I truly understand your feeling bro !

I have been almost same situation like you, but mine was a bit different. To make it very short and simple, Its about hinting each other, and i did confess to her my feeling but didnt ask for couple. She did show me positive respond and say need time ...
I asked her out for the first time and im very nervous n quite dissapoint.... As time passed, because of my low self esteem and lack confident, i always make myself suffer and affected her too... we argue quite few times too ... 

Then one day(Wednesday), she is so positive and confident telling me she wish to solve all the issue and misunderstand with me. The first time ever i see her so energytic, confident and put hope on both of us ...
I truly happend that night.

But heck, in 24 hours time ... i accidently hurt her terribly. She was very hurt and choose to end up everything ... No matter how i persuade her, tell my true words .. she never trust me anymore and lost confident to me at all. She gave up everything !

I was so damn regretful for what I did. Blame myself and hate myself till the max !! Hate myself and everything else in this world.

Initially im so happy as i thought finally we can have a beautiful starting from the Wednesday... All we have gone thru, happiness to sad and suffer, i thought all this is worth as we can at last have a good beginning. But all is destroyed !!
She is the only one i truly love with all my heart. Because of that, i lose my job and changed a lots in my life.
Till now, it has been more than half year ! Yet my feeling to her never changed, and of cause im not sad and miserable all time as before. I stabilise my career now but my love life to her never change. All the time i still think about her and mad about the incident ...
I feel like i phobia about love anymore. Thats why i dont really dare to come cupid corner often ... will remind me of sad love story.

I still hope there is some miracle happend that probably will make everything like heaven again....   

u shud start a thread here & tell bout ur love story........
v would really like 2 hear dat in more detail.........

Indeed........share it with us.....

Haha.. dun lah.. he will outrun my thread.. 

Haiya...i mean he has to open his own thread........so stingy aaa you...

Haha just joking la aiyoo... 

seriously....ur thread is champion already.........

almost 2 years already, yet, sum1 reopen dis thread......

is a good thing, if not, i would hav miss dis wonderful story.............

My advice is go out for it bro, who knows maybe perhaps luck is on your side...

Looks arent's always important to gurls, you know... What you need is a good heart..

haha thanks for the advice lor. Anyway it's a bad ending if you haven't noticed it yet. A good heart champions over looks? Really?? That's a naive statement in my 2cents. We live in the real world bro, not some fantasy Hollywood / Japan love story...

juz go for it...if been rejected there's nothing to lose too as long u're ready for it and dont be that naive xD

how many times do people hav 2 tell u.....................
dis is a 2 years old story...............
it already end..................

not a very good ending..................

next time read finish b4 giving useless advice..............

its not a person's beauty, the beauty and the beast thing u shud be worried about. i'm plump, got a nice belly, and i fell in love with this girl 3 years my junior, who was already in a relationship (though abusive one) and had dozens and i literally mean dozens of admirers and fans. she was beautiful as hell. u wud expect her to be arrogant.

but she was special down to earth, and slowly and inevitably, we both fell in love. beauty and the beast. and i tell her "you know, all your admirer's have six pack and all, why'd u choose me?"

"because you love me for who i am, and i love u too. i know u'll always be there for me. looks are'nt a constant thing, u lose weight u gain weight, character stays with u forever"

so dude, your moral of the story "beauty and the beast will never work out" is wrong.

the moral of the story is "truly get to know the person's character, before u fall in love"

oh and i got to know her by sending a friendster smile. and we both ended up refreshing friendster page to chat via friendster, lol.

I have a friend (girl) that I'm really close with. Slowly, I started to have feelings for her. I can't deny it anymore. I gave her a portrait of her that I sketched myself as a present on her birthday recently. That clearly shows that it means something, right? Well hopefully she got the meaning. I know that she knows that I care for her, I always be there for her and I know she knows that I really, really like her. It's complicated as both of us seems to "ignore" it.

The problem is she is so beautiful and angelic while I'm just a plain average guy. I haven't express my feelings for her yet because I'm so afraid. I'm afraid that things won't be the same after I'll spill my heart out. Do you think that things would work for both us? Can beauty and (not beast though) average joe be one? What is the best way for me to express my love for her. For all these time, we have been the best of friends. We share the same interests, laugh at the same joke, all worked well...

I desperately need some guidance,

Thanks...