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flamephotography
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Apr 6 2014, 05:49 PM
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Or you can decide to do the ROM then continue same day straight take pre wedding. After 1 or 2 months when your album is ready, arrange for actual day(jip san leong). No games, no fancy car decor, no wedding gown, no diamond ring. Maybe a bouquet of flower. Go in brides room kneel down give flower, put on ring then kiss. Then tea ceremony, then hop in the car for lunch buffet reception with both side parents and friends. Then go for vacation.
But before you decide, will need to consult your you know who first.
Cheers........
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 6 2014, 05:59 PM
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QUOTE(Celestia @ Jan 6 2014, 05:30 PM) A+B+C is like bare minimum must have I think Tea ceremony is giving tea to elders and relatives, traditional families want that B probably can skip C - my cousin did that, only families and relatives about 6 tables like that H - comes in a size and packages, pick moderate one. so what they give 1000 photos? by half day you wont be smiling anymore personally, I think best is ROM then do a small dinner© then go honeymoon, photos compiles from your honeymoon trip who photo you when honeymoon? honeymoon is private and just 2 people lei..
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 6 2014, 06:01 PM
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ROM is the most expensive, need at least 50k, beware
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elimi8z
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Apr 6 2014, 06:18 PM
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QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Apr 6 2014, 06:01 PM) ROM is the most expensive, need at least 50k, beware Bodoh tu simpan sikit,lain hari boleh pakai lagi
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cookies fashion
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Apr 6 2014, 06:28 PM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Jan 6 2014, 03:00 PM) Lately, many people say to keep a simple wedding. How simple is simple wedding? As i'm chinese, let make a example of chinese Wedding (sorry, not familiar with malay and indian wedding) A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo Case 1 A + C = A + B + C = A+ B + D = A + E + F = E + F Which 1 would you all plan to have? That will be F,G,H
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TSangelgemini
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Apr 6 2014, 07:44 PM
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Completed E
Now waiting for G & H in July/Aug.
A & D for next year ba.
A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo
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elimi8z
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Apr 6 2014, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 6 2014, 07:44 PM) Completed E Now waiting for G & H in July/Aug. A & D for next year ba. A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo Congratulations!
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TSangelgemini
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Apr 6 2014, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 6 2014, 09:53 PM) Thanks.
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cheryee
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Apr 7 2014, 07:03 AM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Jan 6 2014, 03:00 PM) Lately, many people say to keep a simple wedding. How simple is simple wedding? As i'm chinese, let make a example of chinese Wedding (sorry, not familiar with malay and indian wedding) A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo Case 1 A + C = A + B + C = A+ B + D = A + E + F = E + F Which 1 would you all plan to have? My ideal one will be ROM Party (around 50 pax) + G in Maldives samkpsThis post has been edited by cheryee: Apr 7 2014, 07:04 AM
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Azurika
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Apr 7 2014, 08:49 AM
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Elope is most simple  Save the $$ for a nice honeymoon
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 6 2014, 11:21 PM) after H? how come ROM first then H?
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TSangelgemini
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Apr 7 2014, 10:02 AM
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QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Apr 7 2014, 09:46 AM) after H? how come ROM first then H? cause planning to have my Honeymoon and Pre-wedding photo in NZ. Book a NZ local photographer.
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 10:13 AM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 6 2014, 06:18 PM) Bodoh tu simpan sikit,lain hari boleh pakai lagi I means ROM party liao including the dinner liao.. I dun know why women here not include the wedding dinner, I think that's compulsory!!!
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TSangelgemini
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Apr 7 2014, 10:24 AM
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QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Apr 7 2014, 10:13 AM) I means ROM party liao including the dinner liao.. I dun know why women here not include the wedding dinner, I think that's compulsory!!! My Wife request not to have wedding dinner as well.
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elimi8z
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Apr 7 2014, 11:26 AM
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QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Apr 7 2014, 10:13 AM) I means ROM party liao including the dinner liao.. I dun know why women here not include the wedding dinner, I think that's compulsory!!! Wedding dinner was never compulsory QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 7 2014, 10:24 AM) My Wife request not to have wedding dinner as well. Good,work within budget ba You definitely got a winner there
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TedToy
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Apr 7 2014, 12:55 PM
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just travel oversea will do, others no
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 7 2014, 11:26 AM) Wedding dinner was never compulsory Good,work within budget ba You definitely got a winner there  Walau in societies around me, all my friends did the wedding dinner liao and the guests are more than 500 persons.. I am also sick my gf wants to follow her friends to have wedding dinner especially her parents want to show off..if no wedding dinner is shameful..means poorfag.. I also want to have wife like u with no wedding dinner, I myself prefer have good honeymoon than wedding dinner just waste money.
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LoveMeNot
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Apr 7 2014, 02:45 PM
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A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo I hope I can have: 1. ROM at Putrajaya 2. Pre wedding photo 3. Pick the bride + tea ceremony (if can I wanna skip this too but I think it's kinda compulsory for chinese as a respect for the elderly) 4. Buffet at restaurant e.g. Passion Road max 50 pax (I really don't fancy big crowd and non intimate event) 5. Honeymoon PS: can this be consider as simple? This post has been edited by LoveMeNot: Apr 7 2014, 02:46 PM
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munkeyflo
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Apr 7 2014, 02:48 PM
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Blooop bloop bloop
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 7 2014, 10:02 AM) cause planning to have my Honeymoon and Pre-wedding photo in NZ. Book a NZ local photographer. Congrats!!  QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Apr 7 2014, 02:26 PM) Walau in societies around me, all my friends did the wedding dinner liao and the guests are more than 500 persons.. I am also sick my gf wants to follow her friends to have wedding dinner especially her parents want to show off..if no wedding dinner is shameful..means poorfag.. I also want to have wife like u with no wedding dinner, I myself prefer have good honeymoon than wedding dinner just waste money. High society la you. 500+ people. Some of the pretty well-to-do couples I know, just have a small 5-6 tables dinner at some posh Chinese restaurant for immediately family members only. If I ever get married, that'll do too. How to layan 500+ ppl in one night la. Friends can celebrate on other nights.
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elimi8z
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Apr 7 2014, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Apr 7 2014, 02:45 PM) A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo I hope I can have: 1. ROM at Putrajaya 2. Pre wedding photo 3. Pick the bride + tea ceremony (if can I wanna skip this too but I think it's kinda compulsory for chinese as a respect for the elderly) 4. Buffet at restaurant e.g. Passion Road max 50 pax (I really don't fancy big crowd and non intimate event) 5. Honeymoon PS: can this be consider as simple?  Simple liao My pre wedding most probably will be free Buffet at some poolside place or golf course,kautim I'm not gonna skimp on honeymoon
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