Yes it is tough. But it can't escape from the problems. If the church has an underlying issue, are you to just ignore and go on by normal business? I ask you, if you are a member of a certain church in neighbor country, that everyday people come out to the pulpit, one say he save up money to buy a motorbike to go to work but instead when he heard a pastor say that the church needed money, he send the money to the church. Then another man came up and say he and his wife save up money to buy an apartment but when the church called for more funds, they donated the whole money for the cause. Next thing you know, the church leadership is hauled up by the government for "breach of trust" because the money was used to fund somebody's musical career believing that it is for the best of the congregation as it can promote christianity.
Are you to keep quiet and forgive and submit?
I just dunno lah, this is a very difficult thing to do. The bitterness from unforgiveness, I can assure you is the biggest and most toughest sin to overcome for a christian. But its also a catch 22, are you not to speak up when you see something not right happening?
Sometimes when i see churches develop super pride until they abuse their own members, its not so bad like atrocities or physical hurt, but when they say things that cut you in half or when they obstracize people, you really think that if bad things happen to us christians, maybe its for the best. Maybe God is teaching us humility and put aside our differences to unite as the Body of Christ.
I see nowadays we discuss about issues that hit us, why are NGOs criticising us? why are christians becoming the subject of anger by certain bodies? why this and that? But I say, sometime these things are coming back to us to teach us the gist of humility. Because we been our comfort zone for far too long, until we become proud with pride and ego that we speak hurtful things to our own brothers and sisters. Maybe for this reason, we need to be hit from our high pedestal and reflect upon ourselves to go back to our roots - being last to be first and
having kindness and love for one another.