agree with u bro..

This post has been edited by obiwan_HB: Apr 16 2008, 08:10 PM

what if the girl like the guy, but because fear of rejection, just keep the feeling herself? what should her do?

Wah,3 years?

Guess i still got some chances.I also have a crush on a girl who is also very shy 2 years ago.The worse thing is im also shy and she's on the other of side of aus. I still like her a lot till now.She still hinting me once in a while like say i miss you.She used to only say "miss you" then disappear in MSN or some other indirect way.

Just dunno how to keep in contact with her now.No msn,email but only can use phone.Feel kinda bad for sms-ing her too much cause she's busy now.

win her heart by showing ur concern!!!

geeee....we share almost something similar

on the 1st day of my orientation at uni, oh boy this cute guy who walked in caught my attention. for the few days orientation, my eyes were all on him. i had a crush on him, so obvious.

got his icq, got his msn, got his hp no within that few weeks...chatted, sms-ed
always kacau him,
lost contact for quite some time, got back in touch, and lost contact again
and got back in touch and never lost touch after that

that was five yrs ago...

we're together for quite some time now

never ever crossed in my head that we will be together but we did and i'm glad it happened...
he is the best thing that happened to me, in my life...

and guess what i approached him first ... so glad that I was so daring to make that move.

hmmmmmmmm, i will try to stop approaching him if i know he has a gf or crush

Actually, Its kind of worrying if you got the 'unstable state of self-esteem level in length of time' like me... You approached a guy and the a guy was accepting then you doubt that he's accepting you because he look at you as somewhat cheap and then you broke it off...

hahaha.... i'm so sad.... it happens to me like 4 times... T_T


So I'm reduced to having lots of guy friends than boy friends.... Guy friends are much ok than BF in terms of these uncertainties happening...

Im a guy, my opinion is:

If a girl like me and thn she approach to me, I wont look down on her instead, I will think that she is brave, I will think about her seriously.

i'm a gal,

i will approach to the guy i love and tells him that i like him..but if rejected then i will try again next time lor...lol..

i had a crush on this guy for almost 1 year!

i disturb him in class
i kacau him by calling him everyday n sms
make the effort to know him

until when i like him then only he says he got gf..and all i can do is sit by side and watch lor...but still frens...

i feel girl approach single guy is more easier than guy pursue girl.....

my ex also did it to me...... she kacau me and follow me to my house

and we chatted and kissed...... then started our relationship

i nv approach guys wo

For me, I will try to flirt with him. See how is his reaction. If he avoid it, then no chance...

But very hard to say... When i'm down he will be there for me.He even praise me sometimes but when i told him, i miss him(sms)... he never reply and never mention it at all. Like suddenly lost memory.

So guys are very hard to know what they actually thinking...

never do that b4....

hmm , agree
this happen to me also, but she doesn't follow me home lol

This post has been edited by akihito: Jun 1 2008, 01:59 AM

What do you think if someone met that ppl online and have a crush, then get his/her hp num, then sms-ing , chatting but nvr met before!!

if that girl is oe of my type then i sure kiss her straight away

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Added on June 1, 2008, 10:43 amhaha so sad

This post has been edited by crimsonhead: Jun 1 2008, 10:43 AM

crimson head:
but i still try to close to him lor..call him..sms him..kacau him..n i even did 3 assigns for him n never do mine..haha
i find notes for him..get key topics for him...and everything related to studies i help him lor..and mayb sometime spend some money reloading his hp..although he said he pay me back..i told him the person accidently got extra so ask me to take...hahha...lie to him..

guys if u r attached..n a gals admits she like u and kissed u..what will u do?

i used to fall in love with a mixed-blood guy and i knew he loved me,too cause his friends told me bout that. but both of us didn't express our feelings towards each other. We ended up got nothing, even be a friend.

somemore, i have a thought before that girls shouldnt be the one that take actions to express their feelings cause guys perhaps won't appreciate you since you're the 1 that approach him.

nevertheless, i've changed my thoughts. I think everyone should go ahead to achieve what they want/like yet never the outgo the borderline like woo a guy that ady has his own girl. =)

nope! im so shy.. oso scared being rejected

Me too!!!