my gf told me that non virgin cannot marry at church liao..because of that she wanna stay virgin. heex..then how I should argue to her? she said God gives 2nd chance but if the spouses are non virgin and marry at church they lie to everyone else. I think she is wrong then I asked here.

My gf also told me same. Jesus is very high standard coz of that only few can go heaven.

if u know since young, then if u have sex before marriage it ain't right..

But if you are a none believer who have sex, then met the lord, receive lord and savior..
Forgiven all past sins..

In conclusion, why would you sin if you really love the Lord, and fallen into temptation..
this is not clear, then you might say we can sin, and just 1 min before dying, we quickly pray the Lord's prayer??

Leon,

I think you shouldn't even be trying to argue with her on this.
Whether non virgins can marry at church is a non issue, but keeping your selves for each other until after you marry will be the best thing you do for yourselves.

By doing so you protect your conscience and give no room for guilt to mar your enjoyment of each other after marriage.

It may seem trivial, but it is important.

i think the better way to say, if there is no temptation, then nobody will have sex before marriage right...

the issue is clear, we can't run from temptation... that's the fact

how long can you run... if in colleague all girls are wearing short pants and tight shirts ? run to jungle ?

tell ur girlfren to cast throw away that thinking far far far away... the reason is simple... you are not getting closer to Christ by entertaining that thinking right ? only fear...fear.. .and fear...

what she is doing is right.. No sex before marriage..
Dun tempt her! hahaha..

Don't lead her into temptation, but deliver her from evil.. Amen..

you're right. the temptation is very hard to be resist since I am virgin for 26 yrs old till present. should marry fast but still save money liao. However, that should not be an excuse. I think I should focus on Jesus more to prevent any pervert thinking. The good thing, I seldom watch porn liao
She said if not virgin then the joy of marry will be less and will feel guilty to God. It is like she lie to God

yes, thanks for enlightment. Should make her happy. wait for the time liao although I am suffering.

Hello LYN Christian Fellowship. Glad to see this fellowship here.

Just wanna share our new song! Its a fresh song in Rungus Language.



English translation:

Your Way (Ralan Nu)
No one can compares of Your great love,
You’ve died for me, You came down to save me
No one can compares of Your great heart,
You gave for me, every air You breath

And you shed Your blood for me, I was lost and now I’m free
Make me wholly understand You, when you walk the road for me

You are the Lord God almighty
In every path you are guiding me
Teach me of your way and as You go before me
Open my eyes so I can see
The beauty of Your Way

Be blessed everyone

That is not true.

Jesus made it easy for everyone to enter Heaven.

We are the one trying to nullify God's work with tradition and religion and the hypocrisy of self righteousness by quoting God's word out of context.

I will fight* this till the day I pass on against Legalistic and Pharisaical teachings that goes against the Grace of God.

*Not talking about you.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Jan 14 2015, 01:56 PM

Welcome Bro,

Northern Sabahan?

Thanks bro. Yup. Im northern.

Kota Kinabalu?
Which church do you attend?

i am sabahan as well.

Nope. Kudat area. But we have PCS church at Kota Kinabalu.

Hey! Bro in Christ, where are you from?

amazing <3 Do Kudat have Flood now?
Raining this few days here in KK..

Yup bro. Since 6pm yesterday raining. Flood at some places here . How about KK?

This post has been edited by amazingwave: Jan 14 2015, 02:12 PM

Oh man.. God Take care of u all there.. >.<
Monsoon season coming to West MY

From KK

Me friend just sent me pics of kudat flooding!