thats gonna be next year....ill be back for good hopefully in April...see u guys in KL..lol

sorry if this sounds kinda harsh.
someone hafta to do this.
someone hafta give u a big-thy reality slap on the face.
wake up man...
if u see her doesnt mean u r lucky.if u dont see her, doesnt mean ur lucky oso.
as of now, she is of no importance to you what so ever.
(at least for a few months)
dont talk like that.

dont put her on a pedestal.
it is not u who dont deserve her.
it is the other way around.
it is HER who doesnt deserve YOU.

Be happy.
Better 4 years than 8 years.
Better while still bf-gf than married with kids.
U r lucky now.

lol...how old is everyone?

just wanna know....

did u reply?
dont
if u do...take 10 minutes before replying to her messages.

and thats to say u r bz..goodbye

oic u have blog?
mind sharing it with us?
or just PM me?
i seriously hope u are not trying to woo her back.
especially not with sympathy.
no meaning if she is with u becoz she kesian.


i didnt take my own advice when i was dumped after 4 years. (well...i dont know of my advice that time)
So....i never did anything i told jdreamer....but i wish i had do it....
i believe it will make it easier for me if i take my own advice that time.

nobody to advice me that time liao.

good to clear that out.

if things didnt happen the way it did...ull never see God the way u see him now...
God loves u, thats y he give u challenges in life to make u stronger....and to make u think of him more...

good...nobody said it wud be easy...
hang on kay?

eventually she'll understand.

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going!

just be strong....
it is like this....

do u know that if, it were u giving her the SMSes, she wont reply?

it is just like that....after break-up...One side look for the other side, the other side wont response. No matter which side ask for break-up...this is what usually happens...

And believe me...when u start to sms her again....then she wont reply....(i think this has happened rite?)

it will be one sided....
She is SMSing u a few times becoz u dont reply...and bcoz u dont treat her like she hope u will....

Be strong....
The medicine tastes bad....I know...
No Pain No Gain.

Be strong.

Age of people in LDR

max_cjs0101 : 20
quiksilver : 24 (25 this 21stOct,lol)


others?

true true...he didnt put his own age here....
i think he is ...27? most probably 28? lol...or 35.

haha.

Miyoko, why issit girls dont want people to know about their age?

i oso see here many of us are kinda the same age....same batch maybe...
mebbe a lot in common oso. We can then drag jdreamer into this "pakcik and makcik" group...haha...

Haha...People like me wanna look older....
but girls mostly wanna look younger....

I was the student president for Malaysian Students here in Japan before.....but many of those who dont know me thought i cant do the job bcoz they say i look too young....
I admit i look too young....boyish some might say...
My 19 year old brother, when people look at his picture, they think he is 15.

Is it just me? or many men outside there oso wanna look more matured?

I'm living a lie.....

Happy mooncake festival everyone!!!
went out with a few frens...hang out with them...shoot some pool...

hope everybody is doing fine!!!

i cant get good mooncakes here in japan....
Anyone care to send me one?

lol

yeah...i bought it....
but like i said....cant get a good mooncake here....
i want good mooncakes....
like the cheese or the bing pei...

here the usual one oni...

I know, part of u want her back...part of u say stay back...

well....to me...There cud be a chance...everybody deserves a secind chance..thats true...Nobody is perfect....people makes mistakes....
BUT
give it time 1st...
this is too soon to be thinking of getting back together.
Both of u are reli confused now....what u think now cud be the opposite of what it shud be...

After a few weeks....maybe one or two months...When both of u can reli think clearly....and both of u know how it is living without each other....then, only then, u will know if u really want to be together again or not.

Now just break-up....of coz emotions speak louder than logical thinking...
Be strong...

I just hope that she doesnt regret her decision just because she symphatize u and she cant get to be with the other guy.

Be strong man. We are here for u.
Hey...u are still young....don worry....
If she is urs, she will be.
If she isnt, then she wont be...

Good Luck

of coz...Welcome!!! (not my thread though...lol)

Thats good! Thats the spirit!!

Wait and see....what u and her feel now cud be different a month from now.
What u and her feel now is just the usual emotions people have after break-up...afraid of doing the wrong thing, regret etc....

if u need someone to talk to, u can oso add me at msn if u want.

true!!
i love this quote
"let time decide"
or
"biarlah masa menentukan segalanya"

haha...coz kinda lazy to do anything....just let time do something about it lol....

Hello everybody...
hope u guys are doing well....

I think maybe a lot of u guys came across this....

the article on LDR on Yahoo's main page....
Actually in Yahoo Personal's.....

Quite interesting to know that the success rate for LDR and not LDR are the same....

check it out for those havent read it yet!!

LDR on Yahoo