psh. of course.

Thank god there are still a lot of shy girls as of today...

you guys like shy girls? they're all malu malu kucing.
besides, read the other thread about getting a stranger girl's phone number and more than 50% of them say they would give the guy a wrong number.

Shy girls might be better than wild girls in bed.

*opens a crumply little notebook* Well, 70% of them.

haha, from what i hear from my friends, the guys usually prefer shy girls.
blah, some so shy that it's hard for girls to talk to them.

but spunk, i'd give the guy a fake no
kena a stalker once b4. wont give my no anymore

lolz.. my gf chased me dude~

I had a stalker before, and I didn't even give him my number. He got it from someone else. How about that?
Just give the poor guy your email LAH.

email pun jadi lar..haha

hmm, not really =(
I like a guy but I was too shy until I just pretended as nothing when he's passing by me, even though when he's around me, I only dare to look at him secretly, my goodness I am totally shy!
He's my senior, this year form 5. Honestly I've been admiring him since last year Oct/Nov, but I only planned to take action this month lol I am super duper shy =(. But my goodness, he took action before me! You know what? He had been admiring me since last year Oct/Nov too! What happy funny odd ridiculous face I made when he confessed to me lol. Anyway, we're not couples now, not friends too, it's kind of, he-knew-I-like-him-and-I-knew-he-likes-me, we-do-things-which-couples-will-do-but-we-don't-really-like-couples, lol get what I mean? We made such decision because, he is a form 5 this year but I am only form 3, it's hard to balance our studies (especially both of us are facing government papers this year) if we couple. LOL we're quite mature in mind right? XP

I agree with you... some guys get gals no from someone.. then they will start sms-ing the gal.. so the girl will certainly feel weird and scared bcoz a stranger is stalking her... so i think it is better to ask the gal's no. yourself...

well for me,Women are in general..confused and contradictary.I know I'm going to get a lot of comebacks for this line,but it's true whether you like it or not.

I won't go into detail,but let's just say this.I know most guys(well 90 percent of my friends) love girls to confess to them but they don't like the GIRLS that confess to them.

simply put,when a girl confesses her feelings,it's kinda like an ego boost,..oh she likes me,great..that kinda thing.but men in general,,are designed to hunt,yes i know i'm stereotyping,,and stereotyping comes with a reason-nature and tradition. anyways,men love to feel the success of getting a girl his way and stuff like that,it's just an accomplishment thingy. I for one would never go out with a girl that confesses to me,because it's like..she got me,she chased me,,I mean imagine during wedding night,,how did you two meet? oh she asked for my number...just sounds wierd

well that's just me,you can shoot me now

Hmmm
Strange but I agree. It is the nature of men...

me too...sometimes once in a blue moon, will get a stranger call from a guy..and saying that he get my hp num from his fren fren's and bla bla..if i am not in the mood or busy..i will just tell them "SORRY I AM NOT INTERESTED TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU...BYE!!!"....hahaha...coz i really feels that they r silly for asking your name lah..where u stay lah..and bla bla-ing around...no offence GUYS!!

I only ask the guy out if I'm certain that it's mutual xD

war..so rude lor..haha

seriously, I don't.
I'm a cowardy kitten.. lolx

I'd rather stand there watching him... (walk away?)

Thats how mine used to tel me b4 i even start with her. Luckily i like her first.

1) Actually the truth is, anyone can approach who first but remember both guy and girl approach in a different way than the other. One could be more 'aggressive' and one could be more 'softer' or 'take my time, slowly to build companionship feeling'. Every gender had the right to choose who they want to be with.

2) Seriously, to tell a guy that you like him, well to a certain extent, you're risking more than a guy who confess to a girl. I can't really explain why but the fact is, its always better for a guy to confess first. At least you girls will know that your guy are the one who are able to lead and control in both relationship. Its not about decision making skills but its more toward understanding the true nature of a real man.

3) Self esteem issue had always been a question in girls in any talk in relationship 'drama'. But the truth is, girls, guys like a girl that who are able to control themselves and felt confident in how she look, dress, walks, wave, smile and laugh. In return you expect guys to 'act' and talk in a way that the messages that you get from him is he is 'safe', comfort, caring and many more. Like i mention in other post before, guys fall in love through his eyes but girls fall in love through her ears.

I not dare to approach the guy that i like. Cause i scare been rejected by him.

man also,scare being reject....

If you always have that kind of thoughts, its going to haunt you even when you're in a relationship.

Take away that thought. Trust me, guys will like you better.