Thats how mine used to tel me b4 i even start with her. Luckily i like her first.

1) Actually the truth is, anyone can approach who first but remember both guy and girl approach in a different way than the other. One could be more 'aggressive' and one could be more 'softer' or 'take my time, slowly to build companionship feeling'. Every gender had the right to choose who they want to be with.

2) Seriously, to tell a guy that you like him, well to a certain extent, you're risking more than a guy who confess to a girl. I can't really explain why but the fact is, its always better for a guy to confess first. At least you girls will know that your guy are the one who are able to lead and control in both relationship. Its not about decision making skills but its more toward understanding the true nature of a real man.

3) Self esteem issue had always been a question in girls in any talk in relationship 'drama'. But the truth is, girls, guys like a girl that who are able to control themselves and felt confident in how she look, dress, walks, wave, smile and laugh. In return you expect guys to 'act' and talk in a way that the messages that you get from him is he is 'safe', comfort, caring and many more. Like i mention in other post before, guys fall in love through his eyes but girls fall in love through her ears.

If you always have that kind of thoughts, its going to haunt you even when you're in a relationship.

Take away that thought. Trust me, guys will like you better.

Is still possible but becareful with any 'signals' you're showing or displaying. You might not want to end up in a 'bitxh-fight' though you thought you didn't do anything.