 @ Apr 14 2008, 06:29 PM)
Evangelistica: Men is hard to bypass the beauty...英雄难过美人关

Sometimes man willing to do anything bcos of a woman...man also willing to become a fool bcos of a woman!
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Well, lesson learnt. thanks for the reminder.. blush.gif
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post Apr 17 2008, 08:13 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 17 2008, 04:04 AM)
hm........ hmm.gif
nice & touching story wub.gif ...............wit a bit of funny sides laugh.gif .............unfortunately sad ending........ sad.gif
so Evangelistica, hav u move on?
perhaps new "target"? tongue.gif
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Moved on... but I can't honestly say that I've forgiven her whatever reason she might have. Is that considered moving on?
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post Apr 17 2008, 01:42 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 17 2008, 12:29 PM)
No it isn't. You are only certified as Moved ON once you have buttsecks with me.
It's only a nominal fee to be certified as Moved On. Come On!, Turn me On!
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Well ain't you a persistence one, darling ... biggrin.gif
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post Apr 17 2008, 02:11 PM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 17 2008, 01:56 PM)
U can't "forgive" her? or u can't "forget" her?
dis 2 words bring different meanings.

i understand how u feel bro, 1st true love is always da hardest 2 4get(4give?).
i might hav couple of gf since my early teen,
bt till now, da 1 i miss da most is still my 1st gf............... wub.gif  cry.gif

if u wanna know if u truely moved on, ask ur self dis...........

wat if she com back 1 day & said she loves u?

so, will u accept her?

may b god is not on ur side, bt every 1 in dis thread will b on ur side.......lyn bless u........... thumbup.gif
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Thanks for the support bro, and to all LYN forumers who replied/flamed here. It does feels good to let it out. Even in non face-to-face forums like this. tech3910, to answer your question, the honest answer is yes. I might accept her again, but that's my answer as for now. Who knows the feelings might change next year, or a year after that. I'm not sure...
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post Apr 17 2008, 04:52 PM

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QUOTE(atolycus @ Apr 17 2008, 03:49 PM)
Here's the thing,
1) stop comparing yourself, looks, intelligence, wealth, etc... if she's yours, she will be yours.
2) DUDE, U HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE, cos, she's your best friend, even if she rejects you, SHE WILL STILL BE YOUR BESTFRIEND. THATS WHAT BESTFRIENDS ARE! they wont simply kill the friendship just because u fell in love with her.
(bestfriends provide unconditional friendship, always remember that.... unless u really mess up by doing something really bad of course  tongue.gif )
hope u get what i mean.

thumbup.gif good luck
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Haha thanks but you shud read the whole thread. Bad ending my fren..
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post Apr 18 2008, 08:20 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 18 2008, 01:13 AM)
summary of da story:

Evangelistica fall in love wit his best fren (also co-work).
he turn to lyn for help on how 2 express his feeling to her.
finally, he gain enough confident to tell her his feeling.
he gav her the hint and ask her out 4 a special date where he will express his feeling to her.
she agreed to go on a date & seams dat Evangelistica is going 2 mek it.
He is overjoyed until the day of the date, the girl nvr turn out, nvr pick up his call, nvr reply him o explain y she disappear.
@ d end Evangelistica did not get her, not only dat, dey r not fren where dey use 2 be.
Evangelistica felt hurt and betrayed.
untill now, he still finds it hard 2 4get her...................................

The end of a wonderful & touching love story.............................
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waa thanks tech3910. you really summed it up. biggrin.gif Yup, that's one of many miserable story of my life... blush.gif
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post Apr 18 2008, 11:02 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 18 2008, 10:34 AM)
may b u still hav the chance.................. smile.gif

if , by chance, she sees dis thread, i think she'll b totally touch.... wub.gif

den she will realize wad kind of person u r................ cool2.gif

ha......wonder will dis actually happen................ hmm.gif

nvr loose faith cause..........

2moro, the sun will rise & u'll nvr know wad the tides will bring............

line taken from the movie "Castaway" (great movie, watch it......)  nod.gif
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Nah... I stopped hoping. Not being negative though. Pretty girl like her, (and I mean really, really pretty like Nasha Aziz, Hannah Tan one) sure got men drooling over. Maybe she's even got married now...
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post Apr 18 2008, 03:14 PM

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QUOTE(bonedragon @ Apr 18 2008, 02:55 PM)
wait..I don't get it. So what happen after she didn't pick up your call? Never explain until now? I mean, she's still working with you? or what...or you all just ignore that incident as though it never happenned?
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We went our separate ways. I went to another company and so does she. This was over a year ago..
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post Apr 18 2008, 04:38 PM

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QUOTE(Stefanov @ Apr 18 2008, 04:31 PM)
it hurts like hell boss.
forget it.
seriously.
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I tried, honestly. It can never be forgotten I think. But I'm much, much better than my state over a year ago. smile.gif
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post Apr 19 2008, 11:57 AM

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QUOTE(digita1tech @ Apr 18 2008, 11:50 PM)
Indeed........share it with us..... smile.gif
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Haha.. dun lah.. he will outrun my thread.. tongue.gif
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post Apr 19 2008, 12:32 PM

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QUOTE(digita1tech @ Apr 19 2008, 12:13 PM)
Haiya...i mean he has to open his own thread........so stingy aaa you... tongue.gif
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Haha just joking la aiyoo... tongue.gif
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post Apr 22 2008, 08:31 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 19 2008, 02:30 PM)
seriously....ur thread is champion already......... laugh.gif

almost 2 years already, yet, sum1 reopen dis thread...... rclxms.gif

is a good thing, if not, i would hav miss dis wonderful story............. cry.gif
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Haha. thanks for considering my thread some sort of benefit for you. Maybe it's a reminder to me, and for all of you out there. A clear message that don't be blinded and fooled by your feelings. Try to keep a clear view of reality, bring yourself down to earth. At least that what I've reminded myself all these days.. blush.gif
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post May 5 2008, 01:27 PM

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QUOTE(puretnalover @ May 5 2008, 11:54 AM)
My advice is go out for it bro, who knows maybe perhaps luck is on your side...

Looks arent's always important to gurls, you know... smile.gif What you need is a good heart..
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haha thanks for the advice lor. Anyway it's a bad ending if you haven't noticed it yet. A good heart champions over looks? Really?? That's a naive statement in my 2cents. We live in the real world bro, not some fantasy Hollywood / Japan love story...
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post May 6 2008, 08:14 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ May 5 2008, 05:29 PM)
how many times do people hav 2 tell u.....................
dis is a 2 years old story...............
it already end..................

not a very good ending..................

next time read finish b4 giving useless advice.............. mad.gif
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Haha thanks for the heads up tech3910.. dont be too garang to him lor.. tongue.gif

BTW, your avatar nice bro.. biggrin.gif rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(Baronic @ May 6 2008, 10:38 AM)
its not a person's beauty, the beauty and the beast thing u shud be worried about. i'm plump, got a nice belly, and i fell in love with this girl 3 years my junior, who was already in a relationship (though abusive one) and had dozens and i literally mean dozens of admirers and fans. she was beautiful as hell. u wud expect her to be arrogant.

but she was special down to earth, and slowly and inevitably, we both fell in love. beauty and the beast. and i tell her "you know, all your admirer's have six pack and all, why'd u choose me?"

"because you love me for who i am, and i love u too. i know u'll always be there for me. looks are'nt a constant thing, u lose weight u gain weight, character stays with u forever"

so dude, your moral of the story "beauty and the beast will never work out" is wrong.

the moral of the story is "truly get to know the person's character, before u fall in love"

oh and i got to know her by sending a friendster smile. and we both ended up refreshing friendster page to chat via friendster, lol.
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Then my sincere congratulations to you, my friend. You are one lucky guy, you know that right? Your story is one in a million. It's just a part from the reality but reality sucks big time bro. Damn how lucky you are to live a Hollywood / Korean love tale....
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old thread dug out from grave?lolx


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the mod should close down this thread...


I have my own reasons not to close this thread down. As long as our moderators are fine with it. smile.gif

P/S: I dreamt about her again last nite. (Not a wet dream though tongue.gif ) Why why why I still can't 100% get over her yet? sad.gif I know that things wont work out or miracle would happen but why still her presence lingers around my concience... sad.gif

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