Let bygone be bygone? Then when you go to church, same old same old problem with people there. You want to get certain things done, they hold you back or ignore you.

THe best is to avoid those sections, that's what I do. I just go to cg that's all. Sometimes to sunday church.

That day I asked for prayers here about getting a job, well the Lord has replied and i got an interview next week. I need the Lord to guide me during the interview. Can you guys teach me how to pray and pray for me as well? Thanks.

The thing is, they won't meet you. I gone to church, and these people just give me a glimpse and don't say helo. I just go my separate way.

But there was one time, I deliberately pat the person hard on the back, then walk off not say hello. Well its a form of saying hello.

How to love?

They just walk by and ignore me. I say hello also kena ignore.

where got prosper? These 20 people are too free to attend so many church if its true. I doubt they ever go to another cg, they just lazy to come.

Anyways, cgs got politics one, once they know you are a church hopper, you will not get layan.

cell group welcome you on first day, but second and so on, they will go back to normal, the rest is up to you. You can read all you want, if you just walk into a cg, unassuming, you don't even know anyone there and you don't have a track record of attending that church, chances are, they will "read" you.

If you go there to just look for girlfriend, the leaders can read you from far far away. And you are not going to have a joyous time there.

You talk as if HS is your guardian angel that will allow you to avoid pitfalls. HS is your counsellor and will minister to you but it doesn't mean your life will be plain sailing ok.

You will make mistakes, thats part of being human. You'll likely move to 5 or 6 different cgs and by the time you find the cg you want to be in, its time to multiply. Cgs don't last long, it may be fun, there's peer group fun but in 2 or 3 years the demographic make up of the cg will change.

Like my previous cg, it was fun at first, then something happened, one idiot guy tried to go after my host lady. The lady felt harrassed by him, decided to pull out her apartment from being the host site. The guy also left. Then infighting, the host lady's elder brother who is one of the assistant cg leader got bored of doingthe cg work, decided to move to another cg. THen another couple felt the cg wasn't offering what they seeked.

The cg reverted back to boredom.

tina surprise ? are you concern i am not christian enuf for you 

I thought Christians guy are decent and don't drink. 

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You have a unique way of dealing with HS. To you HS is like your invisible friend. Though biblically, the scriptures never really indicated this.
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Its a song, not a scripture.

mine and other people may have different mindset. This issue are sensitive fyi

i am more les like carl lentz
tatoo ok, but i don't have tatoo to be honest. but if i want to do tatoo, i know GOD will not condemn me
ear rings ok, same reason like above
going pub ok, same reason like above
drink beer / liquor ok, same reason like above
listen to worldly music ok, watch movie ok, same reason like above

I'm just kidding. hehe..

So you are saying that you are a liberal thinker, yes?

I'm sure some pastors frowned upon its church goers who do all of the above. So, when we are in church, do we pretend to be somebody that we are not so that people won't misjudge us?

I sure don't want to be like that coz I want to portray my true self and at the same time be wary of others lest they judge me for a harlot. 

liberal thinker sounds like atheism to me hahaha... but i prefered you called me joseph prince follower lah, simpler. i do learn from joel osteen and many preacher that show same values.

when you go to church, try to go to church that you have insider contact, so you will not be alienated.

if you "shopping" for churches, it's better to pretend to be somebody. same like entering new office, keep it low profile. It's only temporary.

So today I attended a cell group, it was ok, a lot of seniors around. I was the youngest person there. lel.

Majority are married, only a few are not. So, we mingled and shared the Gospel. They seem to be quite friendly and so far very receptive to a newcomer. hehe..

I didn't notice any bald pastor / guy like "The General" mentioned here, so I'm safe. 

The awkward part was I was too dress-up for the occasion. But its ok, they are not going to condemn me. (yet) 

The food was so nice! We got fried rice, sticky noodles, some roti canai and triple layer pumpkin spice pie for dessert. 

So far so good, I'm happy with that.

No, I don't mean it that way. So, you like Joseph Prince? hehe.. No comment.

Yeah, I am keeping a low profile, keep it cool and only talk when you are suppose to. Coz I talk a lot so I try to zip it especially in church, so many strangers.

I'm checking out who I can talk to and try to find an ally first. I need people in my team. So far none. lel.

maybe the guy patched up his hair cuz pretty lady is coming....       

ooo you talked a lot ? that's why u lost ur clubbing fren rite imho... yes this church is new environment, better brush up some church vocabs first before speaking. cuz usually once you earned "a label", it's hard to remove...

find ally ? my suggestion... analyze for 3 months up to 1 year. no need to rush.