sometimes, its not the looks that matter.

its the "skill"

ah kow looks worse than his avatar in real life but he got gf also man.

Well, I guess it only show how much "experience" you actually have in life. Dude, I'm 20 this year and I was 6 feet tall at 17. Sounds cool right? Well not necessarily when you tip the scales at 128kg! I f***ing worked my ass of at the gym and with proper guidance and bloody self discipline, I managed to bring my weight down to 92kg in 5 months. Since then, things have been looking bright for me and I'm currently 6"3, 83kg. Come on man, stop being a f***ing retard (no pun intended) and believe in yourself. Sure, its hard at the beginning, but trust me,if you REALLY wan'tto make a change, you can f***ing do it! You don't have to be rich or good looking to get a girl you want, all you need to have are balls the size of church bells, and the only way you're gonna GROW them is by having self confidence in yourself. Trust me dude, I could be doing so many other things at this time rather than typing this for you, but it just goes to show that you're not the only one out there who HAD a repeated f***ed up series of events in your life. Let me tell you this dude, you wanna be mad at God, go ahead...you wanna be mad at society, be my guest....but when it comes to f***ing up your own life just because YOU think that YOU'VE been treated unfairly, reality check my friend, there are others who are worst off than you.

Come to think of it, I remember this really overweight dude who used to sell burgers down my street, Nizam...let me share with you a true conversation that I dare swear on all things divine is not made up,

Vinesh : Abang, bagi burger ayam special 3..
Nizam  : Sorry bro, malam ni abang tutup awal..
Vinesh : Laaaaaa, asal pulak ni, takkan nak jumpa awek kot...
Nizam : Eh ko ingat abang ni tak seksi ke ha?!
Vinesh : Err, tak..=P
Nizam : Ko nak tengok gambar tunang abang *whips out his cellphone*
Vinesh : Ni gambar masa tunang ke?! *With a HOLY f*** expression across my face*
Nizam : Habis tu, takkan masa tengah mandi..
Vinesh : Perh, terra la abang, lawa la gf abang..
Nizam  : GF wak lu, 2 bulan lagi dah nak khawin, kita dah tak main bf, gf ni semua la..

The fella got married 2 and a half months later, I know for sure because I went for his wedding as it was in my housing area. His bride looked similar, if not EXACTLY like that "MyEg" advertisement girl, Fazura (I did a quick Google to find her name)

All I'm trying to say is, you've got your entire future in front of you. Whether you wanna continue going around searching high and low for whore houses that would eventually serve you a nice cold dish of herpes, that's your call mate.
To end this,all I have to say is this, I too fell for my best friend of 4 years, and yes I TOO was rejected, but let me tell you this, it WASN'T[I] because of my looks, neither was it because of my weight. It was because she wasn't ready for a relationship and she didn't want to loose faith by bickering and having small arguments with her best friend, and you know what man, we're still best friends even after I "imploded" for a couple of days because if there's one boundary that love CAN'T cross, that would be true, sincere and honest friendship and respect for one another.

Cheers mate, hope you have a great life ahead of you, and just pm me if you need to talk. I know I'm only 20, but hey, experience doesn't necessarily always come with age. 
Holy f***ing banana, I need to sleep...

Haha, I'm not assuming anything mate, its just that different people have different metabolisms etc. Like they say, TRY and TRY again. Going from 130kg to 100kg is no easy feat, I totally agree with that AND I know where you're coming from because I've been there. Heck if someone just wrote to me or told me what I typed in my previous post, I would have probably replied something similar.
No hard feelings bro, just trying to help out....I'll you some tips that worked for me, maybe they could work for you, cheers!

Just did bro, trust me, they'll work for people like US who were not genetically gifted to begin with 

Nope thats your mistake. Dont blame the world for your own mistake beauties with an average joes are meant to be together except if you choose their beauty first you end up in your position.

Most people will choose beauty first but they never think there always someone prettier or handsome in the world so when its going to end? If u choose someone with heart then that person its only 1 out of 100 so if that person comes with beauty its a bonus not beauty first and heart its bonus.

yo dawg dont flame

dont worry TS, it just not your time yet... just let it go...time heals

I'm amaze why its never locked given that it has served its purpose. All it is now is just personal ranting about lost love.

TS, why keep this hatred inside your heart?
are you still care about her???
after so many years,if you still hate her,that's mean you still care about her.
be open minded and open your heart to other girl,after you're being with another new girl,you would find you're wasting too much time keep hating this girl.
Unless,you're still love her la.then i can't help you..

LoL,i still stand my point. You're wasting your time on this girl too much by even hating her (at the same time loving her i assume).

you blame everything?I know you're hurt few years ago..but compare to a lot of people,seriously your pain are nothing.

If you're blaming god for something you can't get..i dunno how to describe you.

Live the best as you now in stead of keep whinning and blaming everything and move on.Not everything happen just like what you want.

In this case,if you're sad and even angry for first few months..i would say it is normal.but after 3 years...u are still blaming everything..you're either

(1)Can't forget her and still loving her,but due to rejection ,you choose to blame everything.

for this,no one can help you,if you choose to be stupid (sorry) and keep whinning ,God won't help someone who don't even love yourself even a little bit especially for your case .(i think your case probably quite hurt,but ..not to the extend Seriously)

(2)you just feel like blame everything because you can't what you want.
I only can give this advice to you.but if u keep "emo" i would say,no one will pity you.You know what you should do,but if you still choose to blame everything, even GOD can't help you.GOD won't help someone who don't love himself.If you don't learn how to love yourself first,I don't think you have right to love others. especially in your case..

sorry for mumbling but i am speaking the truth

so ts,

after the event 4years back. did you get in touch with her? die she called? sms-ed? explain herself? did you meet her? accidentally bump into her?

because you said before you guys are best friend. so its going to be quite hard even for her to just disappear. you guys must have a favorite place etc right?

just curious hehe

hmm,

if it was me. i would seek for her explanation. you know. just to 'know why'. atleast after that i can look forward and move on.

but thats me. diff ppl diff ways of moving forward. hehe.

Aik. Now she is wrong? Like didn't yesterday you said:

yes!!!! hei maybe you can search escort in google and it can help you on your PR search

no harm trying...we only live once...please do so...the worse case scenario also reject u then become normal friends what...who knows she's into u as well? rejection wont destroy u...but regrets does...dont live with regrets

i also has the same feeling with my best friend.at first,we were best friend.then, when i broke up, i called him to seek an advice.surprisingly,he'd also broke up with his gf a week before me.so we shared our story.

then,3 weeks later,he sent me a msg telling me that he was in kl.(he studied somewhere at north).from that day,we started to sms everyday.he is so caring, and romantic.then,yesterday,we decided to meet up.he drove away from bangi and pick me up at kl.we hang out together and we spend time chatting.at mamak stall,he praised for my beauty.and he said he wont lie because im not his gf.then on the way went back,he drove slowly so that we can chat more.i purposely stare at him whenever he quite and i know he feel shame.

then,in front of my house,we chat for a while in his car.he holds my hand and he said he wanna meet me this week.he even kiss my hand and touch my hair. he also touch my cheek and we were like dont want to let our hands go(because today he's going out of town for 3 days.)n he also gave me 3 ferrero rocher.

what is actually he is thinking of me?until now,he treats me like his gf.everyday he sms me.he called me just now before going outstation just to inform me.is he sms me just to forget his gf?im started to like him..help me plz..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jogr9XS2Rg...layer_embedded#!

Bro,ur story jez remind a song called 'diary of jane'

Wow Evangelistica, remember me? This thread is still going on after so many years? Is this like the official thread for rejected hearts now?

4 yrs old topix n now it resurface. lol. epix!