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yeelin04
post May 24 2008, 11:13 AM

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i'm a gal,

i will approach to the guy i love and tells him that i like him..but if rejected then i will try again next time lor...lol..

i had a crush on this guy for almost 1 year!

i disturb him in class
i kacau him by calling him everyday n sms
make the effort to know him

until when i like him then only he says he got gf..and all i can do is sit by side and watch lor...but still frens...

yeelin04
post Jun 3 2008, 10:07 AM

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but i still try to close to him lor..call him..sms him..kacau him..n i even did 3 assigns for him n never do mine..haha
i find notes for him..get key topics for him...and everything related to studies i help him lor..and mayb sometime spend some money reloading his hp..although he said he pay me back..i told him the person accidently got extra so ask me to take...hahha...lie to him..

guys if u r attached..n a gals admits she like u and kissed u..what will u do?
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post Jun 11 2008, 09:41 AM

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me too...sometimes once in a blue moon, will get a stranger call from a guy..and saying that he get my hp num from his fren fren's and bla bla..if i am not in the mood or busy..i will just tell them "SORRY I AM NOT INTERESTED TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU...BYE!!!"....hahaha...coz i really feels that they r silly for asking your name lah..where u stay lah..and bla bla-ing around...no offence GUYS!!
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post Jun 15 2008, 01:21 AM

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QUOTE(danny_ptlm @ Jun 13 2008, 01:49 PM)
war..so rude lor..haha     tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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no choice...its so annoying when u r so so busy then suddenly answering such calls...


Added on June 15, 2008, 1:23 amwilll u all aproach the guy u like if he alr have gf? and will u still be close to him?
will u tell him that u like him..?

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post Jun 24 2008, 09:21 AM

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QUOTE(peinsama @ Jun 15 2008, 01:46 AM)
Is still possible but becareful with any 'signals' you're showing or displaying. You might not want to end up in a 'bitxh-fight' though you thought you didn't do anything.
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hahaha...it will not happen if the gf dunno who r u..n the bf didnt tell her anything..
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post Jul 5 2008, 09:32 AM

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pinjam edit a bit...lazy to type long...thanks

Ermm, here's another question or another case,
let say you like a guy , and you and him are only like friends, eg school friends , colleagues, any friends,
When you get to know him that time, you don't like him yet , so both of you become friends, and then.. you talk to him sometimes , in sms face to face when meet him accidentally,

and time passed, you don't know why you start to like him , and talk to him even more .Anyway, he has a gf..
so , question is would you go to approach him that time and say you like him? how the guys think also?

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post Jul 14 2008, 12:09 AM

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QUOTE(litaco @ Jul 11 2008, 05:49 PM)
hmm...actually...if got feeling wit him...is ntg wrong 2 approach him...
juz "approach" doesn't means anything wad...
giv out sum hint n signal lor,not say u go "kao" the guy....rit??

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but if ppl got gf ley??
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post Aug 4 2008, 09:40 AM

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QUOTE(Caesar Stonebridge @ Aug 2 2008, 03:33 AM)
Hehe. Honestly i would and i actually did it a few times already. smile.gif Well, do not go all out and make things look too obvious. Body language. That's all that can make that guy take notice of you. smile.gif
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wat type of body language only guys will feel attract??
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post Aug 5 2008, 09:25 AM

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QUOTE(ThanatosSwiftfire @ Aug 4 2008, 12:07 PM)
Confident, friendly, attentive to what the guy wants to say.

Guys generally, when they are approached, they like someone who's a little friendly, has a nice smile, and usually responsive to what the guys say. (as in, when guy says something they react to it, without overdoing it)

Guys also generally tend to be attracted to girls who can tease them a little hahaha.
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oh...okies....
let me think back!!....i did some teasing to a guy fren of mine..when he tease me n i merajuk...he will laugh...

hahahaah...

is this normal??
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post Aug 27 2008, 09:20 AM

