Why not a phone call?

phone call ah? shes not the type of person to always want to call. She prefers texting. Anyway, there was that one time when I had that heart to heart

call with her when she merajuk. but that was it. Other things if call usually ask shot questions onli. EH WAIT..i tink that also happened a long time ago

when she slightly merajuk with me last time.. so that makes it twice when i called her for a heart to heart.. ohh~

So anyway.. on a bit of an unrelated note, I'm travelling to Japan twice this December. I'm taking 1 month plus leave starting final week november until Jan.

first trip from 2nd week december for a week, go tokyo n mt fuji as a part time tour guide, a job my friend offered me. Then I'll come back for a week

go CF then only go Osaka pulak. Prob is..

Her bday falls during my first trip. I was thinking about it.. if i shud stay standby for her bday ya know.. but when i think about it again..

this job my friend is offering, doesnt require a single cent from me.. free. so.. yea.. i dun wan to be stupid.. so i took the job.

I tink when i come back, which is past a few days after her bday, I'll pass her the bday present, and just say I got it from Japan. HAHAHAHAHA.

great!!

just make sure she dont find replacement while ure away.. haha

This post has been edited by rdnyong: Nov 11 2014, 05:52 PM

TS, update

sorry bruh.. nothing so far..

except for.. she like giving me one liner responses to whatever I whatsapp her..

I'd rant as much as she would.. but I feel like im just a whiny biatch to her.. of which she would be like damn malas wan to layan.

I do my best to always try to make people feel better, feel like everythings okay. I'd spend time listening and listening and just thinking of words that make people feel good.

But I seldom get that in return. So because I know how it feels to be treated that way, hence why I don't do that to others, especially people i love, like herself.

Nothing that I love has ever loved me the same way. Must be my fate. Call me a doormat or whatever, just not my style to ignore a person in need of a listening ear.

hahahahahahahah

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Nov 13 2014, 10:17 PM

i know how u feel bro

thanks man.

Sometimes I memang need to be like a whiny biatch and rant here.

It hurts when I cant let it out. It hurts when we expect people to give us as much, or at least 50% of what we give to them.

But not her. I dunno lah. She always changes.

few nights ago when she whatsapped me she tried to calm me down about something. She did a great job making me feel better.

But thats just not consistent. Now always rasa macam she malas nak layan.

EXACTLY like that one Friday morning, when she can laugh with a whole bunch of people and pay less attention to me.

That time when I merajuk. haah.

last 2 days I received 2 super cold replies which were the following:

"good for you" after I mentioned to her how much I sold for my phone and

"No I do not" after I asked her to recommend me some nice books since I heard that she likes to read alot (pretty much confirmed!)

felt frustrated

Damnnn son... y she like that wei.. thats super super cold.

Any known reason? Anything happened?

B strong mate. I always tell myself that i shudnt let anyone

Be my only source of happiness and its always up to me

To put a smile on my own face.

We can overcome this bro.

i've no idea ..

probably somebody told her or she realised that I like her

have to suck it up and move on i guess

don't want to pester her with another msg

i see. I understand bruh.. happened to me as well.

Bro. I blieve girls who r like that really dun deserve ur attention

anymore. They have no respect towards other peoples feelings

hence tink that avoiding is the best thing to do.

If u were any nicer to her in the past, regardless she knows

how u feel about her or not, u dont deserve that kind of treatment from her man seriously..

youve never hurt her in any way.. so why shud she be so cold

right.. enuf lah with these types.. makes me sick too.

Well .. It's been really a long while since I last fall in love with a girl ... Too bad this is very short lived dream ... Life goes on ... But let me sulk until end of the year

I'm 25 now .... Cant remember how long it's been

i see i see.

can bro can, sulk until you cant sulk anymore.

Hmm ... Define thick skin?

Lets say she's currently ignoring me or cold treatment ... How exactly being thick skin would help?

Oh i actually thought u said to be thick skin on the same girl

How to determine if there's still room for last throw of dice or not?

When the other person is married or when she called the police to arrest you

Eh.. this one wan to sound sarcastic or wat?

@tzxsean case is not about him being in love wit colleague. Thats mine. Dont use ur 'inspiration' from my story to give advice to others.

Dude.. initially u coming here u kinda gave me some good advice but nowadays u really just sound like a jerk man.

encourage him to do what?

I told him to take it easy for now onli. If need to sulk then do so la. Wat for wan to tahan2. Later time will heal.

Aku pulak emo? Thats like shooting me in the face and telling me not to bleed. And I really dont know why u giving him some advice while using me as example.

What unnecessary thing? Do u even know wat the shit u talking about? Or simply wan to sound cool?

Why dont u go to other tereds la.. Give relationship advice here n there not like u some damn love professor also.