i agree with miyoko...(at the comments box)

forgiving her is a sign u r ready to move on.

no grudges, just take it as it is. What is 'it' u may ask? it is life.

i see u r letting it go now. U are recovering Jdreamer.

Miyoko. how are u today?

sorry to hear that....
today is a national holiday for Japan.
It is the National Health and Sports Day.

Haha...im not feeling that great though....
have cold i think.....it is getting colder here.

Yesterday the stuffs my gf sent me arrived.
Damn happy. Soooo happy.
Bcoz of the raya thingy in Msia, the post office can be so slow at times, so she sent me my bday present early in case of it ariving too late.

Wah...reali happy to get stuffs from her.
God i miss her so much.

haha...do u know that i send her stuffs in the same exact day she sent me mine? I paid RM90 for almost 3 kgs stuff for the post office express courier.

She sent my stuffs on the same day, 1 kg, RM80 Poslaju.

Stuffs i sent arrive 2 days later. Hers arrive 4 days later.
Pos Malaysia sucks big time.

Once my mom sent me a package using poslaju oso, instead of arriving less than one week, it took them more than one month. (same as usual post by sea ships, not air mail)

she send me a couple of teddies (boy and girl) holding a I LOVE U sign...
A cushion with a heart shape design.
And something (secret) she wanted me to buy everytime she sees me using the old thing.
It is Quiksilver in brand....and as u shud oreadi know, i love that brand.

and of coz, not to forget. the box she sent was full of love!!

miyoko!! i bully my girl?
haha...help me out here!!

do i sound that bad in this thread?

cud be liao.
but mebbe just bcoz of the fight?

anyway. hope u feel better soon. I suggest wearing the surgical mask thingy for the haze and some Nim Jion Pei Pa Koa Ubat Batuk Cap Ibu dan Anak.
For the auntie thingy cud use panadol menstrual? lol

miyoko, how long have u guys been together?

i think u guys are a sensible couple, and u seem to realize whats the prob oso.
My suggestion is a talk. Make a "date" with him.
Guys need to have a specific time (esp u say he is bz nowadays)...let it be in his schedule.

For example....Dear, can u make some time for us on the 12th? at 7pm. I wanna talk to u about something over dinner.

Talk about the current situation...the relationship is changing, ur getting bz, so sometimes both of us temper or things like that...
Just to remind urselves.
We always need someone to keep a check on us, who else can be better than our partners rite?

Find a resolution...enjoy ur dinner, enjoy the nite.
Sometimes, after a few years, couples tend to lose appreciation towards each other, take their partners for granted.

All we need is a wake-up call...a reminder. Thats all.

what happened? Stress? the bipolar thingy?
lucky to have ur dear with u. Such a sweet guy.

Hope u get well soon. But what happened?

yeah...sometimes just talking during everyday life cannot register in the mind...if make a "date" will register a bit. lol

Owh...i know about Suiteng's partner is a gal.Sorry typo.Thanx for clearing it out.

its the haze.....damn it...
i read somewhere the indonesian government isnt doing their best to stop because they are the ones behind those illegal burning and deforestation. Thay gain a lot oso.

im studying Mechanical Engineering here. me n gf? about one year....
still new in LDR although im here for nearly 6 years. before my gf is oso here...4 years over.

Wah...
Where's everybody?
Suiteng how are u? Jdreamer, what are u up to?
Miyoko, hope u are doing fine? Firewire?
Guys?

thats good to know...
new hp models huh?
what do u have in mind?

good to hear that ur out of the hospital.

what? smoking? again???

haha....
thanx for contributing to the haze.

this is my thread...people talk about ways to stop smoking...
ive stopped for quite some time now...

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=350549&st=0

anyway...take care!

miyoko no news meh?

yeah...
im trying to stop too...
now have stop ald...

hope u get well too.
Im oso recovering from some cold.
I dont know why but since im a little boy, i always get sick when my birthday is coming. Every year. It is kinda strange.

Just wanna ask u guys, how often shud i call my gf? if u have any opinions.
im worried i call her too much. or too less.

actually i call her almost everyday...
im worried she gets bored.

the thing is i miss her so much....but if she gets bored...i rather not call her...

ok then....
dating? NO...this is LDR thread liao....
we are far-apart.

oic...more than that is disturbing eh? huhu...
i get it.


Thanx u guys.

haha!!
actually...
i think u guys shud already know...
Esp Miyoko...i think she knows what kind of guy i am liao...

I am that mushy type actually....
Im just afraid if im too mushy....
More than her!
im a libra, and she is aries....thats y...

and i think im quite funny oso. lol.

But if i mushy all the time....funny all the time...im afraid she get bored...
Maybe i shud try to be the insensitive type sometimes?

i miss my mom!!!

miss my family!!!

will do...!

all i can say is...everybody fights.
but if the frequency of quarrels are getting more n more often....then it might be getting to the worse...break-up.

What u can do if u really wanna stay in the relationship is talk about it.
Clear out the situation. Whats happening. Find out why a lot of fights.Seek for the source. Tolerate. But dont get emotional. Be logical. Find out solutions.Not leave them to deal with later...it will only be a bigger problem later.

Are u guys on LDR or the usual relationship?

Good Luck

I do.All the time. haha.
I dont mind. Why shud we?

I dont wanna look back one day...when my parents not around anymore....and lost that chance to tell them i love them.

U shud call ur parents and tell them u love them liao.