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QUOTE(THEINSIDER @ Aug 26 2008, 06:35 PM)
you should give yourself cr for approaching a guy...it takes lotsa guts to do that...
who cares if he turns you down...most important is...you tried, you will regret later on if you didnt try

wei, try you still hav 50%, dont' try means kosong... why want to sit there and wonder...take away all the ??? and go for it
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but if they turn gals down..then in class will be very akward 1 wor...
if try then the 50% gone...if nv try still got 50% wor...
and if turned down very sad 1 wor...when u dont get the answer that u wanted....
experienced 1 here...
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post Aug 28 2008, 08:47 AM

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QUOTE(THEINSIDER @ Aug 27 2008, 12:25 PM)
why bother keeping 50% of admiring chance , while u can use this 50% chance to win the guy you like...

but if you really worry, build up the % ... get close to him, talk to him, then if you feel that he is resisting, u know you are likely to fail, so don't force it, but if you think that he is giving you positive response, then you should start to take things 1 step further b4 actually confessing,

coz once u say i like you , means no turning back...coz you already show ppl your last card, as long as you don't show them your card, you can still play

and also, if you fail...don't think he's too good for you...coz there's some1 out there better who is waiting for you...

good luck kekeke
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but if we admire the guy tht already got gf ley??
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post Aug 28 2008, 10:02 AM

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QUOTE(THEINSIDER @ Aug 28 2008, 09:51 AM)
hi yeelin,
personally... if that gf is one of your friends, i suggest that you forget bout him...to lose a friend over a guy/girl is not worth it

and if she's a stranger, well...you should go for it...again, never try, never know...pls apply to 50% rule again hehe
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ok...
basiclly, she is a stranger...
but if alr try and kena reject?
then? still continue tackling him?
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post Sep 3 2008, 09:10 AM

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now GUYs & GALs are EQUAL ley....

u guys got problems..
gals also got ley..


Added on September 3, 2008, 9:13 am
QUOTE(THEINSIDER @ Aug 28 2008, 01:28 PM)
hm, since he rejected, you should back off...be friends and give him some space...

sometimes the person you like very much is not necessarily the one that you are going to spend the rest of your life with...

so just let things go naturally and see where time takes you
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the problem is..i already back off...
i dont sms with him for 2 days o call him..
then he automatically, will sms me..n ask me wat happen to me? n y nv sms o find him?

everytime also like that...(tried few times ady)

i am really suffering lor..

i dunno wat he want actually...
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post Sep 6 2008, 08:58 PM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 6 2008, 04:30 PM)
Why dont u just ask him what he want? No harm in asking, right..

Put aside the shy2 thing, ask him then u can move on from that point...  thumbup.gif
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i did asked him b4...but he never replies my sms everytime i ask.. cry.gif
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post Sep 8 2008, 08:49 AM

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QUOTE(susu_girl21 @ Sep 7 2008, 08:53 PM)
1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?

i not dare to tell him... scared if i say it out, everything going to the end...

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how?

no... just be friend only

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...

yaa... he much more better than me... should has better gal stay with him
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true lor..
approach it doesnt mean will get 1 lor..
after kena reject then sad case...

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post Sep 8 2008, 10:16 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 8 2008, 09:48 AM)
If you really like him, y not? But of coz u have to prepare for the worst n if u got lucky, u get what u want  drool.gif
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you think that easy?

i am 1 of the victim kena REJECTED coz got gf...

and till now i still tackling that guy...

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post Sep 8 2008, 10:28 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 8 2008, 10:25 AM)
Hm i think that would be a problem because if the guy is already have a gf, the chance to leave her [?]  hmm.gif
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i dunno...
i alr tackling him for 1 year ady..
how long could i wait? i really dunno..
this is why i said be GOOD FRENS CAN but need to know the limit....
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post Sep 8 2008, 10:38 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 8 2008, 10:36 AM)
Leave him cannot ka?
Yup thats the problem when guy and gal become good frens,
cross the limits without realizing...  doh.gif
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i cant afford to leave him...
i really cant..i tried...but really cant...

so guys & gals out there...plz know how to divide between it.....
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post Sep 8 2008, 10:57 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 8 2008, 10:42 AM)

What make him so attractive to u?  hmm.gif
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i really dunno...
warmness or the feel i never had b4 from a guy..
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post Sep 8 2008, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 8 2008, 11:00 AM)
Ur 1st love i presume ?
